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Like grow tf up tbh
So beautiful, but so dumb smh
She's hot I bet she's soft af
I slight agree with her though. In this new day, if you're my best friend and you friends with a nigga/bitch I don't like then it's some mess there. You can't be friends with my enemy and my name not come up in conversation.
This is how women act!
The men I know don't move like this
Very high school.
Only time I felt that way was when someone did some really back handed shit to me and my friend knew everything about the situation. Then they happened to start working at the same company and got cool. Kinda made me question my friends judgment knowing what type of person that was. But I never tried to make him choose or intervene.
Quote from: Margeaux. on July 26, 2016, 03:21:42 PM
I slight agree with her though. In this new day, if you're my best friend and you friends with a nigga/bitch I don't like then it's some mess there. You can't be friends with my enemy and my name not come up in conversation.
Boy how u gon tell somebody who they can and cant be friends with :dead:
U cant be loyal to two people without down talking one to the other?
Yeah, because you're so mature
It's very bougie in here
Quote from: Margeaux. on July 26, 2016, 03:21:42 PM
I slight agree with her though. In this new day, if you're my best friend and you friends with a nigga/bitch I don't like then it's some mess there. You can't be friends with my enemy and my name not come up in conversation.
can't stand a gorl tryna be everybody best buddy
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 03:24:51 PM
Quote from: Margeaux. on July 26, 2016, 03:21:42 PM
I slight agree with her though. In this new day, if you're my best friend and you friends with a nigga/bitch I don't like then it's some mess there. You can't be friends with my enemy and my name not come up in conversation.
Boy how u gon tell somebody who they can and cant be friends with :dead:
U cant be loyal to two people without down talking one to the other?
I'm speaking from my generation per say and experience. If niggas were able to keep situations between the individuals involved then I'd agree with what you're day but in reality it just doesn't work that way. If one of my best friends are close with someone I have beef with it's suspect and I can't rock with them like that. I would not dare tell someone who to be friends with all I can do is distance myself. It's petty but mad real.
Of course you shouldn't SEEK out the friendship of your friends enemies. I thought that was a given
But if it happens organically, you can't control that
I wanna fuck finna go jackoff to her Instagram
I would agree with her depending on how the situation is set up.
If I don't know you but I know you did some foul ass shit to one of my close friends I'm obviously not gonna go out of my way to fuck you with you.
If all of us are in the same clique and two of y'all fall out I'm not gonna stop being friends with either of you just because y'all got mess going on. That's between y'all.
If my friend just doesn't like you for no reason then that's just being petty and I will ignore it.
Who is this dumb nigress
Honestly anyone that i call a friend, i trust. I don't need you to prove your loyalty to me in this way. I've met friends of friends and didn't care for them. Should i now give that friend an ultimatum and make them choose between me or the other friend? Its all very petty.
I'm not basing who I can and can't be cool with based off someone else.
And that ain't being disloyal it's called having a mind of your fucking own.
Quote from: Tanya Turner on July 26, 2016, 03:32:33 PM
I don't like one of my friend's friends. All I ask is don't bring them around me. I don't like dirt queens. Lol
Now THIS i agree with. I told one of my friends
if this nigga is in attendance, im goodI won't feel any kinda way cause i know that's ur friend too and im making the choice to not be included
Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 26, 2016, 03:32:01 PM
Of course you shouldn't SEEK out the friendship of your friends enemies. I thought that was a given
But if it happens organically, you can't control that
That's why I didn't trip in my situation because I know my boy didn't set out to befriend the dude. But he ended up shutting on my friend s couple months later :feelinmyself:
Quote from: Young on July 26, 2016, 03:35:16 PM
I'm not basing who I can and can't be cool with based off someone else.
And that ain't being disloyal it's called having a mind of your fucking own.
I will say this, if u did something to my friend and it now causes me to question ur character then I'm backing away too. This doesn't have shit to do with my friend tho, moreso because uve revealed a character flaw that i can't rock with
Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 26, 2016, 03:32:01 PM
Of course you shouldn't SEEK out the friendship of your friends enemies. I thought that was a given
But if it happens organically, you can't control that
!!!
Which id be ok with ... Just refrain from discussing me or allowing that person to discuss me and were good
Quote from: Drais. on July 26, 2016, 03:33:21 PM
I would agree with her depending on how the situation is set up.
If I don't know you but I know you did some foul ass shit to one of my close friends I'm obviously not gonna go out of my way to fuck you with you.
If all of us are in the same clique and two of y'all fall out I'm not gonna stop being friends with either of you just because y'all got mess going on. That's between y'all.
If my friend just doesn't like you for no reason then that's just being petty and I will ignore it.
Yea, i agree with this
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 03:38:45 PM
Quote from: Young on July 26, 2016, 03:35:16 PM
I'm not basing who I can and can't be cool with based off someone else.
And that ain't being disloyal it's called having a mind of your fucking own.
I will say this, if u did something to my friend and it now causes me to question ur character then I'm backing away too. This doesn't have shit to do with my friend tho, moreso because uve revealed a character flaw that i can't rock with
Nvm disregard that
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 03:38:45 PM
Quote from: Young on July 26, 2016, 03:35:16 PM
I'm not basing who I can and can't be cool with based off someone else.
And that ain't being disloyal it's called having a mind of your fucking own.
I will say this, if u did something to my friend and it now causes me to question ur character then I'm backing away too. This doesn't have shit to do with my friend tho, moreso because uve revealed a character flaw that i can't rock with
Oh yes I'll definitely evaluate the situation and make sure this friend is actually a good person. And of course I'd wanna know why there's beef.
But I thank God I really haven't dealt with mess like that in YEARS
All my friends are like one big family
Each with our own relationships and dynamics
Quote from: Drais. on July 26, 2016, 03:40:16 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 03:38:45 PM
Quote from: Young on July 26, 2016, 03:35:16 PM
I'm not basing who I can and can't be cool with based off someone else.
And that ain't being disloyal it's called having a mind of your fucking own.
I will say this, if u did something to my friend and it now causes me to question ur character then I'm backing away too. This doesn't have shit to do with my friend tho, moreso because uve revealed a character flaw that i can't rock with
Nvm disregard that
Fck u gotta say :nowgorl:
Yea, like in Real's situation. There would be a confrontation. If somebody has clearly wronged me .... there's a decision to be made imo
Cause If somebody FCKD over one of my friends, I'd voice my opinion to that person, hear their side. If it ain't adding up, you might do the same to me, so you'll gradually see me less and less :dead:
This is a foolish mentality. Unless they did something heinous to my friend, I wouldn't feel any kind of way towards them.
sd
This fuming ass title. You couldn't even wait for the responses before lashing someone's opinion. :dead:
That is childish. I'm gonna talk to whoever I want tbh
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 03:42:38 PM
Quote from: Drais. on July 26, 2016, 03:40:16 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 03:38:45 PM
Quote from: Young on July 26, 2016, 03:35:16 PM
I'm not basing who I can and can't be cool with based off someone else.
And that ain't being disloyal it's called having a mind of your fucking own.
I will say this, if u did something to my friend and it now causes me to question ur character then I'm backing away too. This doesn't have shit to do with my friend tho, moreso because uve revealed a character flaw that i can't rock with
Nvm disregard that
Fck u gotta say :nowgorl:
You quoted me and agreed so that's why I erased it dummy.
:omgwatshappening:
Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 26, 2016, 03:45:34 PM
Yea, like in Real's situation. There would be a confrontation. If somebody has clearly wronged me .... there's a decision to be made imo
Cause If somebody FCKD over one of my friends, I'd voice my opinion to that person, hear their side. If it ain't adding up, you might do the same to me, so you'll gradually see me less and less :dead:
I think it depends on the "wrong" that was done and the intent. I met a very good friend of mine now thru a mutual friend of ours and he was initially my very good friend. They went on a trip to miami. My friend who i knew 1st (charles) introduced my friend now (anthony) to this girl and they all hung out in one big group. Anthony and this girl hit it off and ended up fckn with each other, even hooked up again and went to ATL together. Charles happened to be fckn with the girl to. Anthony didnt know that but Charles felt like he somehow shoulda known it and cut him off. At this point we're all cool and charles comes to me like, yea imma need to to stop talkin to him. Im like :uhh:
And I actually KINDA got it but hearing Anthony's side and just knowing the kinda guy he is, I know he wouldnt purposely do some shit like that. Charles was being a girl and didnt even wanna talk to him to try to get some kinda resolution, so he was left feeling like he was wronged and never even attempted to hear the other side of the story. I tried to mediate and get a convo going but Charles was totally unwilling. I felt like well this is on u tbh. I have no issue with u justifying why u cut him off and if thats what u wanna do then so be it, but u cant drag me along into that.
Cccccccccfv n nnnnn
Tami is trash.
Quote from: Kurama on July 26, 2016, 03:53:13 PM
sd
This fuming ass title. You couldn't even wait for the responses before lashing someone's opinion. :dead:
sdsdsdsssds
kinda wanted it known were I stand EARLY, ok?
Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 26, 2016, 03:45:34 PM
Yea, like in Real's situation. There would be a confrontation. If somebody has clearly wronged me .... there's a decision to be made imo
Cause If somebody FCKD over one of my friends, I'd voice my opinion to that person, hear their side. If it ain't adding up, you might do the same to me, so you'll gradually see me less and less :dead:
I agree but it depends on what the reason is.
I can't STAND her
ugh
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 03:58:24 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 26, 2016, 03:53:13 PM
sd
This fuming ass title. You couldn't even wait for the responses before lashing someone's opinion. :dead:
sdsdsdsssds
kinda wanted it known were I stand EARLY, ok?
not a pre-emptive lash :plzstop:
Im guessing this was the Erica/Bambi thing she was speaking on
Quote from: Drais. on July 26, 2016, 03:59:20 PM
Quote from: FAM? on July 26, 2016, 03:57:54 PM
Cccccccccfv n nnnnn
Tami is trash.
ffff
Wrong thread luv
sndjjdjdjdkkdid
No this girls name is Tami too.
If my friend don't like you, I may have my guard up but i'll still be friendly.
The only people's i don't fuck with on principle are my friend's exes.
This is why I keep groups of friends separate as much as I can. If I stop fucking with someone, I don't wanna have to worry about them still having any kinda association. I need to be able to cut you off and be completely done.
It depends.
If I know you're a petty ass bitch and the mess my friend tells me makes me want to be wary of you than I'll be cautious but if we end up hitting it off then I'mma be friends cause you aint do nothing wrong to me.
Oh yeah I don't believe in being close friends with my bestfriends exs
Nah
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 26, 2016, 04:02:36 PM
If my friend don't like you, I may have my guard up but i'll still be friendly.
The only people's i don't fuck with on principle are my friend's exes.
sdsdsdsdds
this is gonna sound so shitty but here goes....
First let me say, IN GENERAL I wholeheartedly agree. BUT, My friend introduced me to his ex and we really hit it off. They are actually really cool now (just as friends). They have hung out with each other's significant others and seem to be really past their relationship. The ex hits me up from time to time. we like the same music, we talk about life, etc. Im so fckn attracted but in my spirit I feel so bad. I actually even ran a hypothetical by my friend one day just to gauge his reaction. "would u care if a friend of yours dated someone u once dated" He said I wouldnt give a fck, if im done with them then its for a reason. I just feel like thats until u ACTUALLY see the shit happen. I also feel like treat someone as ud wanna be treated. I wouldnt like it so EVEN IF THEY SAY THEY DONT CARE, leave it alone. I know im so wrong but I just know If I ever LEGIT get the opportunity
:jarvwhereru:
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Wow, dont become friends with Vonc guys.
Quote from: Kurama on July 26, 2016, 04:18:23 PM
Wow, dont become friends with Vonc guys.
im a nice person :ohwow:
Quote from: 'lock on July 26, 2016, 04:12:25 PM
Oh yeah I don't believe in being close friends with my bestfriends exs
Nah
!!!!
No dice
I remember my friend tried to pull that shit, we were roommates at the time and my ex was having a function and I wasn't invited cause we were into it
this phagg tryna walk fast out his room but didn't see me on the couch in the dark....
"you going somewhere Lamar?"
*clicks lamp on*"Or just grabbing something out the car?"
(http://i58.tinypic.com/dng7c3.jpg)
dddds
I'm telling yall. Don't introduce friends or significant others to your friends. :dead:
Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 26, 2016, 04:20:26 PM
Quote from: 'lock on July 26, 2016, 04:12:25 PM
Oh yeah I don't believe in being close friends with my bestfriends exs
Nah
!!!!
No dice
I remember my friend tried to pull that shit, we were roommates at the time and my ex was having a function and I wasn't invited cause we were into it
this phagg tryna walk fast out his room but didn't see me on the couch in the dark....
"you going somewhere Lamar?"
*clicks lamp on*
"Or just grabbing something out the car?"
(http://i58.tinypic.com/dng7c3.jpg)
sdsdsdsdsdsds
well did they know each because of you? i agree if so
Ex are up for grabs tbh.
Quote from: Don Draper on July 26, 2016, 04:20:43 PM
dddds
I'm telling yall. Don't introduce friends or significant others to your friends. :dead:
Yeah I trust the shit out of my best friends and I know they wouldn't do anything slick. Now that Im dating again tho, I side-eye my potentials when they meet my friends cuz they're pretty attractive.
Depends on what they did and what my interaction with them is.
Quote from: Margeaux. on July 26, 2016, 04:23:32 PM
Ex are up for grabs tbh.
I knew u were gonna come in and say this :plzstop:
I dont think so. I honestly have never been with a friend of mines ex this is just a off situation. I think its really foul actually which is why I feel so bad for having an attraction.
Marg, what's off limits?
Marg, do u atleast tell your friend if u mess with their ex? I was very upfront with my friend that I was conversing with the ex every now and again on some cool shit. It'll never be some "im doing some shit behind your back" kinda thing
Quote from: Don Draper on July 26, 2016, 04:20:43 PM
dddds
I'm telling yall. Don't introduce friends or significant others to your friends. :dead:
thats exactly how i am!
anything u want to keep.. keep it to urself!
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 04:29:04 PM
Marg, do u atleast tell your friend if u mess with their ex? I was very upfront with my friend that I was conversing with the ex every now and again on some cool shit. It'll never be some "im doing some shit behind your back" kinda thing
So you told him you found his ex attractive?
Quote from: Margeaux. on July 26, 2016, 04:23:32 PM
Ex are up for grabs tbh.
oh no..
see.. i would cut u off with the quickness
especially if its someoen that i invested so much of myself in..
not cool...
unless it was some early high school college type mess
something that wasnt serious
Quote from: Kurama on July 26, 2016, 04:29:58 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 04:29:04 PM
Marg, do u atleast tell your friend if u mess with their ex? I was very upfront with my friend that I was conversing with the ex every now and again on some cool shit. It'll never be some "im doing some shit behind your back" kinda thing
So you told him you found his ex attractive?
well I didnt say that because that's irrelevant AT THIS POINT! we really do just talk on some cool shit there is never any blantant "i like u" type of shit going on. It's platonic rn and I wouldnt just randomly tell u "Hey, I think ur girlfriend is cute" so I dont know why I have to say that now.............this is how I justify it in my mind atleast :dead:
I did have the convo with another friend of mine and said if at any point I feel like this is going elsewhere, I'm telling him immediately
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 04:33:47 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 26, 2016, 04:29:58 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 04:29:04 PM
I was very upfront with my friend
So you told him you found his ex attractive?
well I didnt say that
(http://media.tumblr.com/12a6a2daedd3e1a7236d8dab559b6fc4/tumblr_inline_naac56HX4o1qkkwy7.gif)
fgf
Sike I mean hopefully you do the right thing if things go left tho.
Quote from: 'lock on July 26, 2016, 04:29:13 PM
Quote from: Don Draper on July 26, 2016, 04:20:43 PM
dddds
I'm telling yall. Don't introduce friends or significant others to your friends. :dead:
thats exactly how i am!
anything u want to keep.. keep it to urself!
Yeah sorry not sorry. Don't need no "accidental" occurrences. Don't care how long ago we dated.
I agree with her to a certain extent. Some people are just more loyal than others.
Quote from: Kurama on July 26, 2016, 04:41:05 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 04:33:47 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 26, 2016, 04:29:58 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 04:29:04 PM
I was very upfront with my friend
So you told him you found his ex attractive?
well I didnt say that
(http://media.tumblr.com/12a6a2daedd3e1a7236d8dab559b6fc4/tumblr_inline_naac56HX4o1qkkwy7.gif)
:dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:
But why do I need to say that? It doesnt matter if we aint trying to fckn with each other. And honestly, we live in different states and only talk every now and again. It's not like we best friends.
Quote from: Margeaux. on July 26, 2016, 04:23:32 PM
Ex are up for grabs tbh.
s
Oh hell no
a FIST fight in the street is up for grabs too
Friends get their choice
:letsmessfag:
ffff
Vonc is filth it seems.
Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 26, 2016, 04:45:33 PM
Quote from: Margeaux. on July 26, 2016, 04:23:32 PM
Ex are up for grabs tbh.
s
Oh hell no
a FIST fight in the street is up for grabs too
Friends get their choice
:letsmessfag:
sddddddd
Quote from: Kurama on July 26, 2016, 04:41:29 PM
fgf
Sike I mean hopefully you do the right thing if things go left tho.
Im a man of principle so probably not but :ohwow:
Im not AS close with that particular friend anymore either btw so I kinda wouldnt feel bad if things did go a a lil left rn tbh LOLZ
Smh
Quote from: Drais. on July 26, 2016, 04:45:57 PM
ffff
Vonc is filth it seems.
Im probably one of the most loyal trusting friends u can have :indiaarie:
Disgust'
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 04:48:12 PM
Quote from: Drais. on July 26, 2016, 04:45:57 PM
ffff
Vonc is filth it seems.
Im probably one of the most loyal trusting friends u can have :indiaarie:
But you're texting his leftovers and even bringing up hypothetical situations of y'all being together right in his face.
:everythingok:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 04:44:36 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 26, 2016, 04:41:05 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 04:33:47 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 26, 2016, 04:29:58 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 04:29:04 PM
I was very upfront with my friend
So you told him you found his ex attractive?
well I didnt say that
(http://media.tumblr.com/12a6a2daedd3e1a7236d8dab559b6fc4/tumblr_inline_naac56HX4o1qkkwy7.gif)
:dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:
But why do I need to say that? It doesnt matter if we aint trying to fckn with each other. And honestly, we live in different states and only talk every now and again. It's not like we best friends.
boiiii you're going through lengths to justify this :hmph:.
If you have a transparent relationship with ur friend then I definitely think its pertinent. Especially considering that this attraction could affect the way you and your friend's ex interact. Either inadvertently or intentionally. Different states means nothing tho, you travel.
Also, did you ever think about if your friend's ex is attracted to you too? What if you two end up being around each other and they try to PLANT one on you?
:hmph:
I see both sides but the (black) gay community is small though. If I didn't meet your ex through you, can you really be in your feelings?
One of my friends made me stop talking to two guys on separate occasions because he had dated them in the past :uhh:
Vonc breaking all type of bro codes
Like wtf :dead:
Quote from: Drais. on July 26, 2016, 04:49:55 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 04:48:12 PM
Quote from: Drais. on July 26, 2016, 04:45:57 PM
ffff
Vonc is filth it seems.
Im probably one of the most loyal trusting friends u can have :indiaarie:
But you're texting his leftovers and even bringing up hypothetical situations of y'all being together right in his face.
:everythingok:
I cant remember because it was a while ago but I dont think the convo about the hypothetical was simply about this situation. There was a reason we spoke on it and I just kinda used it to gauge where he was. They have literally been broken up for yrs and we've been cool for a while this is not some u hop off and I hop on type of shit, but I get it. Im not saying its right at all but not TERRIBLE either. I literally havent talked to this friend in like 8 months at this point tho, so I definitely wouldnt feel bad about it now tho tbh
Quote from: Kurama on July 26, 2016, 04:50:03 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 04:44:36 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 26, 2016, 04:41:05 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 04:33:47 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 26, 2016, 04:29:58 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 04:29:04 PM
I was very upfront with my friend
So you told him you found his ex attractive?
well I didnt say that
(http://media.tumblr.com/12a6a2daedd3e1a7236d8dab559b6fc4/tumblr_inline_naac56HX4o1qkkwy7.gif)
:dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:
But why do I need to say that? It doesnt matter if we aint trying to fckn with each other. And honestly, we live in different states and only talk every now and again. It's not like we best friends.
boiiii you're going through lengths to justify this :hmph:.
If you have a transparent relationship with ur friend then I definitely think its pertinent. Especially considering that this attraction could affect the way you and your friend's ex interact. Either inadvertently or intentionally. Different states means nothing tho, you travel.
Also, did you ever think about if your friend's ex is attracted to you too? What if you two end up being around each other and they try to PLANT one on you?
:hmph:
:ohwow:
I was invited out for drinks the next time im in town :justabit:
F jfjfjf
Ur TRASH
Quote from: RON. on July 26, 2016, 04:50:22 PM
I see both sides but the (black) gay community is small though. If I didn't meet your ex through you, can you really be in your feelings?
One of my friends made me stop talking to two guys on separate occasions because he had dated them in the past :uhh:
you guys must be pretty close for u to comply. were these platonic situations or did u do it because u didnt wanna deal with the same pieces your friend had already dealt with?
wow vonc, you're trash.
Quote from: RON. on July 26, 2016, 04:50:22 PM
I see both sides but the (black) gay community is small though. If I didn't meet your ex through you, can you really be in your feelings?
One of my friends made me stop talking to two guys on separate occasions because he had dated them in the past :uhh:
Pends on how you define "dated" tbh. If it was a 3-6 month(which is standard) mess than I'd be less inclined to oblige.
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 26, 2016, 05:07:44 PM
wow vonc, you're trash.
sssssssssss
U guys are making me feel bad. I havent even done any thing dammit :omgwatshappening:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 05:09:17 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 26, 2016, 05:07:44 PM
wow vonc, you're trash.
sssssssssss
U guys are making me feel bad. I havent even done any thing yet dammit :omgwatshappening:
trash af
:bvy:
So first it was a high school mindset and now y'all agree?
q
f
We've transitioned from what the op was about. It definitely is high school
Quote from: Drais. on July 26, 2016, 03:33:21 PM
I would agree with her depending on how the situation is set up.
If I don't know you but I know you did some foul ass shit to one of my close friends I'm obviously not gonna go out of my way to fuck you with you.
If all of us are in the same clique and two of y'all fall out I'm not gonna stop being friends with either of you just because y'all got mess going on. That's between y'all.
If my friend just doesn't like you for no reason then that's just being petty and I will ignore it.
transition to hell
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 04:46:38 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 26, 2016, 04:41:29 PM
fgf
Sike I mean hopefully you do the right thing if things go left tho.
Im a man of principle so probably not but :ohwow:
Im not AS close with that particular friend anymore either btw so I kinda wouldnt feel bad if things did go a a lil left rn tbh LOLZ
Not you rationalizing this potential betrayal :uhh:
Quote from: Drais. on July 26, 2016, 03:33:21 PM
I would agree with her depending on how the situation is set up.
If I don't know you but I know you did some foul ass shit to one of my close friends I'm obviously not gonna go out of my way to fuck you with you.
If all of us are in the same clique and two of y'all fall out I'm not gonna stop being friends with either of you just because y'all got mess going on. That's between y'all.
If my friend just doesn't like you for no reason then that's just being petty and I will ignore it.
!!!!!!!!!!
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 26, 2016, 04:02:36 PM
If my friend don't like you, I may have my guard up but i'll still be friendly.
The only people's i don't fuck with on principle are my friend's exes.
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 04:14:02 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 26, 2016, 04:02:36 PM
If my friend don't like you, I may have my guard up but i'll still be friendly.
The only people's i don't fuck with on principle are my friend's exes.
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this is gonna sound so shitty but here goes....
First let me say, IN GENERAL I wholeheartedly agree. BUT, My friend introduced me to his ex and we really hit it off. They are actually really cool now (just as friends). They have hung out with each other's significant others and seem to be really past their relationship. The ex hits me up from time to time. we like the same music, we talk about life, etc. Im so fckn attracted but in my spirit I feel so bad. I actually even ran a hypothetical by my friend one day just to gauge his reaction. "would u care if a friend of yours dated someone u once dated" He said I wouldnt give a fck, if im done with them then its for a reason. I just feel like thats until u ACTUALLY see the shit happen. I also feel like treat someone as ud wanna be treated. I wouldnt like it so EVEN IF THEY SAY THEY DONT CARE, leave it alone. I know im so wrong but I just know If I ever LEGIT get the opportunity
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Quote from: Drais. on July 26, 2016, 03:33:21 PM
I would agree with her depending on how the situation is set up.
If I don't know you but I know you did some foul ass shit to one of my close friends I'm obviously not gonna go out of my way to fuck you with you.
If all of us are in the same clique and two of y'all fall out I'm not gonna stop being friends with either of you just because y'all got mess going on. That's between y'all.
If my friend just doesn't like you for no reason then that's just being petty and I will ignore it.
right
cant have anyone with my ex
we'd all be going the fck down
but honestly ive moved so much in the past 5 years, the chances are slim to none.
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 04:29:04 PM
Marg, do u atleast tell your friend if u mess with their ex? I was very upfront with my friend that I was conversing with the ex every now and again on some cool shit. It'll never be some "im doing some shit behind your back" kinda thing
I personally feel that you can't put a claim on anyone just because yall dated. Shit a lot of us have dated a lot of people. Now if this particular person was the love of your life then that's something totally different. Then even still if you moved on to another person and you're happy in that situation I don't see the harm or foul. I'm not about to miss out on a potential soul mate just because one of my friends dated someone one. Not at all.
Quote from: Don Draper on July 26, 2016, 04:27:47 PM
Marg, what's off limits?
Stealing, cheating, lying, you know the usual. But seriously, I am very loyal to my friends and family but at the same time I'm very loyal to myself. I'm only living my life and for my happiness. If yall ain't get married then he ain't your property.
I wish I WOULD find my ex number perched in my friend iMessages when we're out having fun :dead:
That would be a good ass lashing ..... and don't let a bottle be near me LOLZ!
Quote from: Margeaux. on July 26, 2016, 09:54:27 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 04:29:04 PM
Marg, do u atleast tell your friend if u mess with their ex? I was very upfront with my friend that I was conversing with the ex every now and again on some cool shit. It'll never be some "im doing some shit behind your back" kinda thing
I personally feel that you can't put a claim on anyone just because yall dated. Shit a lot of us have dated a lot of people. Now if this particular person was the love of your life then that's something totally different. Then even still if you moved on to another person and you're happy in that situation I don't see the harm or foul. I'm not about to miss out on a potential soul mate just because one of my friends dated someone one. Not at all.
So answer the ?
Do u tell ur friend if ur going to fck with their ex or already have
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 03:18:12 PM
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Like grow tf up tbh
why is she acting like that?
She thinks she's too cute. Im starting to not use, its annoying. take off that pound of concealer, filter, and moth eyelashes and watch how normal these bitches act
That's a real friend tbqfh
I have legit stopped talking to best friends because they were friends with people I didn't fuck with
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Idk.... Because why would you even have an interest in perching with some random person that tried your friend?..
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Quote from: Don Draper on July 26, 2016, 03:22:49 PM
Very high school.
Only time I felt that way was when someone did some really back handed shit to me and my friend knew everything about the situation. Then they happened to start working at the same company and got cool. Kinda made me question my friends judgment knowing what type of person that was. But I never tried to make him choose or intervene.
