I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:
I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:
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I agree tho
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:dead: all these thugs and gangsters were more than likely WHIPPED and...... yea
It's a form of discipline like anything else.
Doesn't have to be an option but nothing wrong with it.
Kids will do what they want regardless if they choose to
Quote from: Young on July 24, 2016, 06:45:17 PM
It's a form of discipline like anything else.
Kids will do what they want regardless if they choose to
:blink: if kids are gonna do what they want then what was the point?
Quote from: Young on July 24, 2016, 06:45:17 PM
It's a form of discipline like anything else.
Doesn't have to be an option but nothing wrong with it.
Kids will do what they want regardless if they choose to
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It's honestly abuse.
The key word was "choose" to.
Actions still need consequences if they are not conducive for the child.
Certain consequences remind children what actions will warrant such.
Common sense Hun.
Repeated lashings tho' ?
It just seems like some slavery mess and should be banned.
Get in line! OBEY! Respect Me
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it teaches children physical harm is the answer to everyday problems. it's barbaric tbh
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:51:07 PM
Quote from: Young on July 24, 2016, 06:45:17 PM
It's a form of discipline like anything else.
Doesn't have to be an option but nothing wrong with it.
Kids will do what they want regardless if they choose to
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It's honestly abuse.
I don't agree because that then opens the flood gates for all kinds of "abuse" labeling.
Calling "time out" as mental abuse
Forms of punishment such as taking privileges as emotional abuse.
Abuse is just that. When the act is being used for the hell of it without any real reason.
Physically disciplining your child does not automatically equal abuse.
If you touch an iron while it's hot it'll burn you.
You learn not to touch it or at least know if you do it again this is what will happen.
Correct forms of discipline is the same way.
Quote from: Baphomet. on July 24, 2016, 06:55:52 PM
Repeated lashings tho' ?
It just seems like some slavery mess and should be banned.
Get in line! OBEY! Respect Me
(http://i.imgur.com/yUO7bFj.gif)
never understood parents that wanted to instill fear in their child. Like, unless you raisin' Jason Voorhees and the kid is messin' up all over the place, there's no purpose for it. So many people have no business parenting children.
I honestly feel like people spank to let out frustrations n
Then try to label it with "oh! Just doing the best for u!"
Hun, u were pissed and wanted to hit me. Nothing more nothing less
Thank god I'm an adult now
Even animals lash out At their children for stepping out of line.
Doesn't have to be a 2 minute LASHING session but it's just a form of parenting....when done right.
I've seen it used totally wrong and do more harm than good.
Quote from: Young on July 24, 2016, 06:57:10 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:51:07 PM
Quote from: Young on July 24, 2016, 06:45:17 PM
It's a form of discipline like anything else.
Doesn't have to be an option but nothing wrong with it.
Kids will do what they want regardless if they choose to
d
It's honestly abuse.
I don't agree because that then opens the flood gates for all kinds of "abuse" labeling.
Calling "time out" as mental abuse
Forms of punishment such as taking privileges as emotional abuse.
Abuse is just that. When the act is being used for the hell of it without any real reason.
Physically disciplining your child does not automatically equal abuse.
If you touch an iron while it's hot it'll burn you.
You learn not to touch it or at least know if you do it again this is what will happen.
Correct forms of discipline is the same way.
huh?
Quote from: FINE. on July 24, 2016, 06:59:02 PM
I honestly feel like people spank to let out frustrations n
Then try to label it with "oh! Just doing the best for u!"
Hun, u were pissed and wanted to hit me. Nothing more nothing less
Thank god I'm an adult now
I feel the same way
Quote from: aGhoulact on July 24, 2016, 06:58:55 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on July 24, 2016, 06:55:52 PM
Repeated lashings tho' ?
It just seems like some slavery mess and should be banned.
Get in line! OBEY! Respect Me
(http://i.imgur.com/yUO7bFj.gif)
never understood parents that wanted to instill fear in their child. Like, unless you raisin' Jason Voorhees and the kid is messin' up all over the place, there's no purpose for it. So many people have no business parenting children.
It honestly makes children not want to open up and talk to the parent. You definitely shouldn't fear someone you love and parent shouldn't want that. :uhh:
Thank God my parents spanked correctly.
It wasn't their go to form of discipline by any means but when I got out of line I was quickly reminded that I was indeed stepping out of line as a child.
My cousin I think spanks cuz she's having a bad day and I don't agree with it.
That's just aiming your frustrations at the child.
Disgusting.
My Dad always said it hurt him more than it hurt me and I believed that.
Quote from: Young on July 24, 2016, 07:02:23 PM
Thank God my parents spanked correctly.
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Sorry, but there's no way of hitting someone the right way imo
young be havin' me dyin :dead:
Quote from: FINE. on July 24, 2016, 06:59:02 PM
Hun, u were pissed and wanted to hit me. Nothing more nothing less.
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Why am I picturing you saying this to your mom?
Never was I scared of or felt like I couldn't talk to my parents.
We joked and laughed all the time.
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Spanking has to be done responsibly and sadly many don't do that nowadays.
Quote from: squid on July 24, 2016, 07:03:37 PM
Quote from: Young on July 24, 2016, 07:02:23 PM
Thank God my parents spanked correctly.
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Sorry, but there's no way of hitting someone the right way imo
I respect your opinion.
Quote from: aGhoulact on July 24, 2016, 06:58:55 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on July 24, 2016, 06:55:52 PM
Repeated lashings tho' ?
It just seems like some slavery mess and should be banned.
Get in line! OBEY! Respect Me
(http://i.imgur.com/yUO7bFj.gif)
never understood parents that wanted to instill fear in their child. Like, unless you raisin' Jason Voorhees and the kid is messin' up all over the place, there's no purpose for it. So many people have no business parenting children.
oh wow
how many kids have you raised?
Quote from: aGhoulact on July 24, 2016, 06:57:07 PM
it teaches children physical harm is the answer to everyday problems. it's barbaric tbh
!!!!!!!!!!!
Quote from: Young on July 24, 2016, 07:02:23 PM
Thank God my parents spanked correctly.
It wasn't their go to form of discipline by any means but when I got out of line I was quickly reminded that I was indeed stepping out of line as a child.
My cousin I think spanks cuz she's having a bad day and I don't agree with it.
That's just aiming your frustrations at the child.
Disgusting.
My Dad always said it hurt him more than it hurt me and I believed that.
how do u "spank correctly"
:usuresis: @ "It hurts me more than it hurts you"
How? Like its SOOOOOO taxing to just talk.
Quote from: FINE. on July 24, 2016, 07:05:51 PM
Quote from: Young on July 24, 2016, 07:02:23 PM
Thank God my parents spanked correctly.
It wasn't their go to form of discipline by any means but when I got out of line I was quickly reminded that I was indeed stepping out of line as a child.
My cousin I think spanks cuz she's having a bad day and I don't agree with it.
That's just aiming your frustrations at the child.
Disgusting.
My Dad always said it hurt him more than it hurt me and I believed that.
how do u "spank correctly"
1. Stopping When the child gets the point
2. When they truly deserve it and you aren't hitting them just because you're upset about other things and placing your anger on the child
3. Letting them know WHY they are being spanked. (My Dad would often talk to me after and it would end with a hug and kiss)
Quote from: FINE. on July 24, 2016, 07:05:51 PM
Quote from: Young on July 24, 2016, 07:02:23 PM
Thank God my parents spanked correctly.
It wasn't their go to form of discipline by any means but when I got out of line I was quickly reminded that I was indeed stepping out of line as a child.
My cousin I think spanks cuz she's having a bad day and I don't agree with it.
That's just aiming your frustrations at the child.
Disgusting.
My Dad always said it hurt him more than it hurt me and I believed that.
how do u "spank correctly"
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I think a lot of it depends on the parent's intent. I always thought my father was justified in the way he chose to discipline my brothers, but looking back on it...he was taking a lot of his own stress out on them.
Well I guess it's all subjective tbh
And probably more than likely depends on the state of the parent and or child.
But I'm always told how people can tell I was "raised right" and I can testify and appreciate the appropriateness of my spankings. It definitely wasn't abuse In my eyes. Even as a child I knew I was wrong and deserved to be disciplined at times.
Quote1. Stopping When the child gets the point
But if the kid keeps on and you have to do it again and again and AGAIN... then.. obviously...
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What would you suggest instead?
"Oh Timmy don't set your sisters hair on fire, go sit down for 3 minutes with no snacks"
You raise serial killers or manipulative narcissistic fcks that way :dead:
Children aren't developed, all this new age mess like letting them control their punishments and talking it out is a joke to them to an extent.
The purpose of a solid spanking is to deeply instill the lesson that poor choices create harmful consequences.
Quote from: Young on July 24, 2016, 07:10:40 PM
Well I guess it's all subjective tbh
And probably more than likely depends on the state of the parent and or child.
