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Title: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: RatherBe on February 12, 2016, 04:20:00 PM
Okay so I recently started going to another barber.. He's very nice looking and I think he's straight.. But sometimes when I'm getting my hair cut the conversation and how close he gets to me, makes me think he's trying to flirt with me. I can't tell. Idk if I'm just imagining mess because I have a huge crush on him. Am I looking more into it.. And if I'm not, how do I go about finding out for sure? I know y'all will be honest with me.. You guys are like the only people I would trust to give me the truth. Thanks luvs.
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Zankou. on February 12, 2016, 04:20:59 PM
what kind of conversations are ya'll having?
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Lazarus on February 12, 2016, 04:25:56 PM
Continue to feel him out a little more. If you see it ain't going nowhere fall back and forget it ever happened
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: LOONA. on February 12, 2016, 04:27:11 PM
Quote from: Smoove Jones on February 12, 2016, 04:25:56 PM
Continue to feel him out a little more. If you see it ain't going nowhere fall back and forget it ever happened

!!!!

Just lightly flirt back for now and see where it goes.

Slow and steady wins the race. 
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: martian on February 12, 2016, 04:28:11 PM
Barbers tend to get close so I wouldn't read too much into that
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Lazarus on February 12, 2016, 04:28:58 PM
Quote from: Drais. on February 12, 2016, 04:27:11 PM
Quote from: Smoove Jones on February 12, 2016, 04:25:56 PM
Continue to feel him out a little more. If you see it ain't going nowhere fall back and forget it ever happened

!!!!

Just lightly flirt back for now and see where it goes.

Slow and steady wins the race. 


!!!!

Especially in these kinda situations. Gotta take a different approach.
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: RatherBe on February 12, 2016, 04:32:37 PM
He sometimes talks about his goals... Like he'll say "Im saving up to get my own shop." And I be like that's dope!" Then he'll add "Yeah I usually don't share stuff like this with people because it means a lot to me but I feel like I can trust you."


Then the other day he asked me about my love life... I kinda felt like he was trying to find out for sure if I was gay or straight..

And when somebody openly gay comes in the shop he'll say stuff like... "They are gonna be rude to him. But I don't judge people like that. Everybody gotta live."
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Zankou. on February 12, 2016, 04:33:28 PM
c

he wants to fuck I think
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: RatherBe on February 12, 2016, 04:33:41 PM
But then again I feel biased because I have a crush on him...
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: death on February 12, 2016, 04:34:37 PM
he like u hun

jus let go
n let gay

kiss 'em nex times u see 'em
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: martian on February 12, 2016, 04:36:55 PM
"Accidentally" graze his peen next time you get your hair cut and give an oops tea  :diddraispoot:
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: GLOCK on February 12, 2016, 04:38:43 PM
He seems so sweet!
Ask him what he's getting into next weekend..
Get up for drinks.. A sports bar..
See what game playing and tell him let's watch the game there...
You'll get to chill with him if you come at him from a homeboy type place
If he's into u.. It will unravel Bruv
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: GLOCK on February 12, 2016, 04:39:08 PM
Quote from: martian on February 12, 2016, 04:36:55 PM
"Accidentally" graze his peen next time you get your hair cut and give an oops tea  :diddraispoot:
no
That's not good
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: GLOCK on February 12, 2016, 04:39:56 PM
Are u Fem????
I've seen ur pics but I'm just asking and helping you approach this the right way
The hardest thing is finding a good barber TBH
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: martian on February 12, 2016, 04:40:43 PM
Quote from: Silkk the Glocka on February 12, 2016, 04:39:08 PM
Quote from: martian on February 12, 2016, 04:36:55 PM
"Accidentally" graze his peen next time you get your hair cut and give an oops tea  :diddraispoot:
no
That's not good
just a slight forehead brush...no?
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: martian on February 12, 2016, 04:41:32 PM
Quote from: Silkk the Glocka on February 12, 2016, 04:39:56 PM
Are u Fem????
I've seen ur pics but I'm just asking and helping you approach this the right way
The hardest thing is finding a good barber TBH
!!! A good barber is hard to come by lol
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: RatherBe on February 12, 2016, 04:42:22 PM
It's like a certain way he holds my face when he's cutting my hair and then he'll be like.. "You okay... Just wanna make sure you're comfortable" and the other people heads he cuts he be yanking their shit around and don't give a shit
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Vonc2002 on February 12, 2016, 04:43:48 PM
Well speaking on the closeness aspect, I think all barbers do that. Ive had to move my hand or arm because ive felt uncomfortable with the closeness
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: RatherBe on February 12, 2016, 04:44:35 PM
Quote from: Silkk the Glocka on February 12, 2016, 04:39:56 PM
Are u Fem????
I've seen ur pics but I'm just asking and helping you approach this the right way
The hardest thing is finding a good barber TBH
I don't think I'm Fem.. I mean I'm not hiding anything because I'm pretty sure I have famine ways but that's just what I think
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: downtownbrown on February 12, 2016, 04:45:31 PM
Quote from: AjBeenOn on February 12, 2016, 04:20:00 PM
Okay so I recently started going to another barber.. He's very nice looking and I think he's straight.. But sometimes when I'm getting my hair cut the conversation and how close he gets to me, makes me think he's trying to flirt with me. I can't tell. Idk if I'm just imagining mess because I have a huge crush on him. Am I looking more into it.. And if I'm not, how do I go about finding out for sure? I know y'all will be honest with me.. You guys are like the only people I would trust to give me the truth. Thanks luvs.

Goooooooooooorl................ I'm new and even I know better...  :plzstop:
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: death on February 12, 2016, 04:45:51 PM
i 'member in middle skool i went to this one barber..guh jus ALL OVR me

bulge all up in ma face guh!
wen he got dones tho...WHEW
he had hooked a bruva AHP!!

Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: death on February 12, 2016, 04:46:20 PM
Quote from: downtownbrown on February 12, 2016, 04:45:31 PM
Quote from: AjBeenOn on February 12, 2016, 04:20:00 PM
Okay so I recently started going to another barber.. He's very nice looking and I think he's straight.. But sometimes when I'm getting my hair cut the conversation and how close he gets to me, makes me think he's trying to flirt with me. I can't tell. Idk if I'm just imagining mess because I have a huge crush on him. Am I looking more into it.. And if I'm not, how do I go about finding out for sure? I know y'all will be honest with me.. You guys are like the only people I would trust to give me the truth. Thanks luvs.

Goooooooooooorl................ I'm new and even I know better...  :plzstop:
fffffffffffffffffffffffs

:omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: downtownbrown on February 12, 2016, 04:46:35 PM
Quote from: Blues trans clue on February 12, 2016, 04:34:37 PM
he like u hun

jus let go
n let gay

kiss 'em nex times u see 'em

!!!!
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: RatherBe on February 12, 2016, 04:48:25 PM
Quote from: downtownbrown on February 12, 2016, 04:45:31 PM
Quote from: AjBeenOn on February 12, 2016, 04:20:00 PM
Okay so I recently started going to another barber.. He's very nice looking and I think he's straight.. But sometimes when I'm getting my hair cut the conversation and how close he gets to me, makes me think he's trying to flirt with me. I can't tell. Idk if I'm just imagining mess because I have a huge crush on him. Am I looking more into it.. And if I'm not, how do I go about finding out for sure? I know y'all will be honest with me.. You guys are like the only people I would trust to give me the truth. Thanks luvs.

Goooooooooooorl................ I'm new and even I know better...  :plzstop:


:hmph: this board is really honest outside of trolling and dragging each other..
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: martian on February 12, 2016, 04:49:54 PM
To be honest, it sounds like he's a nice guy who values you as a customer. Not saying it's impossible that he likes you but he's there to provide a service to you, which you pay him for. Barbers make mindless conversation sometimes to pass the time and help their customers feel comfortable, so they'll keep coming back and hopefully give a good tip.

Not trying to be harsh but I wouldn't read anything into those things. You can maybe ask questions about his interests and see if y'all have anything in common that would allow you both to meet up sometime. Even then, y'all might end up being only good friends, or nothing at all. Try not to have huge expectations. Be careful like other people said because a good barber is hard to come by. And falling for a straight guy is the worst in general. Having a crush is hard. :dead:
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: downtownbrown on February 12, 2016, 04:52:07 PM
So here's the thing... I believe that if you're gay and sincerely like someone in the way you're describing you like him...like in a sincere way...then they are gay...or at least into guys. But be sure that your attraction is honest and more than just lust...

