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Title: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Amazing on April 27, 2024, 05:45:23 PM
How do you fag hags feel about ageing ungracefully?

How them knees holding up?

Give us gen zs some gems.
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: JCJ 🪐 on April 27, 2024, 05:46:26 PM
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Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: kendrick lamar on April 27, 2024, 05:54:00 PM
age convos are always interesting to me

its either people saying "i look betta den people half my age!"...completely unprovoked.
like...ok. do u feel better now? lol

or people in their 30s talking like they're teenagers.

a lot of it is projection and insecurity. with a sprinkle of delusion.
on both sides of the conversation.

if u need to bring others down to lift urself up, there's more focus on urself that needs to be done.
at any age
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Purple Moon on April 27, 2024, 07:08:50 PM
Quote from: shante smith on April 27, 2024, 05:54:00 PMage convos are always interesting to me

its either older people saying "i look betta den people half my age!"...completely unprovoked.
like...ok. do u feel better now? lol

or people in their 30s talking like they're teenagers.

a lot of it is projection and insecurity. with a sprinkle of delusion.
on both sides of the conversation.

if u need to bring others down to lift urself up, there's more focus on urself that needs to be done.
at any age
or the ones in their 30's acting like and making jokes that give being older than they are. Like youre not 50 or 60 calm down.
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: kendrick lamar on April 27, 2024, 07:26:13 PM
Quote from: BrandyFromTheFuture on April 27, 2024, 07:08:50 PM
Quote from: shante smith on April 27, 2024, 05:54:00 PMage convos are always interesting to me

its either older people saying "i look betta den people half my age!"...completely unprovoked.
like...ok. do u feel better now? lol

or people in their 30s talking like they're teenagers.

a lot of it is projection and insecurity. with a sprinkle of delusion.
on both sides of the conversation.

if u need to bring others down to lift urself up, there's more focus on urself that needs to be done.
at any age
or the ones in their 30's acting like and making jokes that give being older than they are. Like youre not 50 or 60 calm down.
the self-deprecating comments are relatively harmless IMO

but i can def see them offending older people when someone decades younger than them is calling themselves an ancient mummy

sdsdsdsdsd
or even people within the same age range who may hear it and feel they caught a stray.


Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: FAMÈ on April 27, 2024, 08:27:39 PM
 :plzstop:  :plzstop:

Glad I was born in 93  :traciandchelle:
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: makeme on April 27, 2024, 09:01:14 PM
91>>>>
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: long-timeTheRoofFan on April 27, 2024, 11:03:32 PM
These knees are holding up well enough to stomp someone out if they keep asking questions
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Justaway_ on April 28, 2024, 04:23:15 AM
i'm 33 but looking 23   :latisha:
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: ❄️☃️🌨� Shuji Feels Different 🌨�☃️❄️ on April 28, 2024, 07:58:35 AM
I'm 38 but look like a fetus

 :ohwow:
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Amazing on April 28, 2024, 08:33:18 AM
Quote from: ❄️☃️🌨� Shuji Feels Different 🌨�☃️❄️ on April 28, 2024, 07:58:35 AMI'm 38 but look like a fetus

 :ohwow:

Me too.
  :feelinmyself:
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: kendrick lamar on April 28, 2024, 08:39:23 AM
hcshscbhchbschbschbcshbschb

the motherland sends its blessings!
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Aalonso. on April 28, 2024, 11:13:02 AM
Not quite! One more year bby.
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: kendrick lamar on April 28, 2024, 11:21:57 AM
Quote from: Aalumeci. on April 28, 2024, 11:13:02 AMNot quite! One more year bby.
id say most of us here are in our 30s with a few outliers on either side.

i think my bvy Plastic is Gen Z

Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: BruceTruMusicFan on April 28, 2024, 01:53:48 PM
I try to be very aware of my age because for single, childless people, it's easy to lose track that you are no longer 24. Sometimes, I will have friends who brag about being independent, and I'm like, "You realize we are almost 40 :uhh: ?" It's not a flex at this age.

I turn 40 this year, and the only advice I give is to be aware of time. No one really talks about age unless it's in a way to insult or display dominance. Age is a great thing, and people only regret getting older when they have nothing meaningful to show for the years. I believe that I will live my life on my terms. If I want to go out, I will. I will do and act how I feel, not what society tells me is fitting for my age.
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: kendrick lamar on April 28, 2024, 02:04:33 PM
Quote from: BruceTruMusicFan on April 28, 2024, 01:53:48 PMI try to be very aware of my age because for single, childless people, it's easy to lose track that you are no longer 24. Sometimes, I will have friends who brag about being independent, and I'm like, "You realize we are almost 40 :uhh: ?" It's not a flex at this age.

I turn 40 this year, and the only advice I give is to be aware of time. No one really talks about age unless it's in a way to insult or display dominance. Age is a great thing, and people only regret getting older when they have nothing meaningful to show for the years. I believe that I will live my life on my terms. If I want to go out, I will. I will do and act how I feel, not what society tells me is fitting for my age.
lots of true tea here .

If you've accomplished meaningful things you realize that comes with years/age . A byproduct of your maturity ... growing up . Adulting. Not tryna be 21 your entire life.

Fnnfnfnfnfncnnc

And it's still ok to have fun and be silly - if that's your personality. My grandfather was a complete goofball til his final days but had his stuff tf together.

Like most things in life, it's about balance.
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Boomz on April 28, 2024, 02:36:43 PM
Just turned 35 today  :'(

Happy to have made it this far
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Aalonso. on April 28, 2024, 02:39:44 PM
Happy Bday luv
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: kendrick lamar on April 28, 2024, 02:46:54 PM
Happy bday boo ❤️

trashy self
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Lazarus on April 28, 2024, 03:03:55 PM
Happy B'Day.

Just turned 37 last week or so.
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Boomz on April 28, 2024, 03:10:16 PM
Thank yall so much ❤️
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Boomz on April 28, 2024, 03:10:32 PM
Quote from: shante smith on April 28, 2024, 02:46:54 PMHappy bday boo ❤️

trashy self

Smsksksksjd

 :cmerefag:
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Boomz on April 28, 2024, 03:10:52 PM
Happy Belated, Laz'!
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: kendrick lamar on April 28, 2024, 03:31:00 PM
Quote from: Lazarus on April 28, 2024, 03:03:55 PMHappy B'Day.

Just turned 37 last week or so.
happy belated bvy

keep posting those shady GOD-Lo updates and u wont see 38 tho
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Lazarus on April 28, 2024, 03:46:08 PM
Quote from: Boomz on April 28, 2024, 03:10:52 PMHappy Belated, Laz'!

Thanks!
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Lazarus on April 28, 2024, 03:46:27 PM
Quote from: shante smith on April 28, 2024, 03:31:00 PM
Quote from: Lazarus on April 28, 2024, 03:03:55 PMHappy B'Day.

Just turned 37 last week or so.
happy belated bvy

keep posting those shady GOD-Lo updates and u wont see 38 tho

Thanks! 🤣🤣🤣
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: RAY7 on April 28, 2024, 04:26:38 PM
Quote from: Boomz on April 28, 2024, 02:36:43 PMJust turned 35 today  :'(

Happy to have made it this far
April 1989>>>>>
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Scott. on April 28, 2024, 04:30:03 PM
Just turned 35 in February
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Boomz on April 28, 2024, 05:33:23 PM
Quote from: RAY7 on April 28, 2024, 04:26:38 PM
Quote from: Boomz on April 28, 2024, 02:36:43 PMJust turned 35 today

Happy to have made it this far
April 1989>>>>>

Ack!

!!!!


 :blessed:
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Lazarus on April 28, 2024, 05:42:42 PM
April period.  :blessed:

I love us.
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Amazing on April 28, 2024, 06:30:18 PM
I'm 32 giving 22. And yes I shave a few years off.
 :heythere:
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Lazarus on April 28, 2024, 06:56:31 PM
So who is 40 then ? :dead:
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Kalifornia. on April 28, 2024, 07:17:21 PM
Quote from: Boomz on April 28, 2024, 02:36:43 PMJust turned 35 today  :'(

Happy to have made it this far
Happy birthday!!!
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Kalifornia. on April 28, 2024, 07:17:53 PM
Quote from: Lazarus on April 28, 2024, 03:03:55 PMHappy B'Day.

Just turned 37 last week or so.

Happy belated!
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Lazarus on April 28, 2024, 07:20:35 PM
Quote from: Kalifornia. on April 28, 2024, 07:17:53 PM
Quote from: Lazarus on April 28, 2024, 03:03:55 PMHappy B'Day.

Just turned 37 last week or so.

Happy belated!

Thanks!!
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Demetri Lipa 🤴🏾 on April 28, 2024, 07:28:53 PM
Quote from: BruceTruMusicFan on April 28, 2024, 01:53:48 PMI try to be very aware of my age because for single, childless people, it's easy to lose track that you are no longer 24. Sometimes, I will have friends who brag about being independent, and I'm like, "You realize we are almost 40 :uhh: ?" It's not a flex at this age.

I turn 40 this year, and the only advice I give is to be aware of time. No one really talks about age unless it's in a way to insult or display dominance. Age is a great thing, and people only regret getting older when they have nothing meaningful to show for the years. I believe that I will live my life on my terms. If I want to go out, I will. I will do and act how I feel, not what society tells me is fitting for my age.
This touched me.
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Cowboy Nine on April 28, 2024, 07:29:59 PM
Damn, I'm younger than y'all old hoes huh?
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Cowboy Nine on April 28, 2024, 07:31:33 PM
Also happy birthday to Boom and happy belated to Laz'
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: RAY7 on April 28, 2024, 08:35:44 PM
Quote from: Cowboy Nine on April 28, 2024, 07:29:59 PMDamn, I'm younger than y'all old hoes huh?
ok Boomer
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: JCJ 🪐 on April 28, 2024, 08:54:57 PM
Happy belateds!
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Boomz on April 28, 2024, 09:40:13 PM
Quote from: Kalifornia. on April 28, 2024, 07:17:21 PM
Quote from: Boomz on April 28, 2024, 02:36:43 PMJust turned 35 today  :'(

Happy to have made it this far
Happy birthday!!!

Thank u bby!
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Boomz on April 28, 2024, 09:41:22 PM
Quote from: Cowboy Nine on April 28, 2024, 07:31:33 PMAlso happy birthday to Boom and happy belated to Laz'
:sistas:
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Lazarus on April 28, 2024, 09:42:06 PM
Quote from: Cowboy Nine on April 28, 2024, 07:31:33 PMAlso happy birthday to Boom and happy belated to Laz'

Thanks!!
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: ton on April 28, 2024, 09:42:17 PM
Quote from: Lazarus on April 28, 2024, 03:03:55 PMHappy B'Day.

Just turned 37 last week or so.
Mya it's time we get married then  :young:
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Lazarus on April 28, 2024, 09:43:03 PM
Quote from: ton on April 28, 2024, 09:42:17 PM
Quote from: Lazarus on April 28, 2024, 03:03:55 PMHappy B'Day.

Just turned 37 last week or so.
Mya it's time we get married then  :young:
:traciandchelle:
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Cartierline on April 29, 2024, 06:45:07 AM
I turn 30 next year :latisha:
But on the real, I don't really care about aging. I've always been an old soul :dead: I didn't get to really LIVE in my 20s so my 30s will be my actual 20s  :oof:
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: 𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉 on April 29, 2024, 07:14:55 AM
Quote from: Cartierline on April 29, 2024, 06:45:07 AMI turn 30 next year :latisha:
But on the real, I don't really care about aging. I've always been an old soul :dead: I didn't get to really LIVE in my 20s so my 30s will be my actual 20s  :oof:

!!
Same here
The 30s are where you really start to set into who you truly are, at least that's how it's been for me so far.
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: Cartierline on April 29, 2024, 07:37:41 AM
Quote from: 𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉 on April 29, 2024, 07:14:55 AM
Quote from: Cartierline on April 29, 2024, 06:45:07 AMI turn 30 next year :latisha:
But on the real, I don't really care about aging. I've always been an old soul :dead: I didn't get to really LIVE in my 20s so my 30s will be my actual 20s  :oof:

!!
Same here
The 30s are where you really start to set into who you truly are, at least that's how it's been for me so far.
!!!!!!!!!

I feel it even more especially after coming out to my parents recently. I can finally just be ME and things

:wakemeupinsidebby:
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: 𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉 on April 29, 2024, 07:43:21 AM
Quote from: Cartierline on April 29, 2024, 07:37:41 AM
Quote from: 𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉 on April 29, 2024, 07:14:55 AM
Quote from: Cartierline on April 29, 2024, 06:45:07 AMI turn 30 next year :latisha:
But on the real, I don't really care about aging. I've always been an old soul :dead: I didn't get to really LIVE in my 20s so my 30s will be my actual 20s  :oof:

!!
Same here
The 30s are where you really start to set into who you truly are, at least that's how it's been for me so far.
!!!!!!!!!

I feel it even more especially after coming out to my parents recently. I can finally just be ME and things

:wakemeupinsidebby:

Aww love this for you! :traciandchelle:
Title: Re: Now that most of you are in your 40s..
Post by: JCJ 🪐 on April 29, 2024, 01:47:50 PM
30s have been shit so far


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