Interested in everyone's stance on this. :uhm:
It doesn't really bother me. Most men are visual creatures and they're gonna look at other men/women no matter what they say.
I don't see the problem in saying someone is attractive. I do it.
But if they are going on like WHEW! so damn sex' omf! would hit
then.... there's a damn problem.
idc
i say people are cute all the time when we're out
if it becomes 'WOO i wanna fuck them LOLZ' -- problem.
Quote from: Baphomet. on January 22, 2017, 08:36:03 PM
I don't see the problem in saying someone is attractive. I do it.
But if they are going on like WHEW! so damn sex' omf! would hit
then.... there's a damn problem.
:dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: bitchhhhhh
I don't have a man :bvy:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on January 22, 2017, 08:38:34 PM
I don't have a man :bvy:
dddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddjadnds
What kinda wonder twins
I definitely accept this
Because I would rather him tell me than feel it inside and keep it to himself
I just wanna be with someone we can discuss other attractive people and not be afraid
Only a fool would think their other half won't find someone else attractive
Even if ur a baddie
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on January 22, 2017, 08:38:19 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on January 22, 2017, 08:36:03 PM
I don't see the problem in saying someone is attractive. I do it.
But if they are going on like WHEW! so damn sex' omf! would hit
then.... there's a damn problem.
:dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: bitchhhhhh
dfggdffdfdfdfddf
Twins :stressed:
am means...can say watever tha fck he wants
anybody can be fine...but they cant be me :justabit:
It doesn't bother me as long as he doesn't take it beyond that.
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 08:39:17 PM
I just wanna be with someone we can discuss other attractive people and not be afraid
h
What the
Quote from: BigDawg on January 22, 2017, 08:40:05 PM
It doesn't bother me as long as he doesn't take it beyond that.
It bothers me, I feel it's disrespect because of a dude in my past that was a cheater but I overlooked
So I do give a side-eye knowing it's just me
But it hasn't happened yet with men, he's said certain females are sexy and it sorta creates a :nowgorl: moment
Quote from: BENTLEY. on January 22, 2017, 08:41:50 PM
It bothers me, I feel it's disrespect because of a dude in my past that was a cheater but I overlooked
So I do give a side-eye knowing it's just me
But it hasn't happened yet with men, he's said certain females are sexy and it sorta creates a :nowgorl: moment
i get where ure comin' frm especially given wat happen in tha past
'bout him sayin tht 'bout women
i think...& it could jus be me but..mayb' hes tryna tell u he wants u to throw on a wig evry once in a while bruv
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on January 22, 2017, 08:37:56 PM
idc
i say people are cute all the time when we're out
if it becomes 'WOO i wanna fuck them LOLZ' -- problem.
This is it tho. Baph said something similar.
Like to me, there's no difference. If you say "wow he's cute" ... I'll take it as "
damn he's cute
as fuckAdmire that shit in private. I think its unnecessary to verbalize it and make it a "thing" unless you and yours have that kind of openness and mess.
Quote from: Drais. on January 22, 2017, 08:40:41 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 08:39:17 PM
I just wanna be with someone we can discuss other attractive people and not be afraid
h
What the
i feel like most couples fear discussing cute ppl
Jealousy and other mess comes to mine
Quote from: Drais. on January 22, 2017, 08:34:00 PM
It doesn't really bother me. Most men are visual creatures and they're gonna look at other men/women no matter what they say.
Yea true but just appreciate that shit in private. Cuz for me, whenever I see someone I find attractive, it's "ack! oof! sexy!" in my head, so I'm going to take it the same way coming from you. Like you're lusting. I dont think that's cute. I know we all are going to find other people attractive... just rather him keep it to himself, I'm not about to have a convo with you about it, or agree like "yeah, damn he
was cute you got good taste!" :uhh:
Idc. We can scout together tbh lol
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2017, 08:48:05 PM
Quote from: Drais. on January 22, 2017, 08:34:00 PM
It doesn't really bother me. Most men are visual creatures and they're gonna look at other men/women no matter what they say.
Yea true but just appreciate that shit in private. Cuz for me, whenever I see someone I find attractive, it's "ack! oof! sexy!" in my head, so I'm going to take it the same way coming from you. Like you're lusting. I dont think that's cute. I know we all are going to find other people attractive... just rather him keep it to himself, I'm not about to have a convo with you about it, or agree like "yeah, damn he was cute you got good taste!" :uhh:
See now I am in my feelings and agree. He needs to keep that shit to himself.
Quote from: NewNu on January 22, 2017, 08:49:45 PM
Idc. We can scout together tbh lol
ffffff
the hell yall scouting for? A 3rd person for the bedroom?
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2017, 08:48:05 PM
Quote from: Drais. on January 22, 2017, 08:34:00 PM
It doesn't really bother me. Most men are visual creatures and they're gonna look at other men/women no matter what they say.
Yea true but just appreciate that shit in private. Cuz for me, whenever I see someone I find attractive, it's "ack! oof! sexy!" in my head, so I'm going to take it the same way coming from you. Like you're lusting. I dont think that's cute. I know we all are going to find other people attractive... just rather him keep it to himself, I'm not about to have a convo with you about it, or agree like "yeah, damn he was cute you got good taste!" :uhh:
Is it really any better keeping it to yourself though because you're still thinking of how sexy another nigga is?
Quote from: NewNu on January 22, 2017, 08:49:45 PM
Idc. We can scout together tbh lol
(http://68.media.tumblr.com/fd5244794f8278c020f766aad2a9bbad/tumblr_ohfz0ttp9V1qbbb7uo1_500.jpg)
Now a "oof! look at that phatty!" might be a bit too much so I can kinda see what you're saying.
I never understood threesomes. Who has the attention span for that?
Quote from: Drais. on January 22, 2017, 08:40:41 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 08:39:17 PM
I just wanna be with someone we can discuss other attractive people and not be afraid
h
What the
ssddd there's nothing wrong with this to me
Now I don't want u going on and on about how fine u think my FRIENDS are, but eh
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2017, 08:51:00 PM
Quote from: NewNu on January 22, 2017, 08:49:45 PM
Idc. We can scout together tbh lol
ffffff
the hell yall scouting for? A 3rd person for the bedroom?
SDSSFDDDSS
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2017, 08:48:05 PM
Quote from: Drais. on January 22, 2017, 08:34:00 PM
It doesn't really bother me. Most men are visual creatures and they're gonna look at other men/women no matter what they say.
Yea true but just appreciate that shit in private. Cuz for me, whenever I see someone I find attractive, it's "ack! oof! sexy!" in my head, so I'm going to take it the same way coming from you. Like you're lusting. I dont think that's cute. I know we all are going to find other people attractive... just rather him keep it to himself, I'm not about to have a convo with you about it, or agree like "yeah, damn he was cute you got good taste!" :uhh:
:plzstop:
You are not having it
Quote from: ANIMMAI on January 22, 2017, 08:51:43 PM
Quote from: NewNu on January 22, 2017, 08:49:45 PM
Idc. We can scout together tbh lol
(http://68.media.tumblr.com/fd5244794f8278c020f766aad2a9bbad/tumblr_ohfz0ttp9V1qbbb7uo1_500.jpg)
:letsmessfag:
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2017, 08:44:58 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on January 22, 2017, 08:37:56 PM
idc
i say people are cute all the time when we're out
if it becomes 'WOO i wanna fuck them LOLZ' -- problem.
This is it tho. Baph said something similar.
Like to me, there's no difference. If you say "wow he's cute" ... I'll take it as "damn he's cute as fuck
Admire that shit in private. I think its unnecessary to verbalize it and make it a "thing" unless you and yours have that kind of openness and mess.
But being private about shit like that makes it seem like they have other feels they may be hiding :dead: :dead: :dead:
Like, I KNOW my lover will find other people attractive. Nobody turns that shit off just because they're dating, IDC if it's said as long as its not some lustful mess.
Quote from: RIGS on January 22, 2017, 08:54:56 PM
Now I don't want u going on and on about how fine u think my FRIENDS are, but eh
I wish you the fck would.
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2017, 08:48:05 PM
Quote from: Drais. on January 22, 2017, 08:34:00 PM
It doesn't really bother me. Most men are visual creatures and they're gonna look at other men/women no matter what they say.
Yea true but just appreciate that shit in private. Cuz for me, whenever I see someone I find attractive, it's "ack! oof! sexy!" in my head, so I'm going to take it the same way coming from you. Like you're lusting. I dont think that's cute. I know we all are going to find other people attractive... just rather him keep it to himself, I'm not about to have a convo with you about it, or agree like "yeah, damn he was cute you got good taste!" :uhh:
oh well wait
a
convo about how cute someone is cute is a different story
:plzstop:
Quote from: RIGS on January 22, 2017, 08:54:33 PM
Quote from: Drais. on January 22, 2017, 08:40:41 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 08:39:17 PM
I just wanna be with someone we can discuss other attractive people and not be afraid
h
What the
ssddd there's nothing wrong with this to me
I just... cant imagine "discussing" someone else with someone im with.
Quote from: BigDawg on January 22, 2017, 08:54:21 PM
I never understood threesomes. Who has the attention span for that?
I can't
my friend tried that mess a long time ago and got his man taken
And had the nerve to wonder why it didn't work out :dead:
Thats inappropriate and extremely disrespectful imo. If they're comfortable enough to make those kind of comments in front of you, they'll eventually have no issue cheating on you as well.... if they dont already.
:udontlookok:
Quote from: Baphomet. on January 22, 2017, 08:59:04 PM
Quote from: RIGS on January 22, 2017, 08:54:33 PM
Quote from: Drais. on January 22, 2017, 08:40:41 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 08:39:17 PM
I just wanna be with someone we can discuss other attractive people and not be afraid
h
What the
ssddd there's nothing wrong with this to me
I just... cant imagine "discussing" someone else with someone im with.
Yeah I don't mind you looking or even mumbling something under your breath but I'm not gonna sit and discuss with you how fat the bitch ass is that just walked by.
