Malik J:
the gorls are dragging him but i think that since he uploaded this footage to his tiktok, they're assuming HE recorded all this footage
at first i was def like :uhh: :uhh: what's the point of recording the entire date with this guy who you could clearly see wasn't your type from the beginning and posting it to let the gorls know he's not ur type WITH his face included in the video?
but after looking closer i see it's actually his date holding the camera and filming everything. sfffsffsfs
his date sent Malik the footage and he added his shady narration over it before posting to his TikTok.
but did he not see the guy's pics before going on the date? are some of the gorls this hungry, bored and broke that they are going on dates just for dinner?
https://twitter.com/_GordonGartrell/status/1615529470236016640
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UJt6kUvHnB4
Malik is kinda messy so I think the Twitter girls are going extra hard on him for that and people assume sex workers are down for whatever or whoever so it's like "you're a hoe so you should be happy he wanted to date you!"
He's not obligated to take things further and as long as he was respectful about it I don't really see the issue. Maybe I'm a bitch :dead:
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on January 21, 2023, 01:33:42 AMMalik is kinda messy so I think the Twitter girls are going extra hard on him for that and people assume sex workers are down for whatever or whoever so it's like "you're a hoe so you should be happy he wanted to date you!"
He's not obligated to take things further and as long as he was respectful about it I don't really see the issue. Maybe I'm a bitch :dead:
I don't see the problem in basically what is the process of dating
But "respectful" to me isn't showing someone to your followers and pointing out they aren't your type and saying "he had to go lol "
But then again to be fair this is someone who is on the internet getting raw nuts pumped into his behind from countless amounts of strangers . I'm honestly not sure if its really fair to expect some level of decorum from him to begin with
And I hate to say this as it could be some form of victim blaming ... but His date has some fault as well IMO for recording the entire date . It's pretty much the reason we have this footage to begin with. Gorl it's the first date and you don't know if there'll be a second . Keep the camera in pocket
The date seemed way too excited.
Ok..and so..
It was a violation on multiple levels whether he's known as a messy queen or not
First of all, it seems like he mentioned him not being his type like twice in the narration so honestly he probably knew from the jump. He should have declined the date instead of looking for free food and entertainment -- but ok he ain't the only bird ass girl out there and that's not unheard of at all
But to post this narration is just ugly. And if Afro is right, either he ASKED this guy to record him all night just so he could have footage to post or the guy recorded him on his own because he thought he was cute and was proud to take him out. The narcissism is astounding.
Going on a date with someone and posting about how the person wasn't their type whilst being wined and dined is weird as fuck
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The post was tacky and unnecessary. I don't see how anyone could see this as normal behavior.
And didn't that gorl stab someone?
He's clearly kinda off..
Quote from: Justice Jackson on January 21, 2023, 02:32:28 AMOk..and so..
It was a violation on multiple levels whether he's known as a messy queen or not
First of all, it seems like he mentioned him not being his type like twice in the narration so honestly he probably knew from the jump. He should have declined the date instead of looking for free food and entertainment -- but ok he ain't the only bird ass girl out there and that's not unheard of at all
But to post this narration is just ugly. And if Afro is right, either he ASKED this guy to record him all night just so he could have footage to post or the guy recorded him on his own because he thought he was cute and was proud to take him out. The narcissism is astounding.
I didn't consider Malik may have asked him to record all the mess
Fnfnfbnfnfnfnfnfn
so you knew from jump you had no interest in this man and you still allowed him to take you on a THREE-part date ? then posted it for.... ? and even if you just wanted to post the date for content, you coulda left the man's identity out as well as the "whew, not my type lolz!"
yea, he's a piece of shit
Quote from: Brazil in Atlanta on January 21, 2023, 02:30:32 AMQuote from: Gilgamesh. on January 21, 2023, 01:33:42 AMMalik is kinda messy so I think the Twitter girls are going extra hard on him for that and people assume sex workers are down for whatever or whoever so it's like "you're a hoe so you should be happy he wanted to date you!"
