Is wanting a Mixed Bby self-hatred?

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Herb.

Quote from: Million. on August 02, 2015, 01:41:15 PM
I think that it should just be about LOVE. I don't think many people try and map it out. It just happens.

My whole fam is kinda MIXED up.
!!!!!

But sadly we live in a society where people are used to customizing EVERYTHING. Now babies are included. :dead:

Plank

Quote from: Herb. on August 02, 2015, 01:42:04 PM
Quote from: Million. on August 02, 2015, 01:41:15 PM
I think that it should just be about LOVE. I don't think many people try and map it out. It just happens.

My whole fam is kinda MIXED up.
!!!!!

But sadly we live in a society where people are used to customizing EVERYTHING. Now babies are included. :dead:
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wait..ure onto sumn

a build-a-bvy isnt too far 'way tbhon'

Herb.

August 02, 2015, 01:46:34 PM #32 Last Edit: August 02, 2015, 01:49:35 PM by Herb.
You have to be proud of ALL of your heritage.

This is my great grandfather on daddy's side (now deceased). Who owns all that land in Georgia that I always brag about. :dead: :dead: I am so happy to have his blood in my veins. A STRONG, beautiful giving, African American man. :stressed: And my kids will be LUCKY to be carrying his DNA.

I wish I knew him. :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(



pCj

August 02, 2015, 01:49:08 PM #33 Last Edit: August 02, 2015, 01:49:28 PM by VILLAIN
Quote from: Herb. on August 02, 2015, 01:42:04 PM
Quote from: Million. on August 02, 2015, 01:41:15 PM
I think that it should just be about LOVE. I don't think many people try and map it out. It just happens.

My whole fam is kinda MIXED up.
!!!!!

But sadly we live in a society where people are used to customizing EVERYTHING. Now babies are included. :dead:

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"I'll take a #3 with extra green eyes, hold the naps plz!"

:letsmessfag:


SUPREME


Herb.

Quote from: VILLAIN on August 02, 2015, 01:49:08 PM
Quote from: Herb. on August 02, 2015, 01:42:04 PM
Quote from: Million. on August 02, 2015, 01:41:15 PM
I think that it should just be about LOVE. I don't think many people try and map it out. It just happens.

My whole fam is kinda MIXED up.
!!!!!

But sadly we live in a society where people are used to customizing EVERYTHING. Now babies are included. :dead:

dddddddddddddddddddf



"I'll take a #3 with extra green eyes, hold the naps plz!"

:letsmessfag:
phillip :omgwatshappening:

Plank

Quote from: VILLAIN on August 02, 2015, 01:49:08 PM
Quote from: Herb. on August 02, 2015, 01:42:04 PM
Quote from: Million. on August 02, 2015, 01:41:15 PM
I think that it should just be about LOVE. I don't think many people try and map it out. It just happens.

My whole fam is kinda MIXED up.
!!!!!

But sadly we live in a society where people are used to customizing EVERYTHING. Now babies are included. :dead:

dddddddddddddddddddf



"I'll take a #3 with extra green eyes, hold the naps plz!"

:letsmessfag:
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GLOCK

Quote from: SUPREME on August 02, 2015, 01:28:22 PM
Quote from: Herb. on August 02, 2015, 01:25:31 PM
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People think because their partner have x, y, z features that the child(ren) would inherited those features. Girl/Boy sit your ass down, because if these people were paying in their Biology class in high school, they would know certain genes are not guarantee.
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This.

Would be a shame if you spent time seeking  the perfect "specimen" and your kid comes out looking just like you. Skin, hair, everything. :dead: It can happen. And what does that do for the relationship between you and your child? Some people just need not have kids.
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things like this always remind me of my cousin. she is yellow as hell but really wanted a mixed baby

she got it in her early 20s.

a boy, he came out light skin, straight hair

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then he had a seizure

:udontlookok:

then he became mentally disabled

:udontlookok:

then the boyfriend brokeup with her and abandoned both her and the kid

:udontlookok:












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Bentley!

Quote from: Million. on August 02, 2015, 01:41:15 PM
I think that it should just be about LOVE. I don't think many people try and map it out. It just happens.

My whole fam is kinda MIXED up.

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Something about you seems inauthentic tho
Am not quite SURE you're equipped to comment on these type of issues

Not trying to attack you but.... just my opinionata

Bentley!

I just don't think girls that have coloration issues themselves have a real say in these types of debates.

There I said it. If you don't love yourself, you can't preach "Oh all about love!"


pCj




Herb.

Wish I had a pic to share of my great grandfather on my mom's side to share. :stressed:
but he looked a lot like his mother. :wub: and his daughter -- my grandmother.


I've become a lot more invested in finding out my family history for some reason
like really having conversations with my grandmother, my father, my aunts....
i think it's because i'm getting older. i've been pretty passionate about it.

Jon


charlie.

Quote from: Plank on August 02, 2015, 01:22:31 PM
Quote from: Boomer on August 02, 2015, 01:15:00 PM
QuoteThis is so sad, i've had enough of mixed kids in my family already this black-white mixing is getting boring to me, i want something new too like malaysian+black, cherokkee+black

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