Well we're BLACK first, then gay... two strikes you're out.
Most of us come from religious/judgmental backgrounds and aren't TRULY accepted by our families or communities. Lots of unaddressed damage and trauma.
That's not to say Snow fags don't deal with similar things, but they're WHITE first. With their racist asses. They aren't the standard.
I agree with this.
Whites are demons and devils.
I agree as well
we never viewed gay as something to rah rah about with so much other stuff going on
so its nice we get to piggy back off them and their struggle a bit
its opened some doors and let some walls down within our own community a bit
The safe spaces of gay was pushed on us a bit and we leaned into it