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Title: These Church Pastors man…
Post by: Kalifornia. on May 21, 2023, 04:14:07 PM

He abused the whole family  :uhh:

Title: Re: These Church Pastors man…
Post by: CHOKE on May 21, 2023, 05:14:46 PM
I feel bad but I kind of stopped watching after sis said she had already been knocked up while still in high school

It sucks society links teen pregnancy with promiscuity but it is what it is, get dick Quee

Title: Re: These Church Pastors man…
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on May 21, 2023, 05:21:31 PM
Sick man. :-(
Title: Re: These Church Pastors man…
Post by: JCJ on May 21, 2023, 05:29:16 PM
Sad
Title: Re: These Church Pastors man…
Post by: JCJ on May 21, 2023, 05:29:50 PM
Quote from: CHOKE on May 21, 2023, 05:14:46 PMI feel bad but I kind of stopped watching after sis said she had already been knocked up while still in high school

It sucks society links teen pregnancy with promiscuity but it is what it is, get dick Quee



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Of course you come in trying to be edgy. Go to hell
Title: Re: These Church Pastors man…
Post by: L0NZ. on May 21, 2023, 05:55:08 PM
Quote from: Big Barbie on May 21, 2023, 05:21:31 PMSick man. :-(

this is so disingenuous.
Title: Re: These Church Pastors man…
Post by: Jon on May 21, 2023, 06:00:34 PM

The fact that she still attended the church with the son after all that ..... is she crazy?
Title: Re: These Church Pastors man…
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on May 21, 2023, 06:08:37 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 21, 2023, 05:55:08 PM
Quote from: Big Barbie on May 21, 2023, 05:21:31 PMSick man. :-(

this is so disingenuous.
Which part
Title: Re: These Church Pastors man…
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on May 21, 2023, 06:10:05 PM
Quote from: Jonovan on May 21, 2023, 06:00:34 PMThe fact that she still attended the church with the son after all that ..... is she crazy?
She sounded to be young at the time so it doesn't surprise me. I'm sure she didn't stop to analyze what was going on but the church made her feel wanted and accepted all around.
Title: Re: These Church Pastors man…
Post by: klappa. on May 21, 2023, 06:27:36 PM
Quote from: JCJ on May 21, 2023, 05:29:50 PM
Quote from: CHOKE on May 21, 2023, 05:14:46 PMI feel bad but I kind of stopped watching after sis said she had already been knocked up while still in high school

It sucks society links teen pregnancy with promiscuity but it is what it is, get dick Quee



n


Of course you come in trying to be edgy. Go to hell

right and know damn well

 :plzstop:
Title: Re: These Church Pastors man…
Post by: L0NZ. on May 21, 2023, 06:34:02 PM
Quote from: Big Barbie on May 21, 2023, 06:08:37 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 21, 2023, 05:55:08 PM
Quote from: Big Barbie on May 21, 2023, 05:21:31 PMSick man. :-(

this is so disingenuous.
Which part

I meant your response
Title: Re: These Church Pastors man…
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on May 21, 2023, 07:27:36 PM
sad that some of the victims aren't coming forward about the pastor because they're afraid their own family members who still attend the church will go against them.
Title: Re: These Church Pastors man…
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on May 21, 2023, 07:36:53 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 21, 2023, 06:34:02 PM
Quote from: Big Barbie on May 21, 2023, 06:08:37 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 21, 2023, 05:55:08 PM
Quote from: Big Barbie on May 21, 2023, 05:21:31 PMSick man. :-(

this is so disingenuous.
Which part

I meant your response
I know and I'm asking which part of my response was disingenuous.
Title: Re: These Church Pastors man…
Post by: klappa. on May 21, 2023, 07:39:24 PM
Quote from: Big Barbie on May 21, 2023, 07:36:53 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 21, 2023, 06:34:02 PM
Quote from: Big Barbie on May 21, 2023, 06:08:37 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 21, 2023, 05:55:08 PM
Quote from: Big Barbie on May 21, 2023, 05:21:31 PMSick man. :-(

this is so disingenuous.
Which part

I meant your response
I know and I'm asking which part of my response was disingenuous.

you literally only said one thing  :uhh:
Title: Re: These Church Pastors man…
Post by: Plastic. on May 21, 2023, 08:52:10 PM
Quote from: JCJ on May 21, 2023, 05:29:50 PM
Quote from: CHOKE on May 21, 2023, 05:14:46 PMI feel bad but I kind of stopped watching after sis said she had already been knocked up while still in high school

It sucks society links teen pregnancy with promiscuity but it is what it is, get dick Quee



n


Of course you come in trying to be edgy. Go to hell
:plzstop:
Title: Re: These Church Pastors man…
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on May 21, 2023, 09:01:07 PM
Quote from: JCJ on May 21, 2023, 05:29:16 PMSad
@L0NZ. was this disingenuous?
Title: Re: These Church Pastors man…
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on May 21, 2023, 09:02:09 PM
And sorry @JCJ for dragging you into this but I'm proving another hypocritical point.

 :trannyjblige:
Title: Re: These Church Pastors man…
Post by: klappa. on May 21, 2023, 10:04:28 PM
Quote from: Big Barbie on May 21, 2023, 09:02:09 PMAnd sorry @JCJ for dragging you into this but I'm proving another hypocritical point.

 :trannyjblige:
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shut the fuck up

 :omf:
Title: Re: These Church Pastors man…
Post by: Nine on May 21, 2023, 11:00:12 PM
Oh wow this is sick

But why would you stay in a church where you've been abused by the pastor and bring your child into that same environment??
Title: Re: These Church Pastors man…
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on May 21, 2023, 11:05:18 PM
Quote from: Nine on May 21, 2023, 11:00:12 PMOh wow this is sick

But why would you stay in a church where you've been abused by the pastor and bring your child into that same environment??
she didn't realize she was a victim and that it wasn't "love" or a "relationship " until she was much older

Very common among people who've been groomed / abused at a very young age

Takes a minute for the light bulb to go off that even though they went along with it , they really were not old enough to actuallh consent to it.

It "felt" like consent because they didn't resist or say no but a 16 year old give cannot consent. Even if it felt like you did

The complexity of this all is one huge reason why it takes people a long time to confront or hold their abusers accountable . Aside from embarrassment, fear etc.

That period between the abuse itself and them having that moment of " wait a minute ...was that really a relationship/love?" can take years.
Title: Re: These Church Pastors man…
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on May 21, 2023, 11:33:13 PM
Quote from: Nine on May 21, 2023, 11:00:12 PMOh wow this is sick

But why would you stay in a church where you've been abused by the pastor and bring your child into that same environment??
Do you know how abuse works?
Title: Re: These Church Pastors man…
Post by: CHOKE on May 22, 2023, 12:30:31 AM
Quote from: Nine on May 21, 2023, 11:00:12 PMOh wow this is sick

But why would you stay in a church where you've been abused by the pastor and bring your child into that same environment??



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