QuoteThe ladies, who thought they'd have plenty of options, say they were surprised at how few Black donors there were to choose from. And while they started with a few thousand candidates, once they ruled some out based on things revealed in Judy's genetic screening, they were left with 300 and only one was Black.
"And that [dude] looked like Jiminy Cricket," Brat laughs. "I was like, "I'm sorry but that wasn't gonna be my choice."
And since the pickings were slim, the couple said they ultimately decided on a white donor. "Because we didn't have a lot to choose from, he definitely wasn't Black," Brat says. " But I think we did a great job with picking. He's handsome, he's tall and I think he's going to look beautiful with my wife's egg."
https://www.theroot.com/da-brat-and-wife-spill-tea-about-their-sperm-donor-who-1850384069
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This bitch and her wife are so full of SHIT :uhh:
Girl... you know damn well you picked a non-Black sperm donor because you wanted exotical looking children SJSJDJSJSJDJ
Wasn't enough niggas to choose from!
:plzstop:
edit:
just read the 300-1 part .
this is something u keep to urself
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what weird dykes
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the fact that she even let this come outta her mouth
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Wtf
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I get it Quee
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Quote from: Lucid Salvatore on May 02, 2023, 07:00:17 PMThis bitch and her wife are so full of SHIT :uhh:
Girl... you know damn well you picked a non-Black sperm donor because you wanted exotical looking children SJSJDJSJSJDJ
Wasn't enough niggas to choose from!
:plzstop:
i just read the 300 to 1 part
def sounds a bit extra ...but once i thought about it a bit
how many times do u hear of a black man talking about he donated his sperm? or sharing stories about it
so i had to research a bit.
she's telling the truth
there's actually a shortage of black male donors
QuoteCBS News analyzed the numbers at four major U.S. cryobanks, where sperm is donated, and found 53% of available sperm is from White donors, while less than 4% is from Black donors.Apr 5, 2023
https://www.rmany.com/news/nationwide-shortage-of-black-sperm-donors#:~:text=CBS%20News%20analyzed%20the%20numbers,4%25%20is%20from%20Black%20donors.
considering this info, id say her story of having a shitload of white men to choose from and only one black guy to choose from ..even though she went in preferring a black male donor , hoping for a plethora of options of black male donors but getting only one ...which pretty much left her with a "take it or leave it" tea..
it could very well be true
the optics of this storytelling she's doing is super cringe but its possible
Yeah but she still shouldn't have said that. Some things are better left unsaid.
Quote from: Saint on May 02, 2023, 07:17:54 PMYeah but she still shouldn't have said that. Some things are better left unsaid.
right
if the gorls drag her for this she def set herself up for it
"Black one was ugly so I chose a White guy :cheerup: "
its just not a good look toots
Quote from: Lucid Salvatore on May 02, 2023, 07:00:17 PMThis bitch and her wife are so full of SHIT :uhh:
Girl... you know damn well you picked a non-Black sperm donor because you wanted exotical looking children SJSJDJSJSJDJ
Wasn't enough niggas to choose from!
:plzstop:
Naw the lack of black donors is very real.
The Jiminy comment makes it sound anti-black. Da Dyke, every thing doesn't need a ki sandwiched in it :uhh:
Quote from: if you had my love on May 02, 2023, 07:14:37 PMQuote from: Lucid Salvatore on May 02, 2023, 07:00:17 PMThis bitch and her wife are so full of SHIT :uhh:
Girl... you know damn well you picked a non-Black sperm donor because you wanted exotical looking children SJSJDJSJSJDJ
Wasn't enough niggas to choose from!
