The way he is going out of his way to try and prove that the gorls interact with him, "take him seriously". We just love to straggle you by your wig, cause it is easy to do. You are not very sightly.
You wanted to leave this poison behind and make good use of your time since you are approaching your 40's and now you are back here on a place full of human beings that loathe you and that literally has nothing to offer to you but insults.
The fact that you choose this interaction over "real life" quality time speaks volumes. Noone is talking about race, ancestry, music anything with you, they just drag and demean you, and you STILL love it. It shows an entirely new level of desperation in your heart.