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Quote from: red skin on August 18, 2018, 11:58:00 PM
Let's liven this bitch up a bit.
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I see you wanna get right into the peach cobbler
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okay so...I've been seeing this guy for a while now (about six months), I really like him and it's been a while since I've felt this way about someone. We talk just about everyday, I think about him damn near constantly, we went on a trip together not too long ago and for the first time...I feel like all the feelings I have for someone else are being fully reciprocated. As lovely as it all sounds, this is somewhat scary to a cynical faggot like myself who quickly notices someone's flaws and has no problem ghosting a nigga the minute I feel like I see a red flag.
About a week ago, he asked me where do I see "this" (us) going and I told him I that didn't have an answer for him. He didn't seem upset then, but now he's hitting me with one word responses when I text him and doesn't want to hang out anymore when I ask.
I feel bad, but then again I don't because why the fuck is he so worked up over something that isn't totally concrete yet? :uhh:
I feel like he might be over it now
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Men are garbage stay single and keep your money and your sanity. Best way of life.
I really didn't have an answer for him :dead: as much as I like him, I'm not ready to start running around screaming Chante's Got A Man
I don't wanna waste him time, but I just a need a little more
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And then with you give him a chance he turns into a headache shortly thereafter?
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 19, 2018, 12:04:18 AM
okay so...I've been seeing this guy for a while now (about six months), I really like him and it's been a while since I've felt this way about someone. We talk just about everyday, I think about him damn near constantly, we went on a trip together not too long ago and for the first time...I feel like all the feelings I have for someone else are being fully reciprocated. As lovely as it all sounds, this is somewhat scary to a cynical faggot like myself who quickly notices someone's flaws and has no problem ghosting a nigga the minute I feel like I see a red flag.
About a week ago, he asked me where do I see "this" (us) going and I told him I that didn't have an answer for him. He didn't seem upset then, but now he's hitting me with one word responses when I text him and doesn't want to hang out anymore when I ask.
I feel bad, but then again I don't because why the fuck is he so worked up over something that isn't totally concrete yet? :uhh:
I feel like he might be over it now
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I think after 6 months you should have at least some sort of idea of what you'd like going forward. You don't have to commit then and there but something just a bit stronger than
I'll let ya know lol.
Perhaps your cynicism is getting in the way? That's no shade tho! :dead: I'm pretty pessimistic myself and all men are trash in my eyes until they put in the time and effort to prove otherwise.
Take some time to think about what you want & y'all should have an open discussion. Communication is always a good thing, especially in this day and age where people get tight over the most ridiculous shit.
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on August 19, 2018, 12:13:56 AM
Men are garbage stay single and keep your money and your sanity. Best way of life.
I have been telling myself that all day today. I don't seem to have problems until I add other people into the equation. :melmel:
Quote from: red skin on August 19, 2018, 12:22:28 AM
I think I see what you're saying. Once you begin answering those questions and getting into those conversations, the relationship can go from dating to a commitment. Then the game changes completely - the obligations, etc.
What are the things you like about him? It sounds like you're excited with the interest being reciprocated and that's understandable, especially if you've dealt with guys that were just total nonsense and a complete waste of your time and energy. But do you honestly see a solid future with him? Or is it just the companionship that you enjoy?
Six months is quite a while to be talking to someone. You haven't developed a solid opinion of him overall yet?
Something tells me that because of your challenges with men before, you may have a bit of a wall up. And that's understandable. This could be a "So Hard" type of situation , though. He sounds like a good guy.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LWZBLs3CBU8
I was thinking it might just be a companionship too, but I've never really been desperate for that :dead: I can enjoy being myself just fine, maybe a bit too much tbh
As far as what I like about him, he's got great taste in everything from music to movies, he's very laid back and sweet, he never seems to let anything get him too worked up (which is why his reaction caught me way off guard) and he's fucking gorgeous. We could just be watching a movie or he's tell about something that happened at work and I'll look at him like :ohwow:
I wanna let him in completely, but it's still kinda nerve-racking for me. :plzstop:
Quote from: emzen on August 19, 2018, 12:27:43 AM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 19, 2018, 12:04:18 AM
okay so...I've been seeing this guy for a while now (about six months), I really like him and it's been a while since I've felt this way about someone. We talk just about everyday, I think about him damn near constantly, we went on a trip together not too long ago and for the first time...I feel like all the feelings I have for someone else are being fully reciprocated. As lovely as it all sounds, this is somewhat scary to a cynical faggot like myself who quickly notices someone's flaws and has no problem ghosting a nigga the minute I feel like I see a red flag.
About a week ago, he asked me where do I see "this" (us) going and I told him I that didn't have an answer for him. He didn't seem upset then, but now he's hitting me with one word responses when I text him and doesn't want to hang out anymore when I ask.
I feel bad, but then again I don't because why the fuck is he so worked up over something that isn't totally concrete yet? :uhh:
I feel like he might be over it now
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I think after 6 months you should have at least some sort of idea of what you'd like going forward. You don't have to commit then and there but something just a bit stronger than I'll let ya know lol.
Perhaps your cynicism is getting in the way? That's no shade tho! :dead: I'm pretty pessimistic myself and all men are trash in my eyes until they put in the time and effort to prove otherwise.
Take some time to think about what you want & y'all should have an open discussion. Communication is always a good thing, especially in this day and age where people get tight over the most ridiculous shit.
Yea, I'm ready to just lay all my cards and let whatever happens happen
As much as the nerves are there, I don't wanna sit around thinking what if...
Yea, sadly, if you want a man you're gonna have to open up eventually.
It's fucking disgusting imo but w/e
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 18, 2018, 11:53:53 PM
pls don't use this thread as a read next time we get into it
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Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 19, 2018, 12:04:18 AM
okay so...I've been seeing this guy for a while now (about six months), I really like him and it's been a while since I've felt this way about someone. We talk just about everyday, I think about him damn near constantly, we went on a trip together not too long ago and for the first time...I feel like all the feelings I have for someone else are being fully reciprocated. As lovely as it all sounds, this is somewhat scary to a cynical faggot like myself who quickly notices someone's flaws and has no problem ghosting a nigga the minute I feel like I see a red flag.
About a week ago, he asked me where do I see "this" (us) going and I told him I that didn't have an answer for him. He didn't seem upset then, but now he's hitting me with one word responses when I text him and doesn't want to hang out anymore when I ask.
I feel bad, but then again I don't because why the fuck is he so worked up over something that isn't totally concrete yet? :uhh:
I feel like he might be over it now
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I don't feel like he's worked up over anything but the fact that you literally couldn't give him as answer would obviously cause a little rift.
Why didn't you just tell what you said in the first paragraph? :dead:
:bvy:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 19, 2018, 12:04:18 AM
okay so...I've been seeing this guy for a while now (about six months), I really like him and it's been a while since I've felt this way about someone. We talk just about everyday, I think about him damn near constantly, we went on a trip together not too long ago and for the first time...I feel like all the feelings I have for someone else are being fully reciprocated. As lovely as it all sounds, this is somewhat scary to a cynical faggot like myself who quickly notices someone's flaws and has no problem ghosting a nigga the minute I feel like I see a red flag.
About a week ago, he asked me where do I see "this" (us) going and I told him I that didn't have an answer for him. He didn't seem upset then, but now he's hitting me with one word responses when I text him and doesn't want to hang out anymore when I ask.
