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that wasn't even a read
living in ya mama mess is not the same as buying a home with your HUSBAND
Ashley didn't buy a home with her husband. She's living in a home her husband owns. She's financially dependent on a man.
i don't know enough about their agreement to go toe to toe on the details, but the fact remains the 2 situations are not the same. for that reason, it just wasn't a read.
The fact that their situations aren't the same is why it's a read
huh. candice while point was trynna call ashley a hypocrite. which doesnt work if the situations aren't even the same
It's hypocritical because the circumstances are different but the principal isn't. While Ashley was shaming Candiace for her mother having the means to afford Candiace a home...Ashley had to practically bargain with husband just to have a roof over her head
Ashley's point is contradicting. She's saying Candiace is an adult and should be able to have a home in her own name but Ashley couldn't even get that house without Michaels money.
a) i recall ashley being able to buy a home on her own but being able to buy a BETTER one with his help. but even if she did bargain
b) making that deal with the man you have a child with is nowhere near the same as relying on ya mama
so there is no opportunity for hypocrisy when the situations are nothing alike
Both women could buy basic homes if they wanted too.
Making a deal with a man who can cut you off at any moment and simply just pay child support is not the same as having unconditional support from your parent and having an inheritance. Ashley couldn't even get alimony.
Ashley is hypocritical to be telling someone how they should handle their finances as an adult when she's living in a home she can't even afford. Candiace and Chris actually pay their mortgage on their own. If I recall correctly Mama Dot only put down a percentage. Ashley can't afford her 13k a month mortgage. She's relying on Michael for that. The man she's "divorcing".
why would michael jeopardize the well-being of his child by cutting ashley off? additionally, candice's mother could easily cut her off at any time, she's under absolutely no obligation. and if anything michael cutting ashley off would be more publicly consequential than if dorothy were to cut candice off.
lastly, let's not forget WHY ashley even threw that shady FACT out there. it was because candice called herself trynna throw ashley out. it's not like ashley went into a deep dive into critiquing her finances.
so yea, this just wasn't a read.
