Or why do you think a great number of black women go so hard on gay black men?
I saw this post and the last sentence stuck out to me. I mean most of the comments under the post are from black women. :dead:
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Quote from: sadiddy? on November 22, 2016, 09:43:03 PM
the bitter ugly ones do.
any excuse they can GRAB onto
Some of the comments make me believe they probably are. They express such disgust towards any gay guy debating w/ them.
Only those that are lowkey homophobic
Otherwise no
But this community loves to use us as a scapegoat. "Gay agenda" "Destruction of the black family" "lack of available black men" "spread of STDs" etc
Quote from: Freeruu on November 22, 2016, 09:45:21 PM
Only those that are lowkey homophobic
Otherwise no
But this community loves to use us as a scapegoat. "Gay agenda" "Destruction of the black family" "lack of available black men" "spread of STDs" etc
!!!!
Someone said them (the gay men pictured) being professionals and successful in their careers doesn't mean anything since they won't have a legacy when they die. :uhh:
I don't like women of any kind except the ones in my family. Females are disgusting and trife. Even the "woke" conscious ones.
Quote from: TAE! on November 22, 2016, 09:47:28 PM
Someone said them (the gay men pictured) being professionals and successful in their careers doesn't mean anything since they won't have a legacy when they die. :uhh:
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The response isn't surprising tho. Commenters on these gossip blogs are def miserable/the scum of the net. Its interesting how they always post homophobic shit yet love our lingo(TheShadeRoom and all these random tea/shade blogs).
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Why do some gay men try to compete with women
Sometimes
Quote from: TAE! on November 22, 2016, 09:47:28 PM
Someone said them (the gay men pictured) being professionals and successful in their careers doesn't mean anything since they won't have a legacy when they die. :uhh:
I'm crying :plzstop:
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 09:51:58 PM
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Why do some gay men try to compete with women
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Quote from: TAE! on November 22, 2016, 09:47:28 PM
Someone said them (the gay men pictured) being professionals and successful in their careers doesn't mean anything since they won't have a legacy when they die. :uhh:
This post made me cry a lil hit hard AF
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Yeah, post a pic of an attractive gay couple or a black man hugged with a white women and they'll damn near combust.
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 09:51:58 PM
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Why do some gay men try to compete with women
It has to do w some emulating mother more n thinkin hetero men actually wantin them
They sound dumb af .. Like there are hundreds of other straight black men out there why are you concerned with the ones who don't want you ?
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 22, 2016, 09:55:00 PM
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Yeah, post a pic of an attractive gay couple or a black man hugged with a white women and they'll damn near combust.
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I love my intelligent strong black women
It's really only ugly women
And it's like you wouldn't be able to get him if he was straight
So why are you mad?
Quote from: TAE! on November 22, 2016, 09:47:28 PM
Someone said them (the gay men pictured) being professionals and successful in their careers doesn't mean anything since they won't have a legacy when they die. :uhh:
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Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 22, 2016, 09:55:00 PM
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Yeah, post a pic of an attractive gay couple or a black man hugged with a white women and they'll damn near combust.
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:fuming: taking all the good mens
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Y'all need to get real. These black girls are pressed about Susan and them getting wifed up by these black men. They could careless about the faggs. At most they don't find it normal due to religious reasons but they're not competing with them. ;ddd just being honest. If anything it's the other way around. Gay men try to compete with them.
Quote from: sadiddy? on November 22, 2016, 09:43:03 PM
the bitter ugly ones do.
any excuse they can GRAB onto
I could say so, so so much.
But lemme stop.
Say one thing not in line with your gay beliefs and I'm a 'hater', 'bitter' or 'can't get a man'.
Grow the fuck up, noodle head.
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:00:51 PM
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Y'all need to get real. These black girls are pressed about Susan and them getting wifed up by these black men. They could careless about the faggs. At most they don't find it normal due to religious reasons but they're not competing with them. ;ddd just being honest. If anything it's the other way around. Gay men try to compete with them.
I can agree with your last sentence, but it's not all gay men who are trying to compete just like all black women aren't mad at gay men. Definitely a good number of them though.
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Quote from: TEXASbama on November 22, 2016, 09:55:28 PM
They sound dumb af .. Like there are hundreds of other straight black men out there why are you concerned with the ones who don't want you ?
I think the issue becomes that most normal gay men are successful and in certain positions of power that women desire from a man. That's the only thing I can think of.
Quote from: Baeomi on November 22, 2016, 09:59:03 PM
I love my intelligent strong black women
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fuck those bitter coons tbh
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:00:51 PM
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Y'all need to get real. These black girls are pressed about Susan and them getting wifed up by these black men. They could careless about the faggs. At most they don't find it normal due to religious reasons but they're not competing with them. ;ddd just being honest. If anything it's the other way around. Gay men try to compete with them.