:udontlookok:
Quote from: Trey on January 22, 2017, 09:01:04 PM
Thats inappropriate and extremely disrespectful imo. If they're comfortable enough to make those kind of comments in front of you, they'll eventually have no issue cheating on you as well.... if they dont already.
:udontlookok:
I say that shit and I have no intentions of cheating or fucking the fags i think are cute
:udontlookok:
But its usually like the waiter or something
Not random fags that I see
SOmeone that has forced their attention
Quote from: RIGS on January 22, 2017, 08:54:56 PM
Now I don't want u going on and on about how fine u think my FRIENDS are, but eh
yeah that aint cute
Definitely just depends on ur dynamic though. if I know the person I'm dating doesn't use that type of talk, then I'd clearly stfu
Compliment is fine but def not flirting let alone in front of each other #disrespectful
Quote from: Drais. on January 22, 2017, 09:01:45 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on January 22, 2017, 08:59:04 PM
Quote from: RIGS on January 22, 2017, 08:54:33 PM
Quote from: Drais. on January 22, 2017, 08:40:41 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 08:39:17 PM
I just wanna be with someone we can discuss other attractive people and not be afraid
h
What the
ssddd there's nothing wrong with this to me
I just... cant imagine "discussing" someone else with someone im with.
Yeah I don't mind you looking or even mumbling something under your breath but I'm not gonna sit and discuss with you how fat the bitch ass is that just walked by.
:udontlookok:
"wow he looked amazing/great" is different than making it sexual though
That's obviously disrespectful :dead:
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on January 22, 2017, 09:04:15 PM
Quote from: Trey on January 22, 2017, 09:01:04 PM
Thats inappropriate and extremely disrespectful imo. If they're comfortable enough to make those kind of comments in front of you, they'll eventually have no issue cheating on you as well.... if they dont already.
:udontlookok:
I say that shit and I have no intentions of cheating or fucking the fags i think are cute
:udontlookok:
But its usually like the waiter or something
Not random fags that I see
SOmeone that has forced their attention
dssddsdsdsdsddssddsdsdds
Didnt you fuck Vonc? Oh. Sorry Ponz....
:udontlookok:
Quote from: Trey on January 22, 2017, 09:09:41 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on January 22, 2017, 09:04:15 PM
Quote from: Trey on January 22, 2017, 09:01:04 PM
Thats inappropriate and extremely disrespectful imo. If they're comfortable enough to make those kind of comments in front of you, they'll eventually have no issue cheating on you as well.... if they dont already.
:udontlookok:
I say that shit and I have no intentions of cheating or fucking the fags i think are cute
:udontlookok:
But its usually like the waiter or something
Not random fags that I see
SOmeone that has forced their attention
dssddsdsdsdsddssddsdsdds
Didnt you fuck Vonc? Oh. Sorry Ponz....
:udontlookok:
we have history
old flings dont count
:udontlookok:
SDSDSDSDSDDSSDDSSDDSDSDDSSDSDSDDSDDSSDSDSDDSDDSSDSDDSDSDSSSDSDD
Quote from: Baphomet. on January 22, 2017, 08:59:04 PM
Quote from: RIGS on January 22, 2017, 08:54:33 PM
Quote from: Drais. on January 22, 2017, 08:40:41 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 08:39:17 PM
I just wanna be with someone we can discuss other attractive people and not be afraid
h
What the
ssddd there's nothing wrong with this to me
I just... cant imagine "discussing" someone else with someone im with.
To me the initial remark ALONE, is discussing it. And it just a no go Im sor.
I think it's foolish to not be open enough in a serious relationship to discuss how attractive the next person is
V
It's a form of honesty
This fairytale land mess y'all wanna have aint healthy
Quote from: RIGS on January 22, 2017, 08:56:03 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2017, 08:48:05 PM
Quote from: Drais. on January 22, 2017, 08:34:00 PM
It doesn't really bother me. Most men are visual creatures and they're gonna look at other men/women no matter what they say.
Yea true but just appreciate that shit in private. Cuz for me, whenever I see someone I find attractive, it's "ack! oof! sexy!" in my head, so I'm going to take it the same way coming from you. Like you're lusting. I dont think that's cute. I know we all are going to find other people attractive... just rather him keep it to himself, I'm not about to have a convo with you about it, or agree like "yeah, damn he was cute you got good taste!" :uhh:
:plzstop:
You are not having it
:plzstop: :plea:
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:12:14 PM
I think it's foolish to not be open enough in a serious relationship to discuss how attractive the next person is
V
It's a form of honesty
This fairytale land mess y'all wanna have aint healthy
I also think every couple dynamic is different
My friend cant even talk to men when they're out in public without her boyfriend thinking shes having a fcking affair
So I KNOW she cant say 'hes cute lol'
:kii: :kii: :kii:
Some people take it as disrespect, and I get it
I just think its crazy, cause deep down they HAVE to know their spouse finds others attractive
Quote from: RIGS on January 22, 2017, 09:09:07 PM
Quote from: Drais. on January 22, 2017, 09:01:45 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on January 22, 2017, 08:59:04 PM
Quote from: RIGS on January 22, 2017, 08:54:33 PM
Quote from: Drais. on January 22, 2017, 08:40:41 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 08:39:17 PM
I just wanna be with someone we can discuss other attractive people and not be afraid
h
What the
ssddd there's nothing wrong with this to me
I just... cant imagine "discussing" someone else with someone im with.
