When you meet someone for the first time how much weight do you put into the very first impression you get ?
i've learned not to
I don't think I do either
But how much someone prepares for the first impression does tell me something
Like do they have an idea of what's appropriate for certain situations/settings ...
if they're organized in any way
How considerate they are with someone else's time (showing up on time etc)...
I'm not huge on being "classy" cuz I think a lot of that mess is super pretentious but there are basics I look for
In other words, If they manage to completely fuck up the first impression it def says a lot .