Nene wants everybody to be loyal to her but she's loyal to no one. She's nobody's friend. Fuck her.

Quote from: STUNNA GOD on March 19, 2024, 11:31:05 AM

Quote from: M-Rocka on March 19, 2024, 08:42:34 AMdbdbdbdndmsmsmdnss

All of this off camera mess is more entertaining than the last 3 seasons alone

!!!!! The past 3 seasons COMBINED.

Porsha >>>

She was on one of those seasons tho

But yeah

Porsha needs to practice "de-centering" men with the next man she gets with

Simon is a clown but part of the reason he thinks these jabs will hurt is because she was so focused on "being his peace" and taking on his culture and mess during their relationship .

To "de-center" a man is to invite him into your life, appreciate what he brings to the table but not center your life and your existence around him .

It's not about being a bitch and cold or disconnected, but its about making sure your connection with this man isn't THEE primary source of your joy, fulfillment, and purpose .

This way, when and if it's time to kick that ass to the curb - he's not feeling as if he gave you a new identity that he's able to take with him. And more importantly , you're not wondering who you are.... now that the relationship is done.

And even during the course of the relationship it will make things easier for both of you ... as when you are not centering a man, your expectations of the relationship are more likely to be reasonable - simply because you're not so emotionally reliant on him .. which means less pressure on him.

Easier said than done of course , as love tends to fry our brain cells sometimes. But just something to be mindful of .

Nene and Porsha are one in the same and neither are friends to anyone

Quote from: ....ok. on March 20, 2024, 05:14:50 AMPorsha needs to practice "de-centering" men with the next man she gets with

Simon is a clown but part of the reason he thinks these jabs will hurt is because she was so focused on "being his peace" and taking on his culture and mess during their relationship .

To "de-center" a man is to invite him into your life, appreciate what he brings to the table but not center your life and your existence around him .

It's not about being a bitch and cold or disconnected, but its about making sure your connection with this man isn't THEE primary source of your joy, fulfillment, and purpose .

This way, when and if it's time to kick that ass to the curb - he's not feeling as if he gave you a new identity that he's able to take with him. And more importantly , you're not wondering who you are.... now that the relationship is done.

And even during the course of the relationship it will make things easier for both of you ... as when you are not centering a man, your expectations of the relationship are more likely to be reasonable - simply because you're not so emotionally reliant on him .. which means less pressure on him.

Easier said than done of course , as love tends to fry our brain cells sometimes. But just something to be mindful of .

Can you sum this up in approximately three sentences?

Quote from: JCJ 🪐 on March 20, 2024, 10:32:48 AM

Quote from: ....ok. on March 20, 2024, 05:14:50 AMPorsha needs to practice "de-centering" men with the next man she gets with

Simon is a clown but part of the reason he thinks these jabs will hurt is because she was so focused on "being his peace" and taking on his culture and mess during their relationship .

To "de-center" a man is to invite him into your life, appreciate what he brings to the table but not center your life and your existence around him .

It's not about being a bitch and cold or disconnected, but its about making sure your connection with this man isn't THEE primary source of your joy, fulfillment, and purpose .

This way, when and if it's time to kick that ass to the curb - he's not feeling as if he gave you a new identity that he's able to take with him. And more importantly , you're not wondering who you are.... now that the relationship is done.

And even during the course of the relationship it will make things easier for both of you ... as when you are not centering a man, your expectations of the relationship are more likely to be reasonable - simply because you're not so emotionally reliant on him .. which means less pressure on him.

Easier said than done of course , as love tends to fry our brain cells sometimes. But just something to be mindful of .

Can you sum this up in approximately three sentences?

hell no

All or nothing boo

Quote from: JCJ 🪐 on March 20, 2024, 10:32:48 AM

Quote from: ....ok. on March 20, 2024, 05:14:50 AMPorsha needs to practice "de-centering" men with the next man she gets with

Simon is a clown but part of the reason he thinks these jabs will hurt is because she was so focused on "being his peace" and taking on his culture and mess during their relationship .

To "de-center" a man is to invite him into your life, appreciate what he brings to the table but not center your life and your existence around him .

It's not about being a bitch and cold or disconnected, but its about making sure your connection with this man isn't THEE primary source of your joy, fulfillment, and purpose .

This way, when and if it's time to kick that ass to the curb - he's not feeling as if he gave you a new identity that he's able to take with him. And more importantly , you're not wondering who you are.... now that the relationship is done.

And even during the course of the relationship it will make things easier for both of you ... as when you are not centering a man, your expectations of the relationship are more likely to be reasonable - simply because you're not so emotionally reliant on him .. which means less pressure on him.

Easier said than done of course , as love tends to fry our brain cells sometimes. But just something to be mindful of .

Can you sum this up in approximately three sentences?

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This PHILOSOPHER!

Quote from: Scott. on March 20, 2024, 10:18:22 AMNene and Porsha are one in the same and neither are friends to anyone

Exactly.

And that's why they can never get along.

 

Quote from: ....ok. on March 20, 2024, 05:14:50 AMPorsha needs to practice "de-centering" men with the next man she gets with

Simon is a clown but part of the reason he thinks these jabs will hurt is because she was so focused on "being his peace" and taking on his culture and mess during their relationship .

To "de-center" a man is to invite him into your life, appreciate what he brings to the table but not center your life and your existence around him .

You kinda ate this babe.

I doubt Porsha could do this though without a lot of unlearning of her internalized misogyny.

Her whole personality is gold digging and "keeping a man!"

Quote from: Cowboy Nine on March 20, 2024, 11:18:35 AM

Quote from: ....ok. on March 20, 2024, 05:14:50 AMPorsha needs to practice "de-centering" men with the next man she gets with

Simon is a clown but part of the reason he thinks these jabs will hurt is because she was so focused on "being his peace" and taking on his culture and mess during their relationship .

To "de-center" a man is to invite him into your life, appreciate what he brings to the table but not center your life and your existence around him .

You kinda ate this babe.

I doubt Porsha could do this though without a lot of unlearning of her internalized misogyny.

Her whole personality is gold digging and "keeping a man!"

she always does the exact opposite of de-centering .

Like this is def a pattern for her and I hope she's self aware enough to realize this at some point

If the man wants to pour into you .. let him do that. That includes his love , affection gifts coins . U can still get that and make sure he's not the center of your entire being.

Simon clearly believes he has/had a lot of power in their relationship and over her identity .

I'm dragging tf out of him but I gotta call a spade what it is for goddess too.

Quote from: JCJ 🪐 on March 20, 2024, 10:32:48 AM

Quote from: ....ok. on March 20, 2024, 05:14:50 AMPorsha needs to practice "de-centering" men with the next man she gets with

Simon is a clown but part of the reason he thinks these jabs will hurt is because she was so focused on "being his peace" and taking on his culture and mess during their relationship .

To "de-center" a man is to invite him into your life, appreciate what he brings to the table but not center your life and your existence around him .

It's not about being a bitch and cold or disconnected, but its about making sure your connection with this man isn't THEE primary source of your joy, fulfillment, and purpose .

This way, when and if it's time to kick that ass to the curb - he's not feeling as if he gave you a new identity that he's able to take with him. And more importantly , you're not wondering who you are.... now that the relationship is done.

And even during the course of the relationship it will make things easier for both of you ... as when you are not centering a man, your expectations of the relationship are more likely to be reasonable - simply because you're not so emotionally reliant on him .. which means less pressure on him.

Easier said than done of course , as love tends to fry our brain cells sometimes. But just something to be mindful of .

Can you sum this up in approximately three sentences?

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Tears. The fakest bitch in the history of RHOA. 

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