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Title: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: Ashley Bank$ on July 08, 2016, 07:22:16 PM
It almost feels like it would be a selfish decision to intentionally bring a child into such a horrible world. Especially a child of color. :stressed:
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: Real on July 08, 2016, 07:26:10 PM
Were u adopting
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: Cowgirl on July 08, 2016, 07:28:48 PM
Hey bvy. The world doesn't need any of your kids, ok? Love ya!
:jetbeauty:
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: Treasure on July 08, 2016, 07:29:06 PM
nfmgmn

luv conquer all
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Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: D.I.E.G.O. on July 08, 2016, 07:29:42 PM
If you flip it though, I guess it makes people want to raise independent, strong-willed leaders to help change the world
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 08, 2016, 07:30:06 PM
Quote from: indigenous. on July 08, 2016, 07:27:21 PM
Quote from: Don Draper on July 08, 2016, 07:26:10 PM
Were u adopting
m

R u adopting?

I want my own biological kids

You understand you cannot give birth hun?
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: Cowgirl on July 08, 2016, 07:30:21 PM
Quote from: Chao on July 08, 2016, 07:29:06 PM
nfmgmn

luv conquer all
(https://uploadir.com/u/avlcshgq)
Cute! Did you get new highlights?
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: BigDawg on July 08, 2016, 07:30:28 PM
There are so many things to be worried about in this world. My sister and I are 12 years apart, she almost feels like my child. Now that she is 21, I still find myself wanting to protect her every move. I cant imagine how over protective I would be with my own kid.
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: FlowerBomb on July 08, 2016, 07:30:43 PM
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on July 08, 2016, 07:29:42 PM
If you flip it though, I guess it makes people want to raise independent, strong-willed leaders to help change the world
!!!!!!
Your kids could be the ones to change the scene
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: Treasure on July 08, 2016, 07:31:49 PM
Quote from: Ms Malika on July 08, 2016, 07:30:43 PM
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on July 08, 2016, 07:29:42 PM
If you flip it though, I guess it makes people want to raise independent, strong-willed leaders to help change the world
!!!!!!
Your kids could be the ones to change the scene
!!!

not wen it come to hair stuff tho

but evryone and thing have purposes
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: FlowerBomb on July 08, 2016, 07:33:49 PM
Def not leaving mine vulnerable and exposed to the school system though
Mine are going to be educated on everything 'black''
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 08, 2016, 07:34:53 PM
fdkjjjjjjjj
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: D.I.E.G.O. on July 08, 2016, 07:35:41 PM
Quote from: Ms Malika on July 08, 2016, 07:33:49 PM
Def not leaving mine vulnerable and exposed to the school system though
Mine are going to be educated on everything 'black''

!!! That's what we need more of. Too many of these damn black babies running around here not knowing their history like Wendy Williams.
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: FlowerBomb on July 08, 2016, 07:37:15 PM
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on July 08, 2016, 07:35:41 PM
Quote from: Ms Malika on July 08, 2016, 07:33:49 PM
Def not leaving mine vulnerable and exposed to the school system though
Mine are going to be educated on everything 'black''

!!! That's what we need more of. Too many of these damn black babies running around here not knowing their history like Wendy Williams.
mine will definitely know where they came from
Hhhh my dad drummed his lineage into me from a young age
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: GRAND on July 08, 2016, 07:37:19 PM
Has Earth EVER been in harmony?
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: FlowerBomb on July 08, 2016, 07:37:42 PM
Quote from: indigenous. on July 08, 2016, 07:36:57 PM
Quote from: Chao on July 08, 2016, 07:31:49 PM
Quote from: Ms Malika on July 08, 2016, 07:30:43 PM
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on July 08, 2016, 07:29:42 PM
If you flip it though, I guess it makes people want to raise independent, strong-willed leaders to help change the world
!!!!!!
Your kids could be the ones to change the scene
!!!