Yeah I don't mind you looking or even mumbling something under your breath but I'm not gonna sit and discuss with you how fat the bitch ass is that just walked by.
:udontlookok:
"wow he looked amazing/great" is different than making it sexual though
That's obviously disrespectful :dead:
I can accept this if it's someone that use to be on drugs, or lost a lot of weight, and we run into him and it "he looks good!! wow!" That's acceptable.
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:12:14 PM
I think it's foolish to not be open enough in a serious relationship to discuss how attractive the next person is
V
It's a form of honesty
This fairytale land mess y'all wanna have aint healthy
d
attractive is different from going on about how fine somebody is. I mean... you gorls can do it. I'm not.
:udontlookok:
Quote from: Drais. on January 22, 2017, 08:34:00 PM
It doesn't really bother me. Most men are visual creatures and they're gonna look at other men/women no matter what they say.
!!!
And I'd rather us be honest about shit then look and not say nothing
We handle it well
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:12:14 PM
I think it's foolish to not be open enough in a serious relationship to discuss how attractive the next person is
V
It's a form of honesty
This fairytale land mess y'all wanna have aint healthy
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:12:14 PM
I think it's foolish to not be open enough in a serious relationship to discuss how attractive the next person is
V
It's a form of honesty
This fairytale land mess y'all wanna have aint healthy
Its not even a convo that needs to be had tho :kii:
Like why so pressed to point out fine dime brizzles with your lover :uhh:
Just think it, and punch to the produce section.
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:12:14 PM
I think it's foolish to not be open enough in a serious relationship to discuss how attractive the next person is
V
It's a form of honesty
This fairytale land mess y'all wanna have aint healthy
By discuss you mean just mentioning how attractive someone is?
Not actually DISCUSSING someone.
(http://i.imgur.com/Yh3yIeE.jpg)
Celebrities YEA. Not the common round the way gays
Quote from: RIGS on January 22, 2017, 09:09:07 PM
Quote from: Drais. on January 22, 2017, 09:01:45 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on January 22, 2017, 08:59:04 PM
Quote from: RIGS on January 22, 2017, 08:54:33 PM
Quote from: Drais. on January 22, 2017, 08:40:41 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 08:39:17 PM
I just wanna be with someone we can discuss other attractive people and not be afraid
h
What the
ssddd there's nothing wrong with this to me
I just... cant imagine "discussing" someone else with someone im with.
Yeah I don't mind you looking or even mumbling something under your breath but I'm not gonna sit and discuss with you how fat the bitch ass is that just walked by.
:udontlookok:
"wow he looked amazing/great" is different than making it sexual though
That's obviously disrespectful :dead:
Amazing! Great!
All you're doing is sugarcoating what you really wanna say
Why would you as my boyfriend want to have an open discussion about how good another man/woman looks?
:udontlookok:
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2017, 09:16:51 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:12:14 PM
I think it's foolish to not be open enough in a serious relationship to discuss how attractive the next person is
V
It's a form of honesty
This fairytale land mess y'all wanna have aint healthy
Its not even a convo that needs to be had tho :kii:
Like why so pressed to point out fine dime brizzles with your lover :uhh:
Just think it, and punch to the produce section.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thats how I feel. :dead: Why is it even necessary to say?
Not this damn town hall meeting about trade's dick swinging as he walks through the mall.
Quote from: Trey on January 22, 2017, 09:20:19 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2017, 09:16:51 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:12:14 PM
I think it's foolish to not be open enough in a serious relationship to discuss how attractive the next person is
V
It's a form of honesty
This fairytale land mess y'all wanna have aint healthy
Its not even a convo that needs to be had tho :kii:
Like why so pressed to point out fine dime brizzles with your lover :uhh:
Just think it, and punch to the produce section.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thats how I feel. :dead: Why is it even necessary to say?
(http://38.media.tumblr.com/19add6c52fa591c01dfebc9e71d7e476/tumblr_mfsytaQq5g1qd5lwso5_250.gif)
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on January 22, 2017, 09:14:12 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:12:14 PM
I think it's foolish to not be open enough in a serious relationship to discuss how attractive the next person is
V
It's a form of honesty
This fairytale land mess y'all wanna have aint healthy
I also think every couple dynamic is different
My friend cant even talk to men when they're out in public without her boyfriend thinking shes having a fcking affair
So I KNOW she cant say 'hes cute lol'
:kii: :kii: :kii:
Some people take it as disrespect, and I get it
I just think its crazy, cause deep down they HAVE to know their spouse finds others attractive
praying he doesn't hit my sis one day!
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2017, 09:16:51 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:12:14 PM
I think it's foolish to not be open enough in a serious relationship to discuss how attractive the next person is
V
It's a form of honesty
This fairytale land mess y'all wanna have aint healthy
Its not even a convo that needs to be had tho :kii:
Like why so pressed to point out fine dime brizzles with your lover :uhh:
Just think it, and punch to the produce section.
it really does tho.
You'd be surprised the mess u can avoid by having straight up conversations
It's a lie to believe that u or ur man don't see the beauty in the next person
And being with someone should be a space where u both can discuss anything .. especially with a form of tact and respect
Quote from: Baphomet. on January 22, 2017, 09:18:10 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:12:14 PM
I think it's foolish to not be open enough in a serious relationship to discuss how attractive the next person is
V
It's a form of honesty
This fairytale land mess y'all wanna have aint healthy
By discuss you mean just mentioning how attractive someone is?
Not actually DISCUSSING someone.
(http://i.imgur.com/Yh3yIeE.jpg)
Like "whew..saw this dude on insta.. he was fine" lol
Or "that dude had a really nice body"
:udontlookok:
It should just be easy to do
Cuz ur just gonna do it w/ ur friends anyway :udontlookok:
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:22:17 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on January 22, 2017, 09:14:12 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:12:14 PM
I think it's foolish to not be open enough in a serious relationship to discuss how attractive the next person is
V
It's a form of honesty
This fairytale land mess y'all wanna have aint healthy
I also think every couple dynamic is different
My friend cant even talk to men when they're out in public without her boyfriend thinking shes having a fcking affair
So I KNOW she cant say 'hes cute lol'
:kii: :kii: :kii:
Some people take it as disrespect, and I get it
I just think its crazy, cause deep down they HAVE to know their spouse finds others attractive
praying he doesn't hit my sis one day!
CXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
no, hes overprotective and jealous, not overbearing and controlling
If I saw a nice print or some nice cakes I would take a pic and send it to my ex and vice versa. :dead:
I guess its all down to what you're most comfortable with.
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:24:01 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2017, 09:16:51 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:12:14 PM
I think it's foolish to not be open enough in a serious relationship to discuss how attractive the next person is
V
It's a form of honesty
This fairytale land mess y'all wanna have aint healthy
Its not even a convo that needs to be had tho :kii:
Like why so pressed to point out fine dime brizzles with your lover :uhh:
Just think it, and punch to the produce section.
it really does tho.
You'd be surprised the mess u can avoid by having straight up conversations
It's a lie to believe that u or ur man don't see the beauty in the next person
And being with someone should be a space where u both can discuss anything .. especially with a form of tact and respect
I think you're talking about having an unrelenting URGE to fuck Dante down the street and Dante sometimes comes to ya'llz functions and not only does Dante have a nice face and body but a great personality too and you'd probably be with Dante if you werent already involved.
Yes, THAT needs to be discussed.
But if we're in Target and some tall cute dude walks by minding his business, you're not going to double take, then turn to me and say "damn he was cute."
dddddddddddd :kii: :kii: :kii: absolutely not.
Quote from: NewNu on January 22, 2017, 09:27:50 PM
If I saw a nice print or some nice cakes I would take a pic and send it to my ex and vice versa. :dead:
I guess its all down to what you're most comfortable with.
you take pics of strangers in public?
:omgwatshappening:
Quote from: NewNu on January 22, 2017, 09:27:50 PM
If I saw a nice print or some nice cakes I would take a pic and send it to my ex and vice versa. :dead:
I guess its all down to what you're most comfortable with.
:uhh: :uhh: :uhh: :uhh: :uhh: :uhh: :uhh: :uhh: :uhh: :uhh:
bc
xc
vf
dfv
dff
nmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
:guys:
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on January 22, 2017, 09:30:41 PM
Quote from: NewNu on January 22, 2017, 09:27:50 PM
If I saw a nice print or some nice cakes I would take a pic and send it to my ex and vice versa. :dead:
I guess its all down to what you're most comfortable with.
you take pics of strangers in public?
:omgwatshappening:
Im guilty of this. But sis said he's send it to bae dfddd
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:25:24 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on January 22, 2017, 09:18:10 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:12:14 PM
I think it's foolish to not be open enough in a serious relationship to discuss how attractive the next person is
V
It's a form of honesty
This fairytale land mess y'all wanna have aint healthy
By discuss you mean just mentioning how attractive someone is?
Not actually DISCUSSING someone.
(http://i.imgur.com/Yh3yIeE.jpg)
Like "whew..saw this dude on insta.. he was fine" lol
Or "that dude had a really nice body"
:udontlookok:
It should just be easy to do
Cuz ur just gonna do it w/ ur friends anyway :udontlookok:
You may think im lying but...... I literally only do that on here. tbh
and never before I joined here.
:udontlookok:
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on January 22, 2017, 09:30:41 PM
Quote from: NewNu on January 22, 2017, 09:27:50 PM
If I saw a nice print or some nice cakes I would take a pic and send it to my ex and vice versa. :dead:
I guess its all down to what you're most comfortable with.
you take pics of strangers in public?
:omgwatshappening:
Just a quick snap
:jarvwhereru:
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2017, 09:31:41 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on January 22, 2017, 09:30:41 PM
Quote from: NewNu on January 22, 2017, 09:27:50 PM
If I saw a nice print or some nice cakes I would take a pic and send it to my ex and vice versa. :dead:
I guess its all down to what you're most comfortable with.
you take pics of strangers in public?
:omgwatshappening:
Im guilty of this. But sis said he's send it to bae dfddd
He started the mess bbbv
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2017, 09:14:14 PM
Quote from: RIGS on January 22, 2017, 09:09:07 PM
Quote from: Drais. on January 22, 2017, 09:01:45 PM
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Quote from: Drais. on January 22, 2017, 08:40:41 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 08:39:17 PM
I just wanna be with someone we can discuss other attractive people and not be afraid
h
What the
ssddd there's nothing wrong with this to me
I just... cant imagine "discussing" someone else with someone im with.
Yeah I don't mind you looking or even mumbling something under your breath but I'm not gonna sit and discuss with you how fat the bitch ass is that just walked by.
:udontlookok:
"wow he looked amazing/great" is different than making it sexual though
That's obviously disrespectful :dead:
I can accept this if it's someone that use to be on drugs, or lost a lot of weight, and we run into him and it "he looks good!! wow!" That's acceptable.
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Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2017, 09:30:04 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:24:01 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2017, 09:16:51 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:12:14 PM
I think it's foolish to not be open enough in a serious relationship to discuss how attractive the next person is
V
It's a form of honesty
This fairytale land mess y'all wanna have aint healthy
Its not even a convo that needs to be had tho :kii:
Like why so pressed to point out fine dime brizzles with your lover :uhh:
Just think it, and punch to the produce section.
it really does tho.
You'd be surprised the mess u can avoid by having straight up conversations
It's a lie to believe that u or ur man don't see the beauty in the next person
And being with someone should be a space where u both can discuss anything .. especially with a form of tact and respect
I think you're talking about having an unrelenting URGE to fuck Dante down the street and Dante sometimes comes to ya'llz functions and not only does Dante have a nice face and body but a great personality too and you'd probably be with Dante if you werent already involved.
Yes, THAT needs to be discussed.
But if we're in Target and some tall cute dude walks by minding his business, you're not going to double take, then turn to me and say "damn he was cute."
dddddddddddd :kii: :kii: :kii: absolutely not.
Now wait cuz if we know the person personally
I'm not with it
But yeah I wouldn't do that either (target)
But if I was alone I would Def be like I saw this nice looking guy today fff
Not seeing why that's wrong
Quote from: Drais. on January 22, 2017, 09:19:55 PM
Quote from: RIGS on January 22, 2017, 09:09:07 PM
Quote from: Drais. on January 22, 2017, 09:01:45 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on January 22, 2017, 08:59:04 PM
Quote from: RIGS on January 22, 2017, 08:54:33 PM
Quote from: Drais. on January 22, 2017, 08:40:41 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 08:39:17 PM
I just wanna be with someone we can discuss other attractive people and not be afraid
h
What the
ssddd there's nothing wrong with this to me
I just... cant imagine "discussing" someone else with someone im with.
Yeah I don't mind you looking or even mumbling something under your breath but I'm not gonna sit and discuss with you how fat the bitch ass is that just walked by.
:udontlookok:
"wow he looked amazing/great" is different than making it sexual though
That's obviously disrespectful :dead:
Amazing! Great!
All you're doing is sugarcoating what you really wanna say
Why would you as my boyfriend want to have an open discussion about how good another man/woman looks?
:udontlookok:
dsdfffffff depends on the setting. It's not like we're at a damn gay bar or some mess discussing this
9 times out of 10, you'll never see the person ur commenting on again. Eh, I just don't see the prob
Quote from: NewNu on January 22, 2017, 09:27:50 PM
If I saw a nice print or some nice cakes I would take a pic and send it to my ex and vice versa. :dead:
I guess its all down to what you're most comfortable with.
what in the HBO Real Sex fuck
you are so...kinky :ohwow:
but yea, a 'he's handsome' or 'she's pretty' in passing is fine, but you will NOT harp on how much you find somebody else attractive in front of me.
Quote from: Baphomet. on January 22, 2017, 09:32:00 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:25:24 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on January 22, 2017, 09:18:10 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:12:14 PM
I think it's foolish to not be open enough in a serious relationship to discuss how attractive the next person is
V
It's a form of honesty
This fairytale land mess y'all wanna have aint healthy
By discuss you mean just mentioning how attractive someone is?
Not actually DISCUSSING someone.
(http://i.imgur.com/Yh3yIeE.jpg)
Like "whew..saw this dude on insta.. he was fine" lol
Or "that dude had a really nice body"
:udontlookok:
It should just be easy to do
Cuz ur just gonna do it w/ ur friends anyway :udontlookok:
You may think im lying but...... I literally only do that on here. tbh
and never before I joined here.
:udontlookok:
But u still do it .. rather here or offline
Because ur human :udontlookok:
U and ur dude should be able to discuss fine humans
And trust that it begins and ends there
My ex wasn't comfortable doing it with me .. which was a huge issue to me..
Cuz he knows damn well he be seeing these niggas .. but he was a liar .. so that played into me wanting him to learn how to be honest
Quote from: ANIMMAI on January 22, 2017, 09:44:15 PM
Quote from: NewNu on January 22, 2017, 09:27:50 PM
If I saw a nice print or some nice cakes I would take a pic and send it to my ex and vice versa. :dead:
I guess its all down to what you're most comfortable with.
what in the HBO Real Sex fuck
you are so...kinky :ohwow:
fff
Is that one of the NSFW gorls from the old board?
The ones that would hit a "d" or "z" to unveil the mess in the NSFW threads? :damselindistress:
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:47:07 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on January 22, 2017, 09:44:15 PM
Quote from: NewNu on January 22, 2017, 09:27:50 PM
If I saw a nice print or some nice cakes I would take a pic and send it to my ex and vice versa. :dead:
I guess its all down to what you're most comfortable with.
what in the HBO Real Sex fuck
you are so...kinky :ohwow:
fff
Is that one of the NSFW gorls from the old board?
The ones that would hit a "d" or "z" to unveil the mess in the NSFW threads? :damselindistress:
bvvvccvcc
Let's see
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on January 22, 2017, 09:48:49 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:47:07 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on January 22, 2017, 09:44:15 PM
Quote from: NewNu on January 22, 2017, 09:27:50 PM
If I saw a nice print or some nice cakes I would take a pic and send it to my ex and vice versa. :dead:
I guess its all down to what you're most comfortable with.
what in the HBO Real Sex fuck
you are so...kinky :ohwow:
fff
Is that one of the NSFW gorls from the old board?
The ones that would hit a "d" or "z" to unveil the mess in the NSFW threads? :damselindistress:
bvvvccvcc
Let's see
BVVBNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:50:34 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on January 22, 2017, 09:48:49 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:47:07 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on January 22, 2017, 09:44:15 PM
Quote from: NewNu on January 22, 2017, 09:27:50 PM
If I saw a nice print or some nice cakes I would take a pic and send it to my ex and vice versa. :dead:
I guess its all down to what you're most comfortable with.
what in the HBO Real Sex fuck
you are so...kinky :ohwow:
fff
Is that one of the NSFW gorls from the old board?
The ones that would hit a "d" or "z" to unveil the mess in the NSFW threads? :damselindistress:
bvvvccvcc
Let's see
BVVBNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN
:tistheseas:
Quote from: formate on January 22, 2017, 09:49:45 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on January 22, 2017, 09:45:17 PM
but yea, a 'he's handsome' or 'she's pretty' in passing is fine, but you will NOT harp on how much you find somebody else attractive in front of me.
he'll do whatever he wants in front of u hun
and u'll sit there, watch and give thanks.
r u fuckin my man
Quote from: NewNu on January 22, 2017, 10:06:57 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:50:34 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on January 22, 2017, 09:48:49 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:47:07 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on January 22, 2017, 09:44:15 PM
Quote from: NewNu on January 22, 2017, 09:27:50 PM
If I saw a nice print or some nice cakes I would take a pic and send it to my ex and vice versa. :dead:
I guess its all down to what you're most comfortable with.
what in the HBO Real Sex fuck
you are so...kinky :ohwow:
fff
Is that one of the NSFW gorls from the old board?
The ones that would hit a "d" or "z" to unveil the mess in the NSFW threads? :damselindistress:
bvvvccvcc
Let's see
BVVBNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN
:tistheseas:
CCVVVVBBBBBBBBNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN
yall can still make believe
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:25:24 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on January 22, 2017, 09:18:10 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:12:14 PM
I think it's foolish to not be open enough in a serious relationship to discuss how attractive the next person is
V
It's a form of honesty
This fairytale land mess y'all wanna have aint healthy
By discuss you mean just mentioning how attractive someone is?
Not actually DISCUSSING someone.
(http://i.imgur.com/Yh3yIeE.jpg)
Like "whew..saw this dude on insta.. he was fine" lol
Or "that dude had a really nice body"
:udontlookok:
It should just be easy to do
Cuz ur just gonna do it w/ ur friends anyway :udontlookok:
nah, you took it too far :plzstop:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on January 22, 2017, 08:51:43 PM
Quote from: NewNu on January 22, 2017, 08:49:45 PM
Idc. We can scout together tbh lol
(http://68.media.tumblr.com/fd5244794f8278c020f766aad2a9bbad/tumblr_ohfz0ttp9V1qbbb7uo1_500.jpg)
Lmaooo
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on January 22, 2017, 09:14:12 PM
Quote from: glock on January 22, 2017, 09:12:14 PM
I think it's foolish to not be open enough in a serious relationship to discuss how attractive the next person is
V
It's a form of honesty
This fairytale land mess y'all wanna have aint healthy
I also think every couple dynamic is different
My friend cant even talk to men when they're out in public without her boyfriend thinking shes having a fcking affair
So I KNOW she cant say 'hes cute lol'
:kii: :kii: :kii:
Some people take it as disrespect, and I get it
I just think its crazy, cause deep down they HAVE to know their spouse finds others attractive
Not wanting to hear your significant other express attraction for others =/= not believing that attraction exists. Have all the thoughts ya want, just don't get my blood pressure going by complimenting the fagg at the register. :sup:
Different strokes I guess
:cheerup:
I get HOT
Maybe y'all are making me look at this differently :guys:
all in how you say it
If I wasn't cute I think it would bother me.
I'd let him fuck him if he wanted to.
I'd give a 'he aint got shit on you though' if I did comment on another dude
Quote from: Uni on January 23, 2017, 09:01:58 AM
I'd give a 'he aint got shit on you though' if I did comment on another dude
:whatfuneralbill:
Quote from: Uni on January 23, 2017, 09:01:58 AM
I'd give a 'he aint got shit on you though' if I did comment on another dude
well yeah lol that's kinda the rule
Quote from: glock on January 23, 2017, 09:45:56 AM
Quote from: Uni on January 23, 2017, 09:01:58 AM
I'd give a 'he aint got shit on you though' if I did comment on another dude
well yeah lol that's kinda the rule
some may not feel thats enough
Quote from: Uni on January 23, 2017, 09:49:58 AM
Quote from: glock on January 23, 2017, 09:45:56 AM
Quote from: Uni on January 23, 2017, 09:01:58 AM
I'd give a 'he aint got shit on you though' if I did comment on another dude
well yeah lol that's kinda the rule
some may not feel thats enough
ffff I kinda be like but yeah .. he did nothing for me lolz only got eyes for you ... no one finer
:overit:
yea u can kinda save yourself all that by just keeping it to yourself
well I'm selfish as fuck so I'm not even gonna lie...
1.) keep it to yourself unless it's solicited. (i.e. if i don't comment or if I don't acknowledge it, then you shouldn't either)
2.) if it is said, keep it respectful. (he's handsome, like his eyes / he has beautiful skin / i like his physique) - FINE
3.) if it makes me feel like your admiring something because I DON'T HAVE IT - problem! (i.e. damn omg his body is EVERYTHING / his lips are so nice wow / damn look at his body / his eyes are so sexy )
there's certain words you can use to admire instead of come off in heat
it's just respect tbqfh
also, i think this is more acceptable in homosexual relationships vs. heterosexual ones. I can't see my sister's fiance commenting on another women in front of my sister. Be it respectful or not. Admiring the looks of the same sex can have different reasons to it vs. admiring the opposite. I can admire another man's physique because maybe that's how I want my physique to be. A dude commenting on a woman's curves ain't the same....
Quote from: glock on January 23, 2017, 09:50:34 AM
Quote from: Uni on January 23, 2017, 09:49:58 AM
Quote from: glock on January 23, 2017, 09:45:56 AM
Quote from: Uni on January 23, 2017, 09:01:58 AM
I'd give a 'he aint got shit on you though' if I did comment on another dude
well yeah lol that's kinda the rule
some may not feel thats enough
ffff I kinda be like but yeah .. he did nothing for me lolz only got eyes for you ... no one finer
:overit:
c !!!
but honestly
i'd only say something if i know he'd say somethin too
Wow hes in shape, I need to work on my ...think its better than catching u starin off like a damns bill clinton
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 23, 2017, 09:57:04 AM
yea u can kinda save yourself all that by just keeping it to yourself
are you offended if you catch him jerkin off to porn?
I didnt read the whole thread so u can skip if u answered this alread
Quote from: Uni on January 23, 2017, 10:16:16 AM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 23, 2017, 09:57:04 AM
yea u can kinda save yourself all that by just keeping it to yourself
are you offended if you catch him jerkin off to porn?
I didnt read the whole thread so u can skip if u answered this alread
Nope. He and I actually had a lil convo about THAT tho. Cuz I have an issue with men in relationships frequentig strip clubs and he thinks porn is the same. I dont think it is.
Quote from: BRockaBaby on January 23, 2017, 10:09:53 AM
also, i think this is more acceptable in homosexual relationships vs. heterosexual ones. I can't see my sister's fiance commenting on another women in front of my sister. Be it respectful or not. Admiring the looks of the same sex can have different reasons to it vs. admiring the opposite. I can admire another man's physique because maybe that's how I want my physique to be. A dude commenting on a woman's curves ain't the same....
eh, I know a lot of straight couples that do it but I see what ur saying
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 23, 2017, 10:21:32 AM
Quote from: Uni on January 23, 2017, 10:16:16 AM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 23, 2017, 09:57:04 AM
yea u can kinda save yourself all that by just keeping it to yourself
are you offended if you catch him jerkin off to porn?
I didnt read the whole thread so u can skip if u answered this alread
Nope. He and I actually had a lil convo about THAT tho. Cuz I have an issue with men in relationships frequentig strip clubs and he thinks porn is the same. I dont think it is.
Interesting