:plzstop:
i just read the 300 to 1 part
def sounds a bit extra ...but once i thought about it a bit
how many times do u hear of a black man talking about he donated his sperm? or sharing stories about it
so i had to research a bit.
she's telling the truth
there's actually a shortage of black male donors
QuoteCBS News analyzed the numbers at four major U.S. cryobanks, where sperm is donated, and found 53% of available sperm is from White donors, while less than 4% is from Black donors.Apr 5, 2023
https://www.rmany.com/news/nationwide-shortage-of-black-sperm-donors#:~:text=CBS%20News%20analyzed%20the%20numbers,4%25%20is%20from%20Black%20donors.
considering this info, id say her story of having a shitload of white men to choose from and only one black guy to choose from ..even though she went in preferring a black male donor , hoping for a plethora of options of black male donors but getting only one ...which pretty much left her with a "take it or leave it" tea..
it could very well be true
the optics of this storytelling she's doing is super cringe but its possible
I saw this episode, she said Jiminy Cricket there in the doctors office as they were scrolling thru :plzstop: .. they were in disbelief that there was only 1.
Quote from: Saint on May 02, 2023, 07:17:54 PMYeah but she still shouldn't have said that. Some things are better left unsaid.
My thing is.... Nobody had to know this information
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 02, 2023, 07:47:59 PMQuote from: if you had my love on May 02, 2023, 07:14:37 PMQuote from: Lucid Salvatore on May 02, 2023, 07:00:17 PMThis bitch and her wife are so full of SHIT :uhh:
Girl... you know damn well you picked a non-Black sperm donor because you wanted exotical looking children SJSJDJSJSJDJ
Wasn't enough niggas to choose from!
:plzstop:
i just read the 300 to 1 part
def sounds a bit extra ...but once i thought about it a bit
how many times do u hear of a black man talking about he donated his sperm? or sharing stories about it
so i had to research a bit.
she's telling the truth
there's actually a shortage of black male donors
QuoteCBS News analyzed the numbers at four major U.S. cryobanks, where sperm is donated, and found 53% of available sperm is from White donors, while less than 4% is from Black donors.Apr 5, 2023
https://www.rmany.com/news/nationwide-shortage-of-black-sperm-donors#:~:text=CBS%20News%20analyzed%20the%20numbers,4%25%20is%20from%20Black%20donors.
considering this info, id say her story of having a shitload of white men to choose from and only one black guy to choose from ..even though she went in preferring a black male donor , hoping for a plethora of options of black male donors but getting only one ...which pretty much left her with a "take it or leave it" tea..
it could very well be true
the optics of this storytelling she's doing is super cringe but its possible
I saw this episode, she said Jiminy Cricket there in the doctors office as they were scrolling thru :plzstop: .. they were in disbelief that there was only 1.
gggggffgg
If what she's saying is true about the lack of options in relation to gene pool, o don't see the problem. It was honest with some humor.
I have friends that confirmed that once you go down the list of criteria as far as education and all the other stuff there will only be like one black man left. It's unfortunate, but I guess if you're going to be selecting a father like luxury car options, you might as well be choosy
Quote from: Justice Jackson on May 03, 2023, 07:00:22 AMI have friends that confirmed that once you go down the list of criteria as far as education and all the other stuff there will only be like one black man left. It's unfortunate, but I guess if you're going to be selecting a father like luxury car options, you might as well be choosy
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Quote from: Justice Jackson on May 03, 2023, 07:00:22 AMI have friends that confirmed that once you go down the list of criteria as far as education and all the other stuff there will only be like one black man left. It's unfortunate, but I guess if you're going to be selecting a father like luxury car options, you might as well be choosy
Yup, they also had to hopscotch around Judy's own genetic health risks so there's that too.
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 03, 2023, 08:21:11 AMQuote from: Justice Jackson on May 03, 2023, 07:00:22 AMI have friends that confirmed that once you go down the list of criteria as far as education and all the other stuff there will only be like one black man left. It's unfortunate, but I guess if you're going to be selecting a father like luxury car options, you might as well be choosy
Yup, they also had to hopscotch around Judy's own genetic health risks so there's that too.
Are you their doctor?
No but you should see one for 'you know what'
True. I should ask for a sedative or something to prevent me from beating you to a pulp.
You need a tranquilizer
*euthanizer
I think she felt like she needed to say something before everyone sees the bby is mixed and starts speculating.
Quote from: Kalifornia. on May 03, 2023, 12:22:53 PMI think she felt like she needed to say something before everyone sees the bby is mixed and starts speculating.
