We went to eat cake and drink coffee, went on to go to a beautiful parc where we read to each other. Afterwards we grabbed something to eat, went to his place where we smoked and netflix & chilled. Im still on cloud 9. 🙈
Read to each other?
:melmel:
Sounds good bby.
Glad u had a good time ..
Hopefully sex is coming :ack:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 11:43:15 AM
Read to each other?
:melmel:
I read that part twice just to make sure :uhh:
But glad you had fun hun!
I had a date like this before(minus the reading to each other), but fuck her tbh. She was trash.
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 11:43:46 AM
Sounds good bby.
Glad u had a good time ..
Hopefully sex is coming :ack:
thats the thing. I was trying to keep it cute for the first date but ended up having 3 orgasms tbh. Ki
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 11:45:05 AM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 11:43:46 AM
Sounds good bby.
Glad u had a good time ..
Hopefully sex is coming :ack:
thats the thing. I was trying to keep it cute for the first date but ended up having 3 orgasms tbh. Ki
NOT having sex on the first date is overrated tbh.
I mean,
we just spent the night talking to each other...
had a good conversation, and we vibe well...
you gonna give me a kiss and not expect me to get riled up
(considering they're a good kisser)
do you boo! :letsmessfag: sounds like it was good since ya had 3 climaxes n thangs.
Quote from: black is powerful. on August 13, 2016, 11:47:39 AM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 11:45:05 AM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 11:43:46 AM
Sounds good bby.
Glad u had a good time ..
Hopefully sex is coming :ack:
thats the thing. I was trying to keep it cute for the first date but ended up having 3 orgasms tbh. Ki
get it in then! :cheerup: lmao!
ur both adults, it was consensual.
i think ppl get too tied up in keeping it classy...if u wanna fuck then fuck! LMAO!
as long as u wore protection. :watchit:
so where do u see it going?
!!!!!!!!
Afro so smart
:ohwow:
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 11:45:05 AM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 11:43:46 AM
Sounds good bby.
Glad u had a good time ..
Hopefully sex is coming :ack:
thats the thing. I was trying to keep it cute for the first date but ended up having 3 orgasms tbh. Ki
:dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:
Quote from: black is powerful. on August 13, 2016, 11:47:39 AM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 11:45:05 AM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 11:43:46 AM
Sounds good bby.
Glad u had a good time ..
Hopefully sex is coming :ack:
thats the thing. I was trying to keep it cute for the first date but ended up having 3 orgasms tbh. Ki
get it in then! :cheerup: lmao!
ur both adults, it was consensual.
i think ppl get too tied up in keeping it classy...if u wanna fuck then fuck! LMAO!
as long as u wore protection. :watchit:
so where do u see it going?
well it wasnt proper intercourse so theres still space for exploring further. I dont know, i dont want to expect anything. But it was unexpectedly amazing. Hes young though.
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 11:45:05 AM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 11:43:46 AM
Sounds good bby.
Glad u had a good time ..
Hopefully sex is coming :ack:
thats the thing. I was trying to keep it cute for the first date but ended up having 3 orgasms tbh. Ki
Oooop! I didn't know :gotchafag:
Slay!
I probably wouldnt have done this if I was stilll in Germany. New surroundings make you let lose a bit. Lolz
Quote from: 𝚌𝚑𝚊𝚛𝚕𝚒𝚎. on August 13, 2016, 11:48:39 AM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 11:45:05 AM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 11:43:46 AM
Sounds good bby.
Glad u had a good time ..
Hopefully sex is coming :ack:
thats the thing. I was trying to keep it cute for the first date but ended up having 3 orgasms tbh. Ki
NOT having sex on the first date is overrated tbh.
I mean,
we just spent the night talking to each other...
had a good conversation, and we vibe well...
you gonna give me a kiss and not expect me to get riled up
(considering they're a good kisser)
do you boo! :letsmessfag: sounds like it was good since ya had 3 climaxes n thangs.
Yea, i dont think it's anything wrong with fckn on the first date if that's what the energy is. People get so caught up in trying to appear a certain way. We're adults if the connection is strong and mood goes there then LOLZ! I get why u wouldnt wanna make a habit of it tho. No need to rack up bodies all willy nilly
Quote from: black is powerful. on August 13, 2016, 11:51:12 AM
im totally living vicariously thru u right now with ur experience :plzstop:
ive put dating on the backburner until im fully situated back in NYC.
so dont mind my questionnaire :dead: :dead: this sounds so nice. like u guys had a mix of meaningful stuff ,...sweet stuff like reading to each other...I think that's so unique. and if that's how u guys connected and had an enjoyable time, then it is what it is! shoot, i wouldn't mind a hot sexy nigger reading to me right now :plzstop: :cheerup:
exactly! It wasnt your typical fuck&go grindr date (not that i do that of course, im classy). It was romantic AND hot. For me its usually hard to find this balance. People I wanna fuck, are not dateable and vice versa. And to have somebody who appreciated my awkwardness made me feel really comfortable.
