I'm not going to lie and act like I'm ultra progressive and "above it all". Because I have sent a little prayer to God just hoping that my child will have soft, manageable hair. I want to able to just wet it, style it, and send them out. lol. And want to be able to easily manage their hair and let it grow. And clear, pretty skin.
I don't care about complexion. But I prefer that they match mine.
if its a girl, I want her to look like my sisters
And I think it's only natural to wonder about how your child will come out. And have a couple ideas.
But these things aren't the MAIN aspects I am concerned about as a prospective parent.
I'm more concerned about how I come out as a PARENT to them. Being able to provide to them, setting a great example (which is a big reason I am back in school.)
There are bigger things to stress about than the grade of their hair or color of their skin.
If you're SERIOUS about wanting to be a parent.