Bows thread reminds me of my co-worker, who is white/lesbian and her adopted "Nigerian" child who she keeps shoving in mine and my black co-workers face.
1, she's not sure if he is even Nigerian, once questioned it's always
"oh have a feeling!"Like he's 11, do a DNA test and make finding out about his hertiage a hobby you and him could do together
, that SHOULD be one of your interests as a mother no?
No one forced this poor little black boy on you, you chose him.
She hasn't bothered to find about his heritage and wants to keep it "ambiguous" but keeps asking me if I would like to him as though he's a gift to me
She keeps highlighting that fact that's he's black in EVERY conversation we have, white people really think they are doing YOU a service when they do something for one black person.