Quote from: Son Little on September 21, 2019, 09:59:09 AM
It's difficult to determine who's at fault without fully understanding the personalities of the individuals involved. If you were true friends than it should be reflected in how you communicate to one another.
I personally would not have considered his text an invite and would have politely declined due to the short notice.
this!
I think there's some energy here from both parties..
And I think it's the fact they messed a bit..
I think Hugo is like most bottoms.. or at least a lot of the ones I know.. in pursuit of respect because some of these tops are trash and treat ppl wack..
Like this invite.. I think Hugo wanted a more formal mess.. not a "u coming to my shit fagg".. like it was a requirement mess
It's hard to type this but I've been faced with a bottom carving the respect they want from me.. and instead of lashing out.. I've looked at the material and checked myself
I could be wrong but for me.. this seems a matter of respect and personality approaches