We liked each other on Tinder and had a "match", I think I might have super-liked her, kii
He has curly hair and olive skin and big dark eyes.
:loose2when:
Well I had sent him a message but never receieved any response, but also a few days after, Tinder was snatched for some update and then all my matches were deleted and I had to start all over again. But I remembered his first name, so I consulted with my sis Ms. Facebook and BAM! found ha!
:blessed:
We have two mutual friends. A theatre gorl, who is actually straight, but acts in all the uni plays, we are actually pretty close, and some other gorl I ain't even knew I was friends with on FB. ANYWAYS, so I browse through his profile a bit and find out all his tea. Turns out he was born exactly the same year and same month as myself, so he is a Gemini like me.
Also turns out he is actually African. Like me!
:justabit:
And ALSO he is Arab. Like me!
:sup:
Plus he loves the same fckn music as I do and he gives a bit of a political tease with his posts with an Afrocentric edge like me, mind you, he is more of a Jesse Williams type color but with really really dark hair, eyes etc. Also he speaks all the 5 languages that I speak and he studies at the same uni. I have never met this fag in my life, but he is basically my twin.
:diddraispoot: :diddraispoot:
So today I was out and about and looked a mess, was just chilling, when I saw this BEAUTIFUL curly afro (I have a fascination with hair, since my dad runs a barbershop since early childhood). I stanned immediately, even went to the window of the bar he was sitting in to get a better look, then I saw his face and instantenously realized, BIIIIT that's him. What in the fckn world. But I looked a fool that day, with a poncho and no damn haircut, so I SCURRED the fack outta there before he noticed me and went into the class room nearby. Sitting there no and cannot concentrate on this lecture.
Now I'm torn and don't know what to do. I don't want to get to know him on a romantic level so it should not matter how I look, I could just punch into the bar and say hi, ORRRR I write him a sweet message on Messenger, saying we are basically twinzes, but would that not come off creepy, that I scanned his entire FB tea already.
Gorls idk what to dew
:loose2when: :loose2when: :loose2when:
This is my soulmate I just know it.
:stressed:
Is this fabricated?
I would feel creeped tf out if someone hit me in FB saying they went thru my profile and we're "twins", so i wouldn't do that
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 10, 2016, 11:11:16 AM
I would feel creeped tf out if someone hit me in FB saying they went thru my profile and we're "twins", so i wouldn't do that
he could be forward like mal' so maybe he'd appreciate that
Personally I would be flattered as fuck and I would invite him to a beer. But some gorls aren't as extroverted and out there as I am...
Am torn. How do I meet him. Do I holler at the mutual friend and tell him he should connect us. But then I'd have to out myself as ghey, otherwise it would be sus.
:plzstop: :plzstop:
Tell him Facebook suggested him as a friend.
And you recognized him from before so you thought you would say wassup
Keep it chill. Don't mention that he's your twin etc :uhh:
Just a quick greeting and let him respond and take it from there.
Quote from: Baeomi on November 10, 2016, 11:13:08 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 10, 2016, 11:11:16 AM
I would feel creeped tf out if someone hit me in FB saying they went thru my profile and we're "twins", so i wouldn't do that
he could be forward like mal' so maybe he'd appreciate that
Maybe but why not just send a casual message initially like "hey wassup blah blah blah"
Iono how Tinder works but u said y'all matched, why not just lead with that. "Hey, we matched on tinder and coincidentally i saw u in the "people u may know" portion of facebook. Im assuming because we have mutual acquaintances woo woo woo" like be NORMAL about it
went thru your profile. TWINS! :dead: :uhh:
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on November 10, 2016, 11:15:50 AM
Personally I would be flattered as fuck and I would invite him to a beer. But some gorls aren't as extroverted and out there as I am...
Am torn. How do I meet him. Do I holler at the mutual friend and tell him he should connect us. But then I'd have to out myself as ghey, otherwise it would be sus.