But I'm always told how people can tell I was "raised right" and I can testify and appreciate the appropriateness of my spankings. It definitely wasn't abuse In my eyes. Even as a child I knew I was wrong and deserved to be disciplined at times.
That doesn't necessarily mean that was a result of you getting knocked around like Jans on Good Times.
gnggg
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 24, 2016, 07:14:34 PM
Quote from: Young on July 24, 2016, 07:10:40 PM
Well I guess it's all subjective tbh
And probably more than likely depends on the state of the parent and or child.
But I'm always told how people can tell I was "raised right" and I can testify and appreciate the appropriateness of my spankings. It definitely wasn't abuse In my eyes. Even as a child I knew I was wrong and deserved to be disciplined at times.
That doesn't necessarily mean that was a result of you getting knocked around like Jans on Good Times.
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I'm just saying I have genuine and deep respect for elders and authority figure if they maintain my respect. I believe it's due to my subconscious knowing certain actions have certain consequences. My spankings taught me that and as A child I knew that.
Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 24, 2016, 07:12:49 PM
What would you suggest instead?
The purpose of a solid spanking is to deeply instill the lesson that poor choices create harmful consequences.
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I'm sure all the niggas in prison were spanked and well...
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Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 07:23:45 PM
I'm sure all the niggas in prison were spanked and well...
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There are plenty of other ways to go about disciplining/reinforcing fear (this is the real goal isn't it?) in your child. If you don't know how to do anything other than pull owt a belt...maybe raising a child isn't for you.
Did Rihanna deserve those punches?
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Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 24, 2016, 07:26:51 PM
There are plenty of other ways to go about disciplining/reinforcing fear (this is the real goal isn't it?) in your child. If you don't know how to do anything other than pull owt a belt...maybe raising a child isn't for you.
Exactly
Definitely agree there are other forms of discipline .
Spanking IMO wouldn't be my only form and it would be a last result depending on the issue.
Quote from: squid on July 24, 2016, 07:29:42 PM
Did Rihanna deserve those punches?
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yeah
Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 24, 2016, 07:12:49 PM
The purpose of a solid spanking is to deeply instill the lesson that poor choices create harmful consequences.
!!!!!
I understood I did something bad, I understood there are consequences for bad actions, and I understood not to do it again. I look at it almost like a child playing with a hot stove. If he gets BURNED, he'll understand and likely won't repeat the bad action because he doesn't want to receive the consequences. I don't think spanking builds "fear", I think it simply builds understanding that bad actions receive bad consequences.
And some of you fags were just bad as HELL. No spanking, timeout, grounding, or anything was gonna save y'all. SSDDDSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
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Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 24, 2016, 07:12:49 PM
The purpose of a solid spanking is to deeply instill the lesson that poor choices create harmful consequences.
!!!!!
I understood I did something bad, I understood there are consequences for bad actions, and I understood not to do it again. I look at it almost like a child playing with a hot stove. If he gets BURNED, he'll understand and likely won't repeat the bad action because he doesn't want to receive the consequences. I don't think spanking builds "fear", I think it simply builds understanding that bad actions receive bad consequences.
And some of you fags were just bad as HELL. No spanking, timeout, grounding, or anything was gonna save y'all. SSDDDSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
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Timeout ain't gonna fix every fckn thing
And it sounds like some of the Gorls had parent who hit and whipped cuz the wind was blowing no shade sdddd
Left a sour TASTE n things
Every child is different. Some children don't need physical discipline but others...ddff
"Spankings" or whatever you wanna call it should only be used as a last resort...after you've exhausted all other options.
Yea my older brothers hated me as a child
I'd always throw them under the bus and get my way and things lolz
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:
I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:
This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.
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I just don't agree that beating a child to it cries is the best option.
People treat children like their property instead of what they are.
Little humans.
Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:
I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:
This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.
Oh shit
People who don't even have kids giving tips on parenting :dead:
If spankings don't work then what does? Time out? :kii:
Yeah, whenever some do have kids they are gonna WALK all over you like those white kids do.
Quote from: Young on July 24, 2016, 07:31:12 PM
Definitely agree there are other forms of discipline .
Spanking IMO wouldn't be my only form and it would be a last result depending on the issue.
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this made my dick hard
Quote from: Genesis on July 24, 2016, 08:01:55 PM
People who don't even have kids giving tips on parenting :dead:
If spankings don't work then what does? Time out? :kii:
Yeah, whenever some do have kids they are gonna WALK all over you like those white kids do.
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yeah! Kids are just going to walk all over you cause you don't punch them in the throat when their 5!
Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:
I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:
This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.
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Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
Quote from: Don't Hurt Yourself on July 24, 2016, 08:07:12 PM
Quote from: Genesis on July 24, 2016, 08:01:55 PM
People who don't even have kids giving tips on parenting :dead:
If spankings don't work then what does? Time out? :kii:
Yeah, whenever some do have kids they are gonna WALK all over you like those white kids do.
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yeah! Kids are just going to walk all over you cause you don't punch them in the throat when their 5!
Spanking a kid is the same as punching them? :kii:
ummm. yea
Quote from: Genesis on July 24, 2016, 08:11:46 PM
Quote from: Don't Hurt Yourself on July 24, 2016, 08:07:12 PM
Quote from: Genesis on July 24, 2016, 08:01:55 PM
People who don't even have kids giving tips on parenting :dead:
If spankings don't work then what does? Time out? :kii:
Yeah, whenever some do have kids they are gonna WALK all over you like those white kids do.
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yeah! Kids are just going to walk all over you cause you don't punch them in the throat when their 5!
Spanking a kid is the same as punching them? :kii:
The extremes and dramatics in here have me screaming
Discipline depends on the child. But no child should be running around doing what they want.
I also think if gettin beat didn't deter you, your parents weren't doing it right. :overit:
were u guys abused
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:08:27 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:
I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:
This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.
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Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
What's a better alternative? Time outs don't work either.
this slave mentality djjjjj
Quote from: Genesis on July 24, 2016, 08:14:31 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:08:27 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:
I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:
This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.
s
Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
What's a better alternative? Time outs don't work either.
Talking to them.
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:14:14 PM
were u guys abused
No bby.
As a child I MAYBE got beat once every few months.
It wasn't often. But when I got it I knew why and learned from it
Quote from: Genesis on July 24, 2016, 08:11:46 PM
Quote from: Don't Hurt Yourself on July 24, 2016, 08:07:12 PM
Quote from: Genesis on July 24, 2016, 08:01:55 PM
People who don't even have kids giving tips on parenting :dead:
If spankings don't work then what does? Time out? :kii:
Yeah, whenever some do have kids they are gonna WALK all over you like those white kids do.
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yeah! Kids are just going to walk all over you cause you don't punch them in the throat when their 5!
Spanking a kid is the same as punching them? :kii:
Would you rather be punched or beat with a switch or belt cause the end goal of both is the inflict pain on the child
:diddraispoot:
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:15:02 PM
Quote from: Genesis on July 24, 2016, 08:14:31 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:08:27 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:
I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:
This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.
s
Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
What's a better alternative? Time outs don't work either.
Talking to them.
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If you can't pull them aside, get down to their height and let them know what they did was wrong and why it was wrong, please don't have kids
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:15:02 PM
Quote from: Genesis on July 24, 2016, 08:14:31 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:08:27 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:
I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:
This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.
s
Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
What's a better alternative? Time outs don't work either.
Talking to them.
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My Ddy did both :feelinmyself:
Beautiful combo
Quote from: Genesis on July 24, 2016, 08:01:55 PM
People who don't even have kids giving tips on parenting :dead:
If spankings don't work then what does? Time out? :kii:
Yeah, whenever some do have kids they are gonna WALK all over you like those white kids do.
:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
There isn't even a BLANKET strategy to raising kids because literally everyone is different
Wat does and doesn't work for some may or may not work for others .
Period.
:dead:
This "abuse" talk is kinda extreme guys.
young, it's not too late to call child protect' services
I just think some parents lack any actual knowledge. No offense but.. yea.
Tho' I wasn't a bad kid to begin with. My mom passed down through talking anything that would be beneficial.
and even though it might have felt like a Therapist session at the time :melmel:
I appreciate it. I know right from what's really wrong and didnt need to be lashed like a slave.
good Luck trying to be your kids best friend. Lmao
also some kids (maybe even in this thread) were/are like wild animals so a lost parent cannot think of anything to do than try to TAME the little beast
:plzstop:
But I agree that every kid is different.
Some kids need an asswhooping, and some don't.
Quote from: Young on July 24, 2016, 08:15:19 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:14:14 PM
were u guys abused
No bby.
As a child I MAYBE got beat once every few months.
It wasn't often. But when I got it I knew why and learned from it
So you didn't learn your lesson after the first few ass whoopings and your parents didn't use any other alternatives?