I feel bad, but then again I don't because why the fuck is he so worked up over something that isn't totally concrete yet? :uhh:
I feel like he might be over it now
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girl
You fucked yourself
YUMMY
TELL HIM WHAT YOU JUST SAID
You literally said you like him and he's (almost) everything
He said hey lol do you like me? And you say I dunno LMAO!
I see why he's pissed
Quote from: red skin on August 19, 2018, 12:22:28 AM
Six months is quite a while to be talking to someone. You haven't developed a solid opinion of him overall yet?
I understand though, yumz
Sometimes it's hard to make that first step into MESS because it's kind of a road you can never turn around on
But, you're young. You have to take a risk sometimes. Otherwise you'll be that one 56 year old guy on jackd writing 3 paragraphs about what you're looking for in a person that no one reads
Yeah Yummy you should have gave him a more concrete answer :hmph:
Just let him know all that you are saying in here to him
And stop being so damn cynical fag
Quote from: ton on August 19, 2018, 02:27:32 AM
YUMMY
TELL HIM WHAT YOU JUST SAID
You literally said you like him and he's (almost) everything
He said hey lol do you like me? And you say I dunno LMAO!
I see why he's pissed
!!!!!
Don't sabotage yourself boy
I could understand if you just randomly wanted to confess to him how much you're into him but was afraid of his reaction
But if he's asking you these types of questions he's obviously interesting and somewhat serious about seeing where this could go.
Quote from: Andrais. on August 19, 2018, 03:40:56 AM
I could understand if you just randomly wanted to confess to him how much you're into him but was afraid of his reaction
But if he's asking you these types of questions he's obviously interesting and somewhat serious about seeing where this could go.
!!
and 6 months?
im proud of them both tbh
after 5 mins im like UMMM, are we getting married? :nowgorl:
yummy you better not fuck this up faggot :bvy:
My mantra is simple hunny. To get over one man you need to lie under/on top of another. It's that simple. Just make sure the guy is hotter than this ex. :ohwow:
It will make you feel much better. Trust me. :ohwow:
SN: all humans are trash, especially men. :woohoo:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 19, 2018, 12:35:01 AM
Quote from: red skin on August 19, 2018, 12:22:28 AM
I think I see what you're saying. Once you begin answering those questions and getting into those conversations, the relationship can go from dating to a commitment. Then the game changes completely - the obligations, etc.
What are the things you like about him? It sounds like you're excited with the interest being reciprocated and that's understandable, especially if you've dealt with guys that were just total nonsense and a complete waste of your time and energy. But do you honestly see a solid future with him? Or is it just the companionship that you enjoy?
Six months is quite a while to be talking to someone. You haven't developed a solid opinion of him overall yet?
Something tells me that because of your challenges with men before, you may have a bit of a wall up. And that's understandable. This could be a "So Hard" type of situation , though. He sounds like a good guy.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LWZBLs3CBU8
I was thinking it might just be a companionship too, but I've never really been desperate for that :dead: I can enjoy being myself just fine, maybe a bit too much tbh
As far as what I like about him, he's got great taste in everything from music to movies, he's very laid back and sweet, he never seems to let anything get him too worked up (which is why his reaction caught me way off guard) and he's fucking gorgeous. We could just be watching a movie or he's tell about something that happened at work and I'll look at him like :ohwow:
I wanna let him in completely, but it's still kinda nerve-racking for me. :plzstop:
Lets cut to the chase. What is the sex like? :ATLcameo:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 19, 2018, 12:37:53 AM
Quote from: emzen on August 19, 2018, 12:27:43 AM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 19, 2018, 12:04:18 AM
okay so...I've been seeing this guy for a while now (about six months), I really like him and it's been a while since I've felt this way about someone. We talk just about everyday, I think about him damn near constantly, we went on a trip together not too long ago and for the first time...I feel like all the feelings I have for someone else are being fully reciprocated. As lovely as it all sounds, this is somewhat scary to a cynical faggot like myself who quickly notices someone's flaws and has no problem ghosting a nigga the minute I feel like I see a red flag.
About a week ago, he asked me where do I see "this" (us) going and I told him I that didn't have an answer for him. He didn't seem upset then, but now he's hitting me with one word responses when I text him and doesn't want to hang out anymore when I ask.
I feel bad, but then again I don't because why the fuck is he so worked up over something that isn't totally concrete yet? :uhh:
I feel like he might be over it now
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I think after 6 months you should have at least some sort of idea of what you'd like going forward. You don't have to commit then and there but something just a bit stronger than I'll let ya know lol.
Perhaps your cynicism is getting in the way? That's no shade tho! :dead: I'm pretty pessimistic myself and all men are trash in my eyes until they put in the time and effort to prove otherwise.
Take some time to think about what you want & y'all should have an open discussion. Communication is always a good thing, especially in this day and age where people get tight over the most ridiculous shit.
Yea, I'm ready to just lay all my cards and let whatever happens happen
As much as the nerves are there, I don't wanna sit around thinking what if...
i think putting your feelings in words even through text, will be a big deal for him. NO way he?ll one word/dry text that ass after you give him that.
You?re super gifted at putting all of your thoughts into words in a way that isn?t at all confusing. there won?t be a reason for him to try and figure out what you mean :dead: you?re very intelligent and straightforward. Just state how you feel.
I honestly don?t see a huge downside in sharing with him exactly what you?ve shared with us in terms of your fears and doubts. Who knows? He may have some of the same concerns and y?all can bond over that. So many possibilities can come from this and they aren?t all negative ones at all, IMO.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 18, 2018, 11:53:53 PM
pls don't use this thread as a read next time we get into it
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Is this convo still happening
I have sumn to say
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Quote from: ton on August 19, 2018, 03:44:18 AM
after 5 mins im like UMMM, are we getting married? :nowgorl:
:kii: :plzstop:
Quote from: MelMel on August 19, 2018, 02:46:11 AM
Yeah Yummy you should have gave him a more concrete answer :hmph:
Just let him know all that you are saying in here to him
And stop being so damn cynical fag
Sometimes it's not so easy to give an immediate answer because you don't wanna say the wrong thing.
:stressed:
Quote from: chula. on August 19, 2018, 08:29:35 AM
Quote from: ton on August 19, 2018, 03:44:18 AM
after 5 mins im like UMMM, are we getting married? :nowgorl:
:kii: :plzstop:
,dMSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
for real, everyone knows what most people are looking for
no need to waste time :nowgorl:
miss u btw cod' :wub:
Quote from: GLOCKY on August 19, 2018, 07:25:50 AM
Is this convo still happening
I have sumn to say
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Speak your mind KING.
Quote from: ton on August 19, 2018, 03:44:18 AM
Quote from: Andrais. on August 19, 2018, 03:40:56 AM
I could understand if you just randomly wanted to confess to him how much you're into him but was afraid of his reaction
But if he's asking you these types of questions he's obviously interesting and somewhat serious about seeing where this could go.
!!
and 6 months?
im proud of them both tbh
after 5 mins im like UMMM, are we getting married? :nowgorl:
yummy you better not fuck this up faggot :bvy:
Quote from: 1RIG on August 19, 2018, 06:24:56 AM
i think putting your feelings in words even through text, will be a big deal for him. NO way he?ll one word/dry text that ass after you give him that.
You?re super gifted at putting all of your thoughts into words in a way that isn?t at all confusing. there won?t be a reason for him to try and figure out what you mean :dead: you?re very intelligent and straightforward. Just state how you feel.
I honestly don?t see a huge downside in sharing with him exactly what you?ve shared with us in terms of your fears and doubts. Who knows? He may have some of the same concerns and y?all can bond over that. So many possibilities can come from this and they aren?t all negative ones at all, IMO.
