Nobody uses us. The black community doesn't respect us nor want us around for religious ignorance. Whites or asians dont use us because of racism. The only group that tolerate us are Mexicans. They are naturally friendly ppl. Anyway I made this thread because y'all confused. We are not apart of gay agenda and never was. We aren't on anyone's radar even though we put up with the most shit. Our own community will try to drive us crazy because they see homosexuality as a mental disease. They think we should be a vibal part of society. All think we do is have sex with 100 men a month. I fucking hate the black community and they deserve all the turmoil they receive.
i think you've been living in mississippi around ignorant people for way too long
i mean have you left yet r are you still there?
Quote from: zeytoven on January 30, 2016, 09:30:46 PM
Nobody uses us. The black community doesn't respect us nor want us around for religious ignorance. Whites or asians dont use us because of racism. The only group that tolerate us are Mexicans. They are naturally friendly ppl. Anyway I made this thread because y'all confused. We are not apart of gay agenda and never was. We aren't on anyone's radar even though we put up with the most shit. Our own community will try to drive us crazy because they see homosexuality as a mental disease.
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Not all heterosexual blacks are homophobic.
I've been opening myself more and more to befriending straight black men.
Many I have encountered actually seem to want to engage in conversation, etc. more than I do. I just have a wall up.
but I am letting it down. I think I forgot how fun straight men can be to hang out with . A tease if they're cute :dead: but fun
Let's address a more pressing and disturbing issue: which is homophobia in the fucking homosexual community in itself. :uhh:
Quote from: King on January 30, 2016, 09:33:35 PM
i think you've been living in mississippi around ignorant people for way too long
i mean have you left yet r are you still there?
Yeah I.left, I'm in Nashville not really any better but still I'm out. I'm just very angry now because of everything they did to me and I just put up w it. I never once cried though nor did I lose sleep. I just have to let the shit go because its eating me up inside even tho my future still bright.
we r rlly orphans to society!
thts why i nev' abide by tha rules given by tha govt'
nor do i rlly buy into tha blck power mess
im a loner
n a warrior thru & thru
this wat i be tryna tell u guys
but i guess feelin included in tha illusion tht ppl 'accept' u is as strong of a drug as any other!
Quote from: Herbie on January 30, 2016, 09:36:51 PM
Not all heterosexual blacks are homophobic.
I've been opening myself more and more to befriending straight black men.
Many I have encountered actually seem to want to engage in conversation, etc. more than I do. I just have a wall up.
but I am letting it down. I think I forgot how fun straight men can be to hang out with . A tease if they're cute :dead: but fun
Let's address a more pressing and disturbing issue: which is homophobia in the fucking homosexual community in itself. :uhh:
No sir Herb its a front. Let u have been their son and they'd raise hell. My father the same way with strangers who are gay. But in reality he hates them and thinks the government is demasculinizing black.men to.lower the birth rate. I don't think homophobia in gay community really exits. Maybe amongst racist white gays but not other races. Heterosexual men aren't to be trusted, just like black women are not our friends. They will be the main ones to make claims that u have AIDS.
sumtimes hate will KEEP u
im not embarass to admit tht i loathe tha blck commun' mosta tha times
almos as much as i loathe white ppl
but also
tha fact tht an'time blck ppl scream 'bout mistreatment
but dnt look into their own commun' to rlly FIX prolems wit their lgbt youth..
i jus SEE thru alotta tha smoke & soot mirrors
fck em all
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Quote from: Blues clue on January 30, 2016, 09:45:30 PM
sumtimes hate will KEEP u
im not embarass to admit tht i loathe tha blck commun' mosta tha times
almos as much as i loathe white ppl
but also
tha fact tht an'time blck ppl scream 'bout mistreatment
but dnt look into their own commun' to rlly FIX prolems wit their lgbt youth..
i jus SEE thru alotta tha smoke & soot mirrors
fck em all
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Thank you man I truly appreciate your kind words. :big hugs:
Quote from: zeytoven on January 30, 2016, 09:41:49 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 30, 2016, 09:36:51 PM
Not all heterosexual blacks are homophobic.