not wen it come to hair stuff tho

but evryone and thing have purposes
bhhjjjhhhgggggggf

The first thing they will be taught is hair care

Then how to interact with police, survive and thrive blah blah and all that other stuff (if time allows)
hhgguiiiiiiii
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: Cowgirl on July 08, 2016, 07:38:07 PM
[instagram]https://www.instagram.com/p/BHl3sF3D0iB/?taken-by=amberrose&hl=en[/instagram]
Quote from: amberroseI woke up this morning to my beautiful son with such a heavy heart. I grabbed my baby and kissed him, hugged him, told him how beautiful his skin and hair is and let him know that one day he will be able to change the world and I will love him and accept him no matter what. I stayed off of social media all day today to spend every waking second of my day off with my boy and loved him up. Now that he?s warm in his bed it is so bittersweet that I have my baby next to me and other women are losing their babies left and right. I?m filled with such sadness. Alton and Philando were somebodies babies and they had babies themselves. Kiss ur babies tonight no matter how old they are and tell them you love them more then anything! Because at this rate we don?t know how much time we have left with them.

Queen Rose has me in tears.
:stressed:
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: FlowerBomb on July 08, 2016, 07:38:41 PM
Not herb Jr. knowing the difference between a conditioner and perm and not knowing Africa is real
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: yummy on July 08, 2016, 07:39:06 PM
I don't think there's ever been a time where the world seemed like a fitting place to bring a child into.

In that case, all of our parents were kinda out of it. :mmyulost:
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 08, 2016, 07:39:12 PM
Quote from: GRAND on July 08, 2016, 07:37:19 PM
Has Earth EVER been in harmony?

Nope and it never will. as sad as that sounds.
You just gotta do what you feel.
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: D.I.E.G.O. on July 08, 2016, 07:39:22 PM
The weird thing is, many young Black men are taught about police and the legal system in completely different ways than their white counterparts. My parents taught me early on about how to conduct myself with police and the importance of knowing my rights. It's crazy.
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: Opposites Attract. on July 08, 2016, 07:40:59 PM
Quote from: Ms Malika on July 08, 2016, 07:33:49 PM
Def not leaving mine vulnerable and exposed to the school system though
Mine are going to be educated on everything 'black''

!!!!!!!!!!!

This is the problem in America. There is no variety in the History/Social Studies curriculum. I mean looking back to text books, there were hardly any minority images. When they mention slavery they skip over all the hardships and only talked about the accomplishments made by Powerful Blacks (Harriet, Rosa, Martin, Mal X, etc). We are taught to learn so much about what White People did for this country but they leave out the fact that Blacks helped build thus country as well.

Obama being president really brought out the worst because I swear prior to 2008, racism seemed like a myth.
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: yummy on July 08, 2016, 07:41:18 PM
Quote from: indigenous. on July 08, 2016, 07:36:57 PM
Quote from: Chao on July 08, 2016, 07:31:49 PM
Quote from: Ms Malika on July 08, 2016, 07:30:43 PM
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on July 08, 2016, 07:29:42 PM
If you flip it though, I guess it makes people want to raise independent, strong-willed leaders to help change the world
!!!!!!
Your kids could be the ones to change the scene
!!!

not wen it come to hair stuff tho

but evryone and thing have purposes
bhhjjjhhhgggggggf

The first thing they will be taught is hair care

dlfdfd'fdjfnfdneef

guess the abc's and how to wipe your ass can wait
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: BigDawg on July 08, 2016, 07:41:30 PM
Bash is so cute
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: Cowgirl on July 08, 2016, 07:42:32 PM
Quote from: Margeaux. on July 08, 2016, 07:40:59 PM
Quote from: Ms Malika on July 08, 2016, 07:33:49 PM
Def not leaving mine vulnerable and exposed to the school system though
Mine are going to be educated on everything 'black''

!!!!!!!!!!!

This is the problem in America. There is no variety in the History/Social Studies curriculum. I mean looking back to text books, there were hardly any minority images. When they mention slavery they skip over all the hardships and only talked about the accomplishments made by Powerful Blacks (Harriet, Rosa, Martin, Mal X, etc). We are taught to learn so much about what White People did for this country but they leave out the fact that Blacks helped build thus country as well.

Obama being president really brought out the worst because I swear prior to 2008, racism seemed like a myth.
Interesting.
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: FlowerBomb on July 08, 2016, 07:44:50 PM
My father had us reading hundreds of book from a young age
Told us so many stories about where he, my mum and their family came from, their history, culture ect. Always lectured us and told us about how we have to portray ourselves because of our skin colour but to be always proud and shameless of it.
I'm def passing that down to my kids
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: D.I.E.G.O. on July 08, 2016, 07:45:38 PM
Quote from: Margeaux. on July 08, 2016, 07:40:59 PM
Quote from: Ms Malika on July 08, 2016, 07:33:49 PM
Def not leaving mine vulnerable and exposed to the school system though
Mine are going to be educated on everything 'black''

!!!!!!!!!!!

This is the problem in America. There is no variety in the History/Social Studies curriculum. I mean looking back to text books, there were hardly any minority images. When they mention slavery they skip over all the hardships and only talked about the accomplishments made by Powerful Blacks (Harriet, Rosa, Martin, Mal X, etc). We are taught to learn so much about what White People did for this country but they leave out the fact that Blacks helped build thus country as well.

Obama being president really brought out the worst because I swear prior to 2008, racism seemed like a myth.

A myth to whom, hun?
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: King on July 08, 2016, 07:46:07 PM
Quote from: indigenous. on July 08, 2016, 07:22:16 PM
It almost feels like it would be a selfish decision to intentionally bring a child into such a horrible world. Especially a child of color. :stressed:

K

Just move to another country..
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: GRAND on July 08, 2016, 07:46:45 PM
white people
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: GRAND on July 08, 2016, 07:47:15 PM
asians too

except they dont mind dealing with racism and deny it cause they desperately want to be a white mans cum slut
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: ♛MANNY♛ on July 08, 2016, 07:47:59 PM
yeah please don't procreate hun...we don't need any mini afro's runnin' around
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: ♛MANNY♛ on July 08, 2016, 07:48:24 PM
jk luv fffffffffffffffb
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: Opposites Attract. on July 08, 2016, 07:51:15 PM
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on July 08, 2016, 07:45:38 PM
Quote from: Margeaux. on July 08, 2016, 07:40:59 PM
Quote from: Ms Malika on July 08, 2016, 07:33:49 PM
Def not leaving mine vulnerable and exposed to the school system though
Mine are going to be educated on everything 'black''

!!!!!!!!!!!

This is the problem in America. There is no variety in the History/Social Studies curriculum. I mean looking back to text books, there were hardly any minority images. When they mention slavery they skip over all the hardships and only talked about the accomplishments made by Powerful Blacks (Harriet, Rosa, Martin, Mal X, etc). We are taught to learn so much about what White People did for this country but they leave out the fact that Blacks helped build thus country as well.

Obama being president really brought out the worst because I swear prior to 2008, racism seemed like a myth.

A myth to whom, hun?

Well growing up I've never experienced any type racism or public showing of racist acts. Once Obama announced he was running was when I started to see little specs seeping through but it wasn't until 2012 with the situation of Trayvon Martin that things began to change for the worst.
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: Cowgirl on July 08, 2016, 07:51:55 PM
Very valid.
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: D.I.E.G.O. on July 08, 2016, 07:53:02 PM
Quote from: Margeaux. on July 08, 2016, 07:51:15 PM
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on July 08, 2016, 07:45:38 PM
Quote from: Margeaux. on July 08, 2016, 07:40:59 PM
Quote from: Ms Malika on July 08, 2016, 07:33:49 PM
Def not leaving mine vulnerable and exposed to the school system though
Mine are going to be educated on everything 'black''

!!!!!!!!!!!

This is the problem in America. There is no variety in the History/Social Studies curriculum. I mean looking back to text books, there were hardly any minority images. When they mention slavery they skip over all the hardships and only talked about the accomplishments made by Powerful Blacks (Harriet, Rosa, Martin, Mal X, etc). We are taught to learn so much about what White People did for this country but they leave out the fact that Blacks helped build thus country as well.

Obama being president really brought out the worst because I swear prior to 2008, racism seemed like a myth.

A myth to whom, hun?

Well growing up I've never experienced any type racism or public showing of racist acts. Once Obama announced he was running was when I started to see little specs seeping through but it wasn't until 2012 with the situation of Trayvon Martin that things began to change for the worst.

gotcha. makes sense
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on July 08, 2016, 07:54:04 PM
s
R u ovulating yet?
:omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: ♛MANNY♛ on July 08, 2016, 07:54:40 PM
Quote from: Margeaux. on July 08, 2016, 07:51:15 PM
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on July 08, 2016, 07:45:38 PM
Quote from: Margeaux. on July 08, 2016, 07:40:59 PM
Quote from: Ms Malika on July 08, 2016, 07:33:49 PM
Def not leaving mine vulnerable and exposed to the school system though
Mine are going to be educated on everything 'black''

!!!!!!!!!!!

This is the problem in America. There is no variety in the History/Social Studies curriculum. I mean looking back to text books, there were hardly any minority images. When they mention slavery they skip over all the hardships and only talked about the accomplishments made by Powerful Blacks (Harriet, Rosa, Martin, Mal X, etc). We are taught to learn so much about what White People did for this country but they leave out the fact that Blacks helped build thus country as well.

Obama being president really brought out the worst because I swear prior to 2008, racism seemed like a myth.

A myth to whom, hun?

Well growing up I've never experienced any type racism or public showing of racist acts. Once Obama announced he was running was when I started to see little specs seeping through but it wasn't until 2012 with the situation of Trayvon Martin that things began to change for the worst.

yeah...this

love bama tho  :stressed:
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: D.I.E.G.O. on July 08, 2016, 07:58:06 PM
I grew up with it. Chicago is segregated AF to this day. And they were racist to my face
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on July 08, 2016, 08:00:59 PM
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on July 08, 2016, 07:58:06 PM
I grew up with it. Chicago is segregated AF to this day. And they were racist to my face
s
You're black?!

I thought you were Latin like Baph
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: D.I.E.G.O. on July 08, 2016, 08:19:05 PM
Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 08, 2016, 08:00:59 PM
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on July 08, 2016, 07:58:06 PM
I grew up with it. Chicago is segregated AF to this day. And they were racist to my face
s
You're black?!

I thought you were Latin like Baph

Speaking of racism...

No. Everyone thinks I am because of my name. But they are racist against Blacks, Latinos, pretty much any non-whites
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on July 08, 2016, 08:30:23 PM
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on July 08, 2016, 08:19:05 PM
Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 08, 2016, 08:00:59 PM
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on July 08, 2016, 07:58:06 PM
I grew up with it. Chicago is segregated AF to this day. And they were racist to my face
s
You're black?!

I thought you were Latin like Baph

Speaking of racism...

ssssssssssssssssssss
Boy I just stereotyped you.

besides
I have friend who are Latin
:diddraispoot:
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on July 08, 2016, 08:31:28 PM
j/k
just in case a girl comes in flames
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: D.I.E.G.O. on July 08, 2016, 08:31:55 PM
bbbb get OWT Bent.  :plzstop:
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: 4 fucking k on July 08, 2016, 08:33:30 PM
Idk bout that. I still want my bbys.

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Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: GRAND on July 08, 2016, 08:37:06 PM
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Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 08, 2016, 08:39:26 PM
 :mmyucudnvr:
Title: Re: All this mess is making me reconsider having kids
Post by: Cowgirl on July 08, 2016, 11:27:35 PM
Quote from: imani on July 08, 2016, 08:33:30 PM
Idk bout that. I still want my bbys.

(http://thatgrapejuice.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/mariah4.jpg)
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