:plzstop: :plzstop:
Thats corny. Ur grown. If u want him, man up and approach him
Quote from: hewritez on November 10, 2016, 11:19:00 AM
Tell him Facebook suggested him as a friend.
And you recognized him from before so you thought you would say wassup
Keep it chill. Don't mention that he's your twin etc :uhh:
Just a quick greeting and let him respond and take it from there.
SMART SELF!
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 10, 2016, 11:19:20 AM
Quote from: Baeomi on November 10, 2016, 11:13:08 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 10, 2016, 11:11:16 AM
I would feel creeped tf out if someone hit me in FB saying they went thru my profile and we're "twins", so i wouldn't do that
he could be forward like mal' so maybe he'd appreciate that
Maybe but why not just send a casual message initially like "hey wassup blah blah blah"
Iono how Tinder works but u said y'all matched, why not just lead with that. "Hey, we matched on tinder and coincidentally i saw u in the "people u may know" portion of facebook. Im assuming because we have mutual acquaintances woo woo woo" like be NORMAL about it
went thru your profile. TWINS!
:dead: :uhh:
But maybe he wants to be discreet about his tea. I know we matched, but he might not want the gay mess to carry over to his private social media. Should I really lead with a gay mess?
I genuinely just want to talk and get to know him. Am so intrigued. We could be really good friends in my head.
:ohwow:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 10, 2016, 11:20:54 AM
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on November 10, 2016, 11:15:50 AM
Personally I would be flattered as fuck and I would invite him to a beer. But some gorls aren't as extroverted and out there as I am...
Am torn. How do I meet him. Do I holler at the mutual friend and tell him he should connect us. But then I'd have to out myself as ghey, otherwise it would be sus.
:plzstop: :plzstop:
Thats corny. Ur grown. If u want him, man up and approach him
Quote from: hewritez on November 10, 2016, 11:19:00 AM
Tell him Facebook suggested him as a friend.
And you recognized him from before so you thought you would say wassup
Keep it chill. Don't mention that he's your twin etc :uhh:
Just a quick greeting and let him respond and take it from there.
I like that. You have done something like that before.
:sobusyjetsetter:
Sounds like a stalker tea hun
:udontlookok:
But get into this GAG, his most recent post was LIKED by a fag that I used to date just a month ago, and now we aren't even talking anymore.
Ugh this same sex stuff is a MESS.
Quote from: pettypatty on November 10, 2016, 11:22:59 AM
Sounds like a stalker tea hun
:udontlookok:
Don't we all check out eachother's FB pages from time to time?
fff
wait now i want to warn him :uhh:
jk
I need to pray and, leaning towards what HeWritez suggested... But iono if the mutual friends could make a casual party mess happen.
OOOOF ACK!
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on November 10, 2016, 11:23:56 AM
Quote from: pettypatty on November 10, 2016, 11:22:59 AM
Sounds like a stalker tea hun
:udontlookok:
Don't we all check out eachother's FB pages from time to time?
U don't hit someone up and tell them ur scouring their profile. Its weird
tbh this happened to me before.
I was talking to a guy over Ok Cupid. We'd probably exchanged a couple messages but then it crashed and I wasn't able to log in etc.
I found him on FB and thought about messaging but didn't.
After a few days Ok Cupid was back up and he had already messaged me.
Oh, but after looking at the rest of the pics on his FB I was no longer interested so I ghosted him.
it was probably smart not to say hi in person.
Message him on FB first just to kinda feel him out.
You don't wanna embarrass yourself.
Suppose you're not his type?
Suppose his personality sucks?
Quote from: hewritez on November 10, 2016, 11:26:26 AM
tbh this happened to me before.
I was talking to a guy over Ok Cupid. We'd probably exchanged a couple messages but then it crashed and I wasn't able to log in etc.
I found him on FB and thought about messaging but didn't.
After a few days Ok Cupid was back up and he had already messaged me.
Oh, but after looking at the rest of the pics on his FB I was no longer interested so I ghosted him.
Savage gnjkkhddgj
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on November 10, 2016, 11:23:36 AM
But get into this GAG, his most recent post was LIKED by a fag that I used to date just a month ago, and now we aren't even talking anymore.
Ugh this same sex stuff is a MESS.
ghjjnbfxfhhjhf
Very messy.
He is so gorgeous in person, I was fckn mad. Am not meeting him after I get my fckn haircut and put some cocoa butter on my mess.
But wait, so it means, I do wanna do more than just some friendly mess. Ugh that is the problem my ego is always to big with fags I like to just kick it regular, always gotta be CUTE.
:bvy: :bvy: :bvy:
I don't want a boyfriend, just a homie. Guys he seems like a sweet artsy type that is really popular and likable, so I am sure he might already have some kin spirited friends, he might not see me as twinny.
But then I ain't even talked to this nigga, he could be super sweet and flattered as hell.
:bvy:
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on November 10, 2016, 11:06:48 AM
We liked each other on Tinder and had a "match", I think I might have super-liked her, kii
He has curly hair and olive skin and big dark eyes.
:loose2when:
Well I had sent him a message but never receieved any response, but also a few days after, Tinder was snatched for some update and then all my matches were deleted and I had to start all over again. But I remembered his first name, so I consulted with my sis Ms. Facebook and BAM! found ha!
:blessed:
We have two mutual friends. A theatre gorl, who is actually straight, but acts in all the uni plays, we are actually pretty close, and some other gorl I ain't even knew I was friends with on FB. ANYWAYS, so I browse through his profile a bit and find out all his tea. Turns out he was born exactly the same year and same month as myself, so he is a Gemini like me.
Also turns out he is actually African. Like me!
:justabit:
And ALSO he is Arab. Like me!
:sup:
Plus he loves the same fckn music as I do and he gives a bit of a political tease with his posts with an Afrocentric edge like me, mind you, he is more of a Jesse Williams type color but with really really dark hair, eyes etc. Also he speaks all the 5 languages that I speak and he studies at the same uni. I have never met this fag in my life, but he is basically my twin.
:diddraispoot: :diddraispoot:
So today I was out and about and looked a mess, was just chilling, when I saw this BEAUTIFUL curly afro (I have a fascination with hair, since my dad runs a barbershop since early childhood). I stanned immediately, even went to the window of the bar he was sitting in to get a better look, then I saw his face and instantenously realized, BIIIIT that's him. What in the fckn world. But I looked a fool that day, with a poncho and no damn haircut, so I SCURRED the fack outta there before he noticed me and went into the class room nearby. Sitting there no and cannot concentrate on this lecture.
Now I'm torn and don't know what to do. I don't want to get to know him on a romantic level so it should not matter how I look, I could just punch into the bar and say hi, ORRRR I write him a sweet message on Messenger, saying we are basically twinzes, but would that not come off creepy, that I scanned his entire FB tea already.
Gorls idk what to dew
:loose2when: :loose2when: :loose2when:
wait....let me sign up...i thought it was only for heteros
Lemme clean up this FB page and write a cute chill message
:stressed:
Idgaf if i don't want anyone in the fckn room, i still need to look good tbh :nowgorl:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 10, 2016, 11:37:34 AM
Idgaf if i don't want anyone in the fckn room, i still need to look good tbh :nowgorl:
Yeah at least the first time we meet.
:nowgorl:
Why is everyone doing story threads now?
Is that the new Bsource "thing" :kii:
You should just go say hi..
And him being so close to who u are might actually annoy you
:udontlookok:
Plus FB messenger filters messages from non friends so he'll prolly never see it
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on November 10, 2016, 11:37:21 AM
Lemme clean up this FB page and write a cute chill message
:stressed:
befriend her first
Afro part two?
You girls and these dating apps..
So damn new age and progressive :udontlookok:
Quote from: glock on November 10, 2016, 11:44:15 AM
You should just go say hi..
And him being so close to who u are might actually annoy you
:udontlookok:
Plus FB messenger filters messages from non friends so he'll prolly never see it
I never rly met someone like me here. I just need to meet ppl that are like minded around.
:stressed:
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on November 10, 2016, 11:42:28 AM
Why is everyone doing story threads now?
Is that the new Bsource "thing" :kii:
Afro's impact :supluv:
The plane story with the white woman is like Thriller to the BSource narcissists
I dont mind the stories tbh. I think theyre entertaining. A prerequisite is they need to be believable tho
Quote from: glock on November 10, 2016, 11:45:00 AM
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on November 10, 2016, 11:37:21 AM
Lemme clean up this FB page and write a cute chill message
:stressed:
befriend her first
Will he say yes tho if we never talked?
Ugh I'll just wait and do nothing
:stressed:
Garlic's PR trade at the Uni Campus story is legendary tbh
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on November 10, 2016, 11:46:54 AM
Quote from: glock on November 10, 2016, 11:44:15 AM
You should just go say hi..
And him being so close to who u are might actually annoy you
:udontlookok:
Plus FB messenger filters messages from non friends so he'll prolly never see it
I never rly met someone like me here. I just need to meet ppl that are like minded around.
:stressed:
then go say hi.. :uhh:
Exchange social medias
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 10, 2016, 11:47:09 AM
I dont mind the stories tbh. I think theyre entertaining. A prerequisite is they need to be believable tho
love them
1 or 2 stories is ok.
But when u flood the whole GD section with nothing but fabrication it's gets old real quick.
Worst if you're not cute.
No shade.
uhhh is this a joke?
So I liked his title pictue with Frank ocean's "blonde" on it. I want to ask him what his favorite song was.
But gorls, I went to my the guy's facebook that i dated who liked his profile, turns owt my future soulmate liked his profile pic. But not the ones before, it means they must have met recently, and maybe that is why me and previous bby stopped talking.
am being a lil crazy right now, but I know how to fckn snoop.
:receipts: :loose2when:
You're kinda a creep hun.
But it sounds like something I'd do too.
:justabit:
Well the message is sent now. And I kept it about music, so I am not taking many risks. Will be a Frank Ocean stans now I guess.
:letsmessfag:
you need to stop studying his page immdiately
youre going to have wayyyyyy too many opinions and feelings about him before you even meet him
:dead:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on November 10, 2016, 11:25:23 AM
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on November 10, 2016, 11:23:56 AM
Quote from: pettypatty on November 10, 2016, 11:22:59 AM
Sounds like a stalker tea hun
:udontlookok:
Don't we all check out eachother's FB pages from time to time?
U don't hit someone up and tell them ur scouring their profile. Its weird
I was gonna petty like HE was in my last thread and derail it with a "n" or some bullshit like that, but I'm not even on that. However, I agree with your statement. I would be creeped out just a tad bit.
Thanks Scotty! Ton that is some good advice cause ch am imagining things almost
:hmph:
No need
(https://m.popkey.co/aecf95/J6gvA_s-200x150.gif)
:plzstop:
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on November 10, 2016, 12:51:46 PM
Well the message is sent now. And I kept it about music, so I am not taking many risks. Will be a Frank Ocean stans now I guess.
:letsmessfag:
hes not ur friend so he won't see it :plzstop:
I told u this :uhh:
Quote from: glock on November 10, 2016, 01:45:50 PM
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on November 10, 2016, 12:51:46 PM
Well the message is sent now. And I kept it about music, so I am not taking many risks. Will be a Frank Ocean stans now I guess.
:letsmessfag:
hes not ur friend so he won't see it :plzstop:
I told u this :uhh:
:dead:
Its not hard to see a msg from someone that isn't ur friend
hidden. Labyrinth
:dead:
Yh it just takes a lil longer