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Title: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: stillpretty on December 12, 2022, 07:46:11 PM
not these nurses losing their jobs (and possibly their entire careers) just for some quick hehes, hahas, clicks and views on TikTok  :shannonsmissing:

did they really think talking about the women they serve and how annoying they were during the most important and sensitive time of their lives would end well?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XyVsCrj1hlY
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: Lucid Salvatore on December 12, 2022, 08:56:03 PM
Nnnn I saw this on LipstickAlley a few days ago  :kii:

Maybe it's just me but they didn't even say anything that was really bad? It was just the usual complaints you hear from any other nurse nnnn

I really don't understand why they fired them because nurses are currently in high demand. Hospitals have been overworked and understaffed these past 3 years due to Covid, so I'm sure these girls will find a new job relatively quickly.
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on December 12, 2022, 09:00:03 PM
I didn't think they said anything terrible either. They weren't violating anyone's privacy nor were they being specific. Unprofessional, yes, but didn't warrant termination.
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: stillpretty on December 12, 2022, 09:00:07 PM
Quote from: Lucid Salvatore on December 12, 2022, 08:56:03 PMNnnn I saw this on LipstickAlley a few days ago  :kii:

Maybe it's just me but they didn't even say anything that was really bad? It was just the usual complaints you hear from any other nurse nnnn

I really don't understand why they fired them because nurses are currently in high demand. Hospitals have been overworked and understaffed these past 3 years due to Covid, so I'm sure these girls will find a new job relatively quickly.
i dont think what they said was bad...it just shoulda stayed in the break room

Emory had no choice but to take action because now they not only have women who complained about their experience at their hospital, but nurses actually going on camera saying "yeah these bitches get on my nerves lol"

it's all about professionalism and appearances ultimately
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: stillpretty on December 12, 2022, 09:02:50 PM
Quote from: Big Barbie on December 12, 2022, 09:00:03 PMI didn't think they said anything terrible either. They weren't violating anyone's privacy nor were they being specific. Unprofessional, yes, but didn't warrant termination.
its not about saying something terrible though

unprofessionalism in itself is enough to warrant some sort of discipline

unprofessionalism is usually what costs people their jobs. sfsfsfssfsf

companies are very particular about people representing them/their brand on the internet.
they are VERY sensitive to it and are swift with action

if anything, historically thats the quickest thing that could get u fired

saying something edgy while ur wearing ur company uniform

this specific hospital has a history of complaints against them for mistreatment
and now they have nurses getting on camera basically saying "yeah these bitches annoy me"

not a good look. it's all about OPTICS.
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: Buy The Stars✨ on December 12, 2022, 09:27:59 PM
i dont see the issue they didnt name names. alot of different ppl do this
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: oph. on December 12, 2022, 09:50:45 PM
it's wasn't about what they said

it was about the fact that they're TRASH at their job and the gors came forward a bit vvvvvvvvvv

if they were good nurses, this wouldn't have been a story at all
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: stillpretty on December 12, 2022, 09:57:16 PM
two things can be true at the same time.

its their words AND these patients coming forward

these women would still have their jobs if they weren't on camera talking junk for tik tok.
it's safe to assume that

everyone in here saying "what they said wasn't that bad" is totally different from the actual women who gave birth

Black women being unheard and mistreated in hospitals has already been a topic of discussion for the LONGEST time.

that is literally the first thing I thought of when I saw this video - including the women coming forward with their stories.

and im not alone with these thoughts.

this just isn't the game these nurses should have been playing. period.
in ATLANTA of all places.

they deserved to be canned for their unprofessionalism and INSENSITIVITY.

https://twitter.com/MajaPorter/status/1601907041710538754

https://twitter.com/angie2lit/status/1602097306517798912
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: Buy The Stars✨ on December 12, 2022, 09:58:16 PM
yeah give these queens their job back
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: Buy The Stars✨ on December 12, 2022, 09:58:55 PM
unless there is some clause that says they cant do what they did in their nurse contract they should sue
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: stillpretty on December 12, 2022, 10:01:04 PM
Quote from: Buy The Stars✨ on December 12, 2022, 09:58:16 PMyeah give these queens their job back
i can appreciate u wanting to have a  "support the black women" moment

but if u really wanna bring that all the way home...

 dont forget the black women in the video who were HURT by these videos because of their mistreatment.

look at the video and the faces of the women who are sharing their stories.

