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Title: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: tigernathan on April 11, 2016, 03:21:23 PM
I'm curious to hear opinions on this :diddraispoot: cause judging by the 'Porsha threads a lot of you feel like it's NOT a choice.

Let's discuss :omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Janet Jackson on April 11, 2016, 03:26:57 PM
I know that pissing on kids is definitely a choice!
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: SouravMay on April 11, 2016, 03:28:55 PM
It is not. But acting on it, is.
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Cowboy Nine on April 11, 2016, 03:30:11 PM
h

Why would it be a choice?
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Nyan Cat on April 11, 2016, 03:31:06 PM
Quote from: Janet Jackson on April 11, 2016, 03:26:57 PM
I know that pissing on kids is definitely a choice!
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Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Nyan Cat on April 11, 2016, 03:32:25 PM
none of it is a choice

ure gay?
u date guys?
ure gonna have sex wit 'em
its who u are

not a choice
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Boomz on April 11, 2016, 03:33:02 PM
No
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Vonc2002 on April 11, 2016, 03:38:23 PM
I don't believe it is but i know some people who don't agree
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: MAY on April 11, 2016, 03:41:12 PM
Being gay is not a choice. At least for me it wasn't.

I can't speak for others.
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: ... on April 11, 2016, 03:42:09 PM
Def not a choice.

Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on April 11, 2016, 03:42:40 PM
Yes i certainly is a choice

Actions arent feelings

But u cannot help what gets u moist
Eventho it is possible to recondition urself
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: tigernathan on April 11, 2016, 03:42:55 PM
Out of curiosity, can you guys explain why you don't feel like it was a choice? This is interesting to me.
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: MAY on April 11, 2016, 03:45:31 PM
I've been attracted to men as long as I can remember. Ever since I was a little kid.
I have never had an attraction to women, and it wasn't influenced by anything other than
that's just who I am. So no it wasn't a choice for me.
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Ma Lo on April 11, 2016, 03:47:58 PM
Is breathing a choice ? Can't speak for anyone else but being gay is a part of my very existence .
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Genesis on April 11, 2016, 03:48:55 PM
Quote from: Janet Jackson on April 11, 2016, 03:26:57 PM
I know that pissing on kids is definitely a choice!
Lmao

What is wrong with that chick
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: AIDS! on April 11, 2016, 03:49:13 PM
Quote from: IMAAN on April 11, 2016, 03:42:55 PM
Out of curiosity, can you guys explain why you don't feel like it was a choice? This is interesting to me.
The same way your attracted to men and wouldn't look twice at another woman and can't turn it off, the same way we feel
I guess some people say it's a choice because you can 'choose' not to have sex with the same sex, thus it being a 'choice' even though the feelings and attraction is still there lol
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Kurama on April 11, 2016, 03:49:22 PM
g

oh inquisitive!

Gorl just start the damn mess already.
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Ma Lo on April 11, 2016, 03:51:41 PM
Everything begins with choice . Almost everything , but who you love and are innately are sexually , emotionally and spiritually attracted to has doing to do with choice . It's who you are . Same sex orientation will never be understood because it can only be explained and understood by those who were born that way . Otherwise , keep your negativity and opinions to yourself . And focus on winning American Idol and maybe losing some weight before you speak negatively or even form an opinion about things your feeble nigger mind can't possibly understand .
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on April 11, 2016, 03:56:00 PM
Quote from: IMAAN on April 11, 2016, 03:42:55 PM
Out of curiosity, can you guys explain why you don't feel like it was a choice? This is interesting to me.

Well


Same sex attraction isnt a choice
But how u go about handeling it is a choice

Some people comingle the two and say none of it is a choice
Saying u cant help how u feel so u cant control how u act

Saying otherwise would mean we never exersise self control

But yeah
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Ma Lo on April 11, 2016, 03:58:35 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on April 11, 2016, 03:56:00 PM
Quote from: IMAAN on April 11, 2016, 03:42:55 PM
Out of curiosity, can you guys explain why you don't feel like it was a choice? This is interesting to me.

Well


Same sex attraction isnt a choice
But how u go about handeling it is a choice



I agree
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Vonc2002 on April 11, 2016, 04:02:05 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on April 11, 2016, 03:56:00 PM
Quote from: IMAAN on April 11, 2016, 03:42:55 PM
Out of curiosity, can you guys explain why you don't feel like it was a choice? This is interesting to me.

Well


Same sex attraction isnt a choice
But how u go about handeling it is a choice

Some people comingle the two and say none of it is a choice
Saying u cant help how u feel so u cant control how u act

Saying otherwise would mean we never exersise self control

But yeah
I honestly never thought about it like this.  In my mind,  i do put them both together.  Ur attracted to women so u lay with women and vice versa. I mean its kinda illogical to think someone is going to lay with women when they attracted to men but i guess i now see the argument
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Cartierline on April 11, 2016, 04:19:35 PM
Being gay is not a choice but living life as an openly gay person is a choice.
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Nyan Cat on April 11, 2016, 04:20:30 PM
Quote from: Cartier on April 11, 2016, 04:19:35 PM
Being gay is not a choice but living life as an openly gay person is a choice.
THIS

ill 'gree with lols
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Pearls Khan on April 11, 2016, 04:37:00 PM
this forum isn't really the place to discuss spiritual beliefs lolz

I just find it funny how some gays can conclusively declare homosexually from birth but can't recall their first steps, first words, or any other early milestones. I understand claiming it from a very early age, but from birth.....no hun. lolz
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on April 11, 2016, 04:38:00 PM
Quote from: Kurama on April 11, 2016, 03:49:22 PM
g

oh inquisitive!

Gorl just start the damn mess already.
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Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: yekim on April 11, 2016, 04:39:42 PM
ur all goin to hellz

:letsmessfag:
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Rxxf on April 11, 2016, 04:41:09 PM
being gay is NOT a choice
acting on your true nature IS a choice

people confuse the two
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: STUNNA GOD on April 11, 2016, 04:46:53 PM
Quote from: ' on April 11, 2016, 03:31:06 PM
Quote from: Janet Jackson on April 11, 2016, 03:26:57 PM
I know that pissing on kids is definitely a choice!
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Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Azerbaijan on April 11, 2016, 04:53:32 PM
dummy cunt

:holdupguys:

Being gay = Not a choice

Having sex = A choice
Having gay sex = A choice
Having straight sex = A choice
Having sex with a dog = A choice
Raping a 14 year old girl and pissing in her mouth = Kind of a fucking choice, luv

:letsmessfag: :letsmessfag: :letsmessfag:

It's pretty fuckin simple.

And just because the act of having sex is a choice regardless of sexuality, not everyone is going to be a fucking nun or monk to please some arguable God that, perhaps according to LaBuffet, will be sending me to hell anyway

Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: yummy on April 11, 2016, 04:54:09 PM
It might be a choice for some people. Either way, it shouldn't matter...homosexuality doesn't need to be justified or theorized.
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: SouravMay on April 11, 2016, 04:55:49 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on April 11, 2016, 04:54:09 PM
It might be a choice for some people. Either way, it shouldn't matter...homosexuality doesn't need to be justified.
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: STUNNA GOD on April 11, 2016, 04:55:54 PM
Quote from: Rawlf on April 11, 2016, 04:41:09 PM
being gay is NOT a choice
acting on your true nature IS a choice

people confuse the two
!!!!!!!

Essentially, ANY action is a damn choice or a decision. If another nigger rather go stick his peen in some damn puss, well that's his fucking CHOICE too.
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: SouravMay on April 11, 2016, 04:56:36 PM
Many women say they choose other women because men did them so wrong.
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Young on April 11, 2016, 04:58:45 PM
Once you're here? No.
Before you get here? Yes.

If that's makes sense
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: SouravMay on April 11, 2016, 04:59:20 PM
Quote from: Young on April 11, 2016, 04:58:45 PM
Once you're here? No.
Before you get here? Yes.

If that's makes sense

esoteric self

nn :-P
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Young on April 11, 2016, 05:00:39 PM
Quote from: Rajesha on April 11, 2016, 04:59:20 PM
Quote from: Young on April 11, 2016, 04:58:45 PM
Once you're here? No.
Before you get here? Yes.

If that's makes sense

esoteric self

nn :-P

:supluv: :raycharles2urmess:
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: STUNNA GOD on April 11, 2016, 05:10:19 PM
Quote from: Rajesha on April 11, 2016, 04:56:36 PM
Many women say they choose other women because men did them so wrong.
well are they really gay? Or are they just "choosing" to engage in gay activity cuz they can't find a decent ass nigger?

I kinda agree with Yumz. It just really depends on the fag and their personal experience. For me, it wasn't a choice. Sexuality is just very complex and can't completely be defined.
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Cartierline on April 11, 2016, 05:34:52 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on April 11, 2016, 04:54:09 PM
Either way, it shouldn't matter...homosexuality doesn't need to be justified or theorized.
/thread tbqh
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: throwintheTAL on April 11, 2016, 10:05:25 PM
Quote from: Rajesha on April 11, 2016, 03:28:55 PM
It is not. But acting on it, is.
what does your last statement even prove? :uhh:
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: throwintheTAL on April 11, 2016, 10:10:46 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on April 11, 2016, 03:42:40 PMu cannot help what gets u moist
Eventho it is possible to recondition urself
how you gon contradict yourself within the same sentence?
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: SUPREME on April 11, 2016, 10:28:35 PM
Quote from: Kurama on April 11, 2016, 03:49:22 PM
g

oh inquisitive!

Gorl just start the damn mess already.
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Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: tigernathan on April 11, 2016, 10:49:51 PM
n

Just wanted everyone's attention tbh lolz
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: COD. on April 11, 2016, 10:50:13 PM
Quote from: IMAAN on April 11, 2016, 10:49:51 PM
n

Just wanted everyone's attention tbh lolz

:plzstop:
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: throwintheTAL on April 11, 2016, 11:00:52 PM
this lil itty bitty 3-pager sure got everyone fumed
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: tigernathan on April 11, 2016, 11:06:46 PM
sure did, DYKE
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: papaJ on April 11, 2016, 11:24:04 PM
Quote from: IMAAN on April 11, 2016, 10:49:51 PM
n

Just wanted everyone's attention tbh lolz

Listen you messy bitch there is nothing wrong with being gay. NOTHING! :usureuok:

It comes as naturally as your sexuality comes  to you..

Case closed
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Nyan Cat on April 11, 2016, 11:25:00 PM
igggggggggggggggggk

:rthosehotwings:
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: RatherBe on April 12, 2016, 12:19:10 AM
i dont remember waking up making a choice.... thats just me. i just knew what sexually excited me and what didnt.
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: MAY on April 12, 2016, 12:21:31 AM
I'm waiting for that photo to pop up!

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Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on April 12, 2016, 06:30:01 AM
Its hard for me to understand male female attraction sometimes
It just seems forced in most cases
Title: Re: Is Being Gay a Choice?
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on April 12, 2016, 06:38:01 AM
Quote from: AjBeenOn on April 12, 2016, 12:19:10 AM
i dont remember waking up making a choice.... thats just me. i just knew what sexually excited me and what didnt.

Well for me its more than that  like  i need a man in my life that i can be close to
And i really enjoy male company


Tired of females to be honest