A Breakup...my relationship just ended
recently and its fuckin difficult to deal with since its so fresh 😢😔 smh... What advice would ya give?
Take some time to get to know yourself all over again. Reflect on strengths you brought to the relationship and areas you could improve one. Focus on moving forward (whatever that may look like for you). Also do things you like or discover new things you may potentially like.
My condolences to you.
Now is the best time to spoil yourself and indulge in whatever you like.
Sorry to hear that hon. Honestly it just get easier with time.
The best thing you can do is focus on you and the things you have going on.
Also, surround yourself with good friends & family. That's always a good distraction.
Eventually it will start to get easier. You'll still have moments, but you'll be ok.
I find that it hurts less when I hang out with friends more, travel, or pick up a new hobby.
Thanks y'all, I appreciate all of the advice 😔😔
Real talk all the hanging out with friends and getting to know yourself mess is cute but only time makes it better. You can go to the movies with Suzie but when you get in the bed that night where will she be? Its like people who use alcohol or drugs to escape their problems. The problems remain when they sober up. Ur gonna be in your feelings alone after your little friend and hobby highs. You actually have to accept the fact that its goig to hurt for a while and let time dissolve it. You have to grieve it properly. ur not gonna snap back and be able to function normally that quickly tbh.
Quote from: L0NZ. on June 08, 2016, 06:22:58 PM
Real talk all the hanging out with friends and getting to know yourself mess is cute but only time makes it better. You can go to the movies with Suzie but when you get in the bed that night where will she be? Its like people who use alcohol or drugs to escape their problems. The problems remain when they sober up. Ur gonna be in your feelings alone after your little friend and hobby highs. You actually have to accept the fact that its goig to hurt for a while and let time dissolve it. You have to grieve it properly. ur not gonna snap back and be able to function normally that quickly tbh.
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The realist shit I heard! Thank you!!