don't dismiss or ignore their trauma and experience. which is way deeper than keeping a job.
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: Buy The Stars✨ on December 12, 2022, 10:03:30 PM
Quote from: tickle me afro on December 12, 2022, 10:01:04 PM
Quote from: Buy The Stars✨ on December 12, 2022, 09:58:16 PMyeah give these queens their job back
i can appreciate u wanting to have a  "support the black women" moment

but if u really wanna bring that all the way home...

 dont forget the black women in the video who were HURT by these videos because of their mistreatment.

look at the video and the faces of the women who are sharing their stories.

don't dismiss their trauma. which is way deeper than keeping a job.

did the nurses name names?
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: stillpretty on December 12, 2022, 10:08:03 PM
it actually sucks that black nurses are participating in this mess cuz this has been such a long time conversation and a VERY serious fight for black women when it comes to not being treated fairly or taken seriously in hospitals.

literally can mean life or death if someone in a hospital doesn't HEAR you when u complain or roll their eyes and say "girl calm down u know its not that bad...u bitches always be so dramatic lol u a skrong black woman u got dis! " when u say ur aching badly

its not something to take lightly. especially not on camera
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: stillpretty on December 12, 2022, 10:08:32 PM
Quote from: Buy The Stars✨ on December 12, 2022, 10:03:30 PM
Quote from: tickle me afro on December 12, 2022, 10:01:04 PM
Quote from: Buy The Stars✨ on December 12, 2022, 09:58:16 PMyeah give these queens their job back
i can appreciate u wanting to have a  "support the black women" moment

but if u really wanna bring that all the way home...

 dont forget the black women in the video who were HURT by these videos because of their mistreatment.

look at the video and the faces of the women who are sharing their stories.

don't dismiss their trauma. which is way deeper than keeping a job.

did the nurses name names?
i don't think u get it NIck. and that's OK

sfsfsfsfsfsf
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: Buy The Stars✨ on December 12, 2022, 10:10:40 PM
i get it hun.  im playing devils advocate. a good lawyer is going to argue that and figure every way to win for their client.  These are the questions they are gonna ask when a lawsuit comes and the answer is no lol
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: stillpretty on December 12, 2022, 10:13:25 PM
Quote from: Buy The Stars✨ on December 12, 2022, 10:10:40 PMi get it hun.  im playing devils advocate. a good lawyer is going to argue that and figure every way to win for their client.  These are the questions they are gonna ask when a lawsuit comes and the answer is no lol
adaaaad

i see.

but  a REALLY good lawyer would come at another angle other than "did they name names tho?!" considering this isn't an alleged violation of HIPPA privacy laws that cost them their job.

this entire thing has very little to do with privacy violation
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: Buy The Stars✨ on December 12, 2022, 10:23:32 PM
Quote from: tickle me afro on December 12, 2022, 10:13:25 PM
Quote from: Buy The Stars✨ on December 12, 2022, 10:10:40 PMi get it hun.  im playing devils advocate. a good lawyer is going to argue that and figure every way to win for their client.  These are the questions they are gonna ask when a lawsuit comes and the answer is no lol
adaaaad

i see.

but  a REALLY good lawyer would come at another angle other than "did they name names tho?!" considering this isn't an alleged violation of HIPPA privacy laws that cost them their job.

this entire thing has very little to do with privacy violation


i didnt watch the full video but do you know if they sued or admitted to it?
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: stillpretty on December 12, 2022, 10:31:15 PM
Quote from: Buy The Stars✨ on December 12, 2022, 10:23:32 PM
Quote from: tickle me afro on December 12, 2022, 10:13:25 PM
Quote from: Buy The Stars✨ on December 12, 2022, 10:10:40 PMi get it hun.  im playing devils advocate. a good lawyer is going to argue that and figure every way to win for their client.  These are the questions they are gonna ask when a lawsuit comes and the answer is no lol
adaaaad

i see.

but  a REALLY good lawyer would come at another angle other than "did they name names tho?!" considering this isn't an alleged violation of HIPPA privacy laws that cost them their job.

this entire thing has very little to do with privacy violation


i didnt watch the full video but do you know if they sued or admitted to it?
admitted to what?

sfnsfnsffs boy do u even know whats going on

 :plzstop:  :plzstop:  :plzstop:
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: Gilgamesh. on December 13, 2022, 12:50:18 AM
I don't think they should have been fired but once complaints started rolling suspension without pay for a week or two was warranted.

Nursing, like teaching, is a job that's held to higher standard of morality, no one wants to see the nurse that's handling their baby kiki'ing on Tick Tock and about what a difficult patient they were - cause the it's like, bitch are you gonna take it out on my child  :uhh:

I don't even think the things said we're that bad, but it was all in bad taste. My Mum was a nurse and she would never.
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: BetterAngels on December 13, 2022, 12:54:18 AM
There are certain jobs that require you to have the trust of the public (teachers, officers, nurses, judges, etc), so you are held to a higher standard with your actions.  Them making statements like this, would make the public question the type of care/disregard they would receive if they were in their care.

On top of the fact that they literally filmed this at work in their uniform--dumb. Most jobs have a social media policy or behavioral policy about harming the reputation or goodwill of your company.  We would have to see the wording of the policy.

I work in HR, and more than likely, we would have fired them for this video as well. The least they would have gotten was put on a Final. I've terminated so many people for shit they've posted on social media. I had to terminate a guy for taking dick pics in his uniform in the company bathroom that he sent to one of the guest  :heyddy:

Trust me when I tell you, it's mostly your coworkers that are snitching on you and telling HR about it lol...  The number of screenshots that popup in my email  :plzstop:

I have a no coworker policy when it comes to my social media accounts for this very reason.
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: stillpretty on December 13, 2022, 01:36:20 AM
Quote from: BetterAngels on December 13, 2022, 12:54:18 AMThere are certain jobs that require you to have the trust of the public (teachers, officers, nurses, judges, etc), so you are held to a higher standard with your actions.  Them making statements like this, would make the public question the type of care/disregard they would receive if they were in their care.

On top of the fact that they literally filmed this at work in their uniform--dumb. Most jobs have a social media policy or behavioral policy about harming the reputation or goodwill of your company.  We would have to see the wording of the policy.

I work in HR, and more than likely, we would have fired them for this video as well. The least they would have gotten was put on a Final. I've terminated so many people for shit they've posted on social media.


and there u have it

This is exactly what I was saying

A lot of companies now WARN employees about fuckin with their company's reputation on social media with foolery and the (usually swift and severe ) consequences that will follow .

You have to be careful and they shoulda def kept this in the break room. It's a very bad look for Emory

Part of me almost feels like this was self sabotage . Like they WANTED to get fired bdbdbdbdb that's how reckless it is .
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: BetterAngels on December 13, 2022, 04:06:57 AM
Quote from: tickle me afro on December 13, 2022, 01:36:20 AM
Quote from: BetterAngels on December 13, 2022, 12:54:18 AMThere are certain jobs that require you to have the trust of the public (teachers, officers, nurses, judges, etc), so you are held to a higher standard with your actions.  Them making statements like this, would make the public question the type of care/disregard they would receive if they were in their care.

On top of the fact that they literally filmed this at work in their uniform--dumb. Most jobs have a social media policy or behavioral policy about harming the reputation or goodwill of your company.  We would have to see the wording of the policy.

I work in HR, and more than likely, we would have fired them for this video as well. The least they would have gotten was put on a Final. I've terminated so many people for shit they've posted on social media.


and there u have it

This is exactly what I was saying

A lot of companies now WARN employees about fuckin with their company's reputation on social media with foolery and the (usually swift and severe ) consequences that will follow .

You have to be careful and they shoulda def kept this in the break room. It's a very bad look for Emory

Part of me almost feels like this was self sabotage . Like they WANTED to get fired bdbdbdbdb that's how reckless it is .

Wrong thread
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: oph. on December 13, 2022, 07:22:33 AM
yea we see tik toks like this all the time. clearly the only issue was the nurses being actual trash at their jobs
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: stillpretty on December 13, 2022, 07:47:15 AM
Quote from: ivorian oph on December 13, 2022, 07:22:33 AMyea we see tik toks like this all the time. clearly the only issue was the nurses being actual trash at their jobs
putting it on tik Tok is what got them fired , so their usage of social media became an issue for their employer , which in turn became an issue for the nurses.

You're kinda assuming  that they're " trash at their jobs" but these videos weren't footage of them failing to perform

It was videos of them expressing their FEELINGS.

An employee can be highly competent at their job, perform every task assigned and fulfill every request made ..: but still find a quiet corner to curse people out cuz they low key hate who they work for and/or who they serve as part of their duties .

So the issue isn't the nurses not being good at their jobs as we don't even know about their performance . The issue is them taking to social media to air out very inappropriate thoughts that should have remained private .

I don't know about you but I don't care how amazing my doctor is , I don't wanna see him on Tik tik saying "ugh these got damn patients get on my nerves . Can't stand them".

No matter how good he was at taking care of me , and how much he smiled in my face during my check ups ... I'd be wondering if I were one of those patients he cannot stand . Am I the patient he's talking about who asks too many questions?