Best! Get that dick and make sure to share with us after he slides it in for the first time.  :wub:
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: RatherBe on February 12, 2016, 04:52:57 PM
Quote from: martian on February 12, 2016, 04:49:54 PM
To be honest, it sounds like he's a nice guy who values you as a customer. Not saying it's impossible that he likes you but he's there to provide a service to you, which you pay him for. Barbers make mindless conversation sometimes to pass the time and help their customers feel comfortable, so they'll keep coming back and hopefully give a good tip.

Not trying to be harsh but I wouldn't read anything into those things. You can maybe ask questions about his interests and see if y'all have anything in common that would allow you both to meet up sometime. Even then, y'all might end up being only good friends, or nothing at all. Try not to have huge expectations. Be careful like other people said because a good barber is hard to come by. And falling for a straight guy is the worst in general. Having a crush is hard. :dead:


Yeah... Thanks... I'll just go with this.. I won't do or say anything more until it's completely obvious.. I'll keep you guys updated.. Thanks so much
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: downtownbrown on February 12, 2016, 04:53:57 PM
Quote from: AjBeenOn on February 12, 2016, 04:52:57 PM
Quote from: martian on February 12, 2016, 04:49:54 PM
To be honest, it sounds like he's a nice guy who values you as a customer. Not saying it's impossible that he likes you but he's there to provide a service to you, which you pay him for. Barbers make mindless conversation sometimes to pass the time and help their customers feel comfortable, so they'll keep coming back and hopefully give a good tip.

Not trying to be harsh but I wouldn't read anything into those things. You can maybe ask questions about his interests and see if y'all have anything in common that would allow you both to meet up sometime. Even then, y'all might end up being only good friends, or nothing at all. Try not to have huge expectations. Be careful like other people said because a good barber is hard to come by. And falling for a straight guy is the worst in general. Having a crush is hard. :dead:


Yeah... Thanks... I'll just go with this.. I won't do or say anything more until it's completely obvious.. I'll keep you guys updated.. Thanks so much

No risk, no reward...
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: death on February 12, 2016, 04:54:32 PM
g

u tryna get this boy beat up
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Glenda on February 12, 2016, 04:54:56 PM
Quote from: martian on February 12, 2016, 04:49:54 PM
To be honest, it sounds like he's a nice guy who values you as a customer. Not saying it's impossible that he likes you but he's there to provide a service to you, which you pay him for. Barbers make mindless conversation sometimes to pass the time and help their customers feel comfortable, so they'll keep coming back and hopefully give a good tip.

Not trying to be harsh but I wouldn't read anything into those things. You can maybe ask questions about his interests and see if y'all have anything in common that would allow you both to meet up sometime. Even then, y'all might end up being only good friends, or nothing at all. Try not to have huge expectations. Be careful like other people said because a good barber is hard to come by. And falling for a straight guy is the worst in general. Having a crush is hard. :dead:

!!!!! Falling for a straight guy is always doomed.

Feel it out and go with the flow hun. If it happens it happens, if it doesn't ... well at least you have a barber you can rely on.  :raycharles2urmess:
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: martian on February 12, 2016, 04:57:07 PM
Quote from: AjBeenOn on February 12, 2016, 04:52:57 PM
Quote from: martian on February 12, 2016, 04:49:54 PM
To be honest, it sounds like he's a nice guy who values you as a customer. Not saying it's impossible that he likes you but he's there to provide a service to you, which you pay him for. Barbers make mindless conversation sometimes to pass the time and help their customers feel comfortable, so they'll keep coming back and hopefully give a good tip.

Not trying to be harsh but I wouldn't read anything into those things. You can maybe ask questions about his interests and see if y'all have anything in common that would allow you both to meet up sometime. Even then, y'all might end up being only good friends, or nothing at all. Try not to have huge expectations. Be careful like other people said because a good barber is hard to come by. And falling for a straight guy is the worst in general. Having a crush is hard. :dead:


Yeah... Thanks... I'll just go with this.. I won't do or say anything more until it's completely obvious.. I'll keep you guys updated.. Thanks so much
im not saying to do "nothing" and wait on him. But instead of wondering if he likes you or not based on the signs, get to know him better and see where it goes. You could just ask him about his love life or whatever. Definitely be bold. Just don't get your hopes up is all I'm saying.
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: downtownbrown on February 12, 2016, 04:58:15 PM
Quote from: Blues trans clue on February 12, 2016, 04:54:32 PM
g

u tryna get this boy beat up

:dead:
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: RatherBe on February 12, 2016, 05:01:16 PM
Quote from: downtownbrown on February 12, 2016, 04:58:15 PM
Quote from: Blues trans clue on February 12, 2016, 04:54:32 PM
g

u tryna get this boy beat up

:dead:

Well... Wait... "Beat up" in what kinda way :heyddy:
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: throwintheTAL on February 12, 2016, 05:01:55 PM
just late
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: downtownbrown on February 12, 2016, 05:02:47 PM
Honestly, I don't understand why the gorls like to play these guessing games... Like, find someone who isn't a bitch and will just straight up ask you to fuck or go out on a date. Or be bold, confident and just ask yourself. All this guessing is just so 2000s...

It's all about fear and fear isn't real. It's only created by your own thoughts.
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: yummy on February 12, 2016, 05:03:29 PM
Quote from: AjBeenOn on February 12, 2016, 04:20:00 PM
But sometimes when I'm getting my hair cut the conversation and how close he gets to me

That happens to everybody

On many occasions, I've felt my barber's print on my arm  :ohwow:
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Glenda on February 12, 2016, 05:17:15 PM
Quote from: downtownbrown on February 12, 2016, 05:02:47 PM
Honestly, I don't understand why the gorls like to play these guessing games... Like, find someone who isn't a bitch and will just straight up ask you to fuck or go out on a date. Or be bold, confident and just ask yourself. All this guessing is just so 2000s...

It's all about fear and fear isn't real. It's only created by your own thoughts.

j
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: GLOCK on February 12, 2016, 05:18:52 PM
Quote from: martian on February 12, 2016, 04:40:43 PM
Quote from: Silkk the Glocka on February 12, 2016, 04:39:08 PM
Quote from: martian on February 12, 2016, 04:36:55 PM
"Accidentally" graze his peen next time you get your hair cut and give an oops tea  :diddraispoot:
no
That's not good
just a slight forehead brush...no?
NO
they expect gay men to do this
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: GLOCK on February 12, 2016, 05:19:52 PM
Quote from: AjBeenOn on February 12, 2016, 04:44:35 PM
Quote from: Silkk the Glocka on February 12, 2016, 04:39:56 PM
Are u Fem????
I've seen ur pics but I'm just asking and helping you approach this the right way
The hardest thing is finding a good barber TBH
I don't think I'm Fem.. I mean I'm not hiding anything because I'm pretty sure I have famine ways but that's just what I think
well the plan i gave u would be perfect luv
ask him out to watch a game mess at a sports bar
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: GLOCK on February 12, 2016, 05:20:30 PM
Quote from: downtownbrown on February 12, 2016, 04:52:07 PM
I'm new
\b
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: martian on February 12, 2016, 05:32:20 PM
Quote from: Silkk the Glocka on February 12, 2016, 05:18:52 PM
Quote from: martian on February 12, 2016, 04:40:43 PM
Quote from: Silkk the Glocka on February 12, 2016, 04:39:08 PM
Quote from: martian on February 12, 2016, 04:36:55 PM
"Accidentally" graze his peen next time you get your hair cut and give an oops tea  :diddraispoot:
no
That's not good
just a slight forehead brush...no?
NO
they expect gay men to do this
gorl I'm joking lol
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: RekeRig on February 12, 2016, 10:15:12 PM
Quote from: Silkk the Glocka on February 12, 2016, 04:38:43 PM
He seems so sweet!
Ask him what he's getting into next weekend..
Get up for drinks.. A sports bar..
See what game playing and tell him let's watch the game there...
You'll get to chill with him if you come at him from a homeboy type place
If he's into u.. It will unravel Bruv
!!!!!!! lolz
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: RekeRig on February 12, 2016, 10:15:52 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on February 12, 2016, 04:43:48 PM
Well speaking on the closeness aspect, I think all barbers do that. Ive had to move my hand or arm because ive felt uncomfortable with the closeness
:jarvwhereru:
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Rxxf on February 12, 2016, 10:22:28 PM
Quote from: AjBeenOn on February 12, 2016, 04:32:37 PM
He sometimes talks about his goals... Like he'll say "Im saving up to get my own shop." And I be like that's dope!" Then he'll add "Yeah I usually don't share stuff like this with people because it means a lot to me but I feel like I can trust you."


Then the other day he asked me about my love life... I kinda felt like he was trying to find out for sure if I was gay or straight..

