Quote from: makeme on Today at 07:16:06 AMYeah, take pride in your work. Take your TIME. And give it everything you got. The sky is the limit!

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Quote from: makeme on Today at 10:34:58 AMCommunication is key, I mean, aren't we grown? He should speak in a direct way and express any concerns or needs that may be lacking. I went through something like this with someone who I refused to take seriously. Once I put you in that box, ain't no amount of huffing and puffing or passive aggressive mess going to change it. To be taken seriously is a privilege, not a right, and that privilege must be EARNED. In my book

overall he's a good guy. He's sweet. I don't wanna make it seem like he's horrible .

And he's the type of guy that I look for

Older, established with a successful business. A leader. A boss. I love that in men.

But with those types of guys also come a need to control things .

They're used to getting their way. People doing what they're told. Throwing their money at things to get it solved.

I've come to terms with that. I can't have my cake and eat it too . As in, entertaining  a guy who fits the profile I'm looking for but demanding that all the other stuff that comes with it somehow disappears completely.

I'm fair and reasonable in that sense.

But I have my limits. I push back when I feel it's needed and I'm always ready to exit if I have to.

Yes he's great and all and that's why I'm here but clearly there's something I bring that is of value to him as well. That's not lost on me at all

So let's figure this owt

Yeah, see, I tend to be the president in the relationship. It just works out that way. Hell, I'd love to ride in the passenger seat! It's a rare man that I would trust behind the wheel, though.

Alas, I kinda figure dealing with a guy like the one you're describing would require a fair amount of 'submitting'. That seems to be the pathology behind the facade..they work and strive and pay the cost to..well..be the boss. Anything less than that would probably defeat the purpose, I would think.

So, how are you responding to his attempts to make you jealous? Have you considered meditation or counseling? And what's both of your zodiac signs, boo?

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