And that's just not a thought someone should have when it's involving something as serious and deeply personal as MEDICAL CARE.

I hope that makes sense .
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: stillpretty on December 13, 2022, 08:07:22 AM
but if that breakdown I gave you still doesn't make sense

here's an actual statement from the company (Emory) which specifies the issue was "unprofessional comments made on TikTok". @ivorian oph   

no mention of the nurse's actual performance is made.

https://twitter.com/NWTSNaomi/status/1601656333589442560
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: oph. on December 13, 2022, 10:36:31 AM
yea these tiktoks wouldn't have made any type of splash if it weren't for the women coming forward to point out the horror stories they had with these specific nurses who were trash at their jobs.
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: stillpretty on December 13, 2022, 10:53:40 AM
Quote from: ivorian oph on December 13, 2022, 10:36:31 AMyea these tiktoks wouldn't have made any type of splash if it weren't for the women coming forward to point out the horror stories they had with these specific nurses who were trash at their jobs.
those specific nurses weren't named by any patients who are speaking up at all luv.

Those patients spoke out on their experiences with the hospital itself. In general

You don't seem to be very informed about the story and I think that's what tripping you up .

As Emory stated, Emory fired them for inappropriate unprofessional behavior on social media .

And I must stress  : "as Emory stated. "

We have the reason already - from the employer . We don't have to speculate or make things up.
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: oph. on December 13, 2022, 10:55:13 AM
yea the two ladies in the video pointed out nurses specifically in the tiktok
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: stillpretty on December 13, 2022, 11:15:16 AM
Quote from: ivorian oph on December 13, 2022, 10:55:13 AMyea the two ladies in the video pointed out nurses specifically in the tiktok
we have the official reason from Emory as to why ALL nurses involved were terminated .

... which they say is due to unprofessional behavior on Tik Tok.

If u feel Emory is confused as to why they fired all nurses involved at this point imma say email them to debate it.

I'm not about to argue what's clearly written in black and white from the employer themselves .

Ndndndndn so I'm done .
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: oph. on December 13, 2022, 11:35:13 AM
yeah the hospital used the tiktoks as justification for the firing as to not acknowledge the deeper accusations that would directly effect their reputation. but none of this would have ever needed to be addressed had the women not come forward to speak out ob the shit care they received from these nurses who were trash at their jobs. yea def makes sense
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: Amazing on December 13, 2022, 07:01:40 PM
Giving birth is the most dangerous time for a woman and baby. This ain't no joke. It was really sad seeing that one woman who lost her baby speak and she did name the women in the video.
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: Marilyn on December 14, 2022, 03:26:18 PM
This was silly of them and it's obvious there were even lies for ki's. I've heard of ghetto twins but never a same DAY, same HOSPITAL, Usain Bolt mess between rooms for the father. Child please. The gorls were entirely too comfortable playing around.
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: Marilyn on February 21, 2025, 09:58:28 PM
I just got hired by Emory and I'm estatic. It made me think of this thread. These hoes was STUPID. You know how many applications I put in over the years? I can't believe I finally made it. Y'all really ruined this oppurtunity for TikTok? Dumb sluts

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Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: Lucid Salvatore on February 22, 2025, 12:30:18 AM
Quote from: Marilyn on February 21, 2025, 09:58:28 PMI just got hired by Emory and I'm estatic. It made me think of this thread. These hoes was STUPID. You know how many applications I put in over the years? I can't believe I finally made it. Y'all really ruined this oppurtunity for TikTok? Dumb sluts

(https://i.ibb.co/LXbsmnfd/Edit.jpg)

Congrats!!!! So happy for you  :wub:
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: stillpretty on February 22, 2025, 05:41:41 AM
Quote from: Marilyn on February 21, 2025, 09:58:28 PMI just got hired by Emory and I'm estatic. It made me think of this thread. These hoes was STUPID. You know how many applications I put in over the years? I can't believe I finally made it. Y'all really ruined this oppurtunity for TikTok? Dumb sluts

(https://i.ibb.co/LXbsmnfd/Edit.jpg)
congrats goddess!
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: Marilyn on February 22, 2025, 09:32:46 AM
Thanks y'all!
Title: Re: some things need to be kept in the break room
Post by: stillpretty on February 22, 2025, 09:41:54 AM
Quote from: Marilyn on February 22, 2025, 09:32:46 AMThanks y'all!
immma stop by like "can someone page GODilyn the keyshia stan? I'm a patient of hers "

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