Say something nice about a member you tend to "oppose"...

Started by Sharon., May 11, 2016, 07:55:16 AM

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Lazarus

Quote from: Mel. on May 11, 2016, 01:43:57 PM
Quote from: Zinc on May 11, 2016, 01:42:14 PM
Welp. There goes that

did you expect anything else? lol

Tbh no. I kinda agree with your post. You don't have to say nice things if you don't like the person. It kinda feels forced and isn't coming from a real place. At most at least be cordial towards one another.


BAPHOMET.



Glenda


Mel.

Quote from: Zinc on May 11, 2016, 01:48:25 PM
Quote from: Mel. on May 11, 2016, 01:43:57 PM
Quote from: Zinc on May 11, 2016, 01:42:14 PM
Welp. There goes that

did you expect anything else? lol

Tbh no. I kinda agree with your post. You don't have to say nice things if you don't like the person. It kinda feels forced and isn't coming from a real place. At most at least be cordial towards one another.

it's sooooooooo fake and I just CANT. lol
no shade....I can't be fake

that's why I didn't enter those "appreciation" threads, ch...I just don't like some of these gorls
and I'm not gonna be fake and think of something just to be nice...
I'd rather just not say anything than be fake and phony...these gorls "appreciating" the gorls
they read and drag all day everyday. it's BOGUS.

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I like all of yall even though yall have yall snide ass
"Ashadskjbhfasjksdf" 
remarks when i post

(I see you)

Mel.

granted...
there are some gorls here i genuinely do like and even still I didn't enter their appreciation threads
not because I didnt want to say anything nice, but I just didn't wanna see the fakeness from others
cause I wouldve ended up saying something or calling someone out

the gorls I like know how i feel, so I don't need to "appreciate" them when someone tells me to

Lazarus

Quote from: haitian krey?l on May 11, 2016, 01:52:41 PM
Quote from: Zinc on May 11, 2016, 01:48:25 PM
Quote from: Mel. on May 11, 2016, 01:43:57 PM
Quote from: Zinc on May 11, 2016, 01:42:14 PM
Welp. There goes that

did you expect anything else? lol

Tbh no. I kinda agree with your post. You don't have to say nice things if you don't like the person. It kinda feels forced and isn't coming from a real place. At most at least be cordial towards one another.
This is all assuming that there is a genuine dislike for the person. As opposed to a clashing of personalities or opinion. Many people on here are on/off through disagreement. I cannot say there are many people on here who genuinely hate each other.

I can kii with Yumz and Kur one minute, and be ready to straggle them the next. Same with Mel, same with Vonc. Same with Bent.

There's nothing wrong with taking time to recognize the good things about them, instead of spending all the time pointing out where they were wrong, or where they lack. I think this is a great thread.

So on your end there's no genuinely dislike for these people you name dropped. Y'all just clash here and there.  Got u.

JRocka

i'm not oppose by any members and vice versa...but everyone here is cool in their own unique ways.

Mel.

Quote from: haitian krey?l on May 11, 2016, 01:49:19 PM
One thing about Mel is that he's no one's follower. He tells it how he sees it, he's the epitome of a New Yorker. :dead: It took me a while to figure out why I always had it out with him, Tyrelle and Carey, but it's definitely that New York attitude that clashes. It's embedded in us. We don't hold back. And at the end of the day, I can always respect anyone who brings it straight, no chaser.

thank you hun. I do genuinely appreciate that
it's kinda just who we are...lols

we can't be anything but, well...REAL. ;-)


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Lazarus

Quote from: Mel. on May 11, 2016, 01:53:43 PM
Quote from: Zinc on May 11, 2016, 01:48:25 PM
Quote from: Mel. on May 11, 2016, 01:43:57 PM
Quote from: Zinc on May 11, 2016, 01:42:14 PM
Welp. There goes that

did you expect anything else? lol

Tbh no. I kinda agree with your post. You don't have to say nice things if you don't like the person. It kinda feels forced and isn't coming from a real place. At most at least be cordial towards one another.

it's sooooooooo fake and I just CANT. lol
no shade....I can't be fake

that's why I didn't enter those "appreciation" threads, ch...I just don't like some of these gorls
and I'm not gonna be fake and think of something just to be nice...
I'd rather just not say anything than be fake and phony...these gorls "appreciating" the gorls
they read and drag all day everyday. it's BOGUS.

I feel you. I didn't enter all but I did enter a few.

In all honesty I just thought Glock doing just it to be mod because he was the only one that had to gain and benefit from it.  What was everybody else gettin' from it ? Half assed appreciation comments with shade.  :dead: