pops up on a timeline with pics from a baby shower outta NOWHERE, with their "baby mama"
bitch i literally froze. like
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i am completely in shock.
the pressure to be heteronormative is real af in these streets
ive seen this before, but more so when i first came to the south. and i didn't know those people - it was just super clear they were gay, and they were just MARRIED. not having kids with these women. and it kinda made sense considering much of the south is the "bible belt".
but this is the first time i've seen someone from my neck of the woods that i actually know doing this.
hits totally different.
but ive seen this persons father and his entire aura just screams "dont bring that gay shit near me." very macho . dripping with Black hypermasculinity.
all i can say is that it made SENSE why he was deep in the closet, once i saw his dad. who knows what he's heard from his family growing up.
he's actually more on the feminine side naturally, but he suppresses it - and it still JUMPS out here and there. it all made sense.
i know theres such a thing as bisexuality and obviously if they did this the natural way, that could be a strong possibility.
but i def wonder if his baby mama knows tea.
and i wonder if he felt pressured to do this. cuz that would be sad af. people (especially his dad) asking "why u aint got no kid yets? or a wife? :unsure: eveything ok? "
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@JCJ like dat!
Not reading that essay but Bow I will slap the shit out of you
Quote from: JCJ on January 25, 2024, 11:34:43 AMreading that essay
and i expect a summary on my desk within 24 hours. :trannyjblige:
Quote from: JCJ on January 25, 2024, 11:34:43 AMNot reading that essay but Bow I will slap the shit out of you
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Because I'm calling it as I see it?
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Quote from: Red Ruby on January 25, 2024, 11:49:12 AMQuote from: JCJ on January 25, 2024, 11:34:43 AMNot reading that essay but Bow I will slap the shit out of you
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Because I'm calling it as I see it?
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How do you know he doesn't like women?
Is he cute?
Married man dick >>>
:wellheythere:
Quote from: BrandyFromTheFuture on January 25, 2024, 12:04:26 PMHow do you know he doesn't like women?
I said it's possible he's bisexual
Didn't rule it out completely
But he definitely makes an effort to suppress and mask a lot of who he is , so also a huge possibility this is a larger, more dramatic measure to do just that.
Quote from: TogetherAgain on January 25, 2024, 04:49:30 PMIs he cute?
Married man dick >>>
:wellheythere:
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Quote from: Journey to Kalmykia on January 25, 2024, 04:58:29 PMQuote from: BrandyFromTheFuture on January 25, 2024, 12:04:26 PMHow do you know he doesn't like women?
I said it's possible he's bisexual
Didn't rule it out completely
But he definitely makes an effort to suppress and mask a lot of who he is , so also a huge possibility this is a larger, more dramatic measure to do just that.
i see. Unfortunately also straight men feel the need to try hard to surpress whatever parts of themselves that make people think theyre gay.
Quote from: BrandyFromTheFuture on January 25, 2024, 06:18:08 PMQuote from: Journey to Kalmykia on January 25, 2024, 04:58:29 PMQuote from: BrandyFromTheFuture on January 25, 2024, 12:04:26 PMHow do you know he doesn't like women?
I said it's possible he's bisexual
Didn't rule it out completely
But he definitely makes an effort to suppress and mask a lot of who he is , so also a huge possibility this is a larger, more dramatic measure to do just that.
i see. Unfortunately also straight men feel the need to try hard to surpress whatever parts of themselves that make people think theyre gay.
yes. im assuming these straight men you're referring to don't run in gay circles under the radar.
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if u think im only concluding hes gay cuz hes feminine presenting you're wrong.
i know better than that
def know straight men who have fem mannerisms here and there
just as there are very genuinely masculine men who love men.
did u fuck him?
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Quote from: Nine on January 25, 2024, 06:31:32 PMdid u fuck him?
:omgwatshappening:
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no. we have mutual friends here in atlanta, hes always down here
i know his tea but i never told him "ooooh i know u hang out with X and X!" cuz i saw what he was tryna do, and wanted to respect that and not make him uncomfortable. we're from the same neighborhood so i didnt wanna have him worrying about who i'm telling about him (i've told no one btw....really dont care that much plus he's actually very nice and sweet.)
just didnt think he'd ever take it this far. but maybe his baby mama knows.
I think it's difficult for 100% gqy men to grasp the idea that someone can be bisexual and like both genders.
Just because the idea of puss makes you want to retch it ain't the same for everyone.
I'm more gay but I eat puss and fuck women so guess I'm bisexual. I hate labels anyway.
We are what we are Abd we fuck who we fuck. It's not that complicated or serious to me.
Also it's none of your business but I'm sure you know that already.
Quote from: Amazing on January 25, 2024, 06:40:51 PMAlso it's none of your business but I'm sure you know that already.
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i was just about to say ultimately none of this is any of my business.
just shocking.
if anything he's doing nothing "wrong" if this is all for appearances
i wouldn't blame him, i'd blame the people around him who made him feel he has to do this.
my father and grandpa accepted me as i am. but im fair and wise enough to realize not everyone has that circumstance.
i can do nothing but empathize if thats the case. and hope it gets better for them
there's really nothing funny about the situation, nor is it a cue to call up people to gossip about him. but it's shocking.
Quote from: Amazing on January 25, 2024, 06:40:13 PMI think it's difficult for 100% gqy men to grasp the idea that someone can be bisexual and like both genders.
the concept of bisexuality doesn't escape me. i actually noted the possibility in the OP.
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it's not difficult to understand at all.
but we cannot act liek "beards" don't exist.
Quote from: Journey to Kalmykia on January 25, 2024, 06:49:01 PMQuote from: Amazing on January 25, 2024, 06:40:51 PMAlso it's none of your business but I'm sure you know that already.
!!!!
i was just about to say ultimately none of this is any of my business.
just shocking.
if anything he's doing nothing "wrong" if this is all for appearances
i wouldn't blame him, i'd blame the people around him who made him feel he has to do this.
my father and grandpa accepted me as i am. but im fair and wise enough to realize not everyone has that circumstance.
i can do nothing but empathize if thats the case. and hope it gets better for them
there's really nothing funny about the situation, nor is it a cue to call up people to gossip about him. but it's shocking.
Maybe he is really happy and always wanted a kid?
Quote from: Amazing on January 25, 2024, 07:01:09 PMQuote from: Journey to Kalmykia on January 25, 2024, 06:49:01 PMQuote from: Amazing on January 25, 2024, 06:40:51 PMAlso it's none of your business but I'm sure you know that already.
!!!!
i was just about to say ultimately none of this is any of my business.
just shocking.
if anything he's doing nothing "wrong" if this is all for appearances
i wouldn't blame him, i'd blame the people around him who made him feel he has to do this.
my father and grandpa accepted me as i am. but im fair and wise enough to realize not everyone has that circumstance.
i can do nothing but empathize if thats the case. and hope it gets better for them
there's really nothing funny about the situation, nor is it a cue to call up people to gossip about him. but it's shocking.
Maybe he is really happy and always wanted a kid?
i acknowledged it's possible he's bisexual luv.
i know the thread title may not reflect that but as i was typing my essay i def asked myself "well maybe he just likes women too" and included that in there as a
strong possibility.
dont worry boo i use my noggin. and im fair.
Quotei know theres such a thing as bisexuality and obviously if they did this the natural way, that could be a strong possibility.
i def remember him having this huge crush on faith evans.
but i thought it was more like my crush on nicki
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he could very well like him some puss.