Quote from: Ulysses on May 13, 2023, 12:02:45 PMQuote from: ivorian oph on May 12, 2023, 02:42:23 PMQuote from: Ulysses on May 12, 2023, 11:51:27 AMThose little brats still mad that Daddy isn't paying for them to live unemployed??
damn, ur daddy kinda BOPPED u out the house too huh
Naw. Went to college, found my career, bought my first house at 24 and have been independent since. You know, how things SHOULD go
sounds like u had a family which instilled the importance of responsibility and personal accountability in you early on
Which is awesome .
However , Brian admittedly spoiled his kids to the point where the only life they knew was effortless luxury
Then... he cut them off.
So this again goes back to his actions and inactions as a parent and how he raised his children.
I'm sure it was easier for him to just shower them with gifts and money when they were younger instead of introducing them the word "no" and putting in the work it takes to show them that things in life do not and will not come easy.
It was easier then , and when they got older and did not snap out of what HE put them in fast enough for him, he tossed them.
Granted , they were adults at the
Time so it was well within his right to cut off all funds
But I'm sure that, considering what you've just laid out regarding your history and how early you got started making moves ... your family / parents wouldn't exactly agree with Brian's method of childhood parenting .
To not focus on teaching responsibility and accountability to a child as early as possible (especially when they're in a situation or environment where everything may SEEM to come very easy in life ) is to handicap them.
Hope that makes sense