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Title: Have you ever dealt with a narcissist?
Post by: 𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉 on March 27, 2024, 01:31:11 AM
The lack of accountability
The inability to see things from a perspective that isn't theirs

Me, me, ME!!

It's so irritating
Title: Re: Have you ever dealt with a narcissist?
Post by: ophababes. on March 27, 2024, 03:12:27 AM
literally just broke up with one and yessss

those two in PARTICULAR
Title: Re: Have you ever dealt with a narcissist?
Post by: 𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉 on March 27, 2024, 03:22:45 AM
Quote from: how u let him cheat on March 27, 2024, 03:12:27 AMliterally just broke up with one and yessss

those two in PARTICULAR
Oh damn
How long did you have to endure that mess?
Title: Re: Have you ever dealt with a narcissist?
Post by: ophababes. on March 27, 2024, 03:58:16 AM
baby 2 years of this shit

and i still love the bitch but i just tf can't
Title: Re: Have you ever dealt with a narcissist?
Post by: 𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉 on March 27, 2024, 04:11:20 AM
Quote from: how u let him cheat on March 27, 2024, 03:58:16 AMbaby 2 years of this shit

and i still love the bitch but i just tf can't
Ack, stay strong babes
Remind yourself of your worth
Title: Re: Have you ever dealt with a narcissist?
Post by: ophababes. on March 27, 2024, 04:21:12 AM
Quote from: 𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉 on March 27, 2024, 04:11:20 AM
Quote from: how u let him cheat on March 27, 2024, 03:58:16 AMbaby 2 years of this shit

and i still love the bitch but i just tf can't
Ack, stay strong babes
Remind yourself of your worth
thank u bby

am trying
Title: Re: Have you ever dealt with a narcissist?
Post by: dangerous on March 27, 2024, 04:25:45 AM
Recently yes....dunno if I'd call him a narcissist exactly but def got vibes that he wanted me to just fall in line with his program ... and seemed very possessive and controlling. Like he wanted to own me or something.

Diddy vibes - even down to what I felt was a possible sex addiction.

I notated every red flag and got rid of his ass before things even got a chance to progress

You kinda can only blame yourself if you ignore ANY moment where someone shows you , even for a split second , who they really are... and you choose to stay even when there's no gun to your head and all exits are open and ready to use.

Too many men out here to be acting like one of them are the last one on earth.

Next?! :cheerup:

Title: Re: Have you ever dealt with a narcissist?
Post by: 𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉 on March 27, 2024, 04:34:10 AM
Quote from: ....ok. on March 27, 2024, 04:25:45 AMdunno if I'd call him a narcissist exactly but def got vibes that he wanted me to just fall in line with his program ... and seemed very possessive and controlling. Like he wanted to own me or something. Diddy vibes

I notated every red flag and got rid of his ass before things even got a chance to progress

You kinda can only blame yourself if you ignore ANY moment where someone shows you , even for a split second , who they really are... and you choose to stay even when there's no gun to your head and all exits are open and ready to use.


Eeek
I was in a similar situation not long ago. He tried to manipulate me into thinking I NEED him. And we only met like twice, wtf. I was instantly turned off.
Those are usually the ones who have very low self esteem and present themselves as being the opposite.
Title: Re: Have you ever dealt with a narcissist?
Post by: dangerous on March 27, 2024, 05:04:58 AM
Quote from: 𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉 on March 27, 2024, 04:34:10 AM
Quote from: ....ok. on March 27, 2024, 04:25:45 AMdunno if I'd call him a narcissist exactly but def got vibes that he wanted me to just fall in line with his program ... and seemed very possessive and controlling. Like he wanted to own me or something. Diddy vibes

I notated every red flag and got rid of his ass before things even got a chance to progress

You kinda can only blame yourself if you ignore ANY moment where someone shows you , even for a split second , who they really are... and you choose to stay even when there's no gun to your head and all exits are open and ready to use.


Eeek
I was in a similar situation not long ago. He tried to manipulate me into thinking I NEED him. And we only met like twice, wtf. I was instantly turned off.
Those are usually the ones who have very low self esteem and present themselves as being the opposite.
!!!!

Types that'll bend over backwards to "get" you but once they feel they "got" you ... that's when they can kick back and implement some BS

Yeah... no.

Like ... don't let my giggles fool you boo. You ain't dealing with an idiot

Title: Re: Have you ever dealt with a narcissist?
Post by: Amazing on March 27, 2024, 05:26:27 AM
My older brother. He took the whole family to court once. He took my mum to court 5 times the year before she died over some BS. He took me to court 4 times as well over redundant family issues. He almost drove me insane over the years. I don't how I put up with his BS for so long. I hope the rest of his life is pure misery and HELL.
Title: Re: Have you ever dealt with a narcissist?
Post by: CHOKE on March 27, 2024, 05:29:57 AM
Yes

My mother

 :melmel:
Title: Re: Have you ever dealt with a narcissist?
Post by: 𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉 on March 27, 2024, 05:34:28 AM
Quote from: Amazing on March 27, 2024, 05:26:27 AMMy older brother. He took the whole family to court once. He took my mum to court 5 times the year before she died over some BS. He took me to court 4 times as well over redundant family issues. He almost drove me insane over the years. I don't how I put up with his BS for so long. I hope the rest of his life is pure misery and HELL.
Insane when it's someone in your family :-(
Title: Re: Have you ever dealt with a narcissist?
Post by: Amazing on March 27, 2024, 05:51:52 AM
Quote from: 𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉 on March 27, 2024, 05:34:28 AM
Quote from: Amazing on March 27, 2024, 05:26:27 AMMy older brother. He took the whole family to court once. He took my mum to court 5 times the year before she died over some BS. He took me to court 4 times as well over redundant family issues. He almost drove me insane over the years. I don't how I put up with his BS for so long. I hope the rest of his life is pure misery and HELL.
Insane when it's someone in your family :-(

Most of the family blame him for mum's death he put so much stress on her and he knew she was going for open heart surgery. It was meant to be a simple valve replacement with a over 99% success rate and she died. I think she wanted to die to escape from the misery he put on her.