Bitch when I think back a few years ago in what kind of relationships I was in and what kind of men I was with
before I started dating saying I'd never tolerate this and that and it would never happen on my watch......well speed up 2/3 years and the same shit was happening to me live and direct
It's hard being black period but when you add another layer of identity on top of that..being black AND gay?
I see why so many of us find someone we like and CLING on to them whilst tolerating all kinds of mess because it's hard finding someone on your wavelength because so many of us or just bitter, damaged and just out to GET you .....OR you just prefer being alone and sometimes bitter if that's what it takes to survive until learning to become content with one self and self surving AND being happy at the same time.
I want to go back to preschool