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 24, 2016, 08:28:49 PM
Quote from: Young on July 24, 2016, 08:15:19 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:14:14 PM
were u guys abused
No bby.
As a child I MAYBE got beat once every few months.
It wasn't often. But when I got it I knew why and learned from it
So you didn't learn your lesson after the first few ass whoopings and your parents didn't use any other alternatives?
There's a plethora of things children can do to deserve a spanking Hun
I learned from them all.
The only thing I got beat for more than once was for fuckign up my little brother :dead:
And they had several alternate means of discipline as well
Am sorry but if you don't have the temperament to deal with an unruly child, maybe you shouldn't be having kids.
And some of y'all shouldn't be having kids for a host of other reasons, but that's another thread.
My parents did amazing jobs
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People without kids shouldn't be saying who should and shouldn't have them tBH ; just my opinion tho
Lol
yeah, a lot of ppl shoulda skeeted on the sheets lol
Some kids are little DEMONS
Talking to some of them will.not.work
My God brother was demonic
He needed every lashing he got TBH
Set his ass tf STRAIGHT
Quote from: Genesis on July 24, 2016, 08:24:22 PM
good Luck trying to be your kids best friend. Lmao
see, after the 3rd time of asking, the situation needed to be escalated
their kids will grow up not respecting authority and devaluing others tbh
he should have asked twice
1. Suzy, please put the toy back because your grandmama is going to buy you one
2. Suzy, put the toy back, I understand you want it, but now is not the time, you have to be patient
this way you've fully explained to the child the what's and why's of their current behavior
then you issue a warning
3. Suzy, put the toy back or you're gonna get a spanking
once that disciplinary action is in place, Suzy has a choice to make and she'll learn her behavior won't be tolerated and there's a consequence. there's nothing abusive about the process tbh guys :kii:
Quote from: Genesis on July 24, 2016, 08:01:55 PM
People who don't even have kids giving tips on parenting :dead:
If spankings don't work then what does? Time out? :kii:
Yeah, whenever some do have kids they are gonna WALK all over you like those white kids do.
I got time outs and I turned out fine
Were u abused is that why u r like u r :ohwow:
Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 24, 2016, 08:34:32 PM
Quote from: Genesis on July 24, 2016, 08:24:22 PM
good Luck trying to be your kids best friend. Lmao
see, after the 3rd time of asking, the situation needed to be escalated
their kids will grow up not respecting authority and devaluing others tbh
he should have asked twice
1. Suzy, please put the toy back because your grandmama is going to buy you one
2. Suzy, put the toy back, I understand you want it, but now is not the time, you have to be patient
this way you've fully explained to the child the what's and why's of their current behavior
then you issue a warning
3. Suzy, put the toy back or you're gonna get a spanking
once that disciplinary action is in place, Suzy has a choice to make and she'll learn her behavior won't be tolerated and there's a consequence. there's nothing abusive about the process tbh guys :kii:
Yeah. That talking bullshit doesn't work. Save that for disney channel :plzstop:
I woulda YANKED that little girl up so damn fast
"Git ur fucking ass in this cart and shut it AHP"
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:15:02 PM
Quote from: Genesis on July 24, 2016, 08:14:31 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:08:27 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:
I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:
This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.
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Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
What's a better alternative? Time outs don't work either.
Talking to them.
So what if a child has autism or adhd?
:rudone:
I am screaming
kids are demonic though
we must remember we are fighting a losing war against demons
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iSq2sI5SMws
Quote from: Jonovan on July 24, 2016, 08:53:18 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iSq2sI5SMws
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Quote from: Jonovan on July 24, 2016, 08:53:18 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iSq2sI5SMws
See no fucking ma'am
Quote from: Jonovan on July 24, 2016, 08:53:18 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iSq2sI5SMws
I means... Yea. She should've smacked his little fat ass across the room.
But he clearly had a mental disorder. sddsdds
He needed actual help.
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Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:
I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:
This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.
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Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
Define "fix." Because in the context of this thread, "fix" means deter them from performing a particular action. And yes, spanking does accomplish that sometimes. D @ psych 101.
Quote from: Jonovan on July 24, 2016, 08:53:18 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iSq2sI5SMws
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Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:
I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:
This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.
s
Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
What's a better alternative? Time outs don't work either.
Talking to them.
So what if a child has autism or adhd?
ds :uhh:
You get them professional help. I hope you're not suggesting beating a child with a disability is more effective.
I'm legit scared of some of u's.
