I was reading this about why Tammy stayed with Waka after he cheated:
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Tammy said,
? Times are not the same, women nowadays you know they say oh let me just do this, I can go out and find me another man, niggas ain?t nothing. You know, all of that, and I get it.?
?But then on the other side you have men who aren?t growing up with fathers, not making excuses for men to cheat, but you have men who never seen what a household is supposed to look like ? my husband was never in a married household. He didn?t know. His mom was a hustler, you know what i?m saying, she was out in the streets she was the mom and the dad. He doesn?t know?he grew up in the industry. He had early stardom with his career, I think Waka was in his early 20s mid 20s when he dropped his first hit.?
?So you have all these groupies, you have all these things but despite all of that, behind closed doors -this man loves me to death and I know he loves my child to death. He does anything for us. ?
?So, my mom always told me? you can find a man who can financially take care of you, you can find a man who might not be a cheater, might have it all together, might of grew up with a father in their household, but it?s hard to find real love and a person who genuinely loves you and who is willing to change, my husband was willing to change for his family. ?
?So why would I give up on my husband. I?m not that type, I think that?s weak of a woman to do that. It?s easier to walk away as opposed to than to speaking up! No we?re going to fight for this we got married. My family is worth fighting for.?
http://theshaderoom.com/tammy-rivera-opens-chose-stay-waka-flocka-infidelity/
A serial cheater is a deal breaker
QuoteI think that?s weak of a woman to do that.
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fucking please. You're not strong for staying. Just stupid.
and until I hear about a cheater that cheats ONCE... nah
Quote from: Vonc2002 on December 02, 2016, 07:04:26 PM
A serial cheater is a deal breaker
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We're men at the end of the day, it's very likely to happen tbh. If you're honest I can look past one...maybe 2. But anything else is a wrap. :stressed:
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n Tammy's a dumb bitch
Quote from: NewNu on December 02, 2016, 07:10:25 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on December 02, 2016, 07:04:26 PM
A serial cheater is a deal breaker
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If you're honest I can look past one...maybe 2. But anything else is a wrap. :stressed:
I agree
IDK...
If you cheat I don't know if I can get over it, especially if the only reason you confess is
because you got caught. I already have trust issues, so that would only make things worse.
It's def a deal breaker for me cuz the person needs to learn their lesson just to value ur respect especially since I'm open to like 3 somes down the line n shit to keep shit littt....
but it depends on the situation and history u have with that person too...
I think I may be more lineant if someone tried my partner and he responded b/c maybe he was too drunk which is just as bad no excuses but I understand temptation especially when someone's throwing it at u compared to u side texting a hoe and initiating that shit...
Idk at the end of the day, that shit not cool
Sex with another person doesn't bother me, it's just sex
If you confess to the mess I could get over it
It's the lying about it or not saying anything is what I can't get past
She's pathetic. Making all these excuses while he continues to fuck everything with a pulse.
And yes, it's a deal breaker. It tells me you don't respect me or what we have.
I just couldn't work it out with someone that stepped out on me
some women are so dumb.
Not a total deal breaker but the added stress it puts on a relationship is hell. Once trust is lost, I second guess every action and that in itself kinda kills the relationship.
Quote from: Pearls on December 03, 2016, 12:27:24 AM
Not a total deal breaker but the added stress it puts on a relationship is hell. Once trust is lost, I second guess every action and that in itself kinda kills the relationship.
in the end u gonna end up wasting your time cause u will never trust them again.
In the infamous words of Beatrix Kiddo:
Trust is like a mirror, you can fix it if it's broken, but you can still see the crack in that mother fucker's reflection. :raycharles2urmess:
Yea
If u cheated u didn't want me in the first place or u wanted a lil yummy on the side & i'm not here for either. U do u & I'll do me.
I just... Stay single if u want multiple gorls. What's so hard about that :diddraispoot:
At this age in life nah it isn't because I still have to navigate around and find out exactly what it is I really want but be clear, if I'm up in age ready for more than just dick and superficial shit then hell yeah cheating is a deal breaker. After a certain period in life, you can't keep doing the same shit over and over. If we gonna be together then that's it. Don't settle for less. There are other guys out there willing to be all you want and need. I just can't fathom dealing with the bullshit.
I think that's one of the reasons I'm scared to fall in love because I don't want to end up hurt and looking stupid.
There is no coming back from cheating. I'll never be able to fully trust you .. Im petty af too I'll always bring it up
"Oh you were 5 min late home from work.. You cheating again ? "
Quote from: Vonc2002 on December 02, 2016, 07:12:41 PM
Quote from: NewNu on December 02, 2016, 07:10:25 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on December 02, 2016, 07:04:26 PM
A serial cheater is a deal breaker
!!!!
If you're honest I can look past one...maybe 2. But anything else is a wrap. :stressed:
I agree
im honestly shocked you would :dead:
Once is enough :uhh:
Quote from: TEXASbama on December 03, 2016, 02:03:12 AM
There is no coming back from cheating. I'll never be able to fully trust you .. Im petty af too I'll always bring it up
"Oh you were 5 min late home from work.. You cheating again ? "
:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :nowgorl:
I really don't know because my trust is shaky. I don't know if I can trust you the same.
Quote from: kinda WILD! lol on December 03, 2016, 08:06:26 PM
Quote from: K♚NG. on December 03, 2016, 01:54:08 AM
At this age in life nah it isn't because I still have to navigate around and find out exactly what it is I really want but be clear, if I'm up in age ready for more than just dick and superficial shit then hell yeah cheating is a deal breaker. After a certain period in life, you can't keep doing the same shit over and over. If we gonna be together then that's it. Don't settle for less. There are other guys out there willing to be all you want and need. I just can't fathom dealing with the bullshit.
I think that's one of the reasons I'm scared to fall in love because I don't want to end up hurt and looking stupid.
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Have you ever been in a relationship hun? No shade ja
Quote from: TheNextLew on December 03, 2016, 08:06:58 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on December 03, 2016, 02:03:12 AM
There is no coming back from cheating. I'll never be able to fully trust you .. Im petty af too I'll always bring it up
"Oh you were 5 min late home from work.. You cheating again ? "
:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :nowgorl:
!!!!!!!!!!!
Lost of trust is a deal breaker for me . And if you cheat on me , I'll never be able to trust you .
I wouldn't be able to handle it. Once you make me feel like I wasn't enough, it's hard to come back from that and go back to normal. But sometimes it depends on the history and dynamic of the relationship.
Not justifying cheating, but let's say the person who cheated felt like they were being taken for granted in the relationship and have expressed it, but the person who got cheated on hasn't made any changes. Would it be "ok" then? Or something you'd be willing to work through? Sometimes I feel both parties have to take responsibility.
Quote from: Scott. on December 03, 2016, 09:34:33 PM
I really don't know because my trust is shaky. I don't know if I can trust you the same.
Or even be attracted to them the same. After that I'm disgusted. Yeah, I think it's a one and done for me.
Quote from: Alphabet on December 04, 2016, 11:20:03 AM
Quote from: Scott. on December 03, 2016, 09:34:33 PM
I really don't know because my trust is shaky. I don't know if I can trust you the same.
Or even be attracted to them the same. After that I'm disgusted. Yeah, I think it's a one and done for me.
Yea I would be a bit disgusted. Definitely wouldn't give head to them ever again lol.
It depends on how far along we are in our relationship. If we've been dating 2 or 3 months I'll most likely drop your ass.
If it was something long term or we're possibly engaged/married I'd try to work things out.
Quote from: TAE! on December 04, 2016, 11:18:57 AM
Not justifying cheating, but let's say the person who cheated felt like they were being taken for granted in the relationship and have expressed it, but the person who got cheated on hasn't made any changes. Would it be "ok" then? Or something you'd be willing to work through? Sometimes I feel both parties have to take responsibility.
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My friend neglected her husband and treated him like shit. He only stayed with her because they had a kid together.
Long story short he did cheat on her but I'm not surprised. I don't really look at cheating on the surface anymore. For alot of people who go that route it's about alot more than being greedy or trying to get an extra nut.
But if you're not happy in your relationship why not express that? What's the point of cheating when you can say how you feel, try to fix it and if there is no change just leave?
Something I learned as I got older is that many women don't like to 'start over' so they will deal with their cheating husbands as long as he "comes home to me." It's ridiculous af, IMO.
Quote from: K♚NG. on December 04, 2016, 06:41:10 PM
But if you're not happy in your relationship why not express that? What's the point of cheating when you can say how you feel, try to fix it and if there is no change just leave?
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You'll find people are terrible at expressing themselves to significant others as time goes on
Whether they're 16 or 60
It's a deal breaker for me because when I commit, I commit. I know how loyal I am and because I know this I feel like it would be a deservice to myself to accept anything less than what I give out
In a relationship I can give and take on basically anything comittment isn't one of those things
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on December 04, 2016, 07:39:38 PM
Quote from: K♚NG. on December 04, 2016, 06:41:10 PM
But if you're not happy in your relationship why not express that? What's the point of cheating when you can say how you feel, try to fix it and if there is no change just leave?
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You'll find people are terrible at expressing themselves to significant others as time goes on
Whether they're 16 or 60
That's weak imo
I think a lot of times men cheat to be edgy, try something new or try some new pussy. A lot of times there's no feelings behind it so I can see why a wife would take back a cheating husband. I think for a lot of women the dealbreaker is if the man is in a genuine relationship with the women (going on dates, doing sentimental shit, etc.)
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Yea.... I dont have time to be playing Inspector Gadget and losing sleep, wondering if a nigger is still creeping into MelMel's bed.
These poor girls...
:overit:
What the
Quote from: Trey on December 04, 2016, 08:24:02 PM
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Yea.... I dont have time to be playing Inspector Gadget and losing sleep, wondering if a nigger is still creeping into MelMel's bed.
These poor girls...
:overit:
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Quote from: TAE! on December 04, 2016, 11:18:57 AM
Not justifying cheating, but let's say the person who cheated felt like they were being taken for granted in the relationship and have expressed it, but the person who got cheated on hasn't made any changes. Would it be "ok" then? Or something you'd be willing to work through? Sometimes I feel both parties have to take responsibility.
i just feel like a lot of conversations need to happen in between and someone needs to leave or at least discuss leaving so it doesn't even have to get to that
Fuck whoever u want without the guilt
I just feel like you need to stop texting that other nigga
:overit: