OMF I cannot fckn dew it. I went out with a guy, and he basically said he'd love to date, he wrote me the sweetest message basically asking me if I am interested in the same way... And I just can't give him that REAL...
I sent him a long message evading a clear answer. It is fucking killing me. "A sorry not looking for anything at the moment" I could never find the disrespect in me to type sth like that, I just feel it is so rude....
Guys how do you let somebody know you ain't into it, but in a respectful and gentle manner?
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OMG I feel so bad, I wanna date ha a bit just because, but he just ain't sessy to me. Plus I am really liking my new man, I told y'all about, and this guy it was clear we'd hang out as friends.
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you broke up with that one boy?
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If you have a whole boyfriend
Why are u going on dates with other dudes? :dead:
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME DIETRICH III on April 15, 2016, 07:48:55 PM
you broke up with that one boy?
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we are not "together", we are just dating for 2 months now. And the guy I "rejected" I met as a business contact and he started feeling me and telling me via text, how he wants to dig deeper or some mess. I felt so uncomfortable.
Just ignore him that usually works. People know how to catch a hint.
Quote from: Baphomet. on April 15, 2016, 07:52:18 PM
Just ignore him that usually works. People know how to catch a hint.
nnn we been talking at a rapid rate and all of sudden he punches out this long as text giving a real talk mess, and we just met ONCE... We didn't kiss, or lock eyes or touch or anything...
I'm like sis, you shoulda tested the waters a bit before going for a real talk mess :uhh:
I couldn't disappear all of a sudden from the chat. Ugh this really hurt me. And he is like a really cool person, even played me some of exclusive music and stuff... I need to make it smooth and meet him again, so he feels better about himself.
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Quote from: Rajesha on April 15, 2016, 07:40:33 PM
"A sorry not looking for anything at the moment"
I mean that was kinda the answer hun.
I just tell guys I'm not interested in dating/relationships and I'm focusing on myself but we can still be friends.
Quote from: Baphomet. on April 15, 2016, 07:52:18 PM
Just ignore him that usually works. People know how to catch a hint.
!!!!!
I was about to say I just stop responding.
And if you see them in person ;
"oh! been busy! sorry didn't see your text!" or "new phone! lost all my old contacts! lol!"