Quote from: golden on May 10, 2018, 06:36:36 AM
I think people are drawn to dl men because they tend to be more masculine acting I suppose. And masculinity is a premium mess in the community
But there?s men out there who are both masculine and comfortable with their sexuality. That?s super sexy to me 
Most of it is self-hate and internalized homophobia though. As he said in the video if you don?t wanna date you, why would you expect someone else to date you? I have no issues with gay men being masc 4 masc if you?re masc. And if you?re masc. and like effeminate guys, great. I say that because I don?t hate effeminate gay men, but I?m gay because I am attracted to the essence of a man, his masculinity, his strength along with his anatomy. I feel like if I was attracted to femininity and softness I would be with a woman. It just does nothing for me. However, I?m not going out of my way to look for trade and straight men only, which is an oxymoron like he said. If he is fucking you, how is he straight? That tolerance itself breeds homophobia. Those the type of niggas that would help their boys stomp you because you?re gay or kill you because they can?t accept the fact that they?ve laid with you. There?s nothing sexy about it, IMO. I?m repulsed actually.
Yes, there are men out there who are masculine and comfortable with their sexuality like rugby player Keegan Hirst who was married to a woman and had kids and felt like he couldn?t come out as gay because he didn?t fit the stereotype of a gay man. And I think that?s a huge issue in the gay community. It is very one-side and stereotypical and I can totally relate to that.
