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Title: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: Sharon. on August 14, 2016, 07:05:13 AM
 :hmph:

So my 25th Birthday is in October and I was telling a couple of friends that I was thinking of doing a Gorls weekend in Amsterdam. Smoke, visit the zoo, the museums and what not and now this gorl is saying he's going to do the exact thing for his Bday in September.

Now, due to my new career starting I can't attend his, but is this shade? Should I feel a type of way seeing as though we have a few mutual friends? Plus he'll be 29, so it's not even a significant Bday. Is this the action of a real friend?

Let me know.

:mmyucudnvr:
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: GRAND on August 14, 2016, 07:26:37 AM
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Luv you THE but this sounds like some mean girls mess

Boy, just continue with your plans and have fun.

:bvy:
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: LordB on August 14, 2016, 07:28:10 AM
Every bday is significant

:omgwatshappening:

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But push through with the plans still
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: FlowerBomb on August 14, 2016, 08:17:46 AM
Sounds like shade to me
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: FlowerBomb on August 14, 2016, 08:17:59 AM
and laziness
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: Stewie on August 14, 2016, 08:20:23 AM
Quote from: Tahj Zezo. on August 14, 2016, 07:05:13 AM
:hmph:

So my 25th Birthday is in October and I was telling a couple of friends that I was thinking of doing a Gorls weekend in Amsterdam. Smoke, visit the zoo, the museums and what not and now this gorl is saying he's going to do the exact thing for his Bday in September.

Now, due to my new career starting I can't attend his, but is this shade? Should I feel a type of way seeing as though we have a few mutual friends? Plus he'll be 29, so it's not even a significant Bday. Is this the action of a real friend?

Let me know.

:mmyucudnvr:

why?  :19k:
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: FlowerBomb on August 14, 2016, 08:23:11 AM
Jdjsjsjjjjj I'm just kidding
I have a friend who has a birthday in October and wants to do the same exact thing Theo is doing
It's just fish that idea came right after Theo's
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: Admin on August 14, 2016, 08:35:56 AM
So weird
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: b7 on August 14, 2016, 09:36:48 PM
I'd be a little annoyed i guess, but just celebrate with them!  you'll all be together out there anyway, just a month ahead. 

Think of it as your celebration as well, and then let them all TREAT you the very next month.  A back to back book of sorts
LMAO

:blessed:
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: United Nations Barbie 🇺🇳 on August 14, 2016, 09:39:42 PM
Not only certain ages being significant!!
:dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: Stunna Gor’ on August 14, 2016, 10:31:26 PM
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I'd feel some type of way, TBH. But I probably wouldn't address it.... Unless your other friends kinda picked up on it too. 

That's like calling off your wedding and then your friend coming right back and BOOKING the location. You just don't... Do that. :dead: but some people just don't have enough SENSE not to do stuff like that and really didn't mean harm. That's why I probably wouldn't address it...
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: Treasure on August 14, 2016, 10:39:13 PM
this is reas'n 'nough to kill tht bastard
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: b7 on August 14, 2016, 10:51:21 PM
ssdffffff

wait Afro. keep this username for a while LOL its my fave so far

:blessed:
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: 4 fucking k on August 14, 2016, 10:53:44 PM
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I don't think it's that big of a deal, luv. I assumed by the title you were referring to a bday party theme.
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: yummy on August 14, 2016, 10:57:30 PM
what in the mean girls fuck

It's just a birthday celebration, Thea. You can do something bigger next year.
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: yummy on August 14, 2016, 10:57:58 PM
That is if the rest of your t-cells last until then.
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: Kaeli. on August 14, 2016, 11:01:37 PM
I would be annoyed. That's like a gorl showing up to a poorty with the same dress on as you :diddraispoot:
But It's really not that big of a deal tbh
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: Stunna Gor’ on August 14, 2016, 11:03:43 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 14, 2016, 10:57:30 PM
what in the mean girls fuck

It's just a birthday celebration, Thea. You can do something bigger next year.
ssdddddddddddddssss

25th is kinda big though. But I agree. He can recelebrate his 25th next year and do something bigger.
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: GRAND on August 15, 2016, 12:56:12 AM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 14, 2016, 10:57:58 PM
That is if the rest of your t-cells last until then.
sssssdddddd
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: BORderline on August 15, 2016, 01:27:14 AM
read her her rights

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I fucking WOULD
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: Vonc2002 on August 15, 2016, 02:53:52 AM
Quote from: Tahj Zezo. on August 14, 2016, 08:13:01 AM
Quote from: black is courageous. on August 14, 2016, 08:06:55 AM
It's just a destination bvy

Maybe he just felt it was a good idea. Imitation is the most sincere what
?

He had the nerve to ask Romero to help him plan it, before he even announced his plans.

I introduced him to Romero.  :uhh:
I KINDA get where u coming from but once u introduce friends they are allowed to have and form their own bond. U cant call "dibs" cause u facilitated the friendship. This isn't THAT serious but ur friend does seem a lil wack
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: Vonc2002 on August 15, 2016, 02:55:20 AM
If anything u guys shoulda just had a joint trip mess to celebrate or whatever. Picked out a date u both could agree on and live it tf up
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: Vonc2002 on August 15, 2016, 02:58:26 AM
Quote from: BowDown on August 14, 2016, 09:39:42 PM
Not only certain ages being significant!!
:dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:
Ugh that isn't foreign concept. 16, 18, 21, 30, etc
There are definitely "milestone" ages
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: Vonc2002 on August 15, 2016, 03:01:49 AM
Quote from: Trey on August 14, 2016, 10:31:26 PM
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I'd feel some type of way, TBH. But I probably wouldn't address it.... Unless your other friends kinda picked up on it too. 

That's like calling off your wedding and then your friend coming right back and BOOKING the location. You just don't... Do that. :dead: but some people just don't have enough SENSE not to do stuff like that and really didn't mean harm. That's why I probably wouldn't address it...
All of this, except i would address it.  U can't expect people to respect boundaries if u don't call them out. This is wack but low on the wack totem  pole, so not bad enough to unfriend. Id let him know that i thought it was a shit thing to do and id never disclose anything of that nature with him again
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: Vonc2002 on August 15, 2016, 03:32:49 AM
I wouldnt feel bad at all. I was gonna say be petty and throw ur mess as planned. Those who wanna go with u will and maybe u find out who ur real friends are. BUT, that wouldve been super petty and made this whole thing a bigger deal than it has to be. Are u gonna say something to him or let it ride?
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: b7 on August 15, 2016, 03:49:37 AM
sddfffff this dude sounds like a damn liar and off putting the more you discuss him

Have u ever really liked him like that? Has he recently made you question him before this situation?
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: Vonc2002 on August 15, 2016, 04:02:41 AM
YEA, he sounds EH!
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: Kaeli. on August 15, 2016, 04:06:13 AM
I say beat his fucking ass
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: SouravMay on August 15, 2016, 04:26:54 AM
I don't think it's cute and since he is 29
- old enough to know - and you have mutual friends I can't see how you and your feelings didn't cross his mind when he made his decision.

But look at it this way, maybe it's an opportunity to switch locations... Paris, Dublin, Copenhagen, Berlin...
Title: Re: My close friend stole my Bday idea.
Post by: Annie on August 15, 2016, 06:39:56 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 15, 2016, 02:55:20 AM
If anything u guys shoulda just had a joint trip mess to celebrate or whatever. Picked out a date u both could agree on and live it tf up