Quote from: black is powerful. on August 13, 2016, 11:54:11 AM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 11:51:58 AM
I probably wouldnt have done this if I was stilll in Germany. New surroundings make you let lose a bit. Lolz
!!!!!!!!
That happened to me in London.
Was slobbing down that trade the first night we met up.
I dunno, I think its cuz ur away from whats familiar to you, your family friends, familiar places.....so u kinda long for a connection even more. i know thats how i felt at least. is it the same situation for u?
i'm in the exact same situation. He could also relate, because he moved here from very far away a while ago and went through the same rollercoaster of emotions that you go through when you're somewhere completely new. Of course I know that I shouldn't get carried away too far because my judgement might be clouded because of this, but then again I think it can be refreshing to just be carefree for once and just let things flow.
Quote from: black is powerful. on August 13, 2016, 11:56:54 AM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 11:50:13 AM
Quote from: black is powerful. on August 13, 2016, 11:47:39 AM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 11:45:05 AM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 11:43:46 AM
Sounds good bby.
Glad u had a good time ..
Hopefully sex is coming :ack:
thats the thing. I was trying to keep it cute for the first date but ended up having 3 orgasms tbh. Ki
get it in then! :cheerup: lmao!
ur both adults, it was consensual.
i think ppl get too tied up in keeping it classy...if u wanna fuck then fuck! LMAO!
as long as u wore protection. :watchit:
so where do u see it going?
well it wasnt proper intercourse so theres still space for exploring further. I dont know, i dont want to expect anything. But it was unexpectedly amazing. Hes young though.
thats perfect then. u guys didn't go all the way so u still have room left to wiggle around....literally and figuratively :wellheythere:
u seem so excited irf. happy 4 u my luv.
if you want all of that, you better be patient hahahah trying to keep it strategic at least a BIT!
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 11:45:05 AM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 11:43:46 AM
Sounds good bby.
Glad u had a good time ..
Hopefully sex is coming :ack:
thats the thing. I was trying to keep it cute for the first date but ended up having 3 orgasms tbh. Ki
was it hands free?
sounds like he was pounding that white chocolate booch into smithereens
is he black?
Quote from: black is powerful. on August 13, 2016, 12:00:12 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 11:55:28 AM
Quote from: black is powerful. on August 13, 2016, 11:51:12 AM
im totally living vicariously thru u right now with ur experience :plzstop:
ive put dating on the backburner until im fully situated back in NYC.
so dont mind my questionnaire :dead: :dead: this sounds so nice. like u guys had a mix of meaningful stuff ,...sweet stuff like reading to each other...I think that's so unique. and if that's how u guys connected and had an enjoyable time, then it is what it is! shoot, i wouldn't mind a hot sexy nigger reading to me right now :plzstop: :cheerup:
exactly! It wasnt your typical fuck&go grindr date (not that i do that of course, im classy). It was romantic AND hot. For me its usually hard to find this balance. People I wanna fuck, are not dateable and vice versa. And to have somebody who appreciated my awkwardness made me feel really comfortable.
awwwww :stressed:
Yeah this date sounds far from typical and thats why I think I am so intrigued. I love stuff like this. everything doesnt have to be cookie cutter, in set format, etc. i loved that u guys stepped out of the box , and it sounds like it came naturally. it sounds so calm and sweet! :stressed:
ugh, a fine ass chocolate dipped adonis sitting in front of me just reading me a book. :stressed: i can only dream for now. but its reality for u. congrats my luv plz keep us updated
it was the cutest date i've had. Not your regular lets hit a bar and get drunk date (this is how it usually ends up being, me being drunk and a mess). Very refreshing. Letting it sink in right now.
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 11:53:38 AM
Quote from: 𝚌𝚑𝚊𝚛𝚕𝚒𝚎. on August 13, 2016, 11:48:39 AM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 11:45:05 AM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 11:43:46 AM
Sounds good bby.
Glad u had a good time ..
Hopefully sex is coming :ack:
thats the thing. I was trying to keep it cute for the first date but ended up having 3 orgasms tbh. Ki
NOT having sex on the first date is overrated tbh.
I mean,
we just spent the night talking to each other...
had a good conversation, and we vibe well...
you gonna give me a kiss and not expect me to get riled up
(considering they're a good kisser)
do you boo! :letsmessfag: sounds like it was good since ya had 3 climaxes n thangs.
Yea, i dont think it's anything wrong with fckn on the first date if that's what the energy is. People get so caught up in trying to appear a certain way. We're adults if the connection is strong and mood goes there then LOLZ! I get why u wouldnt wanna make a habit of it tho. No need to rack up bodies all willy nilly
!!!!!!!!!!
exactly
How big was it
Quote from: BENTLEY! on August 13, 2016, 12:07:05 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 11:45:05 AM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 11:43:46 AM
Sounds good bby.
Glad u had a good time ..
Hopefully sex is coming :ack:
thats the thing. I was trying to keep it cute for the first date but ended up having 3 orgasms tbh. Ki
was it hands free?
sounds like he was pounding that white chocolate booch into smithereens
is he black?
not black, but a tanned mixture of cute and hot, with abs as hard as the cack (which was rockhard tbh). No booch was penetrated. Well at least not with a cack.
Quote from: black is powerful. on August 13, 2016, 12:21:37 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 12:01:52 PM
Quote from: black is powerful. on August 13, 2016, 11:54:11 AM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 11:51:58 AM
I probably wouldnt have done this if I was stilll in Germany. New surroundings make you let lose a bit. Lolz
!!!!!!!!
That happened to me in London.
Was slobbing down that trade the first night we met up.
I dunno, I think its cuz ur away from whats familiar to you, your family friends, familiar places.....so u kinda long for a connection even more. i know thats how i felt at least. is it the same situation for u?
i'm in the exact same situation. He could also relate, because he moved here from very far away a while ago and went through the same rollercoaster of emotions that you go through when you're somewhere completely new. Of course I know that I shouldn't get carried away too far because my judgement might be clouded because of this, but then again I think it can be refreshing to just be carefree for once and just let things flow.
uugh. I kinda had a feeling it was the same thing.
Its so hard though when ur so far away from everything that is familiar to you. I literally CLUNG on to that trade. He held me at night, comforted me, I didn't feel alone when I was with him. I'm fiercely independent usually but I can definitely say that was one point where I genuinely felt I NEEDED someone.
I know exactly how you're feeling right now but that doesn't mean that what you guys have going on isn't valid. I still had a genuine connection with him and we really had a nice time.
Don't think too hard about it, just enjoy yourself.
Only thing that didn't work in my favor is that eventually I had to leave and that sucked . A lot. Do you plan on staying there for a while?
That's the thing, I don't really have a grand masterplan right now. I technically have to start back at my job in Germany this October, but lord knows I don't want to. Let's just see if I manage to figure it out by then.
:stressed:
Aww, that sounds like a good first date.
Quote from: black is powerful. on August 13, 2016, 11:47:39 AM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 11:45:05 AM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 11:43:46 AM
Sounds good bby.
Glad u had a good time ..
Hopefully sex is coming :ack:
thats the thing. I was trying to keep it cute for the first date but ended up having 3 orgasms tbh. Ki
get it in then! :cheerup: lmao!
ur both adults, it was consensual.
i think ppl get too tied up in keeping it classy...if u wanna fuck then fuck! LMAO!
as long as u wore protection. :watchit:
so where do u see it going?
:receipts:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 11:43:15 AM
Read to each other?
:melmel:
:dead:
But Irf glad ya had a nice time!
Not the illiterate hoes being confused! x
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 04:09:45 PM
Not the illiterate hoes being confused! x
No just fckn bored. I read by myself. Wish i would meet up with someone to do an individual activity, BUT glad y'all enjoyed it, that's what matters
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 04:13:38 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 04:09:45 PM
Not the illiterate hoes being confused! x
No just fckn bored. I read by myself. Wish i would meet up with someone to do an individual activity, BUT glad y'all enjoyed it, that's what matters
I thought it was pretty romantic. Not sure if that's what you're into or not.
:dead:
:omgwatshappening: what r u talking about?
He wants to meet again tonight after 2 am. He works that late tonight but doesnt it give bootycall teas? I'm conflicted. Should I suggest a proper second date on another day?
No such thing as a "proper" date. You control the activities, doesn't matter the time imo.
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 15, 2016, 03:35:02 PM
He wants to meet again tonight after 2 am. He works that late tonight but doesnt it give bootycall teas? I'm conflicted. Should I suggest a proper second date on another day?
He wants to skip the date and get straight to the mess.
:nowgorl:
I want too. But i dunno. This might cloud my vision of the perfection that was the first date. Id rather not meet if its going to be mostly sex.
On the other habd something is telling me i might go back to germany soon. So why not mess a bit? Kii
Ended up not going that night but we met the next evening, earlier. Watched some "Friends", then met his friends and headed to a street fair/ party. It was super nice...he held my hand sometimes and was so sweet. I jokingly asked for a hickey and ended up getting one. :loose2when:
Sounds so cute!!
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 11:43:15 AM
Read to each other?
:melmel:
Shit, that part was dope to me frdd