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#21
General Discussion / Re: giving ppl space to be the...
Last post by shante smith - Today at 06:49:29 PMQuote from: NEW MOON on Today at 06:43:09 PMI don't mind a positive and bubbly person if they are authentic and it doesn't reek of being performative, or them expecting everyone else to match their energy.this.
It's also rare to come across people who are a bit more melancholic who haven't been pushed to conform or mask themselves to meet the expectations of "bubbly" people.
Princess Di' being a prime example. Just genuine, sincere and uplifting.
And I agree Balance is need
But also people should be allowed to show up as their authentic selves. And also, have the courage to show up in the world as that despite what society says is neurotypical.
#22
General Discussion / Re: giving ppl space to be the...
Last post by NEW MOON - Today at 06:43:09 PMI don't mind a positive and bubbly person if they are authentic and it doesn't reek of being performative, or them expecting everyone else to match their energy.
It's also rare to come across people who are a bit more melancholic who haven't been pushed to conform or mask themselves to meet the expectations of "bubbly" people.
Princess Di' being a prime example. Just genuine, sincere and uplifting.
And I agree Balance is need
But also people should be allowed to show up as their authentic selves. And also, have the courage to show up in the world as that despite what society says is neurotypical.
It's also rare to come across people who are a bit more melancholic who haven't been pushed to conform or mask themselves to meet the expectations of "bubbly" people.
Princess Di' being a prime example. Just genuine, sincere and uplifting.
And I agree Balance is need
But also people should be allowed to show up as their authentic selves. And also, have the courage to show up in the world as that despite what society says is neurotypical.
#23
General Discussion / Re: giving ppl space to be the...
Last post by opha lipa - Today at 06:39:00 PMQuote from: shante smith on Today at 06:27:09 PMQuote from: opha lipa on Today at 06:20:23 PMso basically we you see why people cant stand amanda seales.
understanding self.
#24
General Discussion / the fucking synchronicityyyyy
Last post by opha lipa - Today at 06:38:41 PM #25
General Discussion / Re: giving ppl space to be the...
Last post by shante smith - Today at 06:27:09 PMQuote from: opha lipa on Today at 06:20:23 PMso basically we you see why people cant stand amanda seales.
understanding self.
#26
General Discussion / Re: giving ppl space to be the...
Last post by opha lipa - Today at 06:20:23 PMso basically we you see why people cant stand amanda seales.
understanding self.
understanding self.
#27
General Discussion / giving ppl space to be themsel...
Last post by shante smith - Today at 06:19:09 PMso big round of applause for gorls like myself who:
- see the best in people
- see the glass half full
- find the "bright side" to everything.
- get up in the morning and start dancin! and singin!
we kinda rock n stuff.
im not taking anything away from us.
BUT
not everyone's like that.
some people:
- see a shitty situation as....a shitty situation. and don't go HUNTIN' for the "bright side" of it.
- get up in the morning with a straight face . and won't even slightly smirk til they have coffee down their throat.
- don't believe its worth tryna find goodness in apparently bad people.
and that's OK. i'd say this is actually a good thing!
many times, the latter group of people are demonized and shamed for not being "happy" enough.
but we need BALANCE in this world. and in our lives.
remember, opposites attract! neither way is "wrong".
if anything, let's borrow from one another. be the ying to one another's yang.
as long as we're not being OVERBEARING with our teas. cuz yes, there is such a thing as being too/annoyingly "woo hoo! bubbly!" and such a thing as being too "fuck this shit".
that's all mama fro got for ya'll today.
- see the best in people
- see the glass half full
- find the "bright side" to everything.
- get up in the morning and start dancin! and singin!
we kinda rock n stuff.
im not taking anything away from us.BUT
not everyone's like that.
some people:
- see a shitty situation as....a shitty situation. and don't go HUNTIN' for the "bright side" of it.
- get up in the morning with a straight face . and won't even slightly smirk til they have coffee down their throat.
- don't believe its worth tryna find goodness in apparently bad people.
and that's OK. i'd say this is actually a good thing!
many times, the latter group of people are demonized and shamed for not being "happy" enough.
but we need BALANCE in this world. and in our lives.
remember, opposites attract! neither way is "wrong".
if anything, let's borrow from one another. be the ying to one another's yang.
as long as we're not being OVERBEARING with our teas. cuz yes, there is such a thing as being too/annoyingly "woo hoo! bubbly!" and such a thing as being too "fuck this shit".
that's all mama fro got for ya'll today.
#28
General Discussion / Re: Is Brandy still performing...
Last post by KingDavid - Today at 05:13:55 PMQuote from: Luxury on Today at 03:02:07 PMQuote from: KingDavid on Today at 12:56:09 PMLord I pray for a lip free performance or the media and critics will drag swiftlyGhan's been lipping 90% of her performances since the Afrodisiac era. Nobody really cares except a few of us on here and her die hards on Twitter. And she's gonna lip so save your prayers for something more important.
I hate there is no true rebuttal for this ! I am tired of this same shit different venue mess with her
#29
General Discussion / Re: Is Brandy still performing...
Last post by KingDavid - Today at 05:12:34 PMQuote from: RAY7 on Today at 02:54:02 PMQuote from: KingDavid on Today at 12:56:09 PMLord I pray for a lip free performance or the media and critics will drag swiftlyshe's definitely gonna lip the uptempo songs and that's fine especially since this is a festival and not some big televised event
No one is going to care
The fact that this is true makes me scream
But whats gon make me scream louder is if she does the same set she was gonna do last year #30
General Discussion / Re: ‘Cosmopolitan’ Crowns Tyla...
Last post by opha lipa - Today at 04:51:35 PMQuote from: Young on Today at 04:31:50 PMQuote from: opha lipa on Today at 02:23:32 PMQuote from: Young on Today at 01:47:04 PMThe new QUEEN is here
it's official. she's doomed vvcvvvvvvvvv
ccccc
ccvvvvvv yea!
cuz what the fuck happened to LA'DY ??!
