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Title: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: Herb. on September 06, 2015, 04:37:01 PM
https://www.facebook.com/rchestnut

These posts....  :uhh:
Like, he's gone...what's the point in pointing fingers? But I guess if someone was close to him and feel as if people are misrepresenting their "friendship" with him, it may give them cause to black out a bit, irrespective of which platform it's done on.
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: GLOCK on September 06, 2015, 04:38:28 PM
Omfg he passed away?
I just seen him a few weeks ago at the mall... At Top shop :uhh:
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: SUPREME on September 06, 2015, 04:41:22 PM
How do you do porn and ask for rides

Don't do it kids

Rip
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: BigDawg on September 06, 2015, 04:42:11 PM
How did he die?
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: Herb. on September 06, 2015, 04:45:16 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on September 06, 2015, 04:41:22 PM
How do you do porn and ask for rides

Don't do it kids

Rip
I mean let's keep it 100. Black gay porn actors are at the bottom of the barrel when it comes to pay. Most of them do this to keep a roof over their head or to possibly pay for school bills maybe. I actually have a friend years ago who went into it to put himself through school; that's why I'm slow to pass judgement. You don't know these people's stories.
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: Scott. on September 06, 2015, 04:45:50 PM
A seizure.
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: BigDawg on September 06, 2015, 04:51:17 PM
Im sorry to hear that, RIP
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: SUPREME on September 06, 2015, 05:02:55 PM
Quote from: Herb. on September 06, 2015, 04:45:16 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on September 06, 2015, 04:41:22 PM
How do you do porn and ask for rides

Don't do it kids

Rip
I mean let's keep it 100. Black gay porn actors are at the bottom of the barrel when it comes to pay. Most of them do this to keep a roof over their head or to possibly pay for school bills maybe. I actually have a friend years ago who went into it to put himself through school; that's why I'm slow to pass judgement. You don't know these people's stories.
im not judging them i'm saying it makes little sense

a night janitor would be a more sensible job

Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: Inject My Lips on September 06, 2015, 05:09:06 PM
They would be better off being a camwhore or doing a risque youtube channel and then linking to your xxx paid content in the description bar. 
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: Herb. on September 06, 2015, 05:28:10 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on September 06, 2015, 05:02:55 PM
Quote from: Herb. on September 06, 2015, 04:45:16 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on September 06, 2015, 04:41:22 PM
How do you do porn and ask for rides

Don't do it kids

Rip
I mean let's keep it 100. Black gay porn actors are at the bottom of the barrel when it comes to pay. Most of them do this to keep a roof over their head or to possibly pay for school bills maybe. I actually have a friend years ago who went into it to put himself through school; that's why I'm slow to pass judgement. You don't know these people's stories.
im not judging them i'm saying it makes little sense

a night janitor would be a more sensible job
I didn't mean to imply that you were being judgmental bvy :stressed:

I get what you mean: if you're going to be struggling at least do it with an occupation which would be considered more dignified. But it all depends on the person's perception of where dignity lies. Some may think that being a renowned porn star is highly respectable, while someone else would consider it to be too risque' , self exposing and beneath their standards.
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: Rxxf on September 06, 2015, 05:29:46 PM
Omg. How did he pass?
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: yummy on September 06, 2015, 05:29:53 PM
oh wow

I was just watching some of his mess the other day :dead:
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: Rxxf on September 06, 2015, 05:29:58 PM
Quote from: SCOTTland on September 06, 2015, 04:45:50 PM
A seizure.
:-(
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: SUPREME on September 06, 2015, 05:30:33 PM
noooo

i didn't mean that either -- dignity

i meant i thought it was common knowledge porn stars don't make much

and when they said 'we'll pay you $__.__, he should've said HELL no'

It couldn't have been enough for him to still be asking for rides on FB and taking the bus

SORR'

Even selling yourself to old white men is more lucrative, and not to mention private

But W/E, hope hes in a better place. It just sucks how little they're paid.
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: SUPREME on September 06, 2015, 05:31:21 PM
but youre right, maybe he just wanted to do a porn mess and the $$ wasnt important
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: Herb. on September 06, 2015, 05:37:22 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on September 06, 2015, 05:30:33 PM
noooo

i didn't mean that either -- dignity

i meant i thought it was common knowledge porn stars don't make much

and when they said 'we'll pay you $__.__, he should've said HELL no'

It couldn't have been enough for him to still be asking for rides on FB and taking the bus

SORR'

Even selling yourself to old white men is more lucrative, and not to mention private

But W/E, hope hes in a better place. It just sucks how little they're paid.
I get kind of angry as well when I think of how they literally bend over backwards for this white-owned companies - for such little compensation; I think the worst case is when they exposed Cocodorm's "headquarters" on the news....these young, impressionable, often misplaced and homeless young black men having to turn to the streets to find a family. That's what really pisses me the fuck off. A lot of them are clearly taken advantage of. "Oh! All I gotta do is suck dick and I get 50 bucks? I'm game! :cheerup: lol". No, what you're giving to that cracker is worth way more than what he's handing to you.
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: Rxxf on September 06, 2015, 05:37:28 PM
Is there a reason why african american porn stars are paid less?
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: SUPREME on September 06, 2015, 05:40:14 PM
Quote from: Herb. on September 06, 2015, 05:37:22 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on September 06, 2015, 05:30:33 PM
noooo

i didn't mean that either -- dignity

i meant i thought it was common knowledge porn stars don't make much

and when they said 'we'll pay you $__.__, he should've said HELL no'

It couldn't have been enough for him to still be asking for rides on FB and taking the bus

SORR'

Even selling yourself to old white men is more lucrative, and not to mention private

But W/E, hope hes in a better place. It just sucks how little they're paid.
I get kind of angry as well when I think of how they literally bend over backwards for this white-owned companies - for such little compensation; I think the worst case is when they exposed Cocodorm's "headquarters" on the news....these young, impressionable, often misplaced and homeless young black men having to turn to the streets to find a family. That's what really pisses me the fuck off. A lot of them are clearly taken advantage of. "Oh! All I gotta do is suck dick and I get 50 bucks? I'm game! :cheerup: lol". No, what you're giving to that cracker is worth way more than what he's handing to you.
yeah they definitely take advantage, its terrible

these young guys need to learn how to be high price
Better have on a hot pair of nikes
Better buy me anything I like
Cause Im already holdin holdin

:howfestive:
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: yummy on September 06, 2015, 05:41:22 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on September 06, 2015, 04:41:22 PM
How do you do porn and ask for rides


g

why are you being rude

:damselindistress:
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: asdfghjkl on September 06, 2015, 05:53:07 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on September 06, 2015, 05:29:53 PM
oh wow

I was just watching some of his mess the other day :dead:

whats the name bby  :plzstop:

make sure i never dl a porno with him in it  :dead:

weird seein' dead ppl have sex  :ohwow:
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: SUPREME on September 06, 2015, 05:55:03 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on September 06, 2015, 05:41:22 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on September 06, 2015, 04:41:22 PM
How do you do porn and ask for rides


g

why are you being rude

:damselindistress:
:omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: Herb. on September 06, 2015, 06:18:07 PM
Quote from: asdfghjkl on September 06, 2015, 05:53:07 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on September 06, 2015, 05:29:53 PM
oh wow

I was just watching some of his mess the other day :dead:

whats the name bby  :plzstop:

make sure i never dl a porno with him in it  :dead:

weird seein' dead ppl have sex  :ohwow:
:omgwatshappening:

yall r rude as fuck
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: yummy on September 06, 2015, 06:21:36 PM
Quote from: asdfghjkl on September 06, 2015, 05:53:07 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on September 06, 2015, 05:29:53 PM
oh wow

I was just watching some of his mess the other day :dead:

whats the name bby  :plzstop:

make sure i never dl a porno with him in it  :dead:

weird seein' dead ppl have sex  :ohwow:

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rip tho
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: Herb. on September 06, 2015, 06:26:08 PM
they're really on there posting screenshots of conversations with him.
sdsdsdsddsdd

we were best friends! heartbroken! guys look at the receipts, i actually knew him! this is about me lolz  :ohwow:

(https://scontent-lga1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-xpf1/v/t1.0-9/11954787_10105468990052028_6545739523900538141_n.jpg?oh=ae50ab4e4f7ea4a521560cf6d8e478ee&oe=5664571B)

Social media is a mess. Any real friend wouldn't feel the need to post evidence and mess.
Sad how platforms such as INstagram and Facebook have fostered this culture which promotes an exaggerated sense of self importance.
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: Herb. on September 06, 2015, 06:30:46 PM
Now this screencap actually contained something substantial.....it highlighted the struggles which may have led to his demise. This is really fucking sad. I will definitely think twice before I even begin to complain about anything in my life. Some of us are so fucking ungrateful and entitled that we forget what struggle truly is.

(https://scontent-lga1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-xtp1/v/t34.0-12/11950837_10156126860360595_1495922861_n.jpg?oh=f91fc5373348a817cddb2b63854dd983&oe=55EE394D)
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: iman on September 06, 2015, 06:46:37 PM
Sad. Life is crazy.
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: Rxxf on September 06, 2015, 07:56:34 PM
If you were a REAL friend, you wouldn't even be thinking about social media.
You'd be busy crying somewhere.
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: Rxxf on September 06, 2015, 07:59:58 PM
Quote from: Herb. on September 06, 2015, 06:30:46 PM
Now this screencap actually contained something substantial.....it highlighted the struggles which may have led to his demise. This is really fucking sad. I will definitely think twice before I even begin to complain about anything in my life. Some of us are so fucking ungrateful and entitled that we forget what struggle truly is.

(https://scontent-lga1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-xtp1/v/t34.0-12/11950837_10156126860360595_1495922861_n.jpg?oh=f91fc5373348a817cddb2b63854dd983&oe=55EE394D)

32 back to back grand mal seizures?
Aw man.

But I wish people wouldn't post this online. Seems private.
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: BAPHOMET. on September 06, 2015, 08:04:03 PM
Jobless n Homeless.

a mess and a half..

rip.
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: Herb. on September 06, 2015, 08:06:49 PM
Quote from: Ralf on September 06, 2015, 07:59:58 PM
Quote from: Herb. on September 06, 2015, 06:30:46 PM
Now this screencap actually contained something substantial.....it highlighted the struggles which may have led to his demise. This is really fucking sad. I will definitely think twice before I even begin to complain about anything in my life. Some of us are so fucking ungrateful and entitled that we forget what struggle truly is.

(https://scontent-lga1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-xtp1/v/t34.0-12/11950837_10156126860360595_1495922861_n.jpg?oh=f91fc5373348a817cddb2b63854dd983&oe=55EE394D)

32 back to back grand mal seizures?
Aw man.

But I wish people wouldn't post this online. Seems private.
True. I mean if that person sent that to you in confidence maybe it should be kept that way.....posthumous or not.

But looking at a few of these communications, I hate to say it but they kind of paint him as a person who gave "woe is me" teas. That may not have been the case but that's my interpretation of the artwork in front of me. That's where the danger lies in sharing this type of stuff, though. Sometimes it's best to pay your condolences and keep it moving on a social platform. Now his page is full of mess; they're even going as far as accusing the family of not being sad enough.  :uhh:
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: Rxxf on September 06, 2015, 08:15:50 PM
I sometimes complain about being so caught up in my career, that I forget there's people not able to support themselves or have a set salary, etc. This really puts things in perspective.
Title: Re: Gay exotic dancer/porn star passes away; drama erupts on his FB page
Post by: BranLover on September 06, 2015, 09:54:40 PM
So sad. Stress can really weigh you down.