Brandy Source

Lounge => General Discussion => Topic started by: ATLien on November 15, 2021, 03:10:25 PM

Title: I always thought ppl listing “self motivated”
Post by: ATLien on November 15, 2021, 03:10:25 PM
....as an actual skill was something useless to fluff up a resume

Like how is that a skill? Who wouldn't be "self motivated"? Am mean who the hell else is gonna motivate you? :uhh: I honestly didn't get it .

Until I encountered people who actually kinda need their hand held and lots of encouragement to be productive and stay motivated

It's still hard for me to wrap my head around cuz I feel if ur being compensated to do something and the expectations are clear and reasonable , why do you need a cheerleader to do what's expected?

I definitely understand now why it's often seen  as some sort of skill but I still don't completely get it . But I def have empathy for those who don't have that "skill" if it's something they truly cannot help.




Title: Re: I always thought ppl listing “self motivated”
Post by: Purple Moon on November 15, 2021, 07:35:19 PM
I feel judged