I'm taking all of this into consideration
I'll let him know how I feel and just have to deal with whatever the reaction is
Wish me luck :bvy:
Quote from: GLOCKY on August 19, 2018, 07:25:50 AM
Is this convo still happening
I have sumn to say
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What's wrong, king
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Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 19, 2018, 10:16:30 AM
Quote from: GLOCKY on August 19, 2018, 07:25:50 AM
Is this convo still happening
I have sumn to say
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What's wrong, king
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I feel like I do this same thing to dudes
After my last serious relationship.. I?m guilty
I think it?s the time I spend tryna find what?s wrong with the person .. or comparing them to my ex
I can think about 3 dudes I?ve sorta dragged along for 6 months in the last two years..
This isn?t ok.. and I needed to see someone else (yumz) do it to see myself and how it would make me feel
I feel like u need to either end it or go out on a limb and make it official
It?s unfair to the other dude
The auditioning process shouldn?t be that long so either he isn?t the one or u are afraid that he is the one so u keep him at arms length and King is no longer here for ur mess
Luckily. The 3 dudes I did this too didnt really even deserve those 6 months.. no shade
Go get ur man
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Quote from: red skin on August 19, 2018, 10:38:33 AM
It's always helpful to put yourself in the other person's shoes.
Sounds so simple but I don't think many people actually take a moment to stop and do that.
Asking yourself, "If he said or did that to me, how would I feel?" .
It really takes you out of your own world and brings you to a place of compromise. And they say that's what relationships are all about.
!!!
I completely understand what you?re going through. A straight friend of mine that I like knows l like him but he?s uncomfortable with himself. I think he?s Bi but afraid to acknowledge it. So, he continue to keep his ?beard? to keep up with what society deems to be right. All in all he wants to spend time with me and asked me if we could be roommates (get a apt together) and then he?s persistent with buying a house with me. All of our friends see the attraction between us but he denies it..throws me under the bus saying that he thinks I like him. It?s craz how these straight boys try to play the gays to cover their own ass. Never again.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 19, 2018, 10:16:07 AM
Quote from: ton on August 19, 2018, 03:44:18 AM
Quote from: Andrais. on August 19, 2018, 03:40:56 AM
I could understand if you just randomly wanted to confess to him how much you're into him but was afraid of his reaction
But if he's asking you these types of questions he's obviously interesting and somewhat serious about seeing where this could go.
!!
and 6 months?
im proud of them both tbh
after 5 mins im like UMMM, are we getting married? :nowgorl:
yummy you better not fuck this up faggot :bvy:
Quote from: 1RIG on August 19, 2018, 06:24:56 AM
i think putting your feelings in words even through text, will be a big deal for him. NO way he?ll one word/dry text that ass after you give him that.
You?re super gifted at putting all of your thoughts into words in a way that isn?t at all confusing. there won?t be a reason for him to try and figure out what you mean :dead: you?re very intelligent and straightforward. Just state how you feel.
I honestly don?t see a huge downside in sharing with him exactly what you?ve shared with us in terms of your fears and doubts. Who knows? He may have some of the same concerns and y?all can bond over that. So many possibilities can come from this and they aren?t all negative ones at all, IMO.
I'm taking all of this into consideration
I'll let him know how I feel and just have to deal with whatever the reaction is
Wish me luck :bvy:
Good luck babe. :blush: i don?t want to rush you of course but i also don?t want him to get to comfortable with that dry interaction and then both of you end up accepting what you
think it is and end up moving on.
:stressed:
I?ve been there
Quote from: GLOCKY on August 19, 2018, 10:32:30 AM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 19, 2018, 10:16:30 AM
Quote from: GLOCKY on August 19, 2018, 07:25:50 AM
Is this convo still happening
I have sumn to say
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What's wrong, king
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I feel like I do this same thing to dudes
After my last serious relationship.. I?m guilty
I think it?s the time I spend tryna find what?s wrong with the person .. or comparing them to my ex
I can think about 3 dudes I?ve sorta dragged along for 6 months in the last two years..
This isn?t ok.. and I needed to see someone else (yumz) do it to see myself and how it would make me feel
I feel like u need to either end it or go out on a limb and make it official
It?s unfair to the other dude
The auditioning process shouldn?t be that long so either he isn?t the one or u are afraid that he is the one so u keep him at arms length and King is no longer here for ur mess
Luckily. The 3 dudes I did this too didnt really even deserve those 6 months.. no shade
Go get ur man
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!!!!!! OMG
I?ve done to this to someone and although i felt bad, he ain?t even deserve the 6-7 months i gave
Quote from: red skin on August 19, 2018, 10:38:33 AM
It's always helpful to put yourself in the other person's shoes.
Sounds so simple but I don't think many people actually take a moment to stop and do that.
Asking yourself, "If he said or did that to me, how would I feel?" .
It really takes you out of your own world and brings you to a place of compromise. And they say that's what relationships are all about.
!!!!!!! This world would be a lot different people at least considered doing this. Mess
Quote from: realbrandyfan on August 19, 2018, 09:20:40 PM
I completely understand what you?re going through. A straight friend of mine that I like knows l like him but he?s uncomfortable with himself. I think he?s Bi but afraid to acknowledge it. So, he continue to keep his ?beard? to keep up with what society deems to be right. All in all he wants to spend time with me and asked me if we could be roommates (get a apt together) and then he?s persistent with buying a house with me. All of our friends see the attraction between us but he denies it..throws me under the bus saying that he thinks I like him. It?s craz how these straight boys try to play the gays to cover their own ass. Never again.
Oh no baby, stay far away from him.
Quote from: realbrandyfan on August 19, 2018, 09:20:40 PM
I completely understand what you?re going through. A straight friend of mine that I like knows l like him but he?s uncomfortable with himself. I think he?s Bi but afraid to acknowledge it. So, he continue to keep his ?beard? to keep up with what society deems to be right. All in all he wants to spend time with me and asked me if we could be roommates (get a apt together) and then he?s persistent with buying a house with me. All of our friends see the attraction between us but he denies it..throws me under the bus saying that he thinks I like him. It?s craz how these straight boys try to play the gays to cover their own ass. Never again.
bcncncncn :uhh: not him trying to own a home with you. Who is he trying to convince?
Quote from: red skin on August 18, 2018, 11:58:00 PM
Let's liven this bitch up a bit.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bOXvqkC3W4M
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Yumz
Yea, I?m not sure what to do. My lease ends in March and we set on moving together. Though, I can save more money with a roommate...I?m thinking it may not be a good idea because I?m afraid I can?t put my feelings aside. On top of that, he has a girlfriend. He says he doesn?t see himsef marrying her but then again he spends a lot of time with her and her kid. Then comes to spend time with me, I feel like he?s trying to balance us both. This will be his first time moving out on his own from his parents place. Do you all think he?s trying to convince me he waits to be with me in the long run or he?s just using me? He?s dead set on getting the apt then eventually getting a house. In a way I feel like he?s trying to convince me he?s serious about me but my reservation he?s confused about if he wants to be fully authentic with his life. Should I play it by ear?
Yummy go get your man.
And keep us updated.
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Quote from: realbrandyfan on August 20, 2018, 10:12:03 AM
Yea, I?m not sure what to do. My lease ends in March and we set on moving together. Though, I can save more money with a roommate...I?m thinking it may not be a good idea because I?m afraid I can?t put my feelings aside. On top of that, he has a girlfriend. He says he doesn?t see himsef marrying her but then again he spends a lot of time with her and her kid. Then comes to spend time with me, I feel like he?s trying to balance us both. This will be his first time moving out on his own from his parents place. Do you all think he?s trying to convince me he waits to be with me in the long run or he?s just using me? He?s dead set on getting the apt then eventually getting a house. In a way I feel like he?s trying to convince me he?s serious about me but my reservation he?s confused about if he wants to be fully authentic with his life. Should I play it by ear?
You're honestly just putting yourself in a bad situation.
Living with someone you have feelings with is a bad idea if the person won't acknowledge those feelings.
Let him go play house with that bitch. You can easily find another roommate or whatever depending on your financial situation.
I see what you mean but if I keep it strictly business..should I still go for it. I can save tons of money and fulfill my dream of buying my dream home.
Quote from: realbrandyfan on August 20, 2018, 03:51:21 PM
I see what you mean but if I keep it strictly business..should I still go for it. I can save tons of money and fulfill my dream of buying my dream home.
DO IT WITH SOMEONE ELSE. you will save yourself alot of trouble, you think you will be able to keep it just business, but stuff like that never goes as planned. Even if yall mess he may regret it some mess as hes trying to process everything and then ruin what ever it is yall have established.
Quote from: LOONA. on August 20, 2018, 10:26:33 AM
Quote from: realbrandyfan on August 20, 2018, 10:12:03 AM
Yea, I?m not sure what to do. My lease ends in March and we set on moving together. Though, I can save more money with a roommate...I?m thinking it may not be a good idea because I?m afraid I can?t put my feelings aside. On top of that, he has a girlfriend. He says he doesn?t see himsef marrying her but then again he spends a lot of time with her and her kid. Then comes to spend time with me, I feel like he?s trying to balance us both. This will be his first time moving out on his own from his parents place. Do you all think he?s trying to convince me he waits to be with me in the long run or he?s just using me? He?s dead set on getting the apt then eventually getting a house. In a way I feel like he?s trying to convince me he?s serious about me but my reservation he?s confused about if he wants to be fully authentic with his life. Should I play it by ear?
You're honestly just putting yourself in a bad situation.
Living with someone you have feelings with is a bad idea if the person won't acknowledge those feelings.
Let him go play house with that bitch. You can easily find another roommate or whatever depending on your financial situation.
flat owt
Quote from: Tonkaman on August 20, 2018, 03:58:01 PM
Quote from: realbrandyfan on August 20, 2018, 03:51:21 PM
I see what you mean but if I keep it strictly business..should I still go for it. I can save tons of money and fulfill my dream of buying my dream home.
DO IT WITH SOMEONE ELSE. you will save yourself alot of trouble, you think you will be able to keep it just business, but stuff like that never goes as planned. Even if yall mess he may regret it some mess as hes trying to process everything and then ruin what ever it is yall have established.
!
When he starts bringing Queen over you will be pissed
You baby sitting while they fuck in the other room
Nigga pleas
Quote from: GLOCKY on August 20, 2018, 04:36:10 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on August 20, 2018, 03:58:01 PM
Quote from: realbrandyfan on August 20, 2018, 03:51:21 PM
I see what you mean but if I keep it strictly business..should I still go for it. I can save tons of money and fulfill my dream of buying my dream home.
DO IT WITH SOMEONE ELSE. you will save yourself alot of trouble, you think you will be able to keep it just business, but stuff like that never goes as planned. Even if yall mess he may regret it some mess as hes trying to process everything and then ruin what ever it is yall have established.
!
When he starts bringing Queen over you will be pissed
You baby sitting while they fuck in the other room
Nigga pleas
I see it already. And I hope he isn't telling himself that they are going to have some happy ending. Been there and done that, shit is no fun. Stay away for your sanity, because people like that will go back to what society seems normal and leave you behind heartbroken, picking up the pieces.
Was What kind of men are the most TRASH discussed in here? Because....
Down low men?
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 19, 2018, 12:04:18 AM
okay so...I've been seeing this guy for a while now (about six months), I really like him and it's been a while since I've felt this way about someone. We talk just about everyday, I think about him damn near constantly, we went on a trip together not too long ago and for the first time...I feel like all the feelings I have for someone else are being fully reciprocated. As lovely as it all sounds, this is somewhat scary to a cynical faggot like myself who quickly notices someone's flaws and has no problem ghosting a nigga the minute I feel like I see a red flag.
About a week ago, he asked me where do I see "this" (us) going and I told him I that didn't have an answer for him. He didn't seem upset then, but now he's hitting me with one word responses when I text him and doesn't want to hang out anymore when I ask.
I feel bad, but then again I don't because why the fuck is he so worked up over something that isn't totally concrete yet? :uhh:
I feel like he might be over it now
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Omf
Well sis how old is he ?
Does he date around ? Is he ready to get serious ?
Maybe he was really ready to TAKE it there (6 months that?s a long time )
I wouldn?t wanna spend everyday with someone for 6 damn months and you have no clue as to where you see our relationship going .
Quote from: ton on August 19, 2018, 02:27:32 AM
YUMMY
TELL HIM WHAT YOU JUST SAID
You literally said you like him and he's (almost) everything
He said hey lol do you like me? And you say I dunno LMAO!
I see why he's pissed
Sndndndfbdbdbdbfbfbfbfbf
But !!!!
I?d be like ummm...gorl :udontlookok:
Quote from: Black Jaguar. on August 21, 2018, 06:44:03 PM
OK, I'm gonna open up...
I think my insecurities are gonna end up ruining this new situation I'm in. The guy I'm seeing is so sweet, beautiful and everything I've been looking for since being single for the past 3 years. We talk everyday, he's done nothing wrong per se, but this past week the communication hasn't been as frequent as before, but still some kinda talk daily (mostly Facetime).
Now, he's working A LOT and works unsociable hours, so when he's not working, he's pretty much sleeping.
Whereas, I've had all summer off, so have a lot of time on my hands...so when I don't get a response instantly, I'm thinking, "Maybe, he's not interested anymore"...which contradicts everything we've discussed (inc. this past weekend).
However, he opened up a bit more and told me his ex hurt him really badly and although he assures me he's over him, he says he's not over the situation and the hurt that he experienced, which is why we're not jumping into a relationship + we've only been seeing each other for two months. Although, we're "seeing each other exclusively", which is kinda like being in a relationship, I guess. :uhh:
I spoke to my best friend about calling it off, but then he told me I'm being extra/premature...I just don't wanna end up getting played, or falling in love alone, a True tea. :stressed: I always seem to fall for these partially unavailable guys/ guys with baggage.
Dude told me he's falling for me too, but he just needs us to spend time on this, as he doesn't want to hurt me, like the hurt he experienced. He says he's partially scared that he's falling again.
I'm just very conflicted, I know I'm partially doing too much, but yeah...I do really like him though...a lot.
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Something about the whole
been hurt! not ready for anything serious! mess rubs me the wrong way.
Awww this thread was refreshing
You gorls do have souls/hearts/emotions etc :stressed:
Quote from: Baph. on August 21, 2018, 06:48:16 PM
Was What kind of men are the most TRASH discussed in here? Because....
yummy and Theo are the trash
I texted him this morning asking him if we could meet up and talk
He's "busy"
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Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 21, 2018, 08:02:26 PM
I texted him this morning asking him if we could meet up and talk
He's "busy"
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Awww if I were you I?d be more vulnerable with the next set of responses.