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Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:
I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:
This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.
s
Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
What's a better alternative? Time outs don't work either.
Talking to them.
So what if a child has autism or adhd?
ds :uhh:
You get them professional help. I hope you're not suggesting beating a child with a disability is more effective.
I'm legit scared of some of u's.
Yea... Im done with this thread. Like... seriously.
Quote from: ssw4919 on July 24, 2016, 08:14:04 PM
Discipline depends on the child.
why didn't the thread end here
Quote from: Jonovan on July 24, 2016, 08:53:18 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iSq2sI5SMws
Talk to them and they won't do nothing wrong right? Lol
I promise that kid never got an asswhooping in his LIFE. :kii:
Martha should have popped tubby right then and THERE
I'm sorr'
The way that fat hand flew across and whaped ha!
dljksafskj
Quote from: Boomer on July 24, 2016, 09:04:12 PM
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Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:
I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:
This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.
s
Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
What's a better alternative? Time outs don't work either.
Talking to them.
So what if a child has autism or adhd?
ds :uhh:
You get them professional help. I hope you're not suggesting beating a child with a disability is more effective.
I'm legit scared of some of u's.
mjbn ddddddddddddddddd
Not curing Autism with a switch
Quote from: Boomer on July 24, 2016, 09:04:12 PM
Quote from: jtwoeleven on July 24, 2016, 08:49:16 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:15:02 PM
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Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:
I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:
This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.
s
Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
What's a better alternative? Time outs don't work either.
Talking to them.
So what if a child has autism or adhd?
ds :uhh:
You get them professional help. I hope you're not suggesting beating a child with a disability is more effective.
I'm legit scared of some of u's.
Of course not. But a parent could be in denial about discipline just as their child's mental state. Basically there's no one size fits all solution here.
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Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:08:27 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:
I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:
This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.
s
Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
What's a better alternative? Time outs don't work either.
Talking to them.
So what if a child has autism or adhd?
ds :uhh:
You get them professional help. I hope you're not suggesting beating a child with a disability is more effective.
I'm legit scared of some of u's.
mjbn ddddddddddddddddd
Not curing Autism with a switch
My point was that talking to some children doesn't always work. You said switch, not me.
Quote from: Boomer on July 24, 2016, 09:11:42 PM
I'm sorr'
The way that fat hand flew across and whaped ha!
dljksafskj
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I would've STABBED that boy
Literally put a knife in his SOUL
I agree that it aint always the be all end all, but i wont tell people or aspiring parents what they should and shouldn't do either. I'd just ask that every parent understand their child first and foremost, and deal with them as an individual. Understand their personality and what does and doesn't work for them. Think about what'll get through to them before you run to POP them in the mouth or throat before they can barely formulate a sentence :uhh: :dead: i dont like that at ALL
If and when i have children, i pray that im able to raise intelligent kids that have a mind of their own, but still know better than to cross certain lines like this girl here. I'd make it so that my kids respect me, but not FEAR me. I dont like the sound of that or even the thought.
Im not saying i'd never put my hands on my children, btw. Im simply saying it wont be go to move as if i can't do anything else. I think it says a lot about a parent/person that has to strike another human being before exhausting one or two other options at least :uhh: n
Quote from: FINE. on July 24, 2016, 06:59:02 PM
I honestly feel like people spank to let out frustrations n
Then try to label it with "oh! Just doing the best for u!"
Hun, u were pissed and wanted to hit me. Nothing more nothing less
Thank god I'm an adult now
:plzstop: :plzstop:
Quote from: RIGGY on July 24, 2016, 10:25:45 PM
I agree that it aint always the be all end all, but i wont tell people or aspiring parents what they should and shouldn't do either. I'd just ask that every parent understand their child first and foremost, and deal with them as an individual. Understand their personality and what does and doesn't work for them. Think about what'll get through to them before you run to POP them in the mouth or throat before they can barely formulate a sentence :uhh: :dead: i dont like that at ALL
If and when i have children, i pray that im able to raise intelligent kids that have a mind of their own, but still know better than to cross certain lines like this girl here. I'd make it so that my kids respect me, but not FEAR me. I dont like the sound of that or even the thought.