I've been opening myself more and more to befriending straight black men.
Many I have encountered actually seem to want to engage in conversation, etc. more than I do. I just have a wall up.
but I am letting it down. I think I forgot how fun straight men can be to hang out with . A tease if they're cute :dead: but fun
Let's address a more pressing and disturbing issue: which is homophobia in the fucking homosexual community in itself. :uhh:
No sir Herb its a front. Let u have been their son and they'd raise hell.
Well I'm not their son. :dead: So the only thing I have to worry about is how they treat me as an individual.
I have to say that I do often feel acceptance and warmth from heterosexual black men. One straight dude @ the job was just telling me how he wanted to follow in my footsteps in do a hair part to the side and mess. And he actually did it. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: looked a mess but I was flattered.
Heterosexual black men don't get enough credit for their tolerance. I'm sure it's not easy to understand why a man wouldn't like a woman sexually. I'd imagine its the same confusion I used to get when I wondered how the FUCK how could any woman genuinely not like men :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: especially the pretty ones :usureuok: like....u could have any piece of dick u want, and u choose women? :usureuok: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
I understand why some men have a hard time accepting the concept of homosexuality. But long as they're respectful. ..... what I don't understand is gay men bashing other gay men.
Quote from: Herbie on January 30, 2016, 09:49:23 PM
Quote from: zeytoven on January 30, 2016, 09:41:49 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 30, 2016, 09:36:51 PM
Not all heterosexual blacks are homophobic.
I've been opening myself more and more to befriending straight black men.
Many I have encountered actually seem to want to engage in conversation, etc. more than I do. I just have a wall up.
but I am letting it down. I think I forgot how fun straight men can be to hang out with . A tease if they're cute :dead: but fun
Let's address a more pressing and disturbing issue: which is homophobia in the fucking homosexual community in itself. :uhh:
No sir Herb its a front. Let u have been their son and they'd raise hell.
Well I'm not their son. :dead: So the only thing I have to worry about is how they treat me as an individual.
I have to say that I do often feel acceptance and warmth from heterosexual black men. One straight dude @ the job was just telling me how he wanted to follow in my footsteps in do a hair part to the side and mess. And he actually did it. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: looked a mess but I was flattered.
Heterosexual black men don't get enough credit for their tolerance. I'm sure it's not easy to understand why a man wouldn't like a woman sexually. I'd imagine its the same confusion I used to get when I wondered how the FUCK how could any woman genuinely not like men :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: especially the pretty ones :usureuok: like....u could have any piece of dick u want, and u choose women? :usureuok: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
I understand why some men have a hard time accepting the concept of homosexuality. But long as they're respectful. ..... what I don't understand is gay men bashing other gay men.
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I don't see why black gays are so quick to jump on either side.
The gays think ur black skin is disgusting
and the blacks ur going to hell.
Not sure why people are so hellbent on pinning it on one group or another when both groups to work on their issues.
Quote from: Lion Babe on January 30, 2016, 09:58:32 PM
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I don't see why black gays are so quick to jump on either side.
The gays think ur black skin is disgusting
and the blacks ur going to hell.
Not sure why people are so hellbent on pinning it on one group or another when both groups to work on their issues.
Nothing but the fucking truth. I don't trust no one. I'm over it all. I'd rather die alone n happy, than being a miserable sheep. Fuck trying to fit a mold
nobod' fckin luv us!
You can be yourself and not have to worry about catering to anyone.
I don't try to be anymore masculine or any different than I am. I just adjust the conversation based who I am around. Obviously I'm not talking hot men, beauty tips and hair with straight black men (well, most of the time :dead: ), but the friendship is there.
I'm always gonna be more comfortable and free with gay men and females because I feel we have more in common. But mixing it up is fun as well. Maybe there's something I want a straight man's opinion on. I kinda see straight guys the way women see the gays...they're fun to have around...nice to look at :wellheythere: , i honestly feel every gay man should have at least one of them :dead: :dead:
don't close urself off to the world. Straight black men are edgy as fuck. :plzstop:
you*
fb
:omgwatshappening:
biggest thing i luv about straight black men, is that they don't hate, they congratulate. :cheerup:
ur not gonna find that in females and gay men. there will always be a hint of cattiness and shade. :dead: :dead: :dead:
straight men >>>>
i can honestly understand why some women don't surround themselves with nothing but men, gay and straight.
Quote from: Herbie on January 30, 2016, 10:08:26 PM
You can be yourself and not have to worry about catering to anyone.
I don't try to be anymore masculine or any different than I am. I just adjust the conversation based who I am around. Obviously I'm not talking hot men, beauty tips and hair with straight black men (well, most of the time :dead: ), but the friendship is there.
I'm always gonna be more comfortable and free with gay men and females because I feel we have more in common. But mixing it up is fun as well. Maybe there's something I want a straight man's opinion on. I kinda see straight guys the way women see the gays...they're fun to have around...nice to look at :wellheythere: , i honestly feel every gay man should have at least one of them :dead: :dead:
don't close urself off to the world. Straight black men are edgy as fuck. :plzstop:
and gay men are not fun to look at? :hmph:
straight men are kinda .....useless.
Quote from: King on January 30, 2016, 10:15:59 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 30, 2016, 10:08:26 PM
You can be yourself and not have to worry about catering to anyone.
I don't try to be anymore masculine or any different than I am. I just adjust the conversation based who I am around. Obviously I'm not talking hot men, beauty tips and hair with straight black men (well, most of the time :dead: ), but the friendship is there.
I'm always gonna be more comfortable and free with gay men and females because I feel we have more in common. But mixing it up is fun as well. Maybe there's something I want a straight man's opinion on. I kinda see straight guys the way women see the gays...they're fun to have around...nice to look at :wellheythere: , i honestly feel every gay man should have at least one of them :dead: :dead:
don't close urself off to the world. Straight black men are edgy as fuck. :plzstop:
and gay men are not fun to look at? :hmph:
straight men are kinda .....useless.
of course gay men are fun to look at :plzstop:
that's why i compared a gay man having a straight friend to a straight woman having a gay friend.
the hags always are underneath the cute gay boys :plzstop: the pretty hags, at least.
I feel so lucky :stressed:
I have a LOT of straight male friends. None of them has ever judged me or treated any different and they ALL know I'm gay. I'm open with it.
U must live in some hick town somewhere
I get where you're coming from. It is tough but hopefully you can eventually find good people who will love and accept you for who you are. There are still accepting people in every community.
Straight men are only good for animalistic sex and a coin here and there. Other than that... Fuck'em.
Any man that lays down with another man is not straight to me.
More like gay/bisexual in denial living a straight "lifestyle".
Which isn't uncommon in the black community at all
He likes men but is not comfortable admitting that to anyone, not even himself.
Quote from: Herbie on January 31, 2016, 02:08:30 AM
Any man that lays down with another man is not straight to me.
More like gay/bisexual in denial living a straight "lifestyle".
Which isn't uncommon in the black community at all
He likes men but is not comfortable admitting that to anyone, not even himself.
Agreed.
This kinda off topic, but I don't hate nor fault dl men. It's hard to live in your truth when you're black and gay. And it takes a lot of time and learning to love yourself so I can't knock them. But I couldn't mess with them. I want someone who is comfortable in their skin.
The only ones I have a problem with are the ones who gay bash in public but are sucking men off in private.
Wow Gu..
This is the longest you've remained on the board without getting permabanned
musc' :stressed:
King :stressed:
We're our own community lol
We don't need to belong to anyone else's
I'm more comfortable with a group of straight men, than I am with a group of gay guys. I'm only comfortable with them if I know em. I know that's weird
A bit off topic
But a good long read
http://peopleofcolor.tumblr.com/post/19672504403/the-double-standard-racism-in-the-white-gay
I think people care too much about acceptance.
oh straights use me
I try make everyone I meet feel inferior until I feel their deserving of my time regardless of sexual orientation.
Quote from: Chokeme on January 31, 2016, 08:04:41 AM
I think people care too much about acceptance.
oh straights use me
I try make everyone I meet feel inferior until I feel their deserving of my time regardless of sexual orientation.
Right! Read Scott'
Now I'm not gonna pretend to be the biggest proud faggot because I'm still dealing with internal issues of my own in real life but I definitely don't seek acceptance from anyone. I honestly don't care who likes me or accept me for who I am
Very double standard'ish but it's nobody's business whether I'm a fag or not.
Quote from: Chokeme on January 31, 2016, 08:04:41 AM
I think people care too much about acceptance.
oh straights use me
I try make everyone I meet feel inferior until I feel their deserving of my time regardless of sexual orientation.
well I think that ties into what I said before.
not changing who you are, regardless of who you are around.
if they want to engage, cool. if not, your world still turns.
I think that attitude also draws people in. you're not thirsty for their approval. :dead:
people
should feel lucky to know and associate themselves with you.
Quote from: Scott. on January 31, 2016, 05:10:55 AM
I'm more comfortable with a group of straight men, than I am with a group of gay guys. I'm only comfortable with them if I know em. I know that's weird
i totally agree
Quote from: G on January 31, 2016, 10:31:00 AM
Quote from: Scott. on January 31, 2016, 05:10:55 AM
I'm more comfortable with a group of straight men, than I am with a group of gay guys. I'm only comfortable with them if I know em. I know that's weird
i totally agree
And it's only because of the experiences I have being around a large group of gay people. I hate cattiness and bitchy behavior and the ridiculing. I know that happens in ANY community, but it's like when I'm around a BUNCH of gays at one time, it's like somebody is always being catty and trying to read or sahade when I'm not about that shit. I can't enjoy myself being around a bunch of cattiness.
gays are very catty and shady. :dead: i know for a fact cuz i can be so myself :dead: :dead:
straight black men can be a fucking kii too. :dead: the mess they talk about and things that they notice that u think they wouldn't :dead: :dead:
Quote from: Herbie on January 31, 2016, 11:12:58 AM
gays are very catty and shady. :dead: i know for a fact cuz i can be so myself :dead: :dead:
straight black men can be a fucking kii too. :dead: the mess they talk about and things that they notice that u think they wouldn't :dead: :dead:
:dead: Right.
It's always funny when straight men ask me gay related questions
Aww, I hope you find peace luv :stressed:
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i 'gree tht gays can b catty
but jus cuz straight men arent rollin their eyes n such dnt mean they arent shady either
jus s'rround urselves wit good ppl
sexual orientation nev' crosses my mind WEN i do wanna give sumone a chance
which is rlly never b'cause imo ppl jus suck donkey nuts
Quote from: Scott. on January 31, 2016, 05:10:55 AM
I'm more comfortable with a group of straight men, than I am with a group of gay guys. I'm only comfortable with them if I know em. I know that's weird
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Quote from: Amara on January 31, 2016, 04:44:49 AM
We're our own community lol
We don't need to belong to anyone else's
!!!!!!!!! to be quite honest.
LOL
Who is this person that started this thread...? They are clearly going through something personal...
Don't think of yourself as secondary and you won't be.
Don't know why blacks, gays, and black gays aren't understanding this... Think bigger and elevate yourself.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on January 31, 2016, 05:13:39 PM
Quote from: Scott. on January 31, 2016, 05:10:55 AM
I'm more comfortable with a group of straight men, than I am with a group of gay guys. I'm only comfortable with them if I know em. I know that's weird
(http://arcadey.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/La-Toya-gif.gif)
Boy fuck You
Quote from: downtownbrown on January 31, 2016, 05:32:37 PM
LOL
Who is this person that started this thread...? They are clearly going through something personal...
Don't think of yourself as secondary and you won't be.
Don't know why blacks, gays, and black gays aren't understanding this... Think bigger and elevate yourself.
you're so right man, thanks for this inspirational post