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Title: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Kurama on July 21, 2016, 02:58:58 PM
What are some non physical qualities about yourself that you would like to change or improve on?

What are some habits?
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: GRAND on July 21, 2016, 03:00:09 PM
Sometimes I wish I were better at empathising.
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Real on July 21, 2016, 03:02:01 PM
I'm very stubborn and set in my ways.  I'd maybe like to be more flexible.

Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Kurama on July 21, 2016, 03:02:31 PM
Quote from: Don Draper on July 21, 2016, 03:02:01 PM
I'm very stubborn and set in my ways.  I'd maybe like to be more flexible.

Wow you weren't lying.

Edit: All seriousness though, you seem to be a little more open from what i've seen here if that's any consolation.
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 21, 2016, 03:03:23 PM
I wish i wasnt so calculated.
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Boomz on July 21, 2016, 03:03:46 PM
My over-anxiousness. Always worried if my day is gonna go right.
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Boomz on July 21, 2016, 03:04:39 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on July 21, 2016, 03:03:23 PM
I wish i wasnt so calculated.

r u a serial killer
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Scott. on July 21, 2016, 03:04:45 PM
I have no confidence and I wish I could change that as well as my cursing
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Kurama on July 21, 2016, 03:05:09 PM
Habit wise, I've really been working on not drinking to feel more confident, friendly or socially liberated. I sometimes feel as though I need liquor to make speaking to people easier or to not give a fuck about speaking to anyone and doing me. :unsure:


I'd like to become more extrovert and confident just a tad. 
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: MelMel on July 21, 2016, 03:05:09 PM
being too hard on myself. I guess it's because I use self-deprecation as a defense mechanism
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Kurama on July 21, 2016, 03:05:37 PM
Quote from: Scott. on July 21, 2016, 03:04:45 PM
I have no confidence and I wish I could change that as well as my cursing

Same.
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Kurama on July 21, 2016, 03:05:52 PM
Quote from: MelMel on July 21, 2016, 03:05:09 PM
being too hard on myself. I guess it's because I use self-deprecation as a defense mechanism

:wub: :'(
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: L0NZ. on July 21, 2016, 03:06:43 PM
Quote from: Don Draper on July 21, 2016, 03:02:01 PM
I'm very stubborn and set in my ways.  I'd maybe like to be more flexible.

I dunno I think ur pretty flexible already
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 21, 2016, 03:07:10 PM
Quote from: Boomer on July 21, 2016, 03:04:39 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on July 21, 2016, 03:03:23 PM
I wish i wasnt so calculated.

r u a serial killer

Yes
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Zankou. on July 21, 2016, 03:07:21 PM
Quote from: GRAND on July 21, 2016, 03:00:09 PM
Sometimes I wish I were better at empathising.
!!!!

>><<
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Real on July 21, 2016, 03:07:39 PM
ddd
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Real on July 21, 2016, 03:08:19 PM
Hmmm. I don't really have any bad habits though.
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: MelMel on July 21, 2016, 03:08:38 PM
Quote from: Don Draper on July 21, 2016, 03:08:19 PM
Hmmm. I don't really have any bad habits though.
n
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Real on July 21, 2016, 03:09:28 PM
:everythingok:
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Zankou. on July 21, 2016, 03:09:45 PM
gohgffh
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: D.I.E.G.O. on July 21, 2016, 03:09:58 PM
b...anyway
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: MelMel on July 21, 2016, 03:10:05 PM
(http://i.imgur.com/Z0ioK6j.gif)
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: D.I.E.G.O. on July 21, 2016, 03:11:03 PM
I'd like to find a better work-life balance. Being a workaholic has its perks, but it makes me feel like I'm missing out on a lot.
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Kurama on July 21, 2016, 03:13:44 PM
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on July 21, 2016, 03:11:03 PM
I'd like to find a better work-life balance. Being a workaholic has its perks, but it makes me feel like I'm missing out on a lot.

Yeah,

Ive never been here for the slave while you're young, play when you're old and wrinkled rhetoric ppl spew. Live life!
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Freemala Harris on July 21, 2016, 03:16:33 PM
Procrastination
Being closed off
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Lazarus on July 21, 2016, 03:24:00 PM
Great thread.
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Real on July 21, 2016, 03:51:15 PM
Quote from: y r u mad on July 21, 2016, 03:31:31 PM
I want to decrease my fear of dependence, in any given capacity. Just a bit.
I'm fiercely independent which I think has helped me in many ways but has prevented from venturing into a love life as an adult.

My best friend says I always find a reason to be single. :dead: And I'm starting to believe she's right.
As soon as someone shows interest I find a reason to dismiss them. But it's time to grow up a bit.
I'm totally focused on my personal growth and happiness right now. Everything else is secondary.

(
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 21, 2016, 03:51:34 PM
ggfff
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: FlowerBomb on July 21, 2016, 03:53:07 PM
lack of self esteem
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Kurama on July 21, 2016, 03:58:52 PM
I appreciate everyone being transparent btw. Not easy to express this kind of stuff to people you don't really know, know!  :wub:
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Cartierline on July 21, 2016, 04:11:42 PM
I'm a VERY private person, I don't like to divulge and have people in my business. Sometimes it's a good thing but other times, I wish I was more open.

I also wish I had more confidence in my abilities. I'm always so quick to dismiss myself whenever I hit the smallest block.
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 21, 2016, 04:20:03 PM
Im perfect :ohwow:
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 21, 2016, 04:20:55 PM
I just procrastinate like nobodies fckn business and I NEED to change that
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Cartierline on July 21, 2016, 04:22:49 PM
sss oh yeah I procrastinate a LOT.

That and being super forgetful.. :udontlookok:
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: D.I.E.G.O. on July 21, 2016, 04:23:44 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 21, 2016, 04:20:03 PM
Im perfect :ohwow:

So, you're a pathological liar?
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: yummy on July 21, 2016, 04:23:49 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on July 21, 2016, 03:03:23 PM
I wish i wasnt so calculated.

n

diabolical! sneaky! annalise keat'!

Gor hush
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 21, 2016, 04:40:05 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 21, 2016, 04:23:49 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on July 21, 2016, 03:03:23 PM
I wish i wasnt so calculated.

n

diabolical! sneaky! annalise keat'!

Gor hush
d

(http://i.imgur.com/0dFVfFQ.gif)

as in I can barely have fun or do anything without putting too much thought into it.
Which kinda makes things not fun and spontaneous.
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Kurama on July 21, 2016, 05:07:30 PM
Did Yumz mention ditching the cigs? I didnt see it, could have overlooked.
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: yummy on July 21, 2016, 05:08:22 PM
d

gor

(http://s16.postimg.org/twreo31zn/amessgif.gif)
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Cartierline on July 21, 2016, 05:26:09 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 21, 2016, 05:08:22 PM
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gor

(http://s16.postimg.org/twreo31zn/amessgif.gif)


dfdfdddd sis i'm loving this new sia 'do
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: BranLover on July 21, 2016, 05:27:30 PM
Wish I didn't overanalyze every single thing. I have a hard time relaxing.
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Glenda on July 21, 2016, 05:32:36 PM
Letting go of the past
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Kurama on July 21, 2016, 06:33:29 PM
 :stressed:
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: FUCK Bey on July 21, 2016, 06:46:54 PM
Wish I could be more open with people.
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 21, 2016, 06:48:55 PM
You open your legs quite enough.
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: FUCK Bey on July 21, 2016, 06:51:46 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on July 21, 2016, 06:48:55 PM
You open your legs quite enough.
sddffffffffffffff

I wish you'd open this bottle of Dove n get in the damn TUB.
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Gilgamesh. on July 21, 2016, 06:52:09 PM
I overthink things and i'm scared of commitment.
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: DVDDY. on July 21, 2016, 08:09:13 PM
I am trying to be less controlling and territorial. Also, less vindictive.
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: DVDDY. on July 21, 2016, 08:15:02 PM
Quote from: y r u mad on July 21, 2016, 08:10:02 PM
Quote from: RON. on July 21, 2016, 08:09:13 PM
I am trying to be less controlling and territorial. Also, less vindictive.
ur a cancer bvy

once a gorl crosses us well... :wellheythere: lolz anything that occurs afterward we cannot be held liable! :cheerup:

bbb guess I was born this way  :whatgunofficer:
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Nine on July 21, 2016, 08:20:29 PM
Quote from: Cartier on July 21, 2016, 04:11:42 PM
I'm a VERY private person, I don't like to divulge and have people in my business. Sometimes it's a good thing but other times, I wish I was more open.

!!!!!! yes

I also wish I didn't overthink a lot of things. I've given myself a lot of stress over situations that didn't even happen the way I thought they would.

and I wish I could be more self-motivated.
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: MelMel on July 21, 2016, 08:20:50 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on July 21, 2016, 06:48:55 PM
You open your legs quite enough.
ggggggggggggggggggggggggggg
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Nine on July 21, 2016, 08:23:00 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 21, 2016, 04:20:55 PM
I just procrastinate like nobodies fckn business and I NEED to change that
Me too.

I'll really save shit to the eleventh hour and then be super stressed about it.

:damselindistress:

Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Angel In Disguise on July 21, 2016, 08:26:45 PM
Procrastination. Ugh, I hate it! 

I wish I had ambition.
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: Kurama on July 21, 2016, 08:32:04 PM
I wouldn't say procrastination is lack of ambition bavi.

Sometimes "ill get to it when I fuckin get to it" is just more befitting.
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: MelMel on July 21, 2016, 09:01:02 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 21, 2016, 08:32:04 PM
I wouldn't say procrastination is lack of ambition bavi.

Sometimes "ill get to it when I fuckin get to it" is just more befitting.
:letsmessfag:
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: leftout on July 21, 2016, 09:07:43 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 21, 2016, 04:23:49 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on July 21, 2016, 03:03:23 PM
I wish i wasnt so calculated.

n

diabolical! sneaky! annalise keat'!

Gor hush
vvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvv;
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: CHOKE on July 21, 2016, 09:25:29 PM
I'd like to not transform into a hoe after a couple drinks

That would be nice
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: BranLover on July 21, 2016, 10:09:53 PM
Quote from: y r u mad on July 21, 2016, 08:10:02 PM
Quote from: RON. on July 21, 2016, 08:09:13 PM
I am trying to be less controlling and territorial. Also, less vindictive.
ur a cancer bvy

once a gorl crosses us well... :wellheythere: lolz anything that occurs afterward we cannot be held liable! :cheerup:
s

Not the one! Dangerous!
Fag if you don't fckin SCOOT...
Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 21, 2016, 10:11:46 PM
Quote from: TAE! on July 21, 2016, 10:09:53 PM
Quote from: y r u mad on July 21, 2016, 08:10:02 PM
Quote from: RON. on July 21, 2016, 08:09:13 PM
I am trying to be less controlling and territorial. Also, less vindictive.
ur a cancer bvy

once a gorl crosses us well... :wellheythere: lolz anything that occurs afterward we cannot be held liable! :cheerup:
s

Not the one! Dangerous!
Fag if you don't fckin SCOOT...


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Title: Re: Non physical traits or habits you'd like to change?
Post by: GRAND on July 22, 2016, 12:44:56 AM
Quote from: Baphomet. on July 21, 2016, 10:11:46 PM
Quote from: TAE! on July 21, 2016, 10:09:53 PM
Quote from: y r u mad on July 21, 2016, 08:10:02 PM
Quote from: RON. on July 21, 2016, 08:09:13 PM
I am trying to be less controlling and territorial. Also, less vindictive.
ur a cancer bvy

once a gorl crosses us well... :wellheythere: lolz anything that occurs afterward we cannot be held liable! :cheerup:
s

Not the one! Dangerous!
Fag if you don't fckin SCOOT...


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