Im not saying i'd never put my hands on my children, btw. Im simply saying it wont be go to move as if i can't do anything else. I think it says a lot about a parent/person that has to strike another human being before exhausting one or two other options at least :uhh: n
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These responses :uhh:
A lot of you phaggs were unruly and put your parents thru hell, no wonder you girls turned out GAY! They should've beat that ass until the heels and earrings fell off ya tbh
it isn't the only way, but it can be a good way. my parents used a mix of things and especially depending on the level of what we did. i turned out just fine and didn't learn to hit people for whatever reason. just spanking with no explanations or warnings and and such is stupid. all of my siblings turned out fine. it taught us discipline in the right context. every child doesn't respond the same way either. i've seen spankings, just talking, restriction, grounding and time outs ALL fail with certain kids.
Some of these responses are... depressing.
I think you guys are coming from emotional place and trying to justify how your parents lashed you as a child. To say, what else can discipline a child is just :uhh: You're a human being with a functioning brain. The brain is malleable and can easily adapt and adjust to situations. Pain doesn't fix anyone.
Quote from: Baphomet. on July 24, 2016, 06:43:59 PM
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
:dead: all these thugs and gangsters were more than likely WHIPPED and...... yea
doubt most had parents. more like FOSTER
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 10:32:35 PM
Some of these responses are... depressing.
I think you guys are coming from emotional place and trying to justify how your parents lashed you as a child. To say, what else can discipline a child is just :uhh: You're a human being with a functioning brain. The brain is malleable and can easily adapt and adjust to situations. Pain doesn't fix anyone.
:dead:
Tbh you've been giving "better than" lately on topics :uhh:
Did you receive spankings or have any proof a PROPER disciplinary spanking is harmful to a child?
Because if not, you're being offensive and judgmental girl
Yes, I was spanked as a child but I feel like had my mom just talked me she wouldn't have had to waste her energy. My dad on the other hand preferred to just talk to us. I think moms in general get emotional when it comes to raising their kids "right."
Oh ok my bad, I personally got a little more than spankings but I don't feel it was abusive
I do feel and understand your stance on this tho.
Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 24, 2016, 10:48:05 PM
Oh ok my bad, I personally got a little more than spankings but I don't feel it was abusive
I do feel and understand your stance on this tho.
May I ask why?
I have an aunt who does more than spankings and I can tell (based on convos with my mom) that it effects the kids mentally.
Quote from: Young on July 24, 2016, 07:04:36 PM
Quote from: squid on July 24, 2016, 07:03:37 PM
Quote from: Young on July 24, 2016, 07:02:23 PM
Thank God my parents spanked correctly.
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Sorry, but there's no way of hitting someone the right way imo
I respect your opinion.
yea i dont necessarily agree with Squid on that
BEATING vs light tap
CLAP mess is different
i got my ass beat. and i believe that it kept me from doing many dumb things... i would just be scared of the lashings my parents would give me once they found out or if i got home. i think after middle school its kinda not worth it. cause children shld have their values instilled in them by then.
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Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 24, 2016, 10:48:05 PM
Oh ok my bad, I personally got a little more than spankings but I don't feel it was abusive
I do feel and understand your stance on this tho.
May I ask why?
I have an aunt who does more than spankings and I can tell (based on convos with my mom) that it effects the kids mentally.
Well luckily my parents were sane and always wanted us to make the best decisions, promoted education, and actually showed us they loved us and cared. I think without those other factors as reinforcement it would be different.
I do feel like some parent's physically discipline before love and other things and that defeats the purpose
Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 24, 2016, 07:12:49 PM
What would you suggest instead?
"Oh Timmy don't set your sisters hair on fire, go sit down for 3 minutes with no snacks"
You raise serial killers or manipulative narcissistic fcks that way :dead:
Children aren't developed, all this new age mess like letting them control their punishments and talking it out is a joke to them to an extent.
The purpose of a solid spanking is to deeply instill the lesson that poor choices create harmful consequences.
I think the KEY is to just be unpredictable. Im not saying give the children a surprise ambush lashing, but NO form of discipline should become routine. I dont care what it is.
Routines and predictability is what can make it all a running joke after a while. The punishments have to fit the crime, and, again, it depends on the human being you're raising and dealing with. Its all case by case
Even if im raising 3 kids, there's no way in the world im going to handle all three of them in the exact same way
Yeah it sounds like not everyone is fit to be "hitting" their child
that "my way or the highway" mentality is late and WEAK as hell. Parents like that are completely lazy
there has to be adjustments made on both ends when you see something just isn't quite working. it doesn't all have to be so extreme
Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 24, 2016, 10:30:58 PM
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These responses :uhh:
A lot of you phaggs were unruly and put your parents thru hell, no wonder you girls turned out GAY! They should've beat that ass until the heels and earrings fell off ya tbh
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Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 24, 2016, 10:30:58 PM
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These responses :uhh:
A lot of you phaggs were unruly and put your parents thru hell, no wonder you girls turned out GAY! They should've beat that ass until the heels and earrings fell off ya tbh
:uhh: :everythingok:
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Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 24, 2016, 10:30:58 PM
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These responses :uhh:
A lot of you phaggs were unruly and put your parents thru hell, no wonder you girls turned out GAY! They should've beat that ass until the heels and earrings fell off ya tbh
:uhh: :everythingok:
you should get beat for trying to take my men :uhh:
and for liking The Walking Dead
and Hilary Duff :hmph:
He likes Hilary Duff :uhh:
I mean, Fly and Come Clean slay for FILTH but ... :uhh:
I never really understood it.
