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Title: can we chat honestly?
Post by: Ashley Bank$ on October 29, 2016, 06:47:42 PM
grab ur ice cream and pillows gorls. :supluv: time for gwerl talk.

ok, so i know i'm always talking about playing games with trade. and for the most part that's for men u do not take seriously . (plz dont play those games with men who ur actually into. )

but how do u gorls handle it when ur actually into someone? like, a good man ?

let's chat candidly & honestly.

1) Are you an open book when you date?
2) Do you have a guard up?
3) Are you easy to back away, or quick to give a second chance?
4) Have you been hurt before? How has that affected ur new mess? (ala https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LWZBLs3CBU8 )

etc
Title: Re: can we chat honestly?
Post by: GLOCK on October 29, 2016, 06:51:00 PM
You should just go with the flow
Put the same amount of energy into him that he's putting into you
You never know what u can obtain from simply getting to know someone ...

Honestly this single shit kinda sucks.. but it's def a chance to revisit what I like and don't like..

And ur young.. u should be experiencing shit ... give him a chance
Title: Re: can we chat honestly?
Post by: 4 fucking k on October 29, 2016, 06:52:11 PM
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Title: Re: can we chat honestly?
Post by: GLOCK on October 29, 2016, 06:53:20 PM
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Title: Re: can we chat honestly?
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Title: Re: can we chat honestly?
Post by: LOONA. on October 29, 2016, 06:57:44 PM
Honestly I just try not to run them off because a real good man is a rarity these days.

Most guys I pay dust because they ain't shit and only want sex. When I finally find a guy that interests me I can become a little clingy. Finding a nice balance between that and coming off uninterested is super hard. It's like I want him to know I'm interested but I don't wanna put in TOO much effort, especially if he's not doing much himself.

Ack!

Title: Re: can we chat honestly?
Post by: monk al-taqi on October 29, 2016, 06:58:01 PM
my only advice is to just b careful
there r many viruses out there
Title: Re: can we chat honestly?
Post by: GLOCK on October 29, 2016, 07:01:55 PM
Quote from: sadiddy? on October 29, 2016, 06:57:54 PM
Quote from: glock on October 29, 2016, 06:51:00 PM
You should just go with the flow
Put the same amount of energy into him that he's putting into you
You never know what u can obtain from simply getting to know someone ...

Honestly this single shit kinda sucks.. but it's def a chance to revisit what I like and don't like..

And ur young.. u should be experiencing shit ... give him a chance
i mean, i know the basics of it all.
it's clear, if u like someone give them ur attention.

(for once lolz), i don't want the thread to be about me ssss
i am really more interested in what u guys do personally.
do u have a guard up? are u an open book?

i should have been more specific in my OP. lemme edit
I'm a Capricorn so it's not easy for me to be an open book
I have to really feel that I can trust you before I share a lot of myself
But that having ur guard up shit ain't cool or beneficial cuz some people don't have the patience to tear down wall after wall..
I think it's best to be somewhere in between guarded and open.. that way u don't miss out on an opportunity and also u don't risk getting hurt
Title: Re: can we chat honestly?
Post by: GLOCK on October 29, 2016, 07:02:30 PM
Quote from: m.monk on October 29, 2016, 06:58:01 PM
my only advice is to just b careful
there r many viruses out there
Now that you have AIDS..
What could be worst than that, bitch?
Title: Re: can we chat honestly?
Post by: LOONA. on October 29, 2016, 07:07:39 PM
I'm very open and honest. I've never been a "hurt before! Walls up!" type of gur.

I've definitely ran into batches of fuckboys but I clock it fast so it was never anything long term. One thing about me is that if I see mess isn't working and you're not somebody that's worth fixing it over I will cut the string really fast.

And with every guy I meet I always ask them to be upfront and honest about what they expect or want from me.

Friends?
Sex?
Dating to see where things go?

I like to get straight to the point tbh. I don't like to play games and mess.

:udontlookok:
Title: Re: can we chat honestly?
Post by: LOONA. on October 29, 2016, 07:08:10 PM
Quote from: glock on October 29, 2016, 07:02:30 PM
Quote from: m.monk on October 29, 2016, 06:58:01 PM
my only advice is to just b careful
there r many viruses out there
Now that you have AIDS..
What could be worst than that, bitch?

Wtf
Title: Re: can we chat honestly?
Post by: GRAND on October 29, 2016, 07:26:38 PM
Just be yourself

There's no point of putting a guard up, if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out.

You can't help it if feelings develop. All you can do is better prepare yourself for the next faggot you meet. But that doesn't mean you should be this cold hearted bitch.

I dunno about everyone else, but when I feel like someone has this guard up, I feel like they're not ready for what I'm on, or they're not interested.

Then I'm like bye lolz
Title: Re: can we chat honestly?
Post by: Eternal Bell on October 29, 2016, 07:36:32 PM
1) Are you an open book when you date?
not completely..i aint tellin' u my damns life stoire but im gonna b 100% me!

2) Do you have a guard up?
no need
ppl fear me

3) Are you easy to back away, or quick to give a second chance?
i do give 2nd n 3rd chances...cnt help myself! :letsmessfag:
not to evrybod' tho..

4) Have you been hurt before? How has that affected ur new mess? (ala
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Title: Re: can we chat honestly?
Post by: GRAND on October 29, 2016, 07:36:41 PM
Quote from: Tahj Zezo. on October 29, 2016, 07:34:15 PM
I've only been in one serious relationship and it really changed me.

Every guy since has been a huge disappointment in one way, or another.

I love love though and loved being in a relationship. I definitely want that again.

All the guys I've been with have been attractive and I don't think that works well for me. So I attempted to date someone not really my type, it actually went well, but I just wasn't attracted to him, sadly.

Now Thursdays date was everything. I hope it goes somewhere.
b vs c c

Just find someone you connect with

Not finding an unattractive guy  :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Title: Re: can we chat honestly?
Post by: LOONA. on October 29, 2016, 07:39:15 PM
Quote from: Tinker Hell on October 29, 2016, 07:36:32 PM
1) Are you an open book when you date?
not completely..i aint tellin' u my damns life stoire but im gonna b 100% me!

2) Do you have a guard up?
no need
ppl fear me

3) Are you easy to back away, or quick to give a second chance?
i do give 2nd n 3rd chances...cnt help myself! :letsmessfag:
not to evrybod' tho..

4) Have you been hurt before? How has that affected ur new mess? (ala
no

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Title: Re: can we chat honestly?
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Title: Re: can we chat honestly?
Post by: GRAND on October 29, 2016, 07:55:28 PM
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Title: Re: can we chat honestly?
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on October 29, 2016, 08:36:31 PM
Quote from: sadiddy? on October 29, 2016, 06:47:42 PM



4) Have you been hurt before?
etc

:stressed:
Title: Re: can we chat honestly?
Post by: LOONA. on October 30, 2016, 12:20:05 AM
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