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Title: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: shante smith on November 28, 2020, 10:21:05 AM
I know some gorls are laid back about it and others will give a :calmdownsis:  mess owt real quick

What say u?  :ATLcameo:
Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: CHOKE on November 28, 2020, 11:30:14 AM
Only by another faggot

I find it very condescending when women try to do it

Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: shante smith on November 28, 2020, 11:37:28 AM
Quote from: Choke on November 28, 2020, 11:30:14 AM
Only by another faggot

I find it very condescending when women try to do it
i've had instances when a woman will slip up during a convo and be like "girl...lemme tell u"

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but they are usually respectful enough to correct themselves and give a quick "my bad".

and i don't take it any type of way cuz it's obvious that the convos we're having are not ones they're used to having with men. so if anything it just shows me how fully engaged they are in our convo and ready to open up a bit with me.

kinda a compliment.

:omf:

but there was just one instance where a woman who was giving me "OMG YASS DIVA! "
that was too much for me.
i was thinking..... diva? i'm a whole ass man :udontlookok: im wearing pants not a sequins dress.

i think the word u used - "condescending" is very fitting

Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: Freemala Harris on November 28, 2020, 11:40:58 AM
Them: Hey gorl

Me: Did u just misgender me

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Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: shante smith on November 28, 2020, 11:52:04 AM
Quote from: Freemala Harris on November 28, 2020, 11:40:58 AM
Them: Hey gorl

Me: Did u just misgender me

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Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: 𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉 on November 28, 2020, 12:02:13 PM
Quote from: rockstar 101 on November 28, 2020, 11:37:28 AM
"OMG YASS DIVA! "
Ddd
Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: Ulysses on November 28, 2020, 12:03:53 PM
I guess I don't carry myself in any way for someone to say that to me because it's never happened to me. 
Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: Young on November 28, 2020, 12:06:00 PM
Sure 
Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: CHOKE on November 28, 2020, 12:07:56 PM
Quote from: rockstar 101 on November 28, 2020, 11:37:28 AM
Quote from: Choke on November 28, 2020, 11:30:14 AM
Only by another faggot

I find it very condescending when women try to do it
i've had instances when a woman will slip up during a convo and be like "girl...lemme tell u"

sndffnddsfnnfd

but they are usually respectful enough to correct themselves and give a quick "my bad".

and i don't take it any type of way cuz it's obvious that the convos we're having are not ones they're used to having with men. so if anything it just shows me how fully engaged they are in our convo and ready to open up a bit with me.

kinda a compliment.

:omf:

but there was just one instance where a woman who was giving me "OMG YASS DIVA! "
that was too much for me.
i was thinking..... diva? i'm a whole ass man :udontlookok: im wearing pants not a sequins dress.

i think the word u used - "condescending" is very fitting

Anamsmsksmsmmsmsmsmsmmms

Even that makes my skin crawl a bit

Oop I meant boy

:nogrammynoneck:

Now what if I called u a nigga?

:everythingok:
Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: shante smith on November 28, 2020, 12:08:42 PM

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Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: ophmani on November 28, 2020, 01:28:03 PM
no. im not a girl.

i can't stand the fags that EXPECT dudes to be ok wit it just because theyre gay. if i did it to a trans man it would be a problem. you want a pussy, not me. i'm a man and will be adressed as such. i'll call u a girl if thats ur thing tho.
Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: shante smith on November 28, 2020, 02:08:36 PM
Quote from: hitman_b on November 28, 2020, 01:28:03 PM
no. im not a girl.

i can't stand the fags that EXPECT dudes to be ok wit it just because theyre gay. if i did it to a trans man it would be a problem. you want a pussy, not me. i'm a man and will be adressed as such. i'll call u a girl if thats ur thing tho.
:guys:

Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: Young on November 28, 2020, 02:10:41 PM
Quote from: hitman_b on November 28, 2020, 01:28:03 PM
no. im not a girl.

i can't stand the fags that EXPECT dudes to be ok wit it just because theyre gay. if i did it to a trans man it would be a problem. you want a pussy, not me. i'm a man and will be adressed as such. i'll call u a girl if thats ur thing tho.