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maybe she's not articulating it the way I'd like, but i definitely think its case by case and not just middle school sounding in the way she
made it. :dead: thats just freakin childish.
Quote from: Trey on July 26, 2016, 10:36:11 PM
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Idk.... Because why would you even have an interest in perching with some random person that tried your friend?..
:damselindistress:
U have friendships and relationships that are mutually exclusive. Unless the person did some heinous shit that really calls their character into question, why would u stop talking to someone based off of their relationship with someone else. Im my own separate entity. I honestly think the person that requires u to stop talking based on some shit they went thru with someone is either very immature, very insecure, or both
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 10:39:53 PM
Quote from: Trey on July 26, 2016, 10:36:11 PM
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Idk.... Because why would you even have an interest in perching with some random person that tried your friend?..
:damselindistress:
U have friendships and relationships that are mutually exclusive. Unless the person did some heinous shit that really calls their character into question, why would u stop talking to someone based off of their relationship with someone else. Im my own separate entity. I honestly think the person that requires u to stop talking based on some shit they went thru with someone is either very immature, very insecure, or both
!!!! a lot of times these petty riffs are over NOTHING anyway :uhh: fuck i look like shutting someone else out in favor of your mess that can likely eventually be worked out anyway? if you're that immature and im likely losing out on a friendship either way, then i may just have to let you catch that damn L hun
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 03:34:48 PM
Honestly anyone that i call a friend, i trust. I don't need you to prove your loyalty to me in this way. I've met friends of friends and didn't care for them. Should i now give that friend an ultimatum and make them choose between me or the other friend? Its all very petty.
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its a very slippery slope when you start following these dumb ass unwritten rules, cuz you open the door for drama to likely pop up
every damn week :uhh: who wants that?
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Well, Erica is Scap's babymama/ex and Bam is his girlfriend so I get it... doesn't sound high school to me.
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 03:38:45 PM
Quote from: Young on July 26, 2016, 03:35:16 PM
I'm not basing who I can and can't be cool with based off someone else.
And that ain't being disloyal it's called having a mind of your fucking own.
I will say this, if u did something to my friend and it now causes me to question ur character then I'm backing away too. This doesn't have shit to do with my friend tho, moreso because uve revealed a character flaw that i can't rock with
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now this >>><<<
you put it perfectly tbh
Quote from: 'lock on July 26, 2016, 04:12:25 PM
Oh yeah I don't believe in being close friends with my bestfriends exs
Nah
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yeah thats fucking messy. unless we met first or something
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 04:14:02 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 26, 2016, 04:02:36 PM
If my friend don't like you, I may have my guard up but i'll still be friendly.
The only people's i don't fuck with on principle are my friend's exes.
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this is gonna sound so shitty but here goes....
First let me say, IN GENERAL I wholeheartedly agree. BUT, My friend introduced me to his ex and we really hit it off. They are actually really cool now (just as friends). They have hung out with each other's significant others and seem to be really past their relationship. The ex hits me up from time to time. we like the same music, we talk about life, etc. Im so fckn attracted but in my spirit I feel so bad. I actually even ran a hypothetical by my friend one day just to gauge his reaction. "would u care if a friend of yours dated someone u once dated" He said I wouldnt give a fck, if im done with them then its for a reason. I just feel like thats until u ACTUALLY see the shit happen. I also feel like treat someone as ud wanna be treated. I wouldnt like it so EVEN IF THEY SAY THEY DONT CARE, leave it alone. I know im so wrong but I just know If I ever LEGIT get the opportunity
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WOO!!! thats the fuck TOUGH, but ur right. go with your gut on that one, because they'll definitely care :dead: i dont trust the sound
of that
Quote from: Don Draper on July 26, 2016, 04:20:43 PM
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I'm telling yall. Don't introduce friends or significant others to your friends. :dead:
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I'll do it but im VERY leery of doing that shit in the early stages. no sir
Quote from: Don Draper on July 26, 2016, 04:27:47 PM
Marg, what's off limits?
the way im shivering into the abyss ...
Quote from: RIGGY on July 26, 2016, 10:56:08 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 04:14:02 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 26, 2016, 04:02:36 PM
If my friend don't like you, I may have my guard up but i'll still be friendly.
The only people's i don't fuck with on principle are my friend's exes.
sdsdsdsdds
this is gonna sound so shitty but here goes....