She def wanted to get ahead of the backlash
Quote from: Kalifornia. on May 03, 2023, 12:22:53 PMI think she felt like she needed to say something before everyone sees the bby is mixed and starts speculating.
Quote from: Big Barbie on May 03, 2023, 12:33:16 PMQuote from: Kalifornia. on May 03, 2023, 12:22:53 PMI think she felt like she needed to say something before everyone sees the bby is mixed and starts speculating.
She def wanted to get ahead of the backlash
Then saying that Black sperm donors look like shit probably wasn't the way to go :kii:
I'm sorry but Brat and this lady are high profile and coined up enough to find an attractive Black sperm donor if they really wanted. They live in ATL for Gods sake.
i'll donate
:ummwhat:
They wanted a mixed baby. Idc idc
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on May 03, 2023, 01:19:46 PMQuote from: Big Barbie on May 03, 2023, 12:33:16 PMQuote from: Kalifornia. on May 03, 2023, 12:22:53 PMI think she felt like she needed to say something before everyone sees the bby is mixed and starts speculating.
She def wanted to get ahead of the backlash
Then saying that Black sperm donors look like shit probably wasn't the way to go :kii:
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:udontlookok:
TMI. :usuresis:
Where did she say this other than as it was happening during the filming of the show? I feel like some of us think she went to a news outlet to provide this information, but the quotes from the OP just echo verbatim what was said as it was happening
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 03, 2023, 07:36:45 PMWhere did she say this other than as it was happening during the filming of the show? I feel like some of us think she went to a news outlet to provide this information, but the quotes from the OP just echo verbatim what was said as it was happening
I don't think people are cringing cuz of where she said luv
It's what she said
The actual words .
Not whether she said it in church or in the rib shack
It looks like you're givin her a pass cuz of where it was said but I don't think the girls are collectively
And that's all ok. She set herself up for this
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Quote from: faded love on May 03, 2023, 07:39:15 PMQuote from: L0NZ. on May 03, 2023, 07:36:45 PMWhere did she say this other than as it was happening during the filming of the show? I feel like some of us think she went to a news outlet to provide this information, but the quotes from the OP just echo verbatim what was said as it was happening
I don't think people are cringing cuz of where she said luv
It's what she said
The actual words .
Not whether she said it in church or in the rib shack
Duh gorl. A lot of people said "we didn't need to know this" ..... "TMI" .... "she wanted to get ahead of it" I just want to know if she went and offered the info to a second source
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 03, 2023, 07:42:59 PMQuote from: faded love on May 03, 2023, 07:39:15 PMQuote from: L0NZ. on May 03, 2023, 07:36:45 PMWhere did she say this other than as it was happening during the filming of the show? I feel like some of us think she went to a news outlet to provide this information, but the quotes from the OP just echo verbatim what was said as it was happening
I don't think people are cringing cuz of where she said luv
It's what she said
The actual words .
Not whether she said it in church or in the rib shack
Duh gorl. A lot of people said "we didn't need to know this" ..... "TMI" .... "she wanted to get ahead of it" I just want to know if she went and offered the info to a second source
I see what u mean.
well she shared the story
no one leaked it
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Kinda like ray j talkin about shit in his underwear or whatever he was talking about ... im sure they were discussing hygiene or menswear or whatever but that's not gonna get him excused from a "TMI" tea from some of the gorls.
Quote from: faded love on May 03, 2023, 07:48:02 PMQuote from: L0NZ. on May 03, 2023, 07:42:59 PMQuote from: faded love on May 03, 2023, 07:39:15 PMQuote from: L0NZ. on May 03, 2023, 07:36:45 PMWhere did she say this other than as it was happening during the filming of the show? I feel like some of us think she went to a news outlet to provide this information, but the quotes from the OP just echo verbatim what was said as it was happening
I don't think people are cringing cuz of where she said luv
It's what she said
The actual words .
Not whether she said it in church or in the rib shack
Duh gorl. A lot of people said "we didn't need to know this" ..... "TMI" .... "she wanted to get ahead of it" I just want to know if she went and offered the info to a second source
I see what u mean.
well she shared the story
no one leaked it
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Kinda like ray j talkin about shit in his underwear or whatever he was talking about ... im sure they were discussing hygiene or menswear or whatever but that's not gonna get him excused from a "TMI" tea from some of the gorls.
Nnnnnnnnn :supluv:
And even if she was asked , there def was a way to tell this story that woulda prevented the lashing she's getting
If she kept it factual ... as in saying "there's a shortage of black donors so I was kinda forced to choose a white donor although I preferred to have a black one ".
Instead of "the black one was ugly ... looked like a creature so we went with someone white lol"
Huge difference . She chose to spice the story up with a joke about the black guys looks so she's getting a spicy response and black people telling her that she woulda been better off keeping the story to herself. Which is clearly good advice considering how it's been received
Does that make sense ?
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 03, 2023, 07:36:45 PMWhere did she say this other than as it was happening during the filming of the show? I feel like some of us think she went to a news outlet to provide this information, but the quotes from the OP just echo verbatim what was said as it was happening
It sounded like she was joking about the situation on Dish Nation to me. Not sure where it was said tho.
i honestly think the only thing brat is truly guilty of is not thinking before she spoke.
like really think about what the optics of u saying a black person was too ugly so u chose the white one....would look like
what she said is like GOLD for blogs to run with creative and messy titles.
brat doesn't strike me as someone who is anti-black so i think she was just making a joke, there is def a proven shortage of black male donors, and maybe the one black guy she saw was indeed super unattractive to her and i believe it may have had nothing to do with him just being black.
its just the optics. but im glad the gorls are calling her owt on it
anything that even smells like blatant anti-blackness shouldn't go unchecked.
don't matter who's saying it and what their intent is. let em know why its not a good look.
I don't even like Brat but I don't believe she was being/is anti-black. I do believe that they preferred a black donor but they def didn't want an ugly one no matter the race.
Quote from: faded love on May 03, 2023, 08:04:35 PMi honestly think the only thing brat is truly guilty of is not thinking before she spoke.
like really think about what the optics of u saying a black person was too ugly so u chose the white one....would look like
what she said is like GOLD for blogs to run with creative and messy titles.
brat doesn't strike me as someone who is anti-black so i think she was just making a joke, there is def a proven shortage of black male donors, and maybe the one black guy she saw was indeed super unattractive to her and i believe it may have had nothing to do with him just being black.
its just the optics. but im glad the gorls are calling her owt on it
anything that even smells like blatant anti-blackness shouldn't go unchecked.
don't matter who's saying it and what their intent is. let em know why its not a good look.
Her sister IS Lisa Raye, tho, who has a history of being colorist. I don't k ow if they grew up in the same household but it's interesting.
Quote from: faded love on May 03, 2023, 07:51:34 PMAnd even if she was asked , there def was a way to tell this story that woulda prevented the lashing she's getting
If she kept it factual ... as in saying "there's a shortage of black donors so I was kinda forced to choose a white donor although I preferred to have a black one ".
Instead of "the black one was ugly ... looked like a creature so we went with someone white lol"
Huge difference . She chose to spice the story up with a joke about the black guys looks so she's getting a spicy response and black people telling her that she woulda been better off keeping the story to herself. Which is clearly good advice considering how it's been received
Does that make sense ?
I don't think so
:kii:
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 03, 2023, 08:33:54 PMQuote from: faded love on May 03, 2023, 07:51:34 PMAnd even if she was asked , there def was a way to tell this story that woulda prevented the lashing she's getting
If she kept it factual ... as in saying "there's a shortage of black donors so I was kinda forced to choose a white donor although I preferred to have a black one ".
Instead of "the black one was ugly ... looked like a creature so we went with someone white lol"
Huge difference . She chose to spice the story up with a joke about the black guys looks so she's getting a spicy response and black people telling her that she woulda been better off keeping the story to herself. Which is clearly good advice considering how it's been received
Does that make sense ?
I don't think so
lets try a different approach.
me knockin some sense into u instead
https://youtu.be/Rh7qJswghes
She gives context here.
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