Sbdbdbddbddd

Oh girl! :nowgorl:
Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: shante smith on November 28, 2020, 02:16:36 PM
Quote from: Young on November 28, 2020, 02:10:41 PM
Quote from: hitman_b on November 28, 2020, 01:28:03 PM
no. im not a girl.

i can't stand the fags that EXPECT dudes to be ok wit it just because theyre gay. if i did it to a trans man it would be a problem. you want a pussy, not me. i'm a man and will be adressed as such. i'll call u a girl if thats ur thing tho.

Sbdbdbddbddd

Oh girl! :nowgorl:
cjnfngngngn

Gor....
Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: BussyNBoots on November 28, 2020, 02:27:01 PM
Not on my watch..
I'm all man here ...
I get asked if I'm gay you know
Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: ophmani on November 28, 2020, 02:38:14 PM
Quote from: Young on November 28, 2020, 02:10:41 PM
Quote from: hitman_b on November 28, 2020, 01:28:03 PM
no. im not a girl.

i can't stand the fags that EXPECT dudes to be ok wit it just because theyre gay. if i did it to a trans man it would be a problem. you want a pussy, not me. i'm a man and will be adressed as such. i'll call u a girl if thats ur thing tho.

Sbdbdbddbddd

Oh girl! :nowgorl:

cccxxxccccxxx i mean whats ur issue

not every gay is bursting at the seams with rainbows. does that bother u

:diddraispoot:
Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: shante smith on November 28, 2020, 02:42:03 PM
cmere 'phelia

my lil booskie ☺️☺️

lets dance a bit

https://youtube.com/watch?v=nZXRV4MezEw
Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: ophmani on November 28, 2020, 02:47:36 PM
i like this song from cher
Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: shante smith on November 28, 2020, 02:48:16 PM
Quote from: hitman_b on November 28, 2020, 02:47:36 PM
i like this song from cher
fag.
Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: ophmani on November 28, 2020, 02:51:36 PM
Quote from: rockstar 101 on November 28, 2020, 02:48:16 PM
Quote from: hitman_b on November 28, 2020, 02:47:36 PM
i like this song from cher
fag.
vvccvvvccccccccxxccc

a man one tho

:watchit:
Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: shante smith on November 28, 2020, 02:54:49 PM
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Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: Scott. on November 28, 2020, 05:37:42 PM
I personally don't care to be called "girl" but I'm not offended by it 
Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: Kalifornia. on November 28, 2020, 05:56:59 PM
It doesn't bother me when it's with other gays 
Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: Kalifornia. on November 28, 2020, 05:58:04 PM
Quote from: Scott. on November 28, 2020, 05:37:42 PM
I personally don't care to be called "girl" but I'm not offended by it

What if I call you a ho?

Ho

:trannyjblige:
Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: Scott. on November 28, 2020, 06:49:44 PM
Quote from: Kalifornia. on November 28, 2020, 05:58:04 PM
Quote from: Scott. on November 28, 2020, 05:37:42 PM
I personally don't care to be called "girl" but I'm not offended by it

What if I call you a ho?

Ho

:trannyjblige:

You'll get your ass beat bitch.
Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: Brandy's Unconditional Ocean on November 28, 2020, 10:37:59 PM
Quote from: 𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉 on November 28, 2020, 12:02:13 PM
Quote from: rockstar 101 on November 28, 2020, 11:37:28 AM
"OMG YASS DIVA! "
Ddd
:plzstop:
Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: Brandy's Unconditional Ocean on November 28, 2020, 10:38:17 PM
Yeah it all depends. If i don't know you like that I'm definitely gonna side eye
Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: STUNNA GOD on November 28, 2020, 11:58:14 PM
Quote from: Brandy's Unconditional Ocean on November 28, 2020, 10:38:17 PM
Yeah it all depends. If i don't know you like that I'm definitely gonna side eye
ggggggggg

!!!! In general, I don't care, but I can tell when it's genuine or mockery. For me.... it's not even the people I don't know like that that I'd definitely side eye. They're usually innocent and mean well... it's the people that I DO know but have NEVER established that style of communication or humor with.
Title: Re: R u ok with someone calling u “girl” in real life?
Post by: 123 on November 29, 2020, 12:32:25 AM
cringe