And I've never encountered a person who was only whooped once and then got their act together. IDK why people use it as an excuse to make people behave. People start behaving as they age and mature regardless gggg.
The most I got was a thump on the head and my toys taken away. Oh yeah, and no eating out mess. Now THAT was brutal.
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Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:
I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:
This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.
s
Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
What's a better alternative? Time outs don't work either.
Talking to them.
So what if a child has autism or adhd?
ds :uhh:
You get them professional help. I hope you're not suggesting beating a child with a disability is more effective.
I'm legit scared of some of u's.
mjbn ddddddddddddddddd
Not curing Autism with a switch
Sounds like something a black person would do, no shade.
Our community is such a mess. Trying to pray everything away and use violence to sold everything.
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Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:
I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:
This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.
s
Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
What's a better alternative? Time outs don't work either.
Talking to them.
So what if a child has autism or adhd?
Not spanking an autistic child for not paying attention. Do you fully understand what autism is?
I am fucking screaming
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Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:
I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:
This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.
s
Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
What's a better alternative? Time outs don't work either.
Talking to them.
So what if a child has autism or adhd?
Not spanking an autistic child for not paying attention. Do you fully understand what autism is?
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I'm not reading this thread but, spankings definitely work...up to a certain age. If you're still "spanking" at 12, you've failed.
I'm talking about these little kids in the stores throwing tantrums. They need their mommas to take them in the bathroom and give them something to cry about. That threat always shut me up.
At a certain age, though, children respond to "No TV" or "No video games". You shouldn't have to spank anymore.
Tbh yeah, with all the spankings and scoldings I got as a child I still did what I wanted anyway.
I'm not against spanking but some parents go WAY overboard.
Well everyone knows how I feel about this :cheerup:
Quote from: Cartier on July 25, 2016, 08:16:54 AM
Tbh yeah, with all the spankings and scoldings I got as a child I still did what I wanted anyway.
I'm not against spanking but some parents go WAY overboard.
you don't get to do what you want to do
you need a correct spanking
Come to my house and I'll give you a good lashing on those cakes
Then you'll act right
Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 25, 2016, 09:59:52 AM
Quote from: Cartier on July 25, 2016, 08:16:54 AM
Tbh yeah, with all the spankings and scoldings I got as a child I still did what I wanted anyway.
I'm not against spanking but some parents go WAY overboard.
you don't get to do what you want to do
you need a correct spanking
Come to my house and I'll give you a good lashing on those cakes
Then you'll act right
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Quote from: Baphomet. on July 24, 2016, 06:47:17 PM
Quote from: Young on July 24, 2016, 06:45:17 PM
It's a form of discipline like anything else.
Kids will do what they want regardless if they choose to
:blink: if kids are gonna do what they want then what was the point?
if that's your logic why don't we just let them live in wild and figure it out themselves :plzstop:
It's about respect
Children are going to do what they want regardless and yes ''thugs and rappers''
were more than likely spanked but at the end of the day I bet all of them respect their parents
Unlike Jayden and Sarah who never get disciplined and call their moms bitches and tell them to shut the fuck up at the dinner table
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Quote from: Chokeme on July 25, 2016, 11:38:55 AM
Unlike Jayden and Sarah who never get disciplined and call their moms bitches and tell them to shut the fuck up at the dinner table
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Leave Jayd' alone :usureuok:
Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 25, 2016, 09:59:52 AM
Quote from: Cartier on July 25, 2016, 08:16:54 AM
Tbh yeah, with all the spankings and scoldings I got as a child I still did what I wanted anyway.
I'm not against spanking but some parents go WAY overboard.
you don't get to do what you want to do
you need a correct spanking
Come to my house and I'll give you a good lashing on those cakes
Then you'll act right
sddssssssss :ohwow: