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Title: Does Grief Ever Just Hit You Out of Nowhere
Post by: JCJ on July 10, 2023, 04:02:24 PM
My grandma's been gone 9 years now and I just randomly thought of her today and broke down. I don't know if I've ever fully grieved.  :'(
Title: Re: Does Grief Ever Just Hit You Out of Nowhere
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on July 10, 2023, 04:07:03 PM
Absolutely. You can talk just fine about the same person/subject today but have a whole breakdown tomorrow.
Title: Re: Does Grief Ever Just Hit You Out of Nowhere
Post by: Kalifornia. on July 10, 2023, 04:12:10 PM
It definitely does. 
Title: Re: Does Grief Ever Just Hit You Out of Nowhere
Post by: oph. on July 10, 2023, 04:42:15 PM
definitely. i know it's not as extreme as losing a loved one, but with my ex... i'll be going along great, living my life. and then out of nowhere a memory will POP into my head and fuck my whole mood up. i have to literally drag myself away from the thought and sometimes tears.

i say let it out. don't bottle it up. let those emotions flow free. through expression comes healing. and hopefully through expressing, you can get to a point where thoughts of her make you smile instead of cry, thinking about all the dope times y'all had. look up, smile, and say hey the next time you think of her. she watchin over u.
Title: Re: Does Grief Ever Just Hit You Out of Nowhere
Post by: Hatsumomo on July 10, 2023, 04:52:39 PM
You never really get over it.
Title: Re: Does Grief Ever Just Hit You Out of Nowhere
Post by: Justice Jackson on July 10, 2023, 04:53:57 PM
Yes. Memories are very strong. Prayers to you
Title: Re: Does Grief Ever Just Hit You Out of Nowhere
Post by: Plastic. on July 10, 2023, 05:02:11 PM
it does

i'll never go into detail bc this place is literally hell dndndndn but i feel you

sending you love & prayers bby ♥️💕
Title: Re: Does Grief Ever Just Hit You Out of Nowhere
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on July 10, 2023, 06:16:19 PM
I knew you BITCHES had feelings. Let's not fight ever agains

 :stressed:
Title: Re: Does Grief Ever Just Hit You Out of Nowhere
Post by: JCJ on July 10, 2023, 07:36:25 PM
Thanks guys  :stressed:
Title: Re: Does Grief Ever Just Hit You Out of Nowhere
Post by: Jon on July 10, 2023, 08:40:25 PM

awwww  :sistas:
Title: Re: Does Grief Ever Just Hit You Out of Nowhere
Post by: Scott. on July 10, 2023, 10:16:28 PM
All the time.
Title: Re: Does Grief Ever Just Hit You Out of Nowhere
Post by: Rxxf on July 11, 2023, 12:36:04 AM
yes
it comes in waves
sending love to you
Title: Re: Does Grief Ever Just Hit You Out of Nowhere
Post by: MelMel on July 11, 2023, 01:58:55 AM
Quote from: Big Barbie on July 10, 2023, 06:16:19 PMI knew you BITCHES had feelings. Let's not fight ever agains

 :stressed:
sike!

 :cmerefag:

you said something I didn't agree with some time 5 years ago
Title: Re: Does Grief Ever Just Hit You Out of Nowhere
Post by: MelMel on July 11, 2023, 02:00:21 AM
But yes. I remember scrolling through my texts when I saw the last message my dad sent to me the day he died, and I started crying. It hits you at the most unexpected times.
Title: Re: Does Grief Ever Just Hit You Out of Nowhere
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on July 11, 2023, 02:54:04 AM
Quote from: MelMel on July 11, 2023, 02:00:21 AMBut yes. I remember scrolling through my texts when I saw the last message my dad sent to me the day he died, and I started crying. It hits you at the most unexpected times.
:stressed:  :stressed:  :stressed:
Title: Re: Does Grief Ever Just Hit You Out of Nowhere
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on July 11, 2023, 02:56:16 AM
Quote from: MelMel on July 11, 2023, 01:58:55 AM
Quote from: Big Barbie on July 10, 2023, 06:16:19 PMI knew you BITCHES had feelings. Let's not fight ever agains

 :stressed:
sike!

 :cmerefag:

you said something I didn't agree with some time 5 years ago
ndncncnccnxx

Am warning you, don't provoke me when am teary-eyed. My BULLETS are gonna be even more unpredictable when I start firing.

 :cmerefag:
Title: Re: Does Grief Ever Just Hit You Out of Nowhere
Post by: oph. on July 11, 2023, 03:37:08 AM
not bow busting a cap in his own ass from blindly throwin out ricochet messes
Title: Re: Does Grief Ever Just Hit You Out of Nowhere
Post by: Hatsumomo on July 11, 2023, 06:52:16 AM
The grief and heartbreak can be even worse when it's a breakup, because that motherfucker is still walking around on this this earth when they should be in HELL but let's not even go there.
Title: Re: Does Grief Ever Just Hit You Out of Nowhere
Post by: oph. on July 11, 2023, 07:10:59 AM
Quote from: Ma Lo on July 11, 2023, 06:52:16 AMThe grief and heartbreak can be even worse when it's a breakup, because that motherfucker is still walking around on this this earth when they should be in HELL but let's not even go there.

BAYBEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Title: Re: Does Grief Ever Just Hit You Out of Nowhere
Post by: Jon on July 11, 2023, 09:28:18 PM


Quote from: MelMel on July 11, 2023, 02:00:21 AMBut yes. I remember scrolling through my texts when I saw the last message my dad sent to me the day he died, and I started crying. It hits you at the most unexpected times.
aww hun This would make me tear up too