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Title: It’s so sad when you realize those u grew up looking up to aren’t invincible
Post by: Kaeli. on August 30, 2019, 11:27:40 PM
Life is short :stressed:
Title: Re: It’s so sad when you realize those u grew up looking up to aren’t invincible
Post by: Justaway_ on August 31, 2019, 10:16:45 AM
m.,
Title: Re: It’s so sad when you realize those u grew up looking up to aren’t invincible
Post by: Cowgirl on August 31, 2019, 10:54:14 AM
Quote from: Justaway_ on August 31, 2019, 10:16:45 AM
m.,
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Title: Re: It’s so sad when you realize those u grew up looking up to aren’t invincible
Post by: Cowgirl on August 31, 2019, 10:54:33 AM
I see Kaeli's grandkids are starting to call her out for her bs.
Title: Re: It’s so sad when you realize those u grew up looking up to aren’t invincible
Post by: Justaway_ on August 31, 2019, 12:10:04 PM
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Title: Re: It’s so sad when you realize those u grew up looking up to aren’t invincible
Post by: 🦚 on August 31, 2019, 12:19:14 PM
TG there was no social media in the 90s.

All the little mess we git was from wendy, miss jones n page 6
Title: Re: It’s so sad when you realize those u grew up looking up to aren’t invincible
Post by: ton on August 31, 2019, 12:25:48 PM
Quote from: g u i d a n c e on August 31, 2019, 11:08:58 AM
I def remember the first moment I realized my grandmother wasn't perfect, and that she was human and could actually do wrong.

I was only about 15 or 16, but it was the way she handled one situation (not with me, but with someone else in our extended family) made me question her for the very first time.

Like, wait. That's not right....I don't agree with that. That's WRONG, and not nice.

There'd be a few more of those moments following that one instance because my grandmother, like myself, can be very moody and catty - especially if she feels someone is crossing her (she's a Cancer like me).

But in that very first instance, it definitely hits you. Like wow. She's not perfect. It almost hurts you to realize that. But ultimately you realize that was the point in your life when you realized they are human just like you.
!!

My granny is the sweetest person in the world

Then I found out she used to beat my mom/aunt's/uncles ASSESS when they messed up

I was like... Granny?  :plzstop: impossible! She cries when I leave her house to fly back home

She's the same woman who made me 2 cakes for my birthday because she didn't know if I liked chocolate or vanilla
Title: Re: It’s so sad when you realize those u grew up looking up to aren’t invincible
Post by: Edge gorl on August 31, 2019, 12:30:48 PM
I'm glad I knew my fam was very mortal nd very much trash atta young age

Skipped all tht idolzation bs
I onl' look up to me
Title: Re: It’s so sad when you realize those u grew up looking up to aren’t invincible
Post by: Rxxf on August 31, 2019, 01:14:54 PM
In the Caribbean culture, you learn REAL QUICK.
:dead:

I didn't have that idolizing phase.
Title: Re: It’s so sad when you realize those u grew up looking up to aren’t invincible
Post by: 🦚 on August 31, 2019, 01:44:54 PM
I thought this thread was about celebs  :plzstop:

Yeah I've never looked up to or idolized family.

I only idolize my (great) grand mothers on both sides being entrepreneurs at time when its probably hard AF for women. 
Title: Re: It’s so sad when you realize those u grew up looking up to aren’t invincible
Post by: LOONA. on August 31, 2019, 01:46:40 PM
Quote from: :.Muffy.::.Crosswire.: on August 31, 2019, 01:44:54 PM
Yeah I've never looked up to or idolized family.
Title: Re: It’s so sad when you realize those u grew up looking up to aren’t invincible
Post by: Kaeli. on September 10, 2019, 09:30:07 PM
Quote from: Ton on August 31, 2019, 12:25:48 PM
Quote from: g u i d a n c e on August 31, 2019, 11:08:58 AM
I def remember the first moment I realized my grandmother wasn't perfect, and that she was human and could actually do wrong.

I was only about 15 or 16, but it was the way she handled one situation (not with me, but with someone else in our extended family) made me question her for the very first time.

Like, wait. That's not right....I don't agree with that. That's WRONG, and not nice.

There'd be a few more of those moments following that one instance because my grandmother, like myself, can be very moody and catty - especially if she feels someone is crossing her (she's a Cancer like me).

But in that very first instance, it definitely hits you. Like wow. She's not perfect. It almost hurts you to realize that. But ultimately you realize that was the point in your life when you realized they are human just like you.
!!

My granny is the sweetest person in the world

Then I found out she used to beat my mom/aunt's/uncles ASSESS when they messed up

I was like... Granny?  :plzstop: impossible! She cries when I leave her house to fly back home

She's the same woman who made me 2 cakes for my birthday because she didn't know if I liked chocolate or vanilla
I'm sorry but LK:DSFJ*(PJIDSJKKL:FHUOESLKDSMJFKLJDSIOFJDSK:FMDSIJFLDKMFDSLJHF&U(
Title: Re: It’s so sad when you realize those u grew up looking up to aren’t invincible
Post by: Kaeli. on September 10, 2019, 09:31:02 PM
This was about me knowing my Grandma was gonna die soon btw guys 

djS:JFLKJ Djf

but um... sry for ur relatives messing :omgwatshappening: 
Title: Re: It’s so sad when you realize those u grew up looking up to aren’t invincible
Post by: Sinpool on September 10, 2019, 10:58:34 PM
Quote from: She Is Coming. on September 10, 2019, 09:31:02 PM
This was about me knowing my Grandma was gonna die soon btw guys

djS:JFLKJ Djf

but um... sry for ur relatives messing :omgwatshappening:

Awww bby. Lemme hug u

my grandma died in 2004.

Still miss her.

fuck u btw.
Title: Re: It’s so sad when you realize those u grew up looking up to aren’t invincible
Post by: Ma Lo on September 10, 2019, 11:03:06 PM
Okay I'm watching IT 2 and just clicked on this thread and it's freaking me out. 
Title: Re: It’s so sad when you realize those u grew up looking up to aren’t invincible
Post by: BAPHOMET. on September 11, 2019, 12:06:50 AM
Quote from: LOONA. on August 31, 2019, 01:46:40 PM
Quote from: :.Muffy.::.Crosswire.: on August 31, 2019, 01:44:54 PM
Yeah I've never looked up to or idolized family.
BIG yikes
Title: Re: It’s so sad when you realize those u grew up looking up to aren’t invincible
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on September 11, 2019, 06:13:46 AM
This Thread is a Ki and there is a double meaning behind the o p are older matriarchs and Patriarchs are often seen as Invincible or unmoving or grounded in the family and believes in their presence in our lives but we are here on our own soul purpose and path that is to discover that there is going to be in light minutes that we have that they don't or discoveries that clash with their discoveries and it's the integration of what you've learned and what they've learned and harmoniously coexisting in that without they're being any lack of respect on either end however usually the older one does not have any respect for the younger parties perspective or discoveries and it's an eye opener you learn to love your grandma or Grandpa despite their flaws and you move on with what you truly know to be fact
Title: Re: It’s so sad when you realize those u grew up looking up to aren’t invincible
Post by: Amazing on September 11, 2019, 06:36:01 PM
I idolised my mum a bit when I was a kid but that was it.