Let's cuts to the damns chase a bit. How important is sex in relationships to you. Let's say you really like someone, but you're not that satisfied/happy in the bedroom. Do you pick up and leave or stick around and hope it gets better?
I've experienced great bedroom partners, but lousy love interests and vice versa.
depends on what isn't satisfying you. Can they be taught?
It's not important at all.
If I can get my dick sucked then I'm cool.
As far as your situation goes...I'm kinda in the same position. Don't ever leave someone because of sex. If they are great partners, it's best to just stick it out. You will regret leaving someone cause the sex is wack if they are a good person. Good partners are hard to find these days.
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on June 30, 2016, 05:05:38 PM
depends on what isn't satisfying you. Can they be taught?
Some things, yes. But with some people, the sexual chemistry is just OFF.
Very important.
I feel like it definitely brings ppl closer if done right
No point in being in a relationship where there's no satisfaction!
I couldn't imagine being with someone where sex wasn't important
important, BYE!
:kii: Von :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on June 30, 2016, 05:11:37 PM
important, BYE!
BVVBBNNNNNNNNNNNNN
Ur trash .. So this is no surprise.
I honestly can't imagine. Just communicate what YOU like sexually, and show them by doing it to them lol just take the time
I can't imagine dropping someone for that reason. Especially if the chemistry is so great everywhere else. And If I'm to that point in a relationship, then it's probably because they're a great communicator and not super sensitive, so I wouldn't hesitate to let them know something isn't working lol
It's not that important to me. If we have a great relationship but the intamacy is lacking...that can always be taught and improved on
We are humans. It's a must that you're sexually pleasured in some way.
Now it may not HAVE to be sex but you gotta do damns SOMETHIN to make me cum. I mean...
Its not important to me tbh.
Really like?
Nah you'd have to love them to let that slide
But even then, it won't work because that's something that will eventually turn you off completely from that person.
What you have now is a great friend in the making tho!
Quote from: Glock on June 30, 2016, 05:14:20 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on June 30, 2016, 05:11:37 PM
important, BYE!
BVVBBNNNNNNNNNNNNN
Ur trash .. So this is no surprise.
U just agreed with me :letsmessfag:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on June 30, 2016, 05:15:53 PM
Quote from: Glock on June 30, 2016, 05:14:20 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on June 30, 2016, 05:11:37 PM
important, BYE!
BVVBBNNNNNNNNNNNNN
Ur trash .. So this is no surprise.
U just agreed with me :letsmessfag:
So I guess that makes me trash too
:cheerup:
Honestly I would take a good solid relationship over great sex anyday. I was in a relationship where the sex was crazy good but the dude had no communication skills so it was reduced to a fwb situation, then just a hit and run.
Yeah good communication & conversation>sex
I just cant imagine sex being bad with someone you love.
Like... the passion alone :dead:
But yea, i need to feel chemistry with someone. I like that hot n heavy kinda stuff. I agree that the other shit outways sex but im not sticking around if im not satisfied, sorry. Im an all or nothing guy tho. Like those guys who will date an "ugly" because fat ass so HEY. Nah, i need to be fully into u. U couldnt even suck me off if im not IN, pass. So there will be no discounting shit in an effort to make some shit work. Certain things are negotiable, sexual chemistry aint one of em
Quote from: Baphomet. on June 30, 2016, 05:20:34 PM
I just cant imagine sex being bad with someone you love.
Like... the passion alone :dead:
!!!!!
Unless ur sitting up comparing everything to porn and craving a certain dick size and all that, idk ...
It's a lot easier to improve ur sex game, than it is to improve communication skills and other integral pieces that make a relationship work. Ch
Quote from: BigDawg on June 30, 2016, 05:19:49 PM
Honestly I would take a good solid relationship over great sex anyday. I was in a relationship where the sex was crazy good but the dude had no communication skills so it was reduced to a fwb situation, then just a hit and run.
Just sounds like u need to make a move :dead:
I can't take y'all with this one or the other. Its needs to be ATLEAST a bit of both or ur getting served papers tbfh
Quote from: 1Rig on June 30, 2016, 05:22:16 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on June 30, 2016, 05:20:34 PM
I just cant imagine sex being bad with someone you love.
Like... the passion alone :dead:
!!!!!
Unless ur sitting up comparing everything to porn and craving a certain dick size and all that, idk ...
It's a lot easier to improve ur sex game, than it is to improve communication skills and other integral pieces that make a relationship work. Ch
Quote from: 1Rig on June 30, 2016, 05:22:16 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on June 30, 2016, 05:20:34 PM
I just cant imagine sex being bad with someone you love.
Like... the passion alone :dead:
!!!!!
Unless ur sitting up comparing everything to porn and craving a certain dick size and all that, idk ...
It's a lot easier to improve ur sex game, than it is to improve communication skills and other integral pieces that make a relationship work. Ch
perfectly put.
Quote from: Baphomet. on June 30, 2016, 05:20:34 PM
I just cant imagine sex being bad with someone you love.
Like... the passion alone :dead:
and that feeling when somebody you love does something NASTY and shocks the shit outta you
"Babe.... I ... I can't believe you did that?"
(http://i.imgur.com/Co1GfSt.gif)
"Do it again"
:caramelapple:
Honestly, it's very important. Eventually most relationships get to a point where the sex kinda dies down, but in the beginning it's really important.
Am sorry, but I need COCK
its important but...
im a little weird i think... im not too fond of sex unless im locked in emotionally, ...so if i feel nothing for you yet because the situation is new or you cant really stimulate me intellectually... it wouldnt really be that important to me.. we would need to work on building or it could just mean that you aint the one i should be spreading my legs for
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on June 30, 2016, 05:35:20 PM
Honestly, it's very important. Eventually most relationships get to a point where the sex kinda dies down, but in the beginning it's really important.
Am sorry, but I need COCK
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Iono, I'd have to be REALLY into you to look past our lack of sexual chemistry..
:damselindistress:
If you put it down right, like the way I want it, play ya cards right - maybe we can fall in love. Lol!
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It's important... I think the % changes with whom you're with at the time, IMO.
It's not important to me at all. I learned that you can have crazy sexual chemistry with someone and it'll just become a fleeting feeling eventually. You become an object of their desire and the feeling of lust will fade. I would take genuine love and passion over that!
Intimacy is an integral part of a relationship, but if you have great chemistry/connection with someone...won't that make the sex better in the long run?
I've always believe the emotions tied to love make for better sex.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on June 30, 2016, 05:51:56 PM
Intimacy is an integral part of a relationship, but if you have great chemistry/connection with someone...won't that make the sex better in the long run?
I've always believe the emotions tied to love make for better sex.
Quote from: imani on June 30, 2016, 05:48:54 PM
It's not important to me at all. I learned that you can have crazy sexual chemistry with someone and it'll just become a fleeting feeling eventually. You become an object of their desire and the feeling of lust will fade. I would take genuine love and passion over that!
both of these posts >
#1 on the list
It's not that important to me i'm more bout the companionship>>>>>
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We can't even get into a relationship if the sex is terrible
Quote from: GRAND on June 30, 2016, 06:08:41 PM
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We can't even get into a relationship if the sex is terrible
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:plea:
Quote from: LiBra on June 30, 2016, 06:04:27 PM
It's not that important to me i'm more bout the companionship>>>>>
I just always looked at great sex as one of those qualities required for success
Eventually sex quality may dwindle, but so do appearances and certain personality traits
So I just want all of the above and want to enjoy them until we're old and gross
Important but not a deal bfeaker. Things can improve. Sometimes its best that the sex is not tooo good.
Yeah
And I've had bad partners that turned into a great partners with a bit of training. They just have to learn your body and what stimulates you.
Quote from: Baphomet. on June 30, 2016, 05:53:36 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on June 30, 2016, 05:51:56 PM
Intimacy is an integral part of a relationship, but if you have great chemistry/connection with someone...won't that make the sex better in the long run?
I've always believe the emotions tied to love make for better sex.
Quote from: imani on June 30, 2016, 05:48:54 PM
It's not important to me at all. I learned that you can have crazy sexual chemistry with someone and it'll just become a fleeting feeling eventually. You become an object of their desire and the feeling of lust will fade. I would take genuine love and passion over that!
both of these posts >
Quote from: Vonc2002 on June 30, 2016, 05:23:00 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on June 30, 2016, 05:19:49 PM
Honestly I would take a good solid relationship over great sex anyday. I was in a relationship where the sex was crazy good but the dude had no communication skills so it was reduced to a fwb situation, then just a hit and run.
Just sounds like u need to make a move :dead:
I can't take y'all with this one or the other. Its needs to be ATLEAST a bit of both or ur getting served papers tbfh
oh no doubt :dead: I thought we were just discussing lack of fulfillment to an EXTENT sssssd not a complete carcass in bed. No way
Quote from: BENTLEY! on June 30, 2016, 05:30:13 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on June 30, 2016, 05:20:34 PM
I just cant imagine sex being bad with someone you love.
Like... the passion alone :dead:
and that feeling when somebody you love does something NASTY and shocks the shit outta you
"Babe.... I ... I can't believe you did that?"
(http://i.imgur.com/Co1GfSt.gif)
"Do it again"
:caramelapple:
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Unless you're just not compatible sexual role wise (I believe that CAN'T be changed), then good sex can be taught.
I didn't believe that until I was seeing this guy earlier this year. Sweet and handsome all the way around, the first time we had sex... HORRIBLE! The thing that was cool is that he asked me how it was and I let him down easy by saying, it was ok, but could be a lot better. I gave him my thoughts and I guess he took mental notes because the next time was ABSOLUTE FIRE! Whew! Ddy knocked it out the fucking PARK! We would still be together if I didn't move. I think about that sick and stroke quite often... :'(
So yes. It is important. unless they are just stubborn, or incompatible to you (in that case you don't need to be with them anyway), teach and get your life Prof. Cack!
not very
Quote from: Vonc2002 on June 30, 2016, 05:20:58 PM
But yea, i need to feel chemistry with someone. I like that hot n heavy kinda stuff. I agree that the other shit outways sex but im not sticking around if im not satisfied, sorry. Im an all or nothing guy tho. Like those guys who will date an "ugly" because fat ass so HEY. Nah, i need to be fully into u. U couldnt even suck me off if im not IN, pass. So there will be no discounting shit in an effort to make some shit work. Certain things are negotiable, sexual chemistry aint one of em
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you're never gettin any cuddy
Quote from: Vonc2002 on June 30, 2016, 05:20:58 PM
I agree that the other shit outways sex but im not sticking around if im not satisfied, sorry.
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:plzstop:
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on June 30, 2016, 05:45:14 PM
If you put it down right, like the way I want it, play ya cards right - maybe we can fall in love. Lol!
fnnbnbbbbbbggg
Lol!
Quote from: downtownbrown on June 30, 2016, 07:27:38 PM
Unless you're just not compatible sexual role wise (I believe that CAN'T be changed), then good sex can be taught.
Quote from: Don Draper on June 30, 2016, 07:38:37 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on June 30, 2016, 05:20:58 PM
I agree that the other shit outways sex but im not sticking around if im not satisfied, sorry.
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:plzstop:
Quote from: Drais. on June 30, 2016, 06:48:43 PM
Yeah
And I've had bad partners that turned into a great partners with a bit of training. They just have to learn your body and what stimulates you.
!!!!!
What's great for you, may not be shit to anyone else
Sexual chemistry is a strong indicator of romantic compatibility to me.
Quote from: Corporate Cannibal. on June 30, 2016, 09:23:38 PM
It's not that important. As long as they treat me right, that's all I care about.
!!
Exactly, because lets say you are with a great person and the sex is poppin but something happens that leaves them unable to perform...an illness, disablity or disfigurement, then what? If you are only in it for the sex and that is taken out of the equation, what are you left with?