Like being extra mindful of your "please" and "thank you", "excuse me", etc.
Yea
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Yes and it irks me when people dont say please when they want me or others to do something.
Yes, especially to service workers. I make sure to be extra nice to them.
Quote from: L0NZ. on August 22, 2021, 04:10:32 PM
Yes, especially to service workers. I make sure to be extra nice to them.
I broke off a second date with one guy because he was rude to a waiter :dead:
Am actually a bit of Southern Belle so manners kind of come second nature to me
yes of course
wenever tha door behind me is evr 'bout to hit sumbody in tha face i always say escuse me...nd keep waikin
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Quote from: You'nt know nann ho! on August 22, 2021, 04:28:12 PM
yes of course
wenever tha door behind me is evr 'bout to hit sumbody in tha face i always say escuse me...nd keep waikin
youre rude hun
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No
Quote from: YTManzWhore on August 22, 2021, 04:19:06 PM
Am actually a bit of Southern Belle so manners kind of come second nature to me
I'm naturally polite... to a point. I'll say please and thank you, hold the door open for you and mess. But don't expect me to treat Popeyes like the Spring Cotillion :trannyjblige:
I hate rude people tho
I don't like saying please and thank you. It does not come naturally to me but I will say it if I really need or want something.
Quote from: Spanish on August 22, 2021, 06:49:51 PM
I don't like saying please and thank you. It does not come naturally to me but I will say it if I really need or want something.
its nothing that comes natural, we have to learn it
Yes
I'm very conscientious
Quote from: L0NZ. on August 22, 2021, 04:10:32 PM
Yes, especially to service workers. I make sure to be extra nice to them.
I am but saying please is Hit or Miss with me. However, I always say thank you and excuse me without even thinking about it
Quote from: YTManzWhore on August 22, 2021, 04:19:06 PM
Am actually a bit of Southern Belle so manners kind of come second nature to me
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not too much, bitch
When I'm in a good head space tho. I'm not gonna lie. If I'm down, or not feeling like myself, I'll be very short and dry with them. Especially if they're either being unprofessional or rude their damn selves
Today I had to kinda pull myself back and really check myself before I got out of line with my building concierge
One of my neighbors had their water heater replaced so the water had to be shut off for a while for the entire floor
Which is OK I understand it's kind of urgent to get them their hot water back ASAP and U can't predict those things . Cool. And it started after I had my shower and all so I wasn't tripping too hard .
Plus this like never happens.
But the concierge told me the water would be back on at 2:30 as per the plumber . Then 2:30 turned into 4, as per the plumber .
I really wanted to ask the concierge "Is the plumber actually estimating the time of completion or just throwing random times out to entertain himself? :uhh: "
But I was like whoa . :calmdownsis: calm down . Ur kinda taking it out on the concierge when u really wanna fight the plumber . Bdbdbdbdb don't get smart with HIM. It's not HIS fault the plumber can't count . Don't give HIM that nasty energy ur feeling.
I had too woo-sah and collect myself . I'm good now . I gave an "ok thanks for the update" mess and sat my ass down somewhere.
Fnfnfnfnfnnfnfnfnfnf but I def can feel a BITCH moment coming on if I feel bothered .
Big part of being a grown up is just thinking before u open ur mouth or hit that "send" button
Quote from: latasha harlins on August 23, 2021, 05:00:44 PM
Today I had to kinda pull myself back and really check myself before I got out of line with my building concierge
One of my neighbors had their water heater replaced so the water had to be shut off for a while for the entire floor
Which is OK I understand it's kind of urgent to get them their hot water back ASAP and U can't predict those things . Cool. And it started after I had my shower and all so I wasn't tripping too hard .
Plus this like never happens.
But the concierge told me the water would be back on at 2:30 as per the plumber . Then 2:30 turned into 4, as per the plumber .
I really wanted to ask the concierge "Is the plumber actually estimating the time of completion or just throwing random times out to entertain himself? :uhh: "
But I was like whoa . :calmdownsis: calm down . Ur kinda taking it out on the concierge when u really wanna fight the plumber . Bdbdbdbdb don't get smart with HIM. It's not HIS fault the plumber can't count . Don't give HIM that nasty energy ur feeling.
I had too woo-sah and collect myself . I'm good now . I gave an "ok thanks for the update" mess and sat my ass down somewhere.
Fnfnfnfnfnnfnfnfnfnf but I def can feel a BITCH moment coming on if I feel bothered .
:plzstop: :plzstop:
It's kinda like waiters being lashed for the chefs mistake, but - the chefs never come out to play, so, it's kinda like ... let's play ball lmao!
But In all seriousness, I've definitely had to catch myself a couple times
Yeah. I don't do poor manners. I'm from a Caribbean household. You could lose teeth for not saying please and thank you. I treat EVERYONE with the same level of respect and decency.
Quote from: Somebody's RIG on August 23, 2021, 05:58:52 PM
Quote from: latasha harlins on August 23, 2021, 05:00:44 PM
Today I had to kinda pull myself back and really check myself before I got out of line with my building concierge
One of my neighbors had their water heater replaced so the water had to be shut off for a while for the entire floor
Which is OK I understand it's kind of urgent to get them their hot water back ASAP and U can't predict those things . Cool. And it started after I had my shower and all so I wasn't tripping too hard .
Plus this like never happens.
But the concierge told me the water would be back on at 2:30 as per the plumber . Then 2:30 turned into 4, as per the plumber .
I really wanted to ask the concierge "Is the plumber actually estimating the time of completion or just throwing random times out to entertain himself? :uhh: "
But I was like whoa . :calmdownsis: calm down . Ur kinda taking it out on the concierge when u really wanna fight the plumber . Bdbdbdbdb don't get smart with HIM. It's not HIS fault the plumber can't count . Don't give HIM that nasty energy ur feeling.
I had too woo-sah and collect myself . I'm good now . I gave an "ok thanks for the update" mess and sat my ass down somewhere.
Fnfnfnfnfnnfnfnfnfnf but I def can feel a BITCH moment coming on if I feel bothered .
:plzstop: :plzstop:
It's kinda like waiters being lashed for the chefs mistake, but - the chefs never come out to play, so, it's kinda like ... let's play ball lmao!
But In all seriousness, I've definitely had to catch myself a couple times
right , basically shooting the messenger
And I mean if I really wanted the pop off the plumber was right down the hall
I had to tame my inner southside today cuz I really wanted to cuss his ass out
Like this is WATER ur talking about .
Nfnfnfnfnfn and I actually drink tap water DOWNE .
If ur gonna throw out a time make sure it's the worst case scenario/estimate the FIRST time
Otherwise u can't help but to feel someone is stringing mess along ..: or just flat out working too slow and tryna buy themselves extra time .
Quote from: ShujiRella🔥🥵 on August 23, 2021, 06:02:01 PM
Yeah. I don't do poor manners. I'm from a Caribbean household. You could lose teeth for not saying please and thank you. I treat EVERYONE with the same level of respect and decency.
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