And when somebody openly gay comes in the shop he'll say stuff like... "They are gonna be rude to him. But I don't judge people like that. Everybody gotta live."

interesting
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Buy The Stars✨ on February 12, 2016, 10:25:46 PM
im glad i like fem guys .. i dont ever have this probs lol


but i think glock had the right idea.. ask him to chill one day  at a bar and watch the "game" or ask what u like to do when not working and be like " OH i do that too" we should do it together one day


or

open up grindr in front of him and turn up the volume and wait for someone to message u and see if his head pops up .. that ALWAYS gets em
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: RekeRig on February 12, 2016, 10:28:47 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on February 12, 2016, 10:25:46 PM


open up grindr in front of him and turn up the volume and wait for someone to message u and see if his head pops up .. that ALWAYS gets em
:plzstop:

not the barber rushing to put his phone on vibrate
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Buy The Stars✨ on February 12, 2016, 10:40:38 PM
Quote from: RIG on February 12, 2016, 10:28:47 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on February 12, 2016, 10:25:46 PM


open up grindr in front of him and turn up the volume and wait for someone to message u and see if his head pops up .. that ALWAYS gets em
:plzstop:

not the barber rushing to put his phone on vibrate

:plzstop: :plzstop:
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Abcd on February 12, 2016, 10:46:54 PM
:dead: Lemme pm Glock a bit, he sounds like a expert
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: RekeRig on February 12, 2016, 10:48:08 PM
Quote from: Abcd on February 12, 2016, 10:46:54 PM
:dead: Lemme pm Glock a bit, he sounds like a expert
ssssssd

:heyddy:
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: GLOCK on February 12, 2016, 10:53:08 PM
Quote from: Abcd on February 12, 2016, 10:46:54 PM
:dead: Lemme pm Glock a bit, he sounds like a expert
hey bby  :sobusyjetsetter:
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Abcd on February 12, 2016, 10:54:15 PM
:stressed:


Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Abcd on February 12, 2016, 10:54:53 PM
In time tho
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Herb. on February 12, 2016, 11:22:47 PM
Quote from: AjBeenOn on February 12, 2016, 04:20:00 PM
Okay so I recently started going to another barber.. He's very nice looking and I think he's straight.. But sometimes when I'm getting my hair cut the conversation and how close he gets to me, makes me think he's trying to flirt with me. I can't tell. Idk if I'm just imagining mess because I have a huge crush on him. Am I looking more into it.. And if I'm not, how do I go about finding out for sure? I know y'all will be honest with me.. You guys are like the only people I would trust to give me the truth. Thanks luvs.
He's cute so its easier for you to find "hints" that he likes you. He's your barber, he HAS to get close to you in order to give you a good shave. Just because his dick rubbed up on you a bit doesn't mean he's sending signals.

My barber is female and I always feel her cooch rub up against me, doesn't mean she's in heat and wants us to fuck for payment when she's finished. :dead: And because she makes conversation with me, doesn't mean she wants to take it further. Just means she is being personable with her client (to keep me coming back with $$$)

My advice: If he's a great barber and you don't want to lose him (or risk an ass beating/Worldstar moment) keep it professional. 

If a man likes you he will make it known verbally to you, and the signs will be much stronger than what a hunch will give you. The fact that you had to come here and ask shows that it's all just wishful thinking.

<3
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Sensual on February 12, 2016, 11:24:52 PM
Listen to your heart
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Herb. on February 12, 2016, 11:25:25 PM
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Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: tigernathan on February 12, 2016, 11:26:03 PM
He's probably just having a conversation :uhh:
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: RekeRig on February 12, 2016, 11:27:58 PM
Quote from: imaan. on February 12, 2016, 11:26:03 PM
He's probably just having a conversation :uhh:
:plzstop:



:omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: RekeRig on February 12, 2016, 11:29:26 PM
the dating question is interesting and definitely not normal for a barber to ask about, but i still wouldn't jump
to conclusions. since he asked, you should have definitely asked him about his own mess

Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: &#8743; &#8744; &#8745; &#8746; on February 12, 2016, 11:31:21 PM
Awe so sweet and stuff
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Glenda on February 12, 2016, 11:44:46 PM
Quote from: RIG on February 12, 2016, 11:29:26 PM
the dating question is interesting and definitely not normal for a barber to ask about, but i still wouldn't jump
to conclusions. since he asked, you should have definitely asked him about his own mess

!!!! he might have been asking just to figure out what your tea was tbh.  :plzstop:
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: charlie. on February 12, 2016, 11:51:11 PM
Quote from: Silkk the Glocka on February 12, 2016, 04:38:43 PM
He seems so sweet!
Ask him what he's getting into next weekend..
Get up for drinks.. A sports bar..
See what game playing and tell him let's watch the game there...
You'll get to chill with him if you come at him from a homeboy type place
If he's into u.. It will unravel Bruv

This is actually a good idea, I agree with this.


Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Rxxf on February 12, 2016, 11:52:13 PM
Quote from: Abcd on February 12, 2016, 10:46:54 PM
:dead: Lemme pm Glock a bit, he sounds like a expert

i really love Glock
:wub:
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: charlie. on February 13, 2016, 12:04:17 AM
who said listen to your heart?



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Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: charlie. on February 13, 2016, 12:05:11 AM
Quote from: RIG on February 12, 2016, 11:27:58 PM
Quote from: imaan. on February 12, 2016, 11:26:03 PM
He's probably just having a conversation :uhh:
:plzstop:



:omgwatshappening:

dsss


i hate this place.
:plzstop:
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Stunna Gor’ on February 13, 2016, 12:06:59 AM
Quote from: downtownbrown on February 12, 2016, 04:46:35 PM
Quote from: Blues trans clue on February 12, 2016, 04:34:37 PM
he like u hun

jus let go
n let gay

kiss 'em nex times u see 'em

!!!!
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Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Stunna Gor’ on February 13, 2016, 12:08:46 AM
Quote from: AjBeenOn on February 12, 2016, 04:42:22 PM
It's like a certain way he holds my face when he's cutting my hair and then he'll be like.. "You okay... Just wanna make sure you're comfortable" and the other people heads he cuts he be yanking their shit around and don't give a shit
SDSDSDSDS
SDSNSDJDNSDMSD
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"You okay?" is sending me. Gur were you QUIVERING!?
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: GLOCK on February 13, 2016, 12:09:48 AM
Quote from: Rated Ralf on February 12, 2016, 11:52:13 PM
Quote from: Abcd on February 12, 2016, 10:46:54 PM
:dead: Lemme pm Glock a bit, he sounds like a expert

i really love Glock
:wub:
i love u too 😘😘😘
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on February 13, 2016, 12:16:07 AM
Quote from: AjBeenOn on February 12, 2016, 04:20:00 PM
You guys are like the only people I would trust to give me the truth. Thanks luvs.
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Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Herb. on February 13, 2016, 12:17:41 AM
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Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: SUPREME on February 13, 2016, 01:46:43 AM
Quote from: Blues trans clue on February 12, 2016, 04:34:37 PM
he like u hun

jus let go
n let gay

kiss 'em nex times u see 'em
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Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: RatherBe on February 13, 2016, 03:19:23 AM
Quote from: Herbie on February 12, 2016, 11:22:47 PM
Quote from: AjBeenOn on February 12, 2016, 04:20:00 PM
Okay so I recently started going to another barber.. He's very nice looking and I think he's straight.. But sometimes when I'm getting my hair cut the conversation and how close he gets to me, makes me think he's trying to flirt with me. I can't tell. Idk if I'm just imagining mess because I have a huge crush on him. Am I looking more into it.. And if I'm not, how do I go about finding out for sure? I know y'all will be honest with me.. You guys are like the only people I would trust to give me the truth. Thanks luvs.
He's cute so its easier for you to find "hints" that he likes you. He's your barber, he HAS to get close to you in order to give you a good shave. Just because his dick rubbed up on you a bit doesn't mean he's sending signals.

My barber is female and I always feel her cooch rub up against me, doesn't mean she's in heat and wants us to fuck for payment when she's finished. :dead: And because she makes conversation with me, doesn't mean she wants to take it further. Just means she is being personable with her client (to keep me coming back with $$$)

My advice: If he's a great barber and you don't want to lose him (or risk an ass beating/Worldstar moment) keep it professional. 

If a man likes you he will make it known verbally to you, and the signs will be much stronger than what a hunch will give you. The fact that you had to come here and ask shows that it's all just wishful thinking.

