can a new relationship thats long distance work?
also can a relationship that was built in the same city still grow and flourish if something happens and pushes you two into 2 different parts of the world/country?
:flamebroiled:
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Personally, no.
No
I say no for question 1. It's possible for question 2, if they do the work.
what kinda unanimous vote
It is possible. If you really love someone.
However, my first two relationships were long distance and it was terrible. I can't imagine doing it again.
Depends on the ppl involved and how strong the bond is.
Nah my nigga them shits get corny after the first couple weeks/months
Damn, glock.
I already got you pondering. Sweet self.
Quote from: FAM? on November 01, 2016, 03:10:30 PM
It is possible. If you really love someone.
However, my first two relationships were long distance and it was terrible. I can't imagine doing it again.
:omgwatshappening:
babe... what kinda .......
Quote from: BLOND?. on November 01, 2016, 03:17:57 PM
Damn, glock.
I already got you pondering. Sweet self.
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where do u live bae? tryna see if this will work
Quote from: Harlem on November 01, 2016, 03:17:10 PM
Nah my nigga them shits get corny after the first couple weeks/months
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yo son. Sneakers. NEW YORK!
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 01, 2016, 03:19:10 PM
Quote from: Harlem on November 01, 2016, 03:17:10 PM
Nah my nigga them shits get corny after the first couple weeks/months
sddsssss
yo son. Sneakers. NEW YORK!
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Quote from: glock on November 01, 2016, 03:18:53 PM
Quote from: BLOND?. on November 01, 2016, 03:17:57 PM
Damn, glock.
I already got you pondering. Sweet self.
BBNNBVVBBNNN
where do u live bae? tryna see if this will work
Chicago.
Just wear your bullet proof vest. We gonna make this work.
Yes, depends on the effort put into it by both parties. Not sure how long they last but I guess that depends on ppl too. I personally don't prefer it.
Quote from: BLOND?. on November 01, 2016, 03:20:52 PM
Quote from: glock on November 01, 2016, 03:18:53 PM
Quote from: BLOND?. on November 01, 2016, 03:17:57 PM
Damn, glock.
I already got you pondering. Sweet self.
BBNNBVVBBNNN
where do u live bae? tryna see if this will work
Chicago.
Just wear your bullet proof vest. We gonna make this work.
BVVBBNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN
i dont wanna die young :stressed:
Yeah if you're committed to it and that person.
Quote from: FINE. on November 01, 2016, 03:11:31 PM
Depends on the ppl involved and how strong the bond is.
It doesn't work. I've traveled and have been left hanging half way through the trip. Long distance relationships suck!
Depends
Um no
Who's gonna fuck me then?
Honestly, unless one party is willing to relocate so they can be together, it will never work in the long run.
Eventually one person in the relationship will meet someone else locally and either cheat or break up with their partner.
I think they can if both/all parties want it to work. It's a pain. My ex had to move back to London at one point. We were together for about four years before he had to relocate from NYC. It worked for us. Later, we broke up for reasons unrelated to the distance.
Did he dump you sis?
:raycharles2urmess:
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No for something new, but most likely it can work in a relationship that's already established. It matters if you both have coins to fly too lol.
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on November 01, 2016, 05:02:06 PM
Did he dump you sis?
:raycharles2urmess:
No he relapsed. And I wasn't dealing with it.
So good so far for myself. It really does depend on the type of people and the flexibility of their schedules.
Quote from: Diego. Bitch. on November 01, 2016, 05:04:36 PM
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on November 01, 2016, 05:02:06 PM
Did he dump you sis?
:raycharles2urmess:
No he relapsed. And I wasn't dealing with it.
Relapsed? Was he on drugs?
Quote from: Kurama on November 01, 2016, 03:24:32 PM
Yes, depends on the effort put into it by both parties. Not sure how long they last but I guess that depends on ppl too. I personally don't prefer it.
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on November 01, 2016, 05:07:00 PM
Quote from: Diego. Bitch. on November 01, 2016, 05:04:36 PM
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on November 01, 2016, 05:02:06 PM
Did he dump you sis?
:raycharles2urmess:
No he relapsed. And I wasn't dealing with it.
Relapsed? Was he on drugs?
He was a recovering heroin addict. He was clean for years before we got together. He's a fashion designer and the stress from work triggered him. He's clean now though.
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Quote from: Diego. Bitch. on November 01, 2016, 05:09:34 PM
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on November 01, 2016, 05:07:00 PM
Quote from: Diego. Bitch. on November 01, 2016, 05:04:36 PM
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on November 01, 2016, 05:02:06 PM
Did he dump you sis?
:raycharles2urmess:
No he relapsed. And I wasn't dealing with it.
Relapsed? Was he on drugs?
He was a recovering heroin addict. He was clean for years before we got together. He's a fashion designer and the stress from work triggered him. He's clean now though.
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Also, i'm a "out of sight out of mind" person, so if I rarely see my boo i'm likely to get bored and move in.
evrybod' gotta story now it seem...
Quote from: Diego. Bitch. on November 01, 2016, 05:09:34 PM
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on November 01, 2016, 05:07:00 PM
Quote from: Diego. Bitch. on November 01, 2016, 05:04:36 PM
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on November 01, 2016, 05:02:06 PM
Did he dump you sis?
:raycharles2urmess:
No he relapsed. And I wasn't dealing with it.
Relapsed? Was he on drugs?
He was a recovering heroin addict. He was clean for years before we got together. He's a fashion designer and the stress from work triggered him. He's clean now though.
OMG
I need to pay more attention to you guys. Yawl have some really juicy teas. I'm sorry that happened.
you still gonna hook me up with a FTM friend tho?
I've tried n failed.
Quote from: BENTLEY! on November 01, 2016, 05:12:36 PM
Quote from: Diego. Bitch. on November 01, 2016, 05:09:34 PM
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on November 01, 2016, 05:07:00 PM
Quote from: Diego. Bitch. on November 01, 2016, 05:04:36 PM
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on November 01, 2016, 05:02:06 PM
Did he dump you sis?
:raycharles2urmess:
No he relapsed. And I wasn't dealing with it.
Relapsed? Was he on drugs?
He was a recovering heroin addict. He was clean for years before we got together. He's a fashion designer and the stress from work triggered him. He's clean now though.
OMG
I need to pay more attention to you guys. Yawl have some really juicy teas. I'm sorry that happened.
you still gonna hook me up with a FTM friend tho?
I'm going to see a few of my FTM friends in NYC this weekend! I'll have to sift you photos and stats. :justabit:
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on November 01, 2016, 05:11:47 PM
Also, i'm a "out of sight out of mind" person
This is kind of my issue. And I don't like talking on the phone, so communication will suffer big time
Quote from: Real on November 01, 2016, 05:14:54 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on November 01, 2016, 05:11:47 PM
Also, i'm a "out of sight out of mind" person
This is kind of my issue. And I don't like talking on the phone, so communication will suffer big time
not even with a boo? :wheresmylawyer:
Quote from: FINE. on November 01, 2016, 05:16:02 PM
Quote from: Real on November 01, 2016, 05:14:54 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on November 01, 2016, 05:11:47 PM
Also, i'm a "out of sight out of mind" person
This is kind of my issue. And I don't like talking on the phone, so communication will suffer big time
not even with a boo? :wheresmylawyer:
I mean, I will. But if it has to be a daily thing, then that's a problem for me
I don't know a single person that's had a long term long distance relationship.
I could understand being in the military and having to punch for a little while, but I'm not understanding why two people would willingly build a relationship living 8 million miles apart .
Quote from: Drais. on November 01, 2016, 06:21:16 PM
I don't know a single person that's had a long term long distance relationship.
I could understand being in the military and having to punch for a little while, but I'm not understanding why two people would willingly build a relationship living 8 million miles apart .
I don't think most LDRs start off like that. I don't get people who start relationships living far apart. But some folks have to relocate for work, school or even to take care of their families. If they think they've found "the one" or truly see a future, I don't think it's that farfetched.