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Split and never return to dinner with the same group again or at least the culprits. Some people prey on group outings where they know the bill will be split so they order outrageous item quantities and/or prices.
They aren't very good friends if they can't help with splitting the bill at your damn birthday. BUT there shoulda been a discussion ahead of time also.
I do think if ur dining with that many people there should def be very clear expectations before everyone orders
And the birthday girl/boy shouldn't really be paying for their own meal . It's their birthday
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They're at each others throats but if they didn't take time to discuss things thoroughly before hand it's understandable .
Especially if some feel like they were being taken advantage of .
I woulda just asked what my fraction of the mess was , paid it and left . All that Standing there and screaming wouldn't have been worth it to me
nnnnnn this is something that needs to be discussed before ordering. So the girls who would order steak, lobster and Dom Perignon thinking the girls are gonna pick up the tab can know what's what.
But no I wouldn't split the bill, I'd pay for my portion and leave.
Quote from: Nine on August 29, 2023, 02:13:49 PMnnnnnn this is something that needs to be discussed before ordering. So the girls who would order steak, lobster and Dom Perignon thinking the girls are gonna pick up the tab can know what's what.
But no I wouldn't split the bill, I'd pay for my portion and leave.
Djfjfjfjfhfjfhfj right. Ima show you what a bad friend look like. Hit me up next week when y'all cool down. I'd prolly volunteer to pay for the BDay persons meal entirely. That would cancel out the "fuck y'all" when I pay and leave
I've never even been to a bday dinner where this happened or was even a thought. Everyone knows they're paying for their mess like any normal outing. The hell? Then people randomly offer to treat the Bday person to food and drinks and mess, but yea I've never attended something where the assumption was that we're splitting a big bill.
I heard this was a skit, but this is exactly why I don't do dinner parties. I will decline, and invite you out to dinner separately that I would pay for.
Quote from: L0NZ. on August 29, 2023, 02:33:56 PMI've never even been to a bday dinner where this happened or was even a thought. Everyone knows they're paying for their mess like any normal outing. The hell? Then people randomly offer to treat the Bday person to food and drinks and mess, but yea I've never attended something where the assumption was that we're splitting a big bull.
How bout I split your fucking skull?
Quote from: BetterAngels on August 29, 2023, 02:43:31 PMI heard this was a skit, but this is exactly why I don't do dinner parties. I will decline, and invite you out to dinner separately that I would pay for.
It def gave me that. Well not a skit, but staged. There's a difference. The latter is late, corny and attention seeking. Ew.
Quote from: Big Barbie on August 29, 2023, 02:44:58 PMQuote from: L0NZ. on August 29, 2023, 02:33:56 PMI've never even been to a bday dinner where this happened or was even a thought. Everyone knows they're paying for their mess like any normal outing. The hell? Then people randomly offer to treat the Bday person to food and drinks and mess, but yea I've never attended something where the assumption was that we're splitting a big bull.
How bout I split your fucking skull?
You can't afford.
I agree ... I think splitting is for maybe when you're with your family. Or just treating your family altogether
Or if you're hosting at your home. IMO the host is to cover everything for the guests.
My friends are always considerate enough to ask "what should I bring? A bottle? Food?" When I'm hosting but I always tell them just bring yourself . Everything is taken care of .. food drink dessert . There should be no requirements or expectations attached to that type of invite IMO.
And they know anytime I'm hosting they about to eat GEWD. I order and plate the food with lots of luv. ☺️☺️
My MLK Jr. Day soul food dinners are quite iconic :woohoo:
I would just pay the whole bill cause well...
I'm coined like dat 💅🏾
But you won't get me again!
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i'll purchase or put in on the birthday person's mess. but i don't know the rest of you FAGGOTS :uhh:
and even if i did
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Quote from: Ｂｏｏｍｚ on August 29, 2023, 04:00:05 PMI would just pay the whole bill cause well...
I'm coined like dat 💅🏾
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Paid self.
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I saw this hfgffggghh
Absolutely not. I'll pay for mine and the b'day gorl, and I'm damn sure not putting in on everyone's alcohol if I didn't even drink.
I would've paid for my portion and left their asses right there. I would've ended the friendship with all of them right then and there.
With any group larger than 6 I need a pre-fixed menu mess with a set price b/c we ain't bout to do all that
Quote from: Off The Wall. on August 29, 2023, 07:58:59 PMI would've paid for my portion and left their asses right there. I would've ended the friendship with all of them right then and there.
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Quote from: L0NZ. on August 29, 2023, 02:33:56 PMI've never even been to a bday dinner where this happened or was even a thought. Everyone knows they're paying for their mess like any normal outing. The hell? Then people randomly offer to treat the Bday person to food and drinks and mess, but yea I've never attended something where the assumption was that we're splitting a big bill.
Exactly. And I don't want to hang with or know people that assume this
Everyone pays for their own mess or we just split everything equally (bday person doesn't pay for shit). It's never that complicated with my friends because everybody eating AND drinking.
And if ALL fails and some people didn't drink or only ordered something very small... they just Venmo/cash app their part to someone else. It's just not that serious....
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