its not all their fault though...
i was so upset last week...one of my coworkers happened to skip a visit to the barbershop it seemed (usually he keep his hair closely cut)....but it still looked neat to me. he has beautiful kinky hair. but here comes a black woman (i hate to say this but....OF COURSE).... asking him when he's gonna cut it. How the hell do you know that he wants to go back to the barber and cut it again? why are you telling him to go back? It took everything in me not to interrupt that little conversation and let her have it on the low. What I really wanted to do was turn around and tell him how much I LOVE his hair. but i can tell the questioning already had him uneasy, I did not want him to feel as if I were patronizing him, because I really love his hair. and his beautiful chocolate skin..he's kind of an adonis
lmao!!!!
so i cannot even comfortably sit here and put the blame on these people. sometimes its those who surround them who contribute to foolishness. but i will admit that sometimes foolery comes out of nowhere. I'm sure no one was around Roman asking him when he was gonna grow indian hair.