First let me say, IN GENERAL I wholeheartedly agree. BUT, My friend introduced me to his ex and we really hit it off. They are actually really cool now (just as friends). They have hung out with each other's significant others and seem to be really past their relationship. The ex hits me up from time to time. we like the same music, we talk about life, etc. Im so fckn attracted but in my spirit I feel so bad. I actually even ran a hypothetical by my friend one day just to gauge his reaction. "would u care if a friend of yours dated someone u once dated" He said I wouldnt give a fck, if im done with them then its for a reason. I just feel like thats until u ACTUALLY see the shit happen. I also feel like treat someone as ud wanna be treated. I wouldnt like it so EVEN IF THEY SAY THEY DONT CARE, leave it alone. I know im so wrong but I just know If I ever LEGIT get the opportunity
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WOO!!! thats the fuck TOUGH, but ur right. go with your gut on that one, because they'll definitely care :dead: i dont trust the sound
of that
Im trying to be right because i feel like it actually taints my perception of myself if i was to engage. I like to think I'm a better person than that.
Quote from: Don Draper on July 26, 2016, 04:41:37 PM
Quote from: 'lock on July 26, 2016, 04:29:13 PM
Quote from: Don Draper on July 26, 2016, 04:20:43 PM
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I'm telling yall. Don't introduce friends or significant others to your friends. :dead:
thats exactly how i am!
anything u want to keep.. keep it to urself!
Yeah sorry not sorry. Don't need no "accidental" occurrences. Don't care how long ago we dated.
Quote from: RIGGY on July 26, 2016, 10:57:03 PM
Quote from: Don Draper on July 26, 2016, 04:20:43 PM
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I'm telling yall. Don't introduce friends or significant others to your friends. :dead:
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I'll do it but im VERY leery of doing that shit in the early stages. no sir
Yea, like i would never even consider this with my best friend. He's been in his current situation for going on 3 yrs and has discussed the idea of marriage with me. I think that would be utterly disgusting
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 10:39:53 PM
Quote from: Trey on July 26, 2016, 10:36:11 PM
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Idk.... Because why would you even have an interest in perching with some random person that tried your friend?..
:damselindistress:
U have friendships and relationships that are mutually exclusive. Unless the person did some heinous shit that really calls their character into question, why would u stop talking to someone based off of their relationship with someone else. Im my own separate entity. I honestly think the person that requires u to stop talking based on some shit they went thru with someone is either very immature, very insecure, or both
See that's different...
If you already have a relationship prior to a falling out that they had with another close friend, that has nothing to do with you...
But I can't see my myself trying to get to know and build a friendship with some random person that's "beefing" with my close friend. Its like with family to me... If somebody read my mother down or something, I just can't imagine having an interest in getting to know that person n going out for drinks. You know? :dead: Maybe it's just the Taurus in me. But yea, I don't see it happening.
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 04:46:38 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 26, 2016, 04:41:29 PM
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Sike I mean hopefully you do the right thing if things go left tho.
Im a man of principle so probably not but :ohwow:
Im not AS close with that particular friend anymore either btw so I kinda wouldnt feel bad if things did go a a lil left rn tbh LOLZ
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sounds like you've made ur decision LMAO!! im hollering at you further distancing ur self just to feel better about PLANTING ur tongue
betwixt some ex vag' :kii:
Oh well no i agree with that
If i don't already have a relationship with the person im probably not gonna at that point. Ive had friends straight up tell me to stop talking to a friend of mine. Like, hell nah
Quote from: L0NZ. on July 26, 2016, 10:25:56 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 03:18:12 PM
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Like grow tf up tbh
why is she acting like that?
She thinks she's too cute. Im starting to not use, its annoying. take off that pound of concealer, filter, and moth eyelashes and watch how normal these bitches act
yea i figured she was an idiot anyway, though.
ff
Quote from: GRAND on July 26, 2016, 09:48:48 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 04:14:02 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 26, 2016, 04:02:36 PM
If my friend don't like you, I may have my guard up but i'll still be friendly.
The only people's i don't fuck with on principle are my friend's exes.
sdsdsdsdds
this is gonna sound so shitty but here goes....
First let me say, IN GENERAL I wholeheartedly agree. BUT, My friend introduced me to his ex and we really hit it off. They are actually really cool now (just as friends). They have hung out with each other's significant others and seem to be really past their relationship. The ex hits me up from time to time. we like the same music, we talk about life, etc. Im so fckn attracted but in my spirit I feel so bad. I actually even ran a hypothetical by my friend one day just to gauge his reaction. "would u care if a friend of yours dated someone u once dated" He said I wouldnt give a fck, if im done with them then its for a reason. I just feel like thats until u ACTUALLY see the shit happen. I also feel like treat someone as ud wanna be treated. I wouldnt like it so EVEN IF THEY SAY THEY DONT CARE, leave it alone. I know im so wrong but I just know If I ever LEGIT get the opportunity
:jarvwhereru:
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:omgwatshappening:
Very interesting
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