He's not obligated to take things further and as long as he was respectful about it I don't really see the issue. Maybe I'm a bitch :dead:
I don't see the problem in basically what is the process of dating
But "respectful" to me isn't showing someone to your followers and pointing out they aren't your type and saying "he had to go lol "
But then again to be fair this is someone who is on the internet getting raw nuts pumped into his behind from countless amounts of strangers . I'm honestly not sure if its really fair to expect some level of decorum from him to begin with
And I hate to say this as it could be some form of victim blaming ... but His date has some fault as well IMO for recording the entire date . It's pretty much the reason we have this footage to begin with. Gorl it's the first date and you don't know if there'll be a second . Keep the camera in pocket
The date seemed way too excited.
Quote from: Brazil in Atlanta on January 21, 2023, 02:30:32 AMQuote from: Gilgamesh. on January 21, 2023, 01:33:42 AMMalik is kinda messy so I think the Twitter girls are going extra hard on him for that and people assume sex workers are down for whatever or whoever so it's like "you're a hoe so you should be happy he wanted to date you!"
He's not obligated to take things further and as long as he was respectful about it I don't really see the issue. Maybe I'm a bitch :dead:
I don't see the problem in basically what is the process of dating
But "respectful" to me isn't showing someone to your followers and pointing out they aren't your type and saying "he had to go lol "
But then again to be fair this is someone who is on the internet getting raw nuts pumped into his behind from countless amounts of strangers . I'm honestly not sure if its really fair to expect some level of decorum from him to begin with
And I hate to say this as it could be some form of victim blaming ... but His date has some fault as well IMO for recording the entire date . It's pretty much the reason we have this footage to begin with. Gorl it's the first date and you don't know if there'll be a second . Keep the camera in pocket
The date seemed way too excited.
Yeah recording the mess was too much, especially if he knew he wasn't into the dude :/
I personally don't see anything wrong with a constant disclaimer to avoid any and all confusion.
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That's why for the first date I prefer something more low key. Like Starbucks or ice cream or just go walk in the park and talk. Cause I'm not about to spend that much on a first date at all.
Quote from: Buy The Stars✨ on January 21, 2023, 11:59:57 AMThat's why for the first date I prefer something more low key. Like Starbucks or ice cream or just go walk in the park and talk. Cause I'm not about to spend that much on a first date at all.
i think keeping it simple for the first meeting protects both people involved
for me it's about saving time. not wasting it
something quick with no heavy expectations ....where there's no elaborate plan of me spending hours with you in case the chemistry is not there .
make the expectation clear that it's a quick meet up so after 10 or 15 minutes when i say "ok gotta run so nice meeting you" there's no huge surprise.
there's nothing fun about being wined and dined by a man you have absolutely no interest in. IMO
i can buy my own mess otw back home, plop in front of Hulu and have the rest of the night to myself instead.
but, if he's what i expected him to be and he offers to extend our quick meet up. of course :woohoo: why not, im free lolz
Quote from: Brazil in Atlanta on January 21, 2023, 12:08:57 PMQuote from: Buy The Stars✨ on January 21, 2023, 11:59:57 AMThat's why for the first date I prefer something more low key. Like Starbucks or ice cream or just go walk in the park and talk. Cause I'm not about to spend that much on a first date at all.
i think keeping it simple for the first meeting protects both people involved
for me it's about saving time. not wasting it
something quick with no heavy expectations ....where there's no elaborate plan of me spending hours with you in case the chemistry is not there .
make the expectation clear that it's a quick meet up so after 10 or 15 minutes when i say "ok gotta run so nice meeting you" there's no huge surprise.
there's nothing fun about being wined and dined by a man you have absolutely no interest in. IMO
i can buy my own mess otw back home, plop in front of Hulu and have the rest of the night to myself instead.
but, if he's what i expected him to be and he offers to extend our quick meet up. of course :woohoo: why not, im free lolz
yeah i agree time is important!
also yeah it is like just ratchet to go and have someone spend money on you, you have no interest in.
thats why im trying to save my MONEY. as a TOP we are usually expected to pay. thats fine but for the first date im not spending any more than 20 bucks or so cause of dumb faggots in that video. also i can do 3 or 4, 20 dollar first dates and feel ok versus spending 100 on 4 different first dates. that shit adds up
Quote from: Buy The Stars✨ on January 21, 2023, 12:38:58 PMQuote from: Brazil in Atlanta on January 21, 2023, 12:08:57 PMQuote from: Buy The Stars✨ on January 21, 2023, 11:59:57 AMThat's why for the first date I prefer something more low key. Like Starbucks or ice cream or just go walk in the park and talk. Cause I'm not about to spend that much on a first date at all.
i think keeping it simple for the first meeting protects both people involved
for me it's about saving time. not wasting it
something quick with no heavy expectations ....where there's no elaborate plan of me spending hours with you in case the chemistry is not there .
make the expectation clear that it's a quick meet up so after 10 or 15 minutes when i say "ok gotta run so nice meeting you" there's no huge surprise.
there's nothing fun about being wined and dined by a man you have absolutely no interest in. IMO
i can buy my own mess otw back home, plop in front of Hulu and have the rest of the night to myself instead.
but, if he's what i expected him to be and he offers to extend our quick meet up. of course :woohoo: why not, im free lolz
yeah i agree time is important!
also yeah it is like just ratchet to go and have someone spend money on you, you have no interest in.
thats why im trying to save my MONEY. as a TOP we are usually expected to pay. thats fine but for the first date im not spending any more than 20 bucks or so cause of dumb faggots in that video. also i can do 3 or 4, 20 dollar first dates and feel ok versus spending 100 on 4 different first dates. that shit adds up
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not throwin the gorls an appetizer mess
use that noggin a bit then king
Lol where y'all going where you can spend $20 on two people? Or is that per gorl? :ATLcameo:
NO thats total bby dll. we can go to starbucks, go get some ice cream, frozen yogurt etc. something simple that FIRST time. after that if we are a match then we can go spend some money ok ?
ummmm...whats a prenup? :unsure:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IYHEuWyF8Ps
Quote from: Buy The Stars✨ on January 21, 2023, 11:59:57 AMThat's why for the first date I prefer something more low key. Like Starbucks or ice cream or just go walk in the park and talk. Cause I'm not about to spend that much on a first date at all.
PERIOD
Quote from: ivorian oph on January 21, 2023, 01:25:46 PMQuote from: Buy The Stars✨ on January 21, 2023, 11:59:57 AMThat's why for the first date I prefer something more low key. Like Starbucks or ice cream or just go walk in the park and talk. Cause I'm not about to spend that much on a first date at all.
PERIOD
Facts! I lowkey agree with this. Even the fine ones sometimes be even a little off personality wise so I'd rather keep it calm to see if your a quick fuck or we can work on something
Smh Not cute
Quote from: Harlem on January 21, 2023, 01:32:07 PMQuote from: ivorian oph on January 21, 2023, 01:25:46 PMQuote from: Buy The Stars✨ on January 21, 2023, 11:59:57 AMThat's why for the first date I prefer something more low key. Like Starbucks or ice cream or just go walk in the park and talk. Cause I'm not about to spend that much on a first date at all.
PERIOD
Facts! I lowkey agree with this. Even the fine ones sometimes be even a little off personality wise so I'd rather keep it calm to see if your a quick fuck or we can work on something
i need to be able to exit QUICKLY if needed
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The issue is not that he's not interested. The issue is that he documented/posted this to just embarrass the fag for giggles and attention on social media.
:udontlookok:
Quote from: Georgina Sparks on January 22, 2023, 02:37:28 PMd
The issue is not that he's not interested. The issue is that he documented/posted this to just embarrass the fag for giggles and attention on social media.
:udontlookok:
!!!
like, you posted this boys FACE. you messy late fag
and he looks musty
:unbothered:
Quote from: ivorian oph on January 22, 2023, 02:39:36 PMQuote from: Georgina Sparks on January 22, 2023, 02:37:28 PMd
The issue is not that he's not interested. The issue is that he documented/posted this to just embarrass the fag for giggles and attention on social media.
:udontlookok:
!!!
like, you posted this boys FACE. you messy late fag
and he looks musty
:unbothered:
sddddddddddddd
!! Faggots are so weird.... Yuck
:udontlookok:
Quote from: Georgina Sparks on January 22, 2023, 02:41:30 PMQuote from: ivorian oph on January 22, 2023, 02:39:36 PMQuote from: Georgina Sparks on January 22, 2023, 02:37:28 PMd
The issue is not that he's not interested. The issue is that he documented/posted this to just embarrass the fag for giggles and attention on social media.
:udontlookok:
!!!
like, you posted this boys FACE. you messy late fag
and he looks musty
:unbothered:
sddddddddddddd
!! Faggots are so weird.... Yuck
:udontlookok:
the worst