Kinda agrees
I feel like Black women are more annoyed by women of other races (specifically white) "stealing" the black men from them. Never really hear black women talk about gays negatively except for the whole "they wanna be me!!" Thing. I don't think black women find gays a threat when it comes to them stealing their man.
Quote from: Kaeli. on November 22, 2016, 10:09:04 PM
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:00:51 PM
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Y'all need to get real. These black girls are pressed about Susan and them getting wifed up by these black men. They could careless about the faggs. At most they don't find it normal due to religious reasons but they're not competing with them. ;ddd just being honest. If anything it's the other way around. Gay men try to compete with them.
Kinda agrees
I feel like Black women are more annoyed by women of other races (specifically white) "stealing" the black men from them. Never really hear black women talk about gays negatively except for the whole "they wanna be me!!" Thing. I don't think black women find gays a threat when it comes to them stealing their man.
I dunno luv
You guys shade us down on Facebook when we're not suggesting make up tips or recommending the best Instagram boutique
Quote from: TAE! on November 22, 2016, 10:04:33 PM
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:00:51 PM
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Y'all need to get real. These black girls are pressed about Susan and them getting wifed up by these black men. They could careless about the faggs. At most they don't find it normal due to religious reasons but they're not competing with them. ;ddd just being honest. If anything it's the other way around. Gay men try to compete with them.
I can agree with your last sentence, but it's not all gay men who are trying to compete just like all black women aren't mad at gay men. Definitely a good number of them though.
If they're mad it's towards the DL gays.
Quote from: Kaeli. on November 22, 2016, 10:09:04 PM
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:00:51 PM
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Y'all need to get real. These black girls are pressed about Susan and them getting wifed up by these black men. They could careless about the faggs. At most they don't find it normal due to religious reasons but they're not competing with them. ;ddd just being honest. If anything it's the other way around. Gay men try to compete with them.
Kinda agrees
I feel like Black women are more annoyed by women of other races (specifically white) "stealing" the black men from them. Never really hear black women talk about gays negatively except for the whole "they wanna be me!!" Thing. I don't think black women find gays a threat when it comes to them stealing their man.
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Uhm hello Gay men are stealing their men lolz
But it's kinda sad
A lot of black girls I know will ask me "is he gay? :gorlonfire: " in reference to a guy they're interested in or dating ddsssss
Like are there really THAT many gay black men out there?
If they're able to be stolen r they really our men :ATLcameo:
Quote from: Kaeli. on November 22, 2016, 10:09:04 PM
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:00:51 PM
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Y'all need to get real. These black girls are pressed about Susan and them getting wifed up by these black men. They could careless about the faggs. At most they don't find it normal due to religious reasons but they're not competing with them. ;ddd just being honest. If anything it's the other way around. Gay men try to compete with them.
Kinda agrees
I feel like Black women are more annoyed by women of other races (specifically white) "stealing" the black men from them. Never really hear black women talk about gays negatively except for the whole "they wanna be me!!" Thing. I don't think black women find gays a threat when it comes to them stealing their man.
!!! Don't know what these faggs are on :everythingok: all the gay personalities on YouTube and IG have a strong black women following. Oh mad at us! These bitches are literally supporting y'all :kii:
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Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:15:49 PM
Quote from: Kaeli. on November 22, 2016, 10:09:04 PM
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:00:51 PM
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Y'all need to get real. These black girls are pressed about Susan and them getting wifed up by these black men. They could careless about the faggs. At most they don't find it normal due to religious reasons but they're not competing with them. ;ddd just being honest. If anything it's the other way around. Gay men try to compete with them.
Kinda agrees
I feel like Black women are more annoyed by women of other races (specifically white) "stealing" the black men from them. Never really hear black women talk about gays negatively except for the whole "they wanna be me!!" Thing. I don't think black women find gays a threat when it comes to them stealing their man.
!!! Don't know what these faggs are on :everythingok: all the gay personalities on YouTube and IG have a strong black women following. Oh mad at us! These bitches are literally supporting y'all :kii:
and they're all big entertaining FAGS
The moment it's some black man with a degree and career that isn't in entertainment or beauty, the guy is criminalized :dead: :dead:
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on November 22, 2016, 10:18:18 PM
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:15:49 PM
Quote from: Kaeli. on November 22, 2016, 10:09:04 PM
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:00:51 PM
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Y'all need to get real. These black girls are pressed about Susan and them getting wifed up by these black men. They could careless about the faggs. At most they don't find it normal due to religious reasons but they're not competing with them. ;ddd just being honest. If anything it's the other way around. Gay men try to compete with them.
Kinda agrees
I feel like Black women are more annoyed by women of other races (specifically white) "stealing" the black men from them. Never really hear black women talk about gays negatively except for the whole "they wanna be me!!" Thing. I don't think black women find gays a threat when it comes to them stealing their man.
!!! Don't know what these faggs are on :everythingok: all the gay personalities on YouTube and IG have a strong black women following. Oh mad at us! These bitches are literally supporting y'all :kii:
and they're all big entertaining FAGS
The moment it's some black man with a degree and career that isn't in entertainment or beauty, the guy is criminalized :dead: :dead:
I honestly never see it. :dead: If anything a black man with a degree and career marrying lil white Mary makes their blood BOIL :kii: not a gay black man with a degree :kii:
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on November 22, 2016, 10:15:06 PM
But it's kinda sad
A lot of black girls I know will ask me "is he gay? :gorlonfire: " in reference to a guy they're interested in or dating ddsssss
Like are there really THAT many gay black men out there?
Paranoia more than anything. A lot of these black girls are pressed to find a man (http://i1101.photobucket.com/albums/g423/jbentley2012/IMG_1030_zpso5ryvvz6.jpg)
I do think generally though, both sides exaggerate what the other is doing.
I think some women definitely get bothered by the whole gay men & white women taking all the good men.
I do think some gay men feel like its a competition with black women, especially if they feel like Black women generally direct hate towards them.
I think it boils down to the pressure of women still feeling like they have to compete for a man's affection and gay men buy into that too, especially the ones who are more "feminine" oriented. The gender binary fucks shit up.
Quote from: Kurama on November 22, 2016, 10:23:59 PM
I do think generally though, both sides exaggerate what the other is doing.
I think some women definitely get bothered by the whole gay men & white women taking all the good men.
I do think some gay men feel like its a competition with black women, especially if they feel like Black women generally direct hate towards them.
I think it boils down to the pressure of women still feeling like they have to compete for a man's affection and gay men buy into that too, especially the ones who are more "feminine" oriented. The gender binary fucks shit up.
I was going to say something shady but I actually bothered to read this post.
Wait... :ohwow:
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I wish I could meet the millions of black men that are turning gay since gays and lesbians outnumber straight like so many in the black community believe.
Reminds me of how white people just need to see 5% of minorities in their communities and they believe it's being over run.
Most of the time though if it's an effeminate gay men than only overtly homophobic women will drag him
but if it's somebody that looks like Boris Kojoe or Idris Alba then the disgust gets a bit extra.
Chile. its kind of Obvious.
Their pressed because they see so many attractive, successful gay men that they would want for themselves and cannot have.
its a " Dammm he gay too". Their disappointed.
I dont blame them though, being a black women looking for a man seems hard.
I've always been told not to trust many women. The main ones that be here for you, using the lingo, getting the tea ain't really here for u. I learned that when the same sex marriage law was passed, and one of my homegirls from college when on a facebook rant about how demonic it is and disgusted she was by the thought of same sex marriage, when she was one of the first people I came out in college and she was holding my hand encouraging me to be who I was.
FAKE ho.
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Quote from: TAE! on November 22, 2016, 10:04:33 PM
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:00:51 PM
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Y'all need to get real. These black girls are pressed about Susan and them getting wifed up by these black men. They could careless about the faggs. At most they don't find it normal due to religious reasons but they're not competing with them. ;ddd just being honest. If anything it's the other way around. Gay men try to compete with them.
I can agree with your last sentence, but it's not all gay men who are trying to compete just like all black women aren't mad at gay men. Definitely a good number of them though.
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Quote from: Kaeli. on November 22, 2016, 10:09:04 PM
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:00:51 PM
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Y'all need to get real. These black girls are pressed about Susan and them getting wifed up by these black men. They could careless about the faggs. At most they don't find it normal due to religious reasons but they're not competing with them. ;ddd just being honest. If anything it's the other way around. Gay men try to compete with them.
Kinda agrees
I feel like Black women are more annoyed by women of other races (specifically white) "stealing" the black men from them. Never really hear black women talk about gays negatively except for the whole "they wanna be me!!" Thing. I don't think black women find gays a threat when it comes to them stealing their man.
But I don't think we are "stealing" anything from them.
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Honestly ALL black American men are disgusting. Gay, straight, crossdressers, thugs, etc. ALL. Always trying to blame black women for their insecurities and issues but expecting them to be there when shit hits the fan. Weak selves. :blessed: and whats sad is that black women hold them down regardless.
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:42:50 PM
and whats sad is that black women hold them down regardless.
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Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:42:50 PM
and whats sad is that black women hold them down regardless.
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Quote from: Myron on November 22, 2016, 10:35:53 PM
Chile. its kind of Obvious.
Their pressed because they see so many attractive, successful gay men that they would want for themselves and cannot have.
its a " Dammm he gay too". Their disappointed.
I dont blame them though, being a black women looking for a man seems hard.
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Quote from: Myron on November 22, 2016, 10:35:53 PM
its a " Dammm he gay too". Their disappointed.
I'm stomping
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Is that what you came to do? :ATLcameo:
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Quote from: FINE. on November 22, 2016, 10:54:34 PM
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Is that what you came to do? :ATLcameo:
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I'm screaming at Rah pulling her scully down. Big cheating BITCH
Rah wasn't ready for Queen Sky. Got her ass rocked.
Quote from: Fine Dining on November 22, 2016, 10:04:16 PM
Quote from: sadiddy? on November 22, 2016, 09:43:03 PM
the bitter ugly ones do.
any excuse they can GRAB onto
I could say so, so so much.
But lemme stop.
Say one thing not in line with your gay beliefs and I'm a 'hater', 'bitter' or 'can't get a man'.
Grow the fuck up, noodle head.
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my bladder just gave the fck OWT :plzstop:
Not all of them. Actually, I don't think this is true for most of them. I DESPISE hearing black women say, Ugh! Why he gotta be gay? Or, what a waste... It's so reductive and arrogant.
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:42:50 PM
Honestly ALL black American men are disgusting.
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I never understood why they post obviously gay dudes then say "ladies choose one" :uhh: :dead: But I guess this is why
Quote from: Real on November 23, 2016, 06:01:28 AM
I never understood why they post obviously gay dudes then say "ladies choose one" :uhh: :dead: But I guess this is why
youre straight right ? do you get upset when you see two FINE ASS women together and say things like " You just aint never had no good dick yet!"
Some of these women are bitter TBH.
If I hear "you're too cute to be gay" one more time.
:nowgorl:
gggg I remmeber briefly discussing this with Bent & Af in another thread.
Black women are the pits honestly, especially in the workplace.
After I mentioned my ex was a guy a couple of them always side eye me and make comments when I'm laughing and talking with a cute straight guy. And don't let my pants be fitted. :uhh:
And they always happen to either ugly or fat when it comes to the workplace. The pretty gurs are never on that bullshit.
Some of them
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 09:51:58 PM
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Why do some gay men try to compete with women
i don't get why this happens either
You're still a nigga and she's still a woman LMAO..
I don't get why men try to compete with women ... confused asses
I think it boils down to attention honestly.
Women love attention from men and so do fags, especially feminine ones.
I never really noticed gay men and women having a competing mindset
Quote from: Drais. on November 23, 2016, 08:19:20 AM
I think it boils down to attention honestly.
Women love attention from men and so do fags, especially feminine ones.
Quote from: Drais. on November 23, 2016, 08:19:20 AM
I think it boils down to attention honestly.
Women love attention from men and so do fags, especially feminine ones.
perfect way to put it
Quote from: glock on November 23, 2016, 08:17:12 AM
I don't get why men try to compete with women ... confused asses
I don't get this either. Or the reverse side. Some women try to compete with men, gay ones at that. Odd.
Quote from: TEXASbama on November 23, 2016, 06:22:18 AM
Quote from: Real on November 23, 2016, 06:01:28 AM
I never understood why they post obviously gay dudes then say "ladies choose one" :uhh: :dead: But I guess this is why
youre straight right ?
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Quote from: Diego on November 23, 2016, 08:27:52 AM
Quote from: glock on November 23, 2016, 08:17:12 AM
I don't get why men try to compete with women ... confused asses
I don't get this either. Or the reverse side. Some women try to compete with men, gay ones at that. Odd.
i don't feel that women really compete with gay men
I feel like they are threatened by them sometimes ... but they don't go out of their way to compete with gay men
Quote from: glock on November 23, 2016, 08:31:25 AM
Quote from: Diego on November 23, 2016, 08:27:52 AM
Quote from: glock on November 23, 2016, 08:17:12 AM
I don't get why men try to compete with women ... confused asses
I don't get this either. Or the reverse side. Some women try to compete with men, gay ones at that. Odd.
i don't feel that women really compete with gay men
I feel like they are threatened by them sometimes ... but they don't go out of their way to compete with gay men
That's your experience. I've seen it plenty of times and it's not cute.
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