Let him know exactly what you said previously in here and let him know how nerve wracking all of this is for you. He obviously feels a way.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 21, 2018, 08:02:26 PM
I texted him this morning asking him if we could meet up and talk
He's "busy"
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get back on grindr
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Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 21, 2018, 08:02:26 PM
I texted him this morning asking him if we could meet up and talk
He's "busy"
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Yh you fucked it up
:omf:
Quote from: realbrandyfan on August 20, 2018, 03:51:21 PM
I see what you mean but if I keep it strictly business..should I still go for it. I can save tons of money and fulfill my dream of buying my dream home.
You're literally trying to make up an excuse to move in with him.
Like gur fhhhff
You won't be able to keep it strictly business with someone you have feelings for.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 21, 2018, 08:02:26 PM
I texted him this morning asking him if we could meet up and talk
He's "busy"
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you can do one of two things
Say ok. Or.... Tell that faggot he's LYING and admit your feelings
Cccxxcbbbbcc
Yummy you both sound like two stubborn faggots
Just take the risk and tell him how you feel
The worst thing that can happen is he says "fuck you lol!"
But I have a feeling that won't happen
Quote from: Black Jaguar. on August 21, 2018, 06:44:03 PM
OK, I'm gonna open up...
I think my insecurities are gonna end up ruining this new situation I'm in. The guy I'm seeing is so sweet, beautiful and everything I've been looking for since being single for the past 3 years. We talk everyday, he's done nothing wrong per se, but this past week the communication hasn't been as frequent as before, but still some kinda talk daily (mostly Facetime).
Now, he's working A LOT and works unsociable hours, so when he's not working, he's pretty much sleeping.
Whereas, I've had all summer off, so have a lot of time on my hands...so when I don't get a response instantly, I'm thinking, "Maybe, he's not interested anymore"...which contradicts everything we've discussed (inc. this past weekend).
However, he opened up a bit more and told me his ex hurt him really badly and although he assures me he's over him, he says he's not over the situation and the hurt that he experienced, which is why we're not jumping into a relationship + we've only been seeing each other for two months. Although, we're "seeing each other exclusively", which is kinda like being in a relationship, I guess. :uhh:
I spoke to my best friend about calling it off, but then he told me I'm being extra/premature...I just don't wanna end up getting played, or falling in love alone, a True tea. :stressed: I always seem to fall for these partially unavailable guys/ guys with baggage.
Dude told me he's falling for me too, but he just needs us to spend time on this, as he doesn't want to hurt me, like the hurt he experienced. He says he's partially scared that he's falling again.
I'm just very conflicted, I know I'm partially doing too much, but yeah...I do really like him though...a lot.
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Why are you even investing so much into somebody you've barely been seeing for 2 months? Gur
Stop overthinking and just go with the flow.
sjknfjnddd
Is this the Love Doctor Thread?
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Quote from: ton on August 22, 2018, 12:15:15 AM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 21, 2018, 08:02:26 PM
I texted him this morning asking him if we could meet up and talk
He's "busy"
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you can do one of two things
Say ok. Or.... Tell that faggot he's LYING and admit your feelings
!!!!! this nigga wants to FORCE it out of you i guess, but dont let him go yumz
:'(
it does NOT make you look pressed, desperate or any of the sort. It just means you actually give a shit. The unbothered shit gay niggas try and be on is so late and unrealistic
Quote from: 1RIG on August 22, 2018, 02:32:36 AM
Quote from: ton on August 22, 2018, 12:15:15 AM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 21, 2018, 08:02:26 PM
I texted him this morning asking him if we could meet up and talk
He's "busy"
(https://www.upload.ee/image/8827803/ezgif-4-081efed7ff.gif)
you can do one of two things
Say ok. Or.... Tell that faggot he's LYING and admit your feelings
The unbothered shit gay niggas try and be on is so late and unrealistic
sklmklfffffffff
I felt this
:stressed:
Quote from: 1RIG on August 22, 2018, 02:32:36 AM
Quote from: ton on August 22, 2018, 12:15:15 AM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 21, 2018, 08:02:26 PM
I texted him this morning asking him if we could meet up and talk
He's "busy"
(https://www.upload.ee/image/8827803/ezgif-4-081efed7ff.gif)
you can do one of two things
Say ok. Or.... Tell that faggot he's LYING and admit your feelings
!!!!! this nigga wants to FORCE it out of you i guess, but dont let him go yumz
:'(
it does NOT make you look pressed, desperate or any of the sort. It just means you actually give a shit. The unbothered shit gay niggas try and be on is so late and unrealistic
All of this guys :flamebroiled:
Yumz is still having mens problems?
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Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 21, 2018, 08:02:26 PM
I texted him this morning asking him if we could meet up and talk
He's "busy"
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r u
xcvvv
Pons is a fool
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Umm.... kinda on and off topic...
Anyone else notice how AGGRESSIVE gay men can be ? :ummwhat: or maybe that?s a male thing period. Idk. My approach to dudes is so chill.
This nigga legit said Whatever, Bitch because I wasn?t feeling him :rudone:
Quote from: Baph. on August 22, 2018, 08:25:16 PM
Umm.... kinda on and off topic...
Anyone else notice how AGGRESSIVE gay men can be ? :ummwhat: or maybe that?s a male thing period. Idk. My approach to dudes is so chill.
This nigga legit said Whatever, Bitch because I wasn?t feeling him :rudone:
That's not just gay men, I think that's a men with huge ego thing(majority of men)
Quote from: Red Skin on August 22, 2018, 12:03:24 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on August 22, 2018, 12:02:36 PM
r u
Faggot r u :guys:
Stay out of those Nicki threads unless you're there for worship
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Faggot
We spoke today. I laid everything out on the table, apologized for being careless about his feelings and told him I wanted to take things further.
He said he needs time to figure all this out...
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Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 30, 2018, 07:56:05 PM
We spoke today. I laid everything out on the table, apologized for being careless about his feelings and told him I wanted to take things further.
He said he needs time to figure all this out...
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Amamsmsmsms
That's what the fuck ya get. Now you on his time, like you made him wait.
:letsmessfag:
I?m about to take a cab to his apartment building and sit outside
Quote from: Baph. on August 22, 2018, 08:25:16 PM
Umm.... kinda on and off topic...
Anyone else notice how AGGRESSIVE gay men can be ? :ummwhat: or maybe that?s a male thing period. Idk. My approach to dudes is so chill.
This nigga legit said Whatever, Bitch because I wasn?t feeling him :rudone:
ddddddddddddddddddddddddddd
love that man :blessed:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 30, 2018, 09:11:08 PM
I?m about to take a cab to his apartment building and sit outside
R u Miranda from Sex And the City?
Just had an AMAZING night of Netflix and chilling with this super dope dude. He's just super sweet. He just lay with his head on my lap all night binge watching Orange is the New Black. It was so quiet and intimate. I just love the fact that he doesn't yap much when we're hanging out. Love his company so much. He's definitely THE ONE. I get butterflies in my stomach when I rub his belly and he licks my nose after I give him his treats :stressed:
Quote from: Shuji HOE on August 30, 2018, 10:10:01 PM
Just had an AMAZING night of Netflix and chilling with this super dope dude. He's just super sweet. He just lay with his head on my lap all night binge watching Orange is the New Black. It was so quiet and intimate. I just love the fact that he doesn't yap much when we're hanging out. Love his company so much. He's definitely THE ONE. I get butterflies in my stomach when I rub his belly and he licks my nose after I give him his treats :stressed:
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Quote from: Tonkaman on August 30, 2018, 08:12:15 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 30, 2018, 07:56:05 PM
We spoke today. I laid everything out on the table, apologized for being careless about his feelings and told him I wanted to take things further.
He said he needs time to figure all this out...
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Amamsmsmsms
That's what the fuck ya get. Now you on his time, like you made him wait.
:letsmessfag:
this is true
Just give it time fag
You're obviously very alike
Quote from: Baph. on August 22, 2018, 08:25:16 PM
Umm.... kinda on and off topic...
Anyone else notice how AGGRESSIVE gay men can be ? :ummwhat: or maybe that?s a male thing period. Idk. My approach to dudes is so chill.
This nigga legit said Whatever, Bitch because I wasn?t feeling him :rudone:
You display the very energy you hate. Well, isn?t that ironic? :uhh:
These days, I enjoy the company of men better than women. Women are too emotional, messy and they love to play the victim, especially white women.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 30, 2018, 09:11:08 PM
I?m about to take a cab to his apartment building and sit outside
Wear a fur coat with nothing on underneath.
Quote from: Shuji HOE on August 30, 2018, 10:10:01 PM
Just had an AMAZING night of Netflix and chilling with this super dope dude. He's just super sweet. He just lay with his head on my lap all night binge watching Orange is the New Black. It was so quiet and intimate. I just love the fact that he doesn't yap much when we're hanging out. Love his company so much. He's definitely THE ONE. I get butterflies in my stomach when I rub his belly and he licks my nose after I give him his treats :stressed:
sddddddddddddd
wow a match made in heaven
Quote from: Young on August 31, 2018, 09:41:37 AM
Quote from: Shuji HOE on August 30, 2018, 10:10:01 PM
Just had an AMAZING night of Netflix and chilling with this super dope dude. He's just super sweet. He just lay with his head on my lap all night binge watching Orange is the New Black. It was so quiet and intimate. I just love the fact that he doesn't yap much when we're hanging out. Love his company so much. He's definitely THE ONE. I get butterflies in my stomach when I rub his belly and he licks my nose after I give him his treats :stressed:
sddddddddddddd
wow a match made in heaven
TRREWWWIIUUYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
You fucking BITCH :plzstop:
Quote from: Shuji HOE on August 30, 2018, 10:10:01 PM
Just had an AMAZING night of Netflix and chilling with this super dope dude. He's just super sweet. He just lay with his head on my lap all night binge watching Orange is the New Black. It was so quiet and intimate. I just love the fact that he doesn't yap much when we're hanging out. Love his company so much. He's definitely THE ONE. I get butterflies in my stomach when I rub his belly and he licks my nose after I give him his treats :stressed:
stop having sex with that dog
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 30, 2018, 07:56:05 PM
We spoke today. I laid everything out on the table, apologized for being careless about his feelings and told him I wanted to take things further.
He said he needs time to figure all this out...
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Well all you can do now is wait
And if he doesn't contact you again then.... :udontlookok:
He's on his snap looking so fuckin good omf
[yt autoplay=1]https://youtu.be/mGrftdNEzvk[/yt]
wait
well what did he say?
Poor Yumz :stressed:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 30, 2018, 07:56:05 PM
We spoke today. I laid everything out on the table, apologized for being careless about his feelings and told him I wanted to take things further.
He said he needs time to figure all this out...
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Damn bruv
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Yea; sounds like he was hurt and now is super guarded. Baby, he?s making you pay all the bills for the next few weeks. At least he wasn?t a complete asshole and said fuck this shit...it?s over. It just shows he gives a fuck and cares a bit. I hate men sometimes. Lol
Yall haven't spoken since the last time?
Quote from: Kurama on September 14, 2018, 09:49:13 AM
Yall haven't spoken since the last time?
No, and I honestly have no interest in doing so
I guess I turned him off
Oh well
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on August 19, 2018, 12:13:56 AM
Men are garbage stay single and keep your money and your sanity. Best way of life.
Dating in a city like NYC seems hella wild to me. I hope all get to link back up Yumz.
Dating anywhere is wild tbh. Having a dog >>>>>> :diddraispoot:
Quote from: ShujiFinity Wars on September 14, 2018, 11:15:31 AM
Dating anywhere is wild tbh. Having a cat >>>>>> :diddraispoot:
dffff
yeah
Yall wanna get into it? ^o)
n
They were YOUR words, weren't they :diddraispoot:?
Honestly wish I was straight sometimes, tbqfhwyrn.
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Quote from: ShujiFinity Wars on August 30, 2018, 10:10:01 PM
Just had an AMAZING night of Netflix and chilling with this super dope dude. He's just super sweet. He just lay with his head on my lap all night binge watching Orange is the New Black. It was so quiet and intimate. I just love the fact that he doesn't yap much when we're hanging out. Love his company so much. He's definitely THE ONE. I get butterflies in my stomach when I rub his belly and he licks my nose after I give him his treats :stressed:
shdhdhdhdjfjfhdhdudjdh bitch dhdhdhh
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 14, 2018, 04:11:21 PM
Quote from: ShujiFinity Wars on August 30, 2018, 10:10:01 PM
Just had an AMAZING night of Netflix and chilling with this super dope dude. He's just super sweet. He just lay with his head on my lap all night binge watching Orange is the New Black. It was so quiet and intimate. I just love the fact that he doesn't yap much when we're hanging out. Love his company so much. He's definitely THE ONE. I get butterflies in my stomach when I rub his belly and he licks my nose after I give him his treats :stressed:
shdhdhdhdjfjfhdhdudjdh bitch dhdhdhh
VXBXBXBBXBXBXBXBXBBXBXBXBXBXBXBXBBXBXB
Quote from: Trey on September 14, 2018, 04:06:45 PM
Honestly wish I was straight sometimes, tbqfhwyrn.
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n
Straight people have the same problems
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 14, 2018, 04:11:21 PM
Quote from: ShujiFinity Wars on August 30, 2018, 10:10:01 PM
Just had an AMAZING night of Netflix and chilling with this super dope dude. He's just super sweet. He just lay with his head on my lap all night binge watching Orange is the New Black. It was so quiet and intimate. I just love the fact that he doesn't yap much when we're hanging out. Love his company so much. He's definitely THE ONE. I get butterflies in my stomach when I rub his belly and he licks my nose after I give him his treats :stressed:
shdhdhdhdjfjfhdhdudjdh bitch dhdhdhh
is he trying to make me jealous
Quote from: Trey on September 14, 2018, 04:06:45 PM
Honestly wish I was straight sometimes, tbqfhwyrn.
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mmm
Quote from: ANIMMAI on September 14, 2018, 06:42:26 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 14, 2018, 04:11:21 PM
Quote from: ShujiFinity Wars on August 30, 2018, 10:10:01 PM
Just had an AMAZING night of Netflix and chilling with this super dope dude. He's just super sweet. He just lay with his head on my lap all night binge watching Orange is the New Black. It was so quiet and intimate. I just love the fact that he doesn't yap much when we're hanging out. Love his company so much. He's definitely THE ONE. I get butterflies in my stomach when I rub his belly and he licks my nose after I give him his treats :stressed:
shdhdhdhdjfjfhdhdudjdh bitch dhdhdhh
is he trying to make me jealous
Is it working :diddraispoot:
He wants to link up for drinks this weekend :diddraispoot: It's his birthday
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 09, 2018, 08:59:13 PM
He wants to link up for drinks this weekend :diddraispoot: It's his birthday
do it
And be open to being serious with him
:uhh:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 09, 2018, 08:59:13 PM
He wants to link up for drinks this weekend :diddraispoot: It's his birthday
aw
Go babe
:stressed:
ssss
He just randomly hit me up and said he was thinking about me and all the animosity kinda just went away
whew, I'm 'bout to fuck this nigga's brains out
(https://uploadir.com/u/zyik8xp6)
I'm crying
Jxjdjdjd get dick
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 09, 2018, 08:59:13 PM
He wants to link up for drinks this weekend :diddraispoot: It's his birthday
keep him
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 09, 2018, 08:59:13 PM
He wants to link up for drinks this weekend :diddraispoot: It's his birthday
Im sick of your shit. Let us know how it goes btw.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 09, 2018, 09:10:20 PM
ssss
He just randomly hit me up and said he was thinking about me and all the animosity kinda just went away
whew, I'm 'bout to fuck this nigga's brains out
(https://uploadir.com/u/zyik8xp6)
dffdkkkkdddd
Don't just drop all your mess and go running to him.
Make him WORK for it a little bit (https://uploadir.com/u/zyik8xp6)
Quote from: LOONA. on November 10, 2018, 04:26:12 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 09, 2018, 09:10:20 PM
ssss
He just randomly hit me up and said he was thinking about me and all the animosity kinda just went away
whew, I'm 'bout to fuck this nigga's brains out
(https://uploadir.com/u/zyik8xp6)
dffdkkkkdddd
Don't just drop all your mess and go running to him.
Make him WORK for it a little bit
(https://uploadir.com/u/zyik8xp6)
boy
That?s how this frustrated thread began in the first place
Quote from: 1RIG on November 10, 2018, 04:37:33 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on November 10, 2018, 04:26:12 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 09, 2018, 09:10:20 PM
ssss
He just randomly hit me up and said he was thinking about me and all the animosity kinda just went away
whew, I'm 'bout to fuck this nigga's brains out
(https://uploadir.com/u/zyik8xp6)
dffdkkkkdddd
Don't just drop all your mess and go running to him.
Make him WORK for it a little bit
(https://uploadir.com/u/zyik8xp6)
boy
That?s how this frustrated thread began in the first place
Speaking of frustrated
Why did I get a text saying you grinding up in the club with some BITCH last night? :nowgorl:
Quote from: 1RIG on November 10, 2018, 04:37:33 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on November 10, 2018, 04:26:12 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 09, 2018, 09:10:20 PM
ssss
He just randomly hit me up and said he was thinking about me and all the animosity kinda just went away
whew, I'm 'bout to fuck this nigga's brains out
(https://uploadir.com/u/zyik8xp6)
dffdkkkkdddd
Don't just drop all your mess and go running to him.
Make him WORK for it a little bit
(https://uploadir.com/u/zyik8xp6)
boy
That?s how this frustrated thread began in the first place
ZBBZBZBZB
!!
All yummy needs to say is I love sucking your dick and your personality makes me smile
Cesar closed
:nowgorl:
Quote from: tontonton on November 10, 2018, 07:38:08 PM
Quote from: 1RIG on November 10, 2018, 04:37:33 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on November 10, 2018, 04:26:12 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 09, 2018, 09:10:20 PM
ssss
He just randomly hit me up and said he was thinking about me and all the animosity kinda just went away
whew, I'm 'bout to fuck this nigga's brains out
(https://uploadir.com/u/zyik8xp6)
dffdkkkkdddd
Don't just drop all your mess and go running to him.
Make him WORK for it a little bit
(https://uploadir.com/u/zyik8xp6)
boy
That?s how this frustrated thread began in the first place
ZBBZBZBZB
!!
All yummy needs to say is I love sucking your dick and your personality makes me smile
Cesar closed
:nowgorl:
I hate both of you.
(https://uploadir.com/u/nz4xms9c)
:omgwatshappening:
What hap?
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 11, 2018, 02:29:39 AM
(https://uploadir.com/u/nz4xms9c)
Don't tell me you messed up AGAIN? :guys:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 19, 2018, 12:04:18 AM
okay so...I've been seeing this guy for a while now (about six months), I really like him and it's been a while since I've felt this way about someone. We talk just about everyday, I think about him damn near constantly, we went on a trip together not too long ago and for the first time...I feel like all the feelings I have for someone else are being fully reciprocated. As lovely as it all sounds, this is somewhat scary to a cynical faggot like myself who quickly notices someone's flaws and has no problem ghosting a nigga the minute I feel like I see a red flag.
About a week ago, he asked me where do I see "this" (us) going and I told him I that didn't have an answer for him. He didn't seem upset then, but now he's hitting me with one word responses when I text him and doesn't want to hang out anymore when I ask.
I feel bad, but then again I don't because why the fuck is he so worked up over something that isn't totally concrete yet? :uhh:
I feel like he might be over it now
(https://www.upload.ee/image/8827803/ezgif-4-081efed7ff.gif)
Maybe that was a red flag for him.
Rejection is real as fuck. And some ppl would fall back to prevent that shit.
I think an open and honest discussion (just like the thoughts you expressed about him) would suffice.
Hoping it works out for you both. :wub:
Quote from: realbrandyfan on August 20, 2018, 10:12:03 AM
Yea, I?m not sure what to do. My lease ends in March and we set on moving together. Though, I can save more money with a roommate...I?m thinking it may not be a good idea because I?m afraid I can?t put my feelings aside. On top of that, he has a girlfriend. He says he doesn?t see himsef marrying her but then again he spends a lot of time with her and her kid. Then comes to spend time with me, I feel like he?s trying to balance us both. This will be his first time moving out on his own from his parents place. Do you all think he?s trying to convince me he waits to be with me in the long run or he?s just using me? He?s dead set on getting the apt then eventually getting a house. In a way I feel like he?s trying to convince me he?s serious about me but my reservation he?s confused about if he wants to be fully authentic with his life. Should I play it by ear?
living together will put all this in perspective
u will be like
:udontlookok: in 3 months
Quote from: 1RIG on November 10, 2018, 04:37:33 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on November 10, 2018, 04:26:12 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 09, 2018, 09:10:20 PM
ssss
He just randomly hit me up and said he was thinking about me and all the animosity kinda just went away
whew, I'm 'bout to fuck this nigga's brains out
(https://uploadir.com/u/zyik8xp6)
dffdkkkkdddd
Don't just drop all your mess and go running to him.
Make him WORK for it a little bit
(https://uploadir.com/u/zyik8xp6)
boy
That?s how this frustrated thread began in the first place
yes
Terrible terrible advice :uhh:
Grow up drais
That game shit is played owt
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 11, 2018, 02:29:39 AM
(https://uploadir.com/u/nz4xms9c)
Oh damn LORD..
What happened
(https://www.upload.ee/image/8827803/ezgif-4-081efed7ff.gif)
Drain was obliterated in this bitch
:damselindistress:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 09, 2018, 09:10:20 PM
ssss
He just randomly hit me up and said he was thinking about me and all the animosity kinda just went away
whew, I'm 'bout to fuck this nigga's brains out
(https://uploadir.com/u/zyik8xp6)
:kii:
Have fun but just protect your feelings hun I'd hate to see you in shambles :kii:
Quote from: LOONA. on November 10, 2018, 04:39:17 PM
Quote from: 1RIG on November 10, 2018, 04:37:33 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on November 10, 2018, 04:26:12 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 09, 2018, 09:10:20 PM
ssss
He just randomly hit me up and said he was thinking about me and all the animosity kinda just went away
whew, I'm 'bout to fuck this nigga's brains out
(https://uploadir.com/u/zyik8xp6)
dffdkkkkdddd
Don't just drop all your mess and go running to him.
Make him WORK for it a little bit
(https://uploadir.com/u/zyik8xp6)
boy
That?s how this frustrated thread began in the first place
Speaking of frustrated
Why did I get a text saying you grinding up in the club with some BITCH last night?
:nowgorl:
How u gettin texts wen u told me ur phone was off witcho fake ass ASS!
You have to play hard to get these days you get in more ...
Or so folks like to believe...
B
playing hard to get is for children
Sharing organic feelings and simply being >>>
Whether hurt comes or happiness..let it BE
the idea of just feeling and expressing is so dead.. and rare
Faggot what happened
Quote from: Bloody Tears on November 11, 2018, 10:26:42 AM
You have to play hard to get these days you get in more ...
b
I feel asleep right after I posted that gif ssss
So...I go to meet with this nigga and he has me there waiting for him for over an hour :uhh: strike one
He finally shows up late, apologizes, drones on about how much he really missed hanging out with me, talking to me etc; I basically say some of the same. And then he finally came out with it... ?I?m not looking for a relationship with anyone rn, but I still want you in my life...?
:rudone:
I reminded him about how I felt about him, how serious my feelings are and how I?m not interested in doing the friends with benefits/casual sex thing because I?ve been down that road before. He suggests that maybe we should just keep it platonic and I had no choice but to agree. What a fucking waste.
(https://www.upload.ee/image/8827803/ezgif-4-081efed7ff.gif)
Quote from: Glock on November 11, 2018, 09:32:41 AM
Quote from: 1RIG on November 10, 2018, 04:37:33 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on November 10, 2018, 04:26:12 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 09, 2018, 09:10:20 PM
ssss
He just randomly hit me up and said he was thinking about me and all the animosity kinda just went away
whew, I'm 'bout to fuck this nigga's brains out
(https://uploadir.com/u/zyik8xp6)
dffdkkkkdddd
Don't just drop all your mess and go running to him.
Make him WORK for it a little bit
(https://uploadir.com/u/zyik8xp6)
boy
That?s how this frustrated thread began in the first place
yes
Terrible terrible advice :uhh:
Grow up drais
That game shit is played owt
FAG it isn't a game
Yummy tried to make peace with this boy and open his heart but the boy didn't respond back
Now months later the boy wants to reconnect and that's fine but Yummy shouldn't drop all his mess and go running.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 11, 2018, 02:26:04 PM
I feel asleep right after I posted that gif ssss
So...I go to meet with this nigga and he has me there waiting for him for over an hour :uhh: strike one
He finally shows up late, apologizes, drones on about how much he really missed hanging out with me, talking to me etc; I basically say some of the same. And then he finally came out with it... ?I?m not looking for a relationship with anyone rn, but I still want you in my life...?
:rudone:
I reminded him about how I felt about him, how serious my feelings are and how I?m not interested in doing the friends with benefits/casual sex thing because I?ve been down that road before. He suggests that maybe we should just keep it platonic and I had no choice but to agree. What a fucking waste.
(https://www.upload.ee/image/8827803/ezgif-4-081efed7ff.gif)
See!
You should've paid it. I know it sucks but I would just go on with my life.
At least you acknowledged your mistake and tried to rectify the situation but he pretty much wasted your time all these months.
I wouldn't even want to be friends at this point.
Alright girls
We're pulling up in the G Wagon to fight this faggot
Glock, melmel, Ken
SUIT UP
Yummy just drop this dummy boy
Oh hell no :uhh: fuck him. It?s always worth it to try though
He?s the one that gave mixed signals. Why do all of that spilling of the guts if you claim u aren?t even looking for anything? n
He?s mess.
Quote from: 1RIG on November 11, 2018, 03:25:52 PM
Oh hell no :uhh: fuck him. It?s always worth it to try though
He?s the one that gave mixed signals. Why do all of that spilling of the guts if you claim u aren?t even looking for anything? n
He?s mess.
Told you :nowgorl:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 11, 2018, 02:26:04 PM
I feel asleep right after I posted that gif ssss
So...I go to meet with this nigga and he has me there waiting for him for over an hour :uhh: strike one
He finally shows up late, apologizes, drones on about how much he really missed hanging out with me, talking to me etc; I basically say some of the same. And then he finally came out with it... ?I?m not looking for a relationship with anyone rn, but I still want you in my life...?
:rudone:
I reminded him about how I felt about him, how serious my feelings are and how I?m not interested in doing the friends with benefits/casual sex thing because I?ve been down that road before. He suggests that maybe we should just keep it platonic and I had no choice but to agree. What a fucking waste.
(https://www.upload.ee/image/8827803/ezgif-4-081efed7ff.gif)
You did everything that was best for you, cant always predict the outcome. Glad you stuck to your guns too fag. Fuck him, what you want will come along.
I wanna fight this fag
I'm getting on a flight now
(https://uploadir.com/u/zyik8xp6)
Quote from: LOONA. on November 11, 2018, 03:27:51 PM
Quote from: 1RIG on November 11, 2018, 03:25:52 PM
Oh hell no :uhh: fuck him. It?s always worth it to try though
He?s the one that gave mixed signals. Why do all of that spilling of the guts if you claim u aren?t even looking for anything? n
He?s mess.
Told you
:nowgorl:
no, playing hard to get would?ve just elongated this fuck shit rather than laying it all out on the table and moving on
Quote from: 1RIG on November 11, 2018, 03:31:25 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on November 11, 2018, 03:27:51 PM
Quote from: 1RIG on November 11, 2018, 03:25:52 PM
Oh hell no :uhh: fuck him. It?s always worth it to try though
He?s the one that gave mixed signals. Why do all of that spilling of the guts if you claim u aren?t even looking for anything? n
He?s mess.
Told you
:nowgorl:
no, playing hard to get would?ve just elongated this fuck shit rather than laying it all out on the table and moving on
I'm not talking about playing hard to get. I'm talking putting out the energy you receive.
You don't randomly pop back up months later after ghosting someone thinking they should entertain you.
(https://media.tenor.com/images/8cac49a9e59e24cb5e4f4f8c417af396/tenor.gif)
Quote from: 13,000 on November 11, 2018, 03:31:48 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on November 11, 2018, 03:29:28 PM
I wanna fight this fag
I'm getting on a flight now
(https://uploadir.com/u/zyik8xp6)
Spirit Airlines open on Sundays?
(https://uploadir.com/u/zyik8xp6)
Spirit Lashing seems to open right about now. (https://uploadir.com/u/zyik8xp6)
You coming too drais?
Hurry up to my house, Ken melnel glock and I are already applying our Vaseline and pocket knives
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 11, 2018, 03:48:37 PM
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awe King
It's ok
It's usually a lot of work for on people and relationships
Especially gays
You'll get that want. You're a beautiful faggot inside and out :wub:
I already gave his credit card information to my cousin who sells it to scammers
Fuck this FAGGOT
This is all Drais?s Fault
fjjjjjjjjjjffff
No its you fags fault for pushing him to do it.
My sis could've avoided all this foolishness
Now we have to kill this fag
So it's agreed
We're stomping him OWT
What's his address yums
gffghjkmnb
I've never been the bitter ex fag and I'm not about to become one now
I'm ready to move on
#survivor#cantkeepagoodwomandown#stillstanding
Bcbjjkkkjjj well olright then sista Soulja
Quote from: tontonton on November 11, 2018, 03:17:51 PM
Alright girls
We're pulling up in the G Wagon to fight this faggot
Glock, melmel, Ken
SUIT UP
ooh yes I am here to fucking gut this fag Kings