Quote from: Ulysses on October 10, 2019, 10:22:33 AM
You all need to relax. You apparently want back a girl that WASNT really her. She is NOW herself and you don't want it. I personally love it
yea ... but that's not how mental issues work tho
when you're lost or confused, any sense of confidence or exhilaration brings new moods and new outlooks. So that's why we've been seeing so many different things with Brandy.
that's why ppl who are going through things like that are more susceptible to drug use, or other unhealthy ways of outlet. Because whatever feels GOOD, becomes their outlet.
the TRUE tea is Brandy owning she was a goody two shoes, who was a smart and an enigmatic talent that went through the Hollywood ringer. Alot of decisions that were made, prolly weren't her idea, and things she had to hide because of her image, conflicted her.
There was nothing wrong with the person Brandy was, if it was genuine. But sometimes we as humans have a hard time ACCEPTING who we are and owning it. Especially when we're in the spotlight!
That's the only thing I say about Monica, she will sit and tell you, "yea I was MISS THANG, a ghetto bitch" and that wasn't the most healthy attitude.
Bran can still grow from it, but becoming someone different, to find yourself, is counter-productive because everything is outward instead of inward.... It's tricky stuff