<3
Yeah you're right.. I'm gonna just chill out and if something more happens I'll update
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on February 13, 2016, 05:12:08 AM
 
Quote from: Vonc2002 on February 12, 2016, 04:43:48 PM
Well speaking on the closeness aspect, I think all barbers do that. Ive had to move my hand or arm because ive felt uncomfortable with the closeness

:flamebroiled:

Well get uncomfortable a bit vonc
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on February 13, 2016, 05:15:02 AM
Quote from: AjBeenOn on February 13, 2016, 03:19:23 AM
Quote from: Herbie on February 12, 2016, 11:22:47 PM
Quote from: AjBeenOn on February 12, 2016, 04:20:00 PM
Okay so I recently started going to another barber.. He's very nice looking and I think he's straight.. But sometimes when I'm getting my hair cut the conversation and how close he gets to me, makes me think he's trying to flirt with me. I can't tell. Idk if I'm just imagining mess because I have a huge crush on him. Am I looking more into it.. And if I'm not, how do I go about finding out for sure? I know y'all will be honest with me.. You guys are like the only people I would trust to give me the truth. Thanks luvs.
He's cute so its easier for you to find "hints" that he likes you. He's your barber, he HAS to get close to you in order to give you a good shave. Just because his dick rubbed up on you a bit doesn't mean he's sending signals.

My barber is female and I always feel her cooch rub up against me, doesn't mean she's in heat and wants us to fuck for payment when she's finished. :dead: And because she makes conversation with me, doesn't mean she wants to take it further. Just means she is being personable with her client (to keep me coming back with $$$)

My advice: If he's a great barber and you don't want to lose him (or risk an ass beating/Worldstar moment) keep it professional. 

If a man likes you he will make it known verbally to you, and the signs will be much stronger than what a hunch will give you. The fact that you had to come here and ask shows that it's all just wishful thinking.

<3
Yeah you're right.. I'm gonna just chill out and if something more happens I'll update

Nah fuck all dat life is too short

Has he brushed his dick up against u?
Lets start there

Fo u get aroused when hes cutting ur hair?
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: AIDS! on February 13, 2016, 05:54:30 AM
Lew please
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on February 13, 2016, 05:58:43 AM
Quote from: Amara on February 13, 2016, 05:54:30 AM
Lew please

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Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: BigDawg on February 13, 2016, 06:04:09 AM
I would be careful with that, barbers can be a tricky specimen to read.
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: DraeDrizzl3 on February 13, 2016, 07:54:53 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on February 12, 2016, 04:43:48 PM
Well speaking on the closeness aspect, I think all barbers do that.
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I was about to say. All barbers are close up on you and are usually nice to their customers. Don't get beat up.
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: martian on February 13, 2016, 09:57:38 AM
He probably wouldn't beat you up, but if he's not interested he will probably talk about you with everyone in the shop. Barbers are just as bad as women when it comes to gossip. Maybe worse.
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: RekeRig on February 13, 2016, 10:30:46 AM
Quote from: martian on February 13, 2016, 09:57:38 AM
He probably wouldn't beat you up, but if he's not interested he will probably talk about you with everyone in the shop. Barbers are just as bad as women when it comes to gossip. Maybe worse.
bgghhhhh
SOON as someone leaves they start cackling and gossiping
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: martian on February 13, 2016, 10:47:08 AM
Quote from: RIG on February 13, 2016, 10:30:46 AM
Quote from: martian on February 13, 2016, 09:57:38 AM
He probably wouldn't beat you up, but if he's not interested he will probably talk about you with everyone in the shop. Barbers are just as bad as women when it comes to gossip. Maybe worse.
bgghhhhh
SOON as someone leaves they start cackling and gossiping
!!!
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: The Brandy Barbie on February 13, 2016, 10:53:55 AM
Quote from: AjBeenOn on February 12, 2016, 04:32:37 PM
He sometimes talks about his goals... Like he'll say "Im saving up to get my own shop." And I be like that's dope!" Then he'll add "Yeah I usually don't share stuff like this with people because it means a lot to me but I feel like I can trust you."


Then the other day he asked me about my love life... I kinda felt like he was trying to find out for sure if I was gay or straight..

And when somebody openly gay comes in the shop he'll say stuff like... "They are gonna be rude to him. But I don't judge people like that. Everybody gotta live."

What did you say when he asked about your love life, because that was your opportunity to at least hint that you were gay.  And if he is, he might say something back.
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: RekeRig on February 13, 2016, 11:29:47 AM
Quote from: The Brandy Barbie on February 13, 2016, 10:53:55 AM
Quote from: AjBeenOn on February 12, 2016, 04:32:37 PM
He sometimes talks about his goals... Like he'll say "Im saving up to get my own shop." And I be like that's dope!" Then he'll add "Yeah I usually don't share stuff like this with people because it means a lot to me but I feel like I can trust you."


Then the other day he asked me about my love life... I kinda felt like he was trying to find out for sure if I was gay or straight..

And when somebody openly gay comes in the shop he'll say stuff like... "They are gonna be rude to him. But I don't judge people like that. Everybody gotta live."

What did you say when he asked about your love life, because that was your opportunity to at least hint that you were gay.  And if he is, he might say something back.
exactly

But another way is to just bring it up again in a casual manner. When he asks for your plans during the upcoming weekend, you can joke about not having a date and how long it's been blah blah 🙊 Then he'll be like "oh, word? haha shit, me either. been a minute Lolz" 👀👀👀👀
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: RatherBe on February 13, 2016, 02:04:28 PM
Quote from: The Brandy Barbie on February 13, 2016, 10:53:55 AM
Quote from: AjBeenOn on February 12, 2016, 04:32:37 PM
He sometimes talks about his goals... Like he'll say "Im saving up to get my own shop." And I be like that's dope!" Then he'll add "Yeah I usually don't share stuff like this with people because it means a lot to me but I feel like I can trust you."


Then the other day he asked me about my love life... I kinda felt like he was trying to find out for sure if I was gay or straight..

And when somebody openly gay comes in the shop he'll say stuff like... "They are gonna be rude to him. But I don't judge people like that. Everybody gotta live."

What did you say when he asked about your love life, because that was your opportunity to at least hint that you were gay.  And if he is, he might say something back.

I just said something like "I have too many trust issues for a love life right now. Lolz" he was like.. " I totally feel you.. But you gotta put yourself out there sometimes blah blah blah"
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on February 13, 2016, 04:22:14 PM
Quote from: AjBeenOn on February 13, 2016, 02:04:28 PM
Quote from: The Brandy Barbie on February 13, 2016, 10:53:55 AM
Quote from: AjBeenOn on February 12, 2016, 04:32:37 PM
He sometimes talks about his goals... Like he'll say "Im saving up to get my own shop." And I be like that's dope!" Then he'll add "Yeah I usually don't share stuff like this with people because it means a lot to me but I feel like I can trust you."


Then the other day he asked me about my love life... I kinda felt like he was trying to find out for sure if I was gay or straight..

And when somebody openly gay comes in the shop he'll say stuff like... "They are gonna be rude to him. But I don't judge people like that. Everybody gotta live."

What did you say when he asked about your love life, because that was your opportunity to at least hint that you were gay.  And if he is, he might say something back.

I just said something like "I have too many trust issues for a love life right now. Lolz" he was like.. " I totally feel you.. But you gotta put yourself out there sometimes blah blah blah"


Lol that was totally ur que to say hey im done withn women for a while lmao
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: LOONA. on February 13, 2016, 04:48:53 PM
Quote from: AjBeenOn on February 13, 2016, 02:04:28 PM
Quote from: The Brandy Barbie on February 13, 2016, 10:53:55 AM
Quote from: AjBeenOn on February 12, 2016, 04:32:37 PM
He sometimes talks about his goals... Like he'll say "Im saving up to get my own shop." And I be like that's dope!" Then he'll add "Yeah I usually don't share stuff like this with people because it means a lot to me but I feel like I can trust you."


Then the other day he asked me about my love life... I kinda felt like he was trying to find out for sure if I was gay or straight..

And when somebody openly gay comes in the shop he'll say stuff like... "They are gonna be rude to him. But I don't judge people like that. Everybody gotta live."

What did you say when he asked about your love life, because that was your opportunity to at least hint that you were gay.  And if he is, he might say something back.

I just said something like "I have too many trust issues for a love life right now. Lolz" he was like.. " I totally feel you.. But you gotta put yourself out there sometimes blah blah blah"

That was cute but a little vague. You should've said women are a fckn headache and ur done with them for now  :flamebroiled: 
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: RatherBe on February 18, 2016, 10:40:01 AM
Went to get a haircut yesterday.. Same ol same ol.. He invited me to go out with him, some of the other barbers and some of his friends this weekend.. I'm gonna go but Im not really expecting anything..
Title: Re: Serious Advice needed.
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on February 18, 2016, 02:39:49 PM
Quote from: AjBeenOn on February 18, 2016, 10:40:01 AM
Went to get a haircut yesterday.. Same ol same ol.. He invited me to go out with him, some of the other barbers and some of his friends this weekend.. I'm gonna go but Im not really expecting anything..


Baybeeee he want to see